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If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?

  1. ChilliWilly profile image61
    ChilliWillyposted 7 years ago

    If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake?

  2. prettydarkhorse profile image66
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    because some mistakes hurt specially if it concerns our emotions

  3. profile image46
    Eliyanaposted 7 years ago

    well from my personal view i think we just  cant bear the same pain again...or maybe we want people to see us as a mistakeless person...like people have high hope on you so you dont want to lose those...i hope i answer your question

  4. tysanders profile image61
    tysandersposted 7 years ago

    Because some mistakes come with huge consequences

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    ssaulposted 7 years ago

    we learn from our mistakes yes but it can also have detrimental consequences which may have irreparable damage to one self.

  6. L.C. Smith profile image59
    L.C. Smithposted 7 years ago

    Because although we learn from our mistakes, we don't enjoy the steps that must be taken to correct one.

  7. Jarn profile image73
    Jarnposted 7 years ago

    Because learning hurts, and often we can't afford to make a mistake in the first place.

  8. framistan profile image58
    framistanposted 7 years ago

    Here is a really good quotation....

    "It is a great mistake never to commit one."  written by Ivan Panin

    Who was Ivan Panin??  He was an avid athiest from the Soviet Union back in the 1800's.  He did something very interesting. You might want to google "Ivan Panin" if you are curious.

  9. Thesource profile image80
    Thesourceposted 7 years ago

    You can lean and recover from some mistakes.
    However, there are mistakes that can have catastrophic consequences. We should be afraid to make such mistakes.

  10. FloBe profile image80
    FloBeposted 7 years ago

    People equate mistakes with failure and no one wants to be a failure. If we could shift our thinking from "failure" to learning from trial and error, we might be more willing to keep trying till we succeed. We think that a mistake means we should stop, when in actual fact all it has shown us is that the way we attempted to solve the problem didn't work and we need to move on to the next step toward a solution.

  11. Lisa HW profile image73
    Lisa HWposted 7 years ago

    On the one hand, I'm pretty comfortable with, and not afraid of, making mistakes.  On the other hand, some mistakes can have serious consequences.

    I'm not sure we all learn from our mistakes, and I'm not any of us always learns learns all our mistakes.  Even when we do learn from them, though, what we learn isn't always the best thing to have learned.

    Personally, I have to say that I've done things/made choices that are mistake-free, and I've done things/made choices that involved having made a mistake.  I like mistake-free better.

  12. mandyf profile image68
    mandyfposted 7 years ago

    afraid of being hurt, afraid of the change it will make in our lives. But from my point of view mistakes are lessons to be learned from and to grow from

  13. Dave Mathews profile image60
    Dave Mathewsposted 7 years ago

    sometimes the lessons that need to be learned are painfiul.