In a relationship, what is the best quality one would expect in one's partner.

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   sunilkunnoth2012posted 9 years ago

   In a relationship, what is the best quality one would expect in  one's partner.
   
   Also disclose what you most dislike in a good friendship?

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   Tusitala Tomposted 9 years ago

   Loyalty.  This means that your partner - and you, of course - have made a heartfelt resolution to stay together no matter what life presents you with.  Here we need to be able to discern the difference between our REAL selves and the ego-selves or self-images that we present much of the time.  Sure, there will be differences of opinion, arguments, emotional upheavals from time to time.  But it is in going through these and still staying together that both partners grow.
   
   What does one dislike in a good friendship.   If it is a real friendship there will be little to dislike; tolerance will predominate.   Friends can tell one another truths that one would even be reluctant to tell to one's own spouse.   Once again, loyalty.  A friend should be a friend and keep confidences.

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      sunilkunnoth2012posted 9 years agoin reply to this

      Very helpful and intelligent opinion. Thank you for sharing such a lovely advice.

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   Venkatachari Mposted 9 years ago

   Honesty. You should be honest in all your actions and feelings. Do not hide anything from partner. Even if you commit mistakes or wrong deeds immediately tell him/ her and accept your fault. Love will be there in relationship. But if you hide anything or try to cover something, you will immediately lose the faith of your partner.
   Dishonesty or betrayal is what disliked in relationships.

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   sunilkunnoth2012posted 9 years ago

   Thought provoking and helpful advice, indeed. Thank you.

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   teaches12345posted 9 years ago

   There are so many qualities one desires from a partner.  Friendship is always a wonderful way to strengthen a relationship but I am going to go with honesty as the top priority.  If one is honest with their partner, it proves to build a strong foundation for the future.

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      Venkatachari Mposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      I am glad that you also share my opinion. It is honesty. Honesty should be the foundation. If you are honest in your relationship, it will bloom into a beautiful, eternal, blissful friendship.

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   DealForALivingposted 9 years ago

   Understanding. You can meet the nicest, smartest person in the world, but if he/she isn't willing to try and understand you and your quirks then it's not going to end well.

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      Venkatachari Mposted 9 years agoin reply to this

      While understanding is important, honesty is much more basic requirement for any relationship. Whenever two persons meet, they try to understand each other. But mere understanding is not sufficient for close relationships. It seeks being honest

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   cheeluarvposted 9 years ago

   Honesty, let it be a family,love,friendship,business it is always the best policy to have good a relationship with the partner.I don't think there will be anything to be disliked, if it is a true,good friendship.

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