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What attracts you to other people?

  1. tlmcgaa70 profile image78
    tlmcgaa70posted 5 years ago

    What attracts you to other people?

    for me it is eyes full of compassion, a face with strong character, strong hands and someone who has strong values and morals and strives to live up to them.

  2. moonfairy profile image82
    moonfairyposted 5 years ago

    I'm attracted to easy going people who are truly kind, loving, supportive, honest and who have a sense of humor. Humor to me is an important quality because I love to laugh and love it when I make someone else laugh.

  3. Express10 profile image87
    Express10posted 5 years ago

    Kind spirit, laughter, and things found to be in common attract me. I used to think  compassion, values, and morals went without saying, but sometimes they appear to in short supply. It's good to mention these as well where attraction is concerned.

  4. lburmaster profile image82
    lburmasterposted 5 years ago

    Strong character, similar humor, great personality, fun to be around. Most of my friends are like me. But I just like being around people because I get lonely. The mall is a great place to feel comfortable around people.

    1. profile image0
      CJ Sledgehammerposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      Leah...why do you feel so lonely? I know this is not the first time you mentioned that. And, yes, I do keep track. :0)

    2. lburmaster profile image82
      lburmasterposted 5 years agoin reply to this

      To be honest, I shouldn't be. I have five friends right now which is the most I've had at one time in 7 years. So I don't know why.

  5. Shanti Perez profile image77
    Shanti Perezposted 5 years ago

    Intellect. Open-mindedness. Compassion. Kindness. Sense of humor. Love of animals and nature. Patience. But logical more than emotional. I've found over-abundance of emotion can lead to temper tantrums.

    1. tlmcgaa70 profile image78
      tlmcgaa70posted 5 years agoin reply to this

      what you say is true. however to much logic is also faulty. i would rather someone be balanced with both

  6. janshares profile image97
    jansharesposted 5 years ago

    I'm attracted to kind smiles and bright eyes that twinkle with good eye contact. This indicates to me someone with a good spirit. I'm also attracted to really smart people who share their wisdom.

  7. jaydene profile image72
    jaydeneposted 5 years ago

    I think when my intuition tells me they are good souls,
      feeling the good vibes they send out, and their great smiles smile

  8. jennshealthstore profile image91
    jennshealthstoreposted 5 years ago

    Of course we can look at a person by their features and feel a physical attraction to them. It is not hard to pick out attractive people, but once you get to know a person and you find out who they are, that is when you genuinely become attracted to a person. Their personality, their character, sense of humor and heart are all things that I find attractive in a person.

    1. tlmcgaa70 profile image78
      tlmcgaa70posted 5 years agoin reply to this

      very true. there are some folks who dont look pretty yet their spirit shines so that they become stunningly beautiful to those who see them. it is always best to never judge a book by its cover.

  9. dghbrh profile image77
    dghbrhposted 5 years ago

    The attitude and the way they carry them self is what is important for me. The simplicity and sparkling eyes are another element of attraction for me many a times. Nice question and thank you

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    CJ Sledgehammerposted 5 years ago

    What attracts me initially is one's personality. Now, upon further review, if they sport a rock-solid character, utilize a moral compass, and possess abundant virtue...I may call them my friend. :0)

  11. James-wolve profile image78
    James-wolveposted 5 years ago

    I like your question.....I think that "Looks" are in the eyes of the beholder and personality comes from the heart so I would have to say that what attracts me would have to be personality. You could have a beautiful person but she or he could be the meanest person in the world so i think i would want some one who I can speak to and have alot in common with than looks.

  12. jatinc653 profile image61
    jatinc653posted 5 years ago

    It is ovious the personality of the person and truthfulness, honesty and sincerity.......

  13. Beata Stasak profile image84
    Beata Stasakposted 5 years ago

    When I was a little girl,
    Grandmum told me a secret:
    "If you really want something,
    there will be a way."
    Is it angels or the power of positive thinking?
    Is it determination to act
    or the courage to be guided?
    Between these impulses... read more

  14. kingsingh profile image58
    kingsinghposted 5 years ago

    A person that has a high degree of enthusiasm for life.

  15. Vicky022389 profile image84
    Vicky022389posted 5 years ago

    A mans confidence is attractive to me. There could be someone who is drop dead gorgeous but if he doesn't have the confidence then they seem a lot less attractive than someone with average looks and a lot of confidence. Of course you don't want the person to be overly confident and cocky!