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Ladies- If you could give one single bit of advice to the male population, what

  1. cjcarter profile image77
    cjcarterposted 6 years ago

    Ladies- If you could give one single bit of advice to the male population, what would you tell them?

    Don't shave... do shave... no flip flops... pro flip flops...
    What say you, ladies?

  2. lovelife08 profile image60
    lovelife08posted 6 years ago

    In a relationship or marriage, always make it a point to communicate!  And I don't mean talking about goofy stuff like whether or not you liked an episode of Family Guy.  I mean sit down with her and share your thoughts, problems, and concerns with her.  She wants to know she is appreciated and wants to be there for you when you need someone to lean on.

  3. profile image48
    Ourfamily2yoursposted 6 years ago

    Communication and listening...........Always listen to your partner always!  Communication is the key to a happy relationship.  If you have that even when you have problems you will be able to talk them through peacefully!

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    Aqua00posted 6 years ago

    communication, listen to her comment her on her beautiful hair of clothes give her your heart. make her feel like all eyes are on her make her feel important, if you have promblems you'll work them out together you'll get through it. talk to eachother about your relation ship give her what she wants if your rlly luv her show her

  5. Miss Info profile image82
    Miss Infoposted 6 years ago

    Communicate honestly and openly.

    I believe I will write a hub on this interesting topic.

  6. FranYo profile image57
    FranYoposted 6 years ago

    Be strong enough to sometimes say NO. 

    It's good to compromise and be part of the give-and-take that a couple share. But women don't like (or respect) a push-over, or someone who constantly subjugates their wishes/hopes/desires to their spouse. 

    Don't be afraid to call your loved one's on their s*#t.  Now THAT's honest communication.

  7. Flowering Heart profile image58
    Flowering Heartposted 6 years ago

    don't keep secrets and do something you both like if you don't know that then try to learn what the other likes. You can never go wrong with asking questions so long as you mention yourself every now and then you don't want to give the impression that your keeping secrets!

  8. Nspeel profile image77
    Nspeelposted 6 years ago

    I have to put my two cents in here, i am a straight male but a lot of single men may be single forever just because of the pure fact that they think the mountain is greener on the other side. When in reality if you have been in a relationship for years happily, its almost impossible to just flop and hate each other. All it takes is compromise and understanding your spouses needs and visa versa. No one can get 100% of what they want and think they are going to be happy forever. Have to at least meet in the middle and work things out together, shape and form with each other.My girl is my favorite person,best friend, and some one i could spend my entire day in bed with.

  9. whiplashinfo profile image57
    whiplashinfoposted 6 years ago

    Be handsome all the time, but never ever dare to break a woman's heart.

  10. Winnie* profile image71
    Winnie*posted 6 years ago

    Make her feel important if she's important to you.

  11. SerenaDoherty profile image58
    SerenaDohertyposted 6 years ago

    Be assertive. Not aggressive, not passive but assertive.

    That way problems are dealt with straight away, compromises can be made and she will respect you for being honest and a man.

    It will feel like your contributing to the relationship, to both of you and make you stronger. Rather than stewing, brooding or keeping secrets until it's too late and mountains have formed out of mole hills.

  12. ninacrimaldi profile image66
    ninacrimaldiposted 6 years ago

    If your in love with a girl make sure she knows it and make sure to put her first!

  13. Sunshine3131 profile image57
    Sunshine3131posted 6 years ago

    Learn boys learn......learn from the women coz women rock while boys flop hahaha just kidding!!!!  I'd say look handsome all the time and smell yummy yummy smile

  14. profile image50
    lari1307posted 6 years ago

    i would tell them that everyone one wants to BE ENOUGH. this means that they are important enough to have your respect and consideration.  that before you do anything you would consider the effect it would have on them.

  15. iviskei profile image72
    iviskeiposted 6 years ago

    Stop trying so hard to impress us, guys. It's more annoying than it is attractive. And don't cling. Clinging is the worst!

