What attracts you to other people?

Jump to Last Post 1-15 of 15 discussions (19 posts)
  1. tlmcgaa70 profile image61
    tlmcgaa70posted 11 years ago

    What attracts you to other people?

    for me it is eyes full of compassion, a face with strong character, strong hands and someone who has strong values and morals and strives to live up to them.

  2. moonfairy profile image72
    moonfairyposted 11 years ago

    I'm attracted to easy going people who are truly kind, loving, supportive, honest and who have a sense of humor. Humor to me is an important quality because I love to laugh and love it when I make someone else laugh.

  3. Express10 profile image75
    Express10posted 11 years ago

    Kind spirit, laughter, and things found to be in common attract me. I used to think  compassion, values, and morals went without saying, but sometimes they appear to in short supply. It's good to mention these as well where attraction is concerned.

  4. lburmaster profile image72
    lburmasterposted 11 years ago

    Strong character, similar humor, great personality, fun to be around. Most of my friends are like me. But I just like being around people because I get lonely. The mall is a great place to feel comfortable around people.

    1. profile image0
      CJ Sledgehammerposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Leah...why do you feel so lonely? I know this is not the first time you mentioned that. And, yes, I do keep track. :0)

    2. lburmaster profile image72
      lburmasterposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      To be honest, I shouldn't be. I have five friends right now which is the most I've had at one time in 7 years. So I don't know why.

  5. Shanti Perez profile image78
    Shanti Perezposted 11 years ago

    Intellect. Open-mindedness. Compassion. Kindness. Sense of humor. Love of animals and nature. Patience. But logical more than emotional. I've found over-abundance of emotion can lead to temper tantrums.

    1. tlmcgaa70 profile image61
      tlmcgaa70posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      what you say is true. however to much logic is also faulty. i would rather someone be balanced with both

  6. janshares profile image90
    jansharesposted 11 years ago

    I'm attracted to kind smiles and bright eyes that twinkle with good eye contact. This indicates to me someone with a good spirit. I'm also attracted to really smart people who share their wisdom.

  7. jaydene profile image60
    jaydeneposted 11 years ago

    I think when my intuition tells me they are good souls,
      feeling the good vibes they send out, and their great smiles smile

  8. jennshealthstore profile image72
    jennshealthstoreposted 11 years ago

    Of course we can look at a person by their features and feel a physical attraction to them. It is not hard to pick out attractive people, but once you get to know a person and you find out who they are, that is when you genuinely become attracted to a person. Their personality, their character, sense of humor and heart are all things that I find attractive in a person.

    1. tlmcgaa70 profile image61
      tlmcgaa70posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      very true. there are some folks who dont look pretty yet their spirit shines so that they become stunningly beautiful to those who see them. it is always best to never judge a book by its cover.

  9. dghbrh profile image78
    dghbrhposted 11 years ago

    The attitude and the way they carry them self is what is important for me. The simplicity and sparkling eyes are another element of attraction for me many a times. Nice question and thank you

  10. profile image0
    CJ Sledgehammerposted 11 years ago

    What attracts me initially is one's personality. Now, upon further review, if they sport a rock-solid character, utilize a moral compass, and possess abundant virtue...I may call them my friend. :0)

  11. James-wolve profile image74
    James-wolveposted 11 years ago

    I like your question.....I think that "Looks" are in the eyes of the beholder and personality comes from the heart so I would have to say that what attracts me would have to be personality. You could have a beautiful person but she or he could be the meanest person in the world so i think i would want some one who I can speak to and have alot in common with than looks.

  12. jatinc653 profile image59
    jatinc653posted 11 years ago

    It is ovious the personality of the person and truthfulness, honesty and sincerity.......

  13. Beata Stasak profile image76
    Beata Stasakposted 11 years ago

    When I was a little girl,
    Grandmum told me a secret:
    "If you really want something,
    there will be a way."
    Is it angels or the power of positive thinking?
    Is it determination to act
    or the courage to be guided?
    Between these impulses... read more

  14. kingsingh profile image58
    kingsinghposted 11 years ago

    A person that has a high degree of enthusiasm for life.

