Ladies- If you could give one single bit of advice to the male population, what would you tell them?
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What say you, ladies?
In a relationship or marriage, always make it a point to communicate! And I don't mean talking about goofy stuff like whether or not you liked an episode of Family Guy. I mean sit down with her and share your thoughts, problems, and concerns with her. She wants to know she is appreciated and wants to be there for you when you need someone to lean on.
Communication and listening...........Always listen to your partner always! Communication is the key to a happy relationship. If you have that even when you have problems you will be able to talk them through peacefully!
communication, listen to her comment her on her beautiful hair of clothes give her your heart. make her feel like all eyes are on her make her feel important, if you have promblems you'll work them out together you'll get through it. talk to eachother about your relation ship give her what she wants if your rlly luv her show her
Communicate honestly and openly.
I believe I will write a hub on this interesting topic.
Be strong enough to sometimes say NO.
It's good to compromise and be part of the give-and-take that a couple share. But women don't like (or respect) a push-over, or someone who constantly subjugates their wishes/hopes/desires to their spouse.
Don't be afraid to call your loved one's on their s*#t. Now THAT's honest communication.
don't keep secrets and do something you both like if you don't know that then try to learn what the other likes. You can never go wrong with asking questions so long as you mention yourself every now and then you don't want to give the impression that your keeping secrets!
I have to put my two cents in here, i am a straight male but a lot of single men may be single forever just because of the pure fact that they think the mountain is greener on the other side. When in reality if you have been in a relationship for years happily, its almost impossible to just flop and hate each other. All it takes is compromise and understanding your spouses needs and visa versa. No one can get 100% of what they want and think they are going to be happy forever. Have to at least meet in the middle and work things out together, shape and form with each other.My girl is my favorite person,best friend, and some one i could spend my entire day in bed with.
Be handsome all the time, but never ever dare to break a woman's heart.
Be assertive. Not aggressive, not passive but assertive.
That way problems are dealt with straight away, compromises can be made and she will respect you for being honest and a man.
It will feel like your contributing to the relationship, to both of you and make you stronger. Rather than stewing, brooding or keeping secrets until it's too late and mountains have formed out of mole hills.
If your in love with a girl make sure she knows it and make sure to put her first!
Learn boys learn......learn from the women coz women rock while boys flop hahaha just kidding!!!! I'd say look handsome all the time and smell yummy yummy
i would tell them that everyone one wants to BE ENOUGH. this means that they are important enough to have your respect and consideration. that before you do anything you would consider the effect it would have on them.
Stop trying so hard to impress us, guys. It's more annoying than it is attractive. And don't cling. Clinging is the worst!
Stop using women like they're Geishas and actually strive to have a meaningful, happy relationship.
Be ambitious and brave, but allways stay faithfull to a woman! That's a real man!
If a girl tells you she loves you, don't go out with her best friend. That will only make her mad at you and her best friend.
We are not a piece of meat.
Ladies still like to be treated with respect , kindness ,attention
and don't forget the flowers.
Just say it like it is, no lies. Once the trust is broken, it takes along time to earn it back. Good luck!
Listen! Listen and be there for your significant other.... Actually hear what she is saying and not just nodding your head....
Stop worrying about so many things! Men are big on thinking about things to the point of madness! If it feels right, go with it. If it doesn't, then let it go! We can take the punches and roll!
Give her the television remote!
Don't leave the toilet seat up
Put a new toilet roll on when needed
Wash the sheets
Let the dog in when it scratches at the door.
and never ever tell her she's put on weight
Listen. Not the shaking your head and rolling your eyes kind of listen, but really listen to what she is saying. Sometimes it is easier for guys to filter trough our bs to find out what we need.
You will get back what you give! Be good, be faithful, and tell you partner how much you appreciate her.
Say what you mean, but keep you brain in gear while you're doing it.
Please, we are not trophies. There is no prize for who can get the prettiest, tall, skinny woman on the planet.
Keep the romance alive! Most men let this go as life goes on. That' s a huge mistake. If you keep the romance going, you can have any woman you want!
GROW UP! Act like a real man..
Watch your mouth..
Always open the door for a lady. Lady is anyone of the female gender!
Stop lieing. Once you start lieing and we find out the trust is out the window. And than that's when you get that nagging wife/girlfriend wanting to know where you are all the time.
The one bit of advice I would give would be to put the thoughts and feelings of others before you do yourself.
Treat your woman with the most respect that you can, because there could come a day when you are left alone.
Don't smell bad. Please, please, please, as a favor to us, don't smell bad. And if you do smell bad, please stand a reasonable distance away.
Just stop doing stupid stuff, geese! It's not hard, the golden rule is a fairly well known guide line that can be of great help for someone who is in the process of trying to stop being stupid or even just trying to be a bit less stupid. For god sakes guys, c'mon.
Stop acting like your so good that you don't have to committ but it's expected that a sense of committment is given to you. To say I am going to still mess around because that is what we do, but then say you should only be with me. Grow up, if you respect me and say you love me, then I should be enough. You are enough for me, so stop the cheating.
Remember that your woman will always multiply and make better whatever you give her...
Give her your sperm - she'll give you a baby
Give her a house - she'll make you a home
Give her some food - she'll make you a meal
Give her a smile - she'll give you her heart
So if you give her any cr*p...be prepared to receive a whole ton of sh*!
But seriously, the key is appreciation - make her feel like you appreciate everything she does to support your relationship, your home, you family. Make her feel appreciated and she'll also feel respected, valued and loved - she will take a bullet for you.
And never EVER underestimate the value of a hand brushing across her back as you pass in the hallway, or a big squishy cuddle when you come home at the end of the day, or sweeping hair out of her face when she's busy. This is what we like to call a "gesture of love" - nope, it's not foreplay.
If you don't know what to or not to do, as we women like to change our minds, just fake it till you make it
I think this is personal to each woman. For me, be flexible but not a pushover. Stand up for what you believe in without being domineering. No door mats, please.
Not all women are alike.
Don't ever verbalize comparisons between your ex and your current lady.
A lot of women are excellent drivers!
I tell my fiancee all the time to just stop talking. LOL! Also, take out the garbage, put the seat down, help me with these bags, help me with the kids, help me with dinner....are you still talking? Didn't I say don't talk? Just do it. hee hee hee
Chivalry is NOT dead. Unless she specifically tells you not to, there's nothing sexist about opening/holding doors, pulling out chairs, and helping her get her coat on. If she refuses it, fine; but until she does, assume she'll love you more for showing you care.
Two Little Words. BE YOURSELF!
That's the most important advice for anyone.
I would tell people not to underestimate the power of small acts of kindness. A person can change someones entire day by holding the door for them as they pass by or smiling at them and saying "thank you." These gestures seem small but they can have a big impact upon people. I believe the population would be happier if more individuals simply practiced being nice to others:)
Learn the nature of yourself...of a man...learn the nature of a woman...and then look at things not from an emotional standpoint...but through an understanding of the nature of a woman versus your nature. Most women don't even understand that about themselves, much less the man and vice versa. I look to the Bible for my understanding of nature, but there is plenty of information out there to be found where you could study up on this in the scientific and physiological communities. The basis of our nature drives everything we do and in every situation from intimate to group settings to how we handle pleasure and pain and parenting, etc. It makes life a lot simpler when you learn this.
It is better not to under-estimate us. This is the biggest problem of Asian countries that male always over-estimate themselves. They think that women are inferior or sleeping beauty or second sex.
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