What would you do if you were to fall in love with someone who was not available

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  1. tobusiness profile image81
    tobusinessposted 11 years ago

    What would you do if you were to fall in love with someone who was not available?

  2. stricktlydating profile image84
    stricktlydatingposted 11 years ago

    Just call it a crush and move on, because there's nothing positive about being in love with someone who you can't have.

  3. dashingscorpio profile image82
    dashingscorpioposted 11 years ago

    Generally speaking most adults require some form of courtship/spending time together, and at least kissing or some other physical contact prior to falling "in love". Another requirement in my opinion is in order for him to be "the one" he must also see you as being "the one". Naturally if he is with someone else then he clearly does not see you as being "the one". Whether have been involved with this person or silently wishing you could have him for yourself, it's best to just move on. You will know when you have found "the one" because the feelings will be mutual.

  4. nightwork4 profile image60
    nightwork4posted 11 years ago

    i'm not sure how this could happen but if it did i would just let it go and move on.

  5. Deborah Brooks profile image60
    Deborah Brooksposted 11 years ago

    Make sure you get away from the  situation.. if you do not you will be hurt in the long run. it might be fun and at first but just get away.  It is for the best for everyone.

  6. Sheila Lee profile image60
    Sheila Leeposted 11 years ago

    I agree with Deborah. Just don't go there. The outcome won't be a good one.

  7. brakel2 profile image76
    brakel2posted 11 years ago

    Don't go there.  I did, and it almost ruined my marriage. It probably was only a crush but WoW the damage is not worth it.

  8. profile image0
    mikeq107posted 11 years ago

    Love all the great comments ...The short of it is....God gave you two legs and a brain.....walk away and if you dont have the strenght to walk...Run Forrest Run :0)

  9. tyra marieza profile image60
    tyra mariezaposted 11 years ago

    I would question if it was truly love that I felt. Then, if it was true, I'd let it go and if later it came back, free and available then I'd know it was right. If it never came back then I would be all the wiser for letting it go in the first place.

  10. bizrich profile image62
    bizrichposted 11 years ago

    Reverse while still can. Don't wait until it is too late. What will happen is that you will ruin your own life as well as 3rd party. Worst thing might happen...

  11. datarecovery27 profile image60
    datarecovery27posted 11 years ago

    about me love is god create one.. Everyone have love but they want to exploded

  12. danajconnelly profile image60
    danajconnellyposted 11 years ago

    Love is the worst drug of them all and once you are hooked it is very hard to "walk away"

  13. angelmiller profile image58
    angelmillerposted 11 years ago

    I was in love with a boy that he was in a relationship.And i thought that is better for him to know.So I told him and i 2 weeks we were a couple.I think that if this ever happens to you you should tell the person that you love because you never know how life can change.I'm saying that he has the right to know about you and your feelings and he can choose what to do and what is better for him.

  14. Capedium profile image60
    Capediumposted 11 years ago

    Like falling in love online.... ( Hubpages... Facebook.. ..) Well you stay in love... Be happy.. No one is hurting each other. You could both even talk about your dates.. Share pictures.. You just stay in love.. I wish I had a clearer way to explain it. Beside we can't always get everything we want.

  15. pharuk temmy t profile image40
    pharuk temmy tposted 11 years ago

    If the person if not available then that is not love, it is definitely infatuation and you know what that means...laugh now cry later that is simply what you are engaging yourself into.

  16. sakimakelly profile image60
    sakimakellyposted 11 years ago

    This is an interesting question because I am not understanding how someone can fall in love with someone who is unavailable.  For me, the second I learn someone is unavailable I am not interested.  Falling in love is both mental and emotional.  If you find yourself falling for someone who is taken then you are just setting yourself up for heartache.

  17. Hear Me profile image61
    Hear Meposted 11 years ago

    Don't go there or if you have to just admire from a distance.


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