What kind of man does a woman really want?

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   Freegoldmanposted 11 years ago

   Suggest 5 things

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      Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Money, looks and humor, maybe in that order

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         Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Ultimately women want love, or I don't think most women know what they want

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            Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Most women want the type of man that does not believe that a woman does not know what she wants.

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            Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I’ll add sovereignty. to finish at 5 things

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      IntimatEvolutionposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      A good man... 
      One who posses patience, sincere kindness, with a strong listening capacity, and the strength to support your decisions despite how others may perceive them.

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   Greek Oneposted 11 years ago

   nude
   horny
   virus-free
   non-relative
   single

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      Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You've missed intelligent and solvent of that list.

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         Greek Oneposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         opps.. sorry.. i misread.. that was a man's list

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            Sneha Sunnyposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            lol

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   Emile Rposted 11 years ago

   That depends on the woman. For me, it's
   
   1. Physical attraction.  It doesn't matter what your qualities, nothing follows if the relationship doesn't have this. I'm not talking good looking, but pheromones.
   
   2. Common interests. I couldn't be with a man I don't enjoy doing things with.
   
   3. Sense of humor. One needs that to put up with me.
   
   4. A good heart. He has to have compassion for humanity.
   
   5. Relatives who live out of town. I really hate having to deal with relatives.

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      Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      More relationship fails over finance than sex
      
      You look at the top romance movies of all time, :Ghost and Pretty Woman
      
      Being dead is not attractive to me, yet looks and money would first get you in the door. After a wail, it will take many acts of kindness, humor and a whole lot of love to keep it together...

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         Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Money doesn't mean much to me. I've seen a lot of miserable rich marriages. But, like I said. What women want depends on the woman

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            Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That is why a said, Ultimately women want love,
            
            In the end, the man standing there, saying to himself
            Gee, I gave her the car, the house and the kids,
            
            When she really wanted was his attention and love. Women have a different point system than men

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               Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

               Gave her stuff? That's one problem with the way guys think. You share, you compromise, you can't just give. That's what gets them in trouble. If you give, give, give; you condition a woman to take, take, take.

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                  Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Yes, men think more with their minds, women think more with their hearts.
                  
                  Rule is, only give a little extra to anyone or everyone, never too much or they will disrespect you in the end.

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   Greek Oneposted 11 years ago

   wealthy
   handsome
   assertive
   confident
   charming

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      mega1posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      and funny!

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         Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         and doesn't leave the toilet seat up!

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            Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            details details details and most often want to change you, first change: change the sheets.

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               Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

               To be honest I don't really want a man at all, just someone who'll pop round and take the trash out for me!

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                  Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Hire a sexy professial handy man, set a price.

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                     Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                     No, I'm not paying- Just like the sound of sexy professional handy man. I'll buy him a beer.

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                        Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                        could be a start

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                  Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  
                  was thinking along the same lines,if I could add changing a tyre and maybe a tune up (car) every once in a while be helpful too.
                  
                  But just in case any man is offended at being thought of 'being used' Im willing to trade chores i.e laundry for lawns, meal for car work etc.

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                     Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                     I'd just buy him a beer, 2 beers for car maintenance and 3 for cleaning the oven! A chore I dislike immensely.

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      Sneha Sunnyposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      And he should be a loyal guy....... One of the most important feature.

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   mega1posted 11 years ago

   oh, and listen  - he should always listen to me!  always!

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      Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Aw yaa, aw yaa, aw yaa works better for men than ignoring them

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      Greek Oneposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      it's hard to listen to your mate when you are making love to their sister at the same time.
      
      Plus, no doubt what they have to say will be negative and somewhat antagonistic

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         Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         OH my God, is that how Christian do it?

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            Greek Oneposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            nah... the sisters were atheists...
            
            they figured since they are going to get screwed in the afterlife