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    ebby08posted 6 years ago

    Stop using women like they're Geishas and actually strive to have a meaningful, happy relationship.

  17. MsKejci profile image60
    MsKejciposted 6 years ago

    Be ambitious and brave, but allways stay faithfull to a woman! That's a real man!

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    elliegouldingposted 6 years ago

    If a girl tells you she loves you, don't go out with her best friend. That will only make her mad at you and her best friend.

  19. Wonder Referrals profile image36
    Wonder Referralsposted 6 years ago

    We are not a piece of meat.
    Ladies still like to be treated with respect , kindness ,attention
    and don't forget the flowers.

  20. miccimom profile image70
    miccimomposted 6 years ago

    Just say it like it is, no lies.  Once the trust is broken, it takes along time to earn it back.  Good luck!

  21. TKLMommy profile image60
    TKLMommyposted 6 years ago

    Listen! Listen and be there for your significant other.... Actually hear what she is saying and not just nodding your head....

  22. Stephiliboo profile image57
    Stephilibooposted 6 years ago

    Stop worrying about so many things! Men are big on thinking about things to the point of madness! If it feels right, go with it. If it doesn't, then let it go! We can take the punches and roll!

  23. maddot profile image81
    maddotposted 6 years ago

    Give her the television remote!
    Don't leave the toilet seat up
    Put a new toilet roll on when needed
    Wash the sheets
    Wash up
    Let  the dog in when it scratches at the door.
    and never ever tell her she's put on weight

  24. BethBrown profile image67
    BethBrownposted 6 years ago

    Listen. Not the shaking your head and rolling your eyes kind of listen, but really listen to what she is saying. Sometimes it is easier for guys to filter trough our bs to find out what we need.

  25. rikabothra profile image60
    rikabothraposted 6 years ago

    You will get back what you give! Be good, be faithful, and tell you partner how much you appreciate her.

  26. LittleStash profile image68
    LittleStashposted 6 years ago

    Say what you mean, but keep you brain in gear while you're doing it.

  27. plogan721 profile image81
    plogan721posted 6 years ago

    Please, we are not trophies.    There is no prize for who can get the prettiest, tall, skinny woman on the planet.

  28. ligiaogl profile image58
    ligiaoglposted 6 years ago

    Keep the romance alive! Most men let this go as life goes on. That' s a huge mistake. If you keep the romance going, you can have any woman you want!

  29. JasonStroth profile image54
    JasonStrothposted 6 years ago

    GROW UP! Act like a real man..

    Be HONEST..
    Watch your mouth..

  30. Through My Lens profile image60
    Through My Lensposted 6 years ago

    LISTEN... with the intent to understand.

  31. Rosie writes profile image86
    Rosie writesposted 6 years ago

    Do not let your pants sag...it looks really ridiculous.

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    YitsME76308posted 6 years ago

    Always open the door for a lady. Lady is anyone of the female gender!

  33. bdanyel48 profile image58
    bdanyel48posted 6 years ago

    Stop lieing. Once you start lieing and we find out the trust is out the window. And than that's when you get that nagging wife/girlfriend wanting to know where you are all the time.

  34. dipsmi profile image74
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  35. gshill profile image58
    gshillposted 6 years ago

    The one bit of advice I would give would be to put the thoughts and feelings of others before you do yourself.

  36. tdwhitt profile image59
    tdwhittposted 6 years ago

    Treat your woman with the most respect that you can, because there could come a day when you are left alone.

  37. Erin Rooney profile image59
    Erin Rooneyposted 6 years ago

    Don't smell bad. Please, please, please, as a favor to us, don't smell bad. And if you do smell bad, please stand a reasonable distance away.

  38. thoughthole profile image96
    thoughtholeposted 6 years ago

    Just stop doing stupid stuff, geese! It's not hard, the golden rule is a fairly well known guide line that can be of great help for someone who is in the process of trying to stop being stupid or even just trying to be a bit less stupid. For god sakes guys, c'mon.

