If you had a choice, would you want a great sex partner or great best friend?

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  1. Brinafr3sh profile image77
    Brinafr3shposted 7 years ago

    If you had a choice, would you want a great sex partner or great best friend?

    I honestly would choos a great best friend, now that I know better.

  2. simonpeter35 profile image61
    simonpeter35posted 7 years ago

    I prefer both. Best friend could easily leads to attraction.

  3. Matt in Jax profile image66
    Matt in Jaxposted 7 years ago

    I would have to go with the sex partner. I've got a lot of great best friends already.

  4. N.E. Wright profile image81
    N.E. Wrightposted 7 years ago

    LOL.  Well ....  Actually, it is the latter.  LOL. 

    Like you, been there done that.  A great best friend is much better.  Still, I had to pause.  LOL.

    Great question.

    Take Care,


  5. DonDWest profile image59
    DonDWestposted 7 years ago

    If the sex is so great, wouldn't it only be a matter of time until you become the best of friends?

  6. lostdogrwd profile image59
    lostdogrwdposted 7 years ago

    great best friend for I don't have one now but great sex partner if one want are a dime a dozen. best friend are not

  7. DannyMaio profile image60
    DannyMaioposted 7 years ago

    sex partner no doubt!!!! they can also be my BFF

  8. profile image50
    lightpeakposted 7 years ago

    See both are interconnected some way or other,  it is difficult to make a choice out of it.

  9. zduckman profile image60
    zduckmanposted 7 years ago

    Yea, I would say the partner, although having great sex would open the door to a wonderful friendship. ...but yes...friends are easy to come by.
    I am pick though ...and I want both

  10. nightwork4 profile image59
    nightwork4posted 7 years ago

    sex partner. with that , many will become best friends. my wife and i are examples of that. we started out as awesome lovers and now she is also my best friend. she's a pretty amazing lady in so many ways.

  11. profile image0
    Dandraposted 7 years ago

    Great best friend. Sex is subjective and based on the moment. Friendship lasts a lifetime.

  12. Wesman Todd Shaw profile image97
    Wesman Todd Shawposted 7 years ago

    Sex partner.  Perhaps we could learn the other with careful attention, and intentions towards improving our mutual understanding?

  13. Artist-For-Hire profile image66
    Artist-For-Hireposted 7 years ago

    Agreed ...DonDWest, that said wouldn't a "great" best friend (of the opposite sex) be willing to go a lil further? lol

    I'll be one of the few women to say I'll have the a partner please...I'm a loner anyway and too busy for friends so I may as well enjoy my free time right?

  14. sinebobo profile image61
    sineboboposted 7 years ago

    let take  look at this common adage, a friend in needy is a friend indeed, best friend is better than dozen sex partner

  15. ravenlt04 profile image62
    ravenlt04posted 7 years ago

    Oooo!  Great question!  That's a tough one!  I think I would choose a great best friend.  When the sex gets old (which it does when there are no feelings involved), that relationship is done.  But with a great best friend, you gain lasting support that can't be replaced.  Everyone needs that best friend he/she can trust, cry with, and laugh with.  If they could provide the good sex too that would be an awesome situation! smile

  16. Ashantina profile image61
    Ashantinaposted 7 years ago


  17. stclairjack profile image82
    stclairjackposted 7 years ago

    i'm curently in a relationhip with someone who i think qualifies as a best friend, and the sex, while not of the circus freek variety, is just fine with me,.... sex is between the ears, not the legs.

  18. padmendra profile image44
    padmendraposted 7 years ago

    I  would prefer to go with my best friend as sex partner can give the joy of lust for a very short duration. But my best friend would always guide me the best and you know friends are always important  in life.

  19. Darknlovely3436 profile image82
    Darknlovely3436posted 7 years ago

    i rather have both,  sex to me is a very personal thing,

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