What Should I Do If I Feel Like I Don't Fit In?

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  1. Pamela99 profile image86
    Pamela99posted 2 years ago

    Misbah has written an interesting article about what to do when we feel like we son't fit in.
    https://discover.hubpages.com/health/Wh … ont-Fit-In

    1. ChitrangadaSharan profile image92
      ChitrangadaSharanposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Interesting article Misbah!
      Such valuable and insightful thoughts. I believe, that your article will make many people think and change the way they are living—that is, Trying to ‘fit in’, even if they are not very comfortable with someone, or a group, or in some situations. It will be particularly helpful to youngsters, because in my opinion, they are not quite sure, as to how to deal with such a situation.
      As we mature, we don’t bother(usually), about what would others say, or think.
      Wonderful article on an important topic.
      Thank you for sharing.
      Thank you Pamela, for sharing this in the forum. I didn’t get any email notification for this one.

      1. Misbah786 profile image84
        Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

        Dear Di, thank you so much for your very kind, insightful, and thoughtful response. I'm delighted you enjoyed and found it useful. I hope it helps young people to understand how to deal with such a situation. Much Gratitude! smile

        Take care and keep smiling.

        Blessings and Love as always

  2. Pamela99 profile image86
    Pamela99posted 2 years ago

    Misbah, I found this article to be very interesting and well written. While I found it in my feed, when I clicked on my gmail nothing came up for your article. I wanted to post it so it would be read. Much love and blessings!

    1. Misbah786 profile image84
      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      This is so sweet of you, dear Pamela. Thank you so much for posting the link to my article and creating this forum discussion.

      Actually, I had two drafts of the same article. One of them was having problems with the URL, it wasn't matching with the title, I accidentally published that one before, then unpublished it, and published this one afterwards. I sincerely apologize for the inconvenience, dear friend. . .

      I am glad you found it interesting. Your kindness is always greatly appreciated. Much Gratitude! smile

      Many Blessings and Lots of Love!!

  3. Jodah profile image91
    Jodahposted 2 years ago

    This is a wonderful article, Misbah, and many can relate to it I am sure. We all have some situations when we feel we don't fit in.
    Thank you for sharing, Pamela.

    1. Misbah786 profile image84
      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      John, thank you so much for your very kind and generous comment, dear friend. smile

      Yes, there are times in life when we feel like, Nah... We don't fit in here... I believe it is beneficial to change the plan to fit in there and move on.... Isn't life full of opportunities for those who seek them?  smile

      Sending you and your loved ones a lot blessings!!

      1. surovi99 profile image83
        surovi99posted 2 years agoin reply to this

        Your article shows the dilemma of many people who feel that that they dont fit in or belong. It also shows how they can overcome this feeling and feel better about themselves. It is a good way of example for others who suffer this way. You have done an excellent job on the topic.

        Thank you, Pamela, for sharing Misbah's wonderful work.

        1. Misbah786 profile image84
          Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

          I always appreciate your very kind and generous comments, dear Rosina. Pleased to know you liked it. May God continue to bless you abundantly. Ameen! smile

          Take care and stay happy.
          Many Blessings and lots of Love

  4. RozlinMohsin profile image60
    RozlinMohsinposted 2 years ago

    Misbah, I just read your article. It's interesting and helpful too. Thank you for sharing.

    Thank you, Pamela for sharing Misbah's article.

    1. Misbah786 profile image84
      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much for reading and leaving your kind feedback, Rozlin. Glad to know you found it interesting and helpful.
      Take care and stay safe!

      Blessings and Love to you, dear sister smile

  5. billybuc profile image85
    billybucposted 2 years ago

    It's the human condition, isn't it? We are all pack animals. I would venture to guess the large percentage of us try to, or have tried to, fit in. Perhaps it is a sign of personal growth and emotional health when we finally stop trying and just live our lives.

    Blessings to you always

    1. Misbah786 profile image84
      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Mr  Bill, you are so right. I always love to read your wise responses.  It's human nature. Many times, we keep running after things and people that we know aren't just for us. Sometimes we try to squeeze and other times we try to expand in order to fit in the wrong place. It takes time to mature and learn what is best for you. I, too, have worked hard to fit in to situations where I don't belong. . . But I think trial and errors are important. . . Who can get up without falling down? Right smile

      I always appreciate your kindness and support. God bless you always!

      Take care and stay healthy.

      Blessings always!!! smile

  6. MsDora profile image92
    MsDoraposted 2 years ago

    Great article and very helpful. Sometimes we don't know what to do with how we feel. My favorite statement in the article is "Life is about flowing rather than fitting in." Very helpful. Thanks Misbah. Thanks, Pamela.

    1. Misbah786 profile image84
      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      I appreciate your very kind and sweet comment, Ms. Dora. So glad to know you found it helpful. smile Much Gratitude!
      Take care and stay healthy.

      Blessings and Lots of Love to you.

 
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