  15. Vicky022389 profile image69
    Vicky022389posted 11 years ago

    A mans confidence is attractive to me. There could be someone who is drop dead gorgeous but if he doesn't have the confidence then they seem a lot less attractive than someone with average looks and a lot of confidence. Of course you don't want the person to be overly confident and cocky!


This website uses cookies

As a user in the EEA, your approval is needed on a few things. To provide a better website experience, hubpages.com uses cookies (and other similar technologies) and may collect, process, and share personal data. Please choose which areas of our service you consent to our doing so.

For more information on managing or withdrawing consents and how we handle data, visit our Privacy Policy at: https://corp.maven.io/privacy-policy

Show Details
HubPages Device IDThis is used to identify particular browsers or devices when the access the service, and is used for security reasons.
LoginThis is necessary to sign in to the HubPages Service.
Google RecaptchaThis is used to prevent bots and spam. (Privacy Policy)
AkismetThis is used to detect comment spam. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide data on traffic to our website, all personally identifyable data is anonymized. (Privacy Policy)
HubPages Traffic PixelThis is used to collect data on traffic to articles and other pages on our site. Unless you are signed in to a HubPages account, all personally identifiable information is anonymized.
Amazon Web ServicesThis is a cloud services platform that we used to host our service. (Privacy Policy)
CloudflareThis is a cloud CDN service that we use to efficiently deliver files required for our service to operate such as javascript, cascading style sheets, images, and videos. (Privacy Policy)
Google Hosted LibrariesJavascript software libraries such as jQuery are loaded at endpoints on the googleapis.com or gstatic.com domains, for performance and efficiency reasons. (Privacy Policy)
Google Custom SearchThis is feature allows you to search the site. (Privacy Policy)
Google MapsSome articles have Google Maps embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
Google ChartsThis is used to display charts and graphs on articles and the author center. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSense Host APIThis service allows you to sign up for or associate a Google AdSense account with HubPages, so that you can earn money from ads on your articles. No data is shared unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Google YouTubeSome articles have YouTube videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
VimeoSome articles have Vimeo videos embedded in them. (Privacy Policy)
PaypalThis is used for a registered author who enrolls in the HubPages Earnings program and requests to be paid via PayPal. No data is shared with Paypal unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook LoginYou can use this to streamline signing up for, or signing in to your Hubpages account. No data is shared with Facebook unless you engage with this feature. (Privacy Policy)
MavenThis supports the Maven widget and search functionality. (Privacy Policy)
Google AdSenseThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Google DoubleClickGoogle provides ad serving technology and runs an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Index ExchangeThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
SovrnThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Facebook AdsThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Unified Ad MarketplaceThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
AppNexusThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
OpenxThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Rubicon ProjectThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
TripleLiftThis is an ad network. (Privacy Policy)
Say MediaWe partner with Say Media to deliver ad campaigns on our sites. (Privacy Policy)
Remarketing PixelsWe may use remarketing pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to advertise the HubPages Service to people that have visited our sites.
Conversion Tracking PixelsWe may use conversion tracking pixels from advertising networks such as Google AdWords, Bing Ads, and Facebook in order to identify when an advertisement has successfully resulted in the desired action, such as signing up for the HubPages Service or publishing an article on the HubPages Service.
Author Google AnalyticsThis is used to provide traffic data and reports to the authors of articles on the HubPages Service. (Privacy Policy)
ComscoreComScore is a media measurement and analytics company providing marketing data and analytics to enterprises, media and advertising agencies, and publishers. Non-consent will result in ComScore only processing obfuscated personal data. (Privacy Policy)
Amazon Tracking PixelSome articles display amazon products as part of the Amazon Affiliate program, this pixel provides traffic statistics for those products (Privacy Policy)
ClickscoThis is a data management platform studying reader behavior (Privacy Policy)