Cheating

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  1. Naeh816 profile image56
    Naeh816posted 8 years ago

    Why do women want to save a relationship that was interrupted by infidelity?

    1. Greek One profile image74
      Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Because they chose to forgive themselves for not being more attentive to their man??  smile

      1. donotfear profile image87
        donotfearposted 8 years agoin reply to this


        Greek One!!!!  I'm surprised by your statement!  You're insinuating it's the woman's fault her man cheated!!  Bad boy.
        http://i5.photobucket.com/albums/y183/fordonotfear/churchlady.jpg?t=1272383433

        1. Greek One profile image74
          Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          shhhhh.. i am trying to provoke outrage

          1. Origin profile image58
            Originposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            You? Provoke outrage? Naw... your too tender and soft-hearted. big_smile

            1. Greek One profile image74
              Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

              I was soft and tender... but thanks to modern medicine..

              http://www.health-fitness.com.au/images/viagra3.jpg

              1. Origin profile image58
                Originposted 8 years agoin reply to this

                I should have seen that one coming. tongue

                1. Greek One profile image74
                  Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

                  I'm not going to make a comment re "seen that one coming" because this is a family website....

                  and because, like my ex, it would just be too easy

                  1. donotfear profile image87
                    donotfearposted 8 years agoin reply to this


                    You're too much, Greeky!  Now don't take that outta context, you bad boy!

                  2. Origin profile image58
                    Originposted 8 years agoin reply to this

                    Haha, and then I was about to say.. "I walked into that one".. but then again you could have turned that around.. awww...

    2. profile image0
      Poppa Bluesposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      I don't know, but I'd like to give all you women a chance to even the score! Email me for no strings attached sex.

      1. Wendi M profile image78
        Wendi Mposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        LOL!

      2. myownworld profile image77
        myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        you're right... this IS a dating site afterall.... roll

        1. Origin profile image58
          Originposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          It is? Yay! big_smile

        2. profile image0
          Poppa Bluesposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          And bring your machete, the element of danger always adds excitement! smile

      3. mega1 profile image77
        mega1posted 8 years agoin reply to this

        email sex,   that's a new one on me!  how does that work?  is it good for you?

  2. myownworld profile image77
    myownworldposted 8 years ago

    lol.. I like the word 'interrupted'!

    On a serious note, lots of reasons:
    - children!
    - love, despite all.
    - habit...
    - too many 'memories'...
    - lack of courage to break free or live on one's own/ low self esteem at times...
    - societal pressure
    - lack of other options/ financial dependence

    I'm sure there are many others too...since every individual and relationship is different...

    1. Greek One profile image74
      Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      Plus.. just by sleeping with his brother a woman can 'even the score' smile

  3. myownworld profile image77
    myownworldposted 8 years ago

    big_smile oh...the 'solution' requires a whole different list altogether!

    1. Greek One profile image74
      Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      there you go again with your 'chop off his penis' idea again

      1. myownworld profile image77
        myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

        big_smile there you go jumping to conclusions again!
        And was that my idea...or yours? um... slip of the tongue...?

        1. Greek One profile image74
          Greek Oneposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          slip of the tongue is what can get a guy in trouble in the first place!

        2. Obscure Divine profile image54
          Obscure Divineposted 8 years agoin reply to this

          Aren't you the girl who once used a dull machete on a poor guy's ... oh, never mind.  yikes

          1. myownworld profile image77
            myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

            yep, they taught me that at a Taliban camp once: in our culture the man is of course forgiven the affairs... just beheaded for his beliefs! yikes Some crazy people where I come from....

      2. donotfear profile image87
        donotfearposted 8 years agoin reply to this


        lol lol lol

  4. AdeleCosgroveBray profile image94
    AdeleCosgroveBrayposted 8 years ago

    Maybe, sometimes, a person (husband, wife or long-term partner) simply feels there are more important things to their relationship than an occasional fling?

    1. myownworld profile image77
      myownworldposted 8 years agoin reply to this

      yes, it's a lot more complicated than we imagine, isn't it?  I know so many women and men in similar situations.... strangely enough,  more people are 'desperate' to make things work once they've had an affair on the side....

  5. Greek One profile image74
    Greek Oneposted 8 years ago

    I know if the show was on the other foot, i couldn't continue in the relationship...

    Not just because of the cheating, but because of the long distance relationship aspect (since I will be in jail some place after having killed her lover)

  6. Wendi M profile image78
    Wendi Mposted 8 years ago

    Insecurity!

  7. Hokey profile image59
    Hokeyposted 8 years ago

    Ladies just come to Hokey and never worry about cheating again! tongue

    1. donotfear profile image87
      donotfearposted 8 years agoin reply to this


      There you have it!!

  8. Origin profile image58
    Originposted 8 years ago

    Love, and for the hope that the person realizes his/her mistakes and doesn't do it again.

  9. myownworld profile image77
    myownworldposted 8 years ago

    this thread is getting CRAZIER by the moment!!!

    yikes

               roll

                                  big_smile

                                            lol

    (u know that when there are more smileys than words!!)

 
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