Is it bad that after sex I just want to sleep and just skip the lovey dovey talk

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  1. Joan1 profile image59
    Joan1posted 7 years ago

    Is it bad that after sex I just want to sleep and just skip the lovey dovey talk?

    Is it bad that after sex I just want to sleep and just skip the lovey dovey talk?
    I don't mean everytime, just sometimes I don't feel like talking sweetly, maybe just talk about work, or anything that happened that day, or sleep.

  2. Darknlovely3436 profile image82
    Darknlovely3436posted 7 years ago

    yes, you are a bad lover, it like having dinner, and refusing to help with the dishes, change your habit, else you be sorry in the long run(smile

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    AMBASSADOR BUTLERposted 7 years ago

    Absolutely no. Just be real and continue to be yourself. You are an human being. So go ahead and go to sleep or you just might say something which you will regret later on. Get your sleep because your body needs the sleep to recuperate.

  4. dashingscorpio profile image87
    dashingscorpioposted 7 years ago

    No it's not bad. There is no "right' or "wrong" only (agree) and (disagree). What makes your actions "bad" is if you are having sex with someone who wants to snuggle afterwards!

    (Joan1) most people reading your question automatically assumed it was written by a man. lol

    The key for you is to find a sexual partner who also wants to go to sleep after sex. From what I hear there are quite a few men out there that will want to go to sleep just as you do.Joan1

  5. Jaynie2000 profile image87
    Jaynie2000posted 7 years ago

    No it's not bad. And you're not alone. I'm not into all that romance either. Some people need that to feel secure in their relationship. But for many of us, that is not necessary. My husband tells me he loves me multiple times per day. We have a great, active sex life. 99% of the time, I don't feel the need to get bogged down in romantic conversation. I'd prefer to roll over and go to sleep because afterward, I am always exhausted. I don't want to talk about anything...and I don't want to cuddle. Not that there's anything wrong with that...( -:

  6. smcopywrite profile image22
    smcopywriteposted 7 years ago

    no. if you both feel this way, great. however, if your partner doesnt find a nice way to tell them so in the most intimate of moments.


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