I'd probably forgive them once I'd ended the relationship forever. No real point holding a grudge once one dumps someone like a hot potato.
The fact of being cheated by someone is not good. It usually results to anger, hurt and pain knowing that someone you care and love betrayed your trust. But there is no point on dwelling on all of these negative emotions for too long. The best way is to accept the reality, move on and forgive the person. Try to see this situation as a blessing in disguise for you. There are always a good reason why such a bad thing happen. All you can do is to look forward and have a positive mind set and learn the lesson from that bad circumstances. Sooner, you will find someone that is worthy of your love and trust. Maybe that person who cheated on you is not the right person for you....
Theres no piont in hold a grudge, so yea I would forgive them as well as end the relationship all together. They cheated on you for a reason. Also they must not have been thinking of you while they were in the act.
Relationships can be tough, and finding out someone has cheated on you is even tougher. This article is an answer to a Q&A, which is meant to provide help for those who find it hard to forgive, but also it informs folks of ways to detect the staging of such an unfaithful act ahead of time. read more
I will likely to forgive.
It is painful and hurtful to oneself when you are bearing the grudges or hatred, so forgiving and forgetting the matter will not only be good for yourself but in health as well.
by COCOBEWARE 6 years ago
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by Alexander Thandi Ubani 7 years ago
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by alexandriaruthk 5 years ago
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