  39. Heather McMillan profile image59
    Heather McMillanposted 6 years ago

    Stop acting like your so good that you don't have to committ but it's expected that a sense of committment is given to you.  To say I am going to still mess around because that is what we do, but then say you should only be with me.  Grow up, if you respect me and say you love me, then I should be enough. You are enough for me, so stop the cheating.

  40. Artist-For-Hire profile image67
    Artist-For-Hireposted 6 years ago

    Remember that your woman will always multiply and make better whatever you give her...

    Give her your sperm - she'll give you a baby
    Give her a house - she'll make you a home
    Give her some food - she'll make you a meal
    Give her a smile - she'll give you her heart
    So if you give her any cr*p...be prepared to receive a whole ton of sh*!

    But seriously, the key is appreciation - make her feel like you appreciate everything she does to support your relationship, your home, you family. Make her feel appreciated and she'll also feel respected, valued and loved - she will take a bullet for you.

    And never EVER underestimate the value of a hand brushing across her back as you pass in the hallway, or a big squishy cuddle when you come home at the end of the day, or sweeping hair out of her face when she's busy. This is what we like to call a "gesture of love" - nope, it's not foreplay.

  41. slaffery profile image59
    slafferyposted 6 years ago

    If you don't know what to or not to do, as we women like to change our minds, just fake it till you make it smile

  42. danielleantosz profile image74
    danielleantoszposted 6 years ago

    I think this is personal to each woman.  For me, be flexible but not a pushover.  Stand up for what you believe in without being domineering. No door mats, please.

  43. JayDee Sterling profile image60
    JayDee Sterlingposted 6 years ago

    Not all women are alike.
    Don't ever verbalize comparisons between your ex and your current lady.
    A lot of women are excellent drivers!

  44. cejae profile image58
    cejaeposted 6 years ago

    Be Honest!!! - Oh yes and put the toilet seat down

  45. stayingalivemoma profile image83
    stayingalivemomaposted 6 years ago

    I tell my fiancee all the time to just stop talking. LOL! Also, take out the garbage, put the seat down, help me with these bags, help me with the kids, help me with dinner....are you still talking? Didn't I say don't talk? Just do it. hee hee hee

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    SJmorningsun25posted 6 years ago

    Chivalry is NOT dead. Unless she specifically tells you not to, there's nothing sexist about opening/holding doors, pulling out chairs, and helping her get her coat on. If she refuses it, fine; but until she does, assume she'll love you more for showing you care.

  47. ModernDisneyGirl profile image57
    ModernDisneyGirlposted 6 years ago

    Two Little Words. BE YOURSELF!

    That's the most important advice for anyone.

  48. AliciaMarie27 profile image60
    AliciaMarie27posted 6 years ago

    I would tell people not to underestimate the power of small acts of kindness. A person can change someones entire day by holding the door for them as they pass by or smiling at them and saying "thank you." These gestures seem small but they can have a big impact upon people. I believe the population would be happier if more individuals simply practiced being nice to others:)

  49. theeaglesrose profile image61
    theeaglesroseposted 6 years ago

    Learn the nature of yourself...of a man...learn the nature of a woman...and then look at things not from an emotional standpoint...but through an understanding of the nature of a woman versus your nature. Most women don't even understand that about themselves, much less the man and vice versa. I look to the Bible for my understanding of nature, but there is plenty of information out there to be found where you could study up on this in the scientific and physiological communities. The basis of our nature drives everything we do and in every situation from intimate to group settings to how we handle pleasure and pain and parenting, etc. It makes life a lot simpler when you learn this.

  50. vansh121 profile image65
    vansh121posted 6 years ago

    It is better not to under-estimate us. This is the biggest problem of Asian countries that male always over-estimate themselves. They think that women are inferior or sleeping beauty or second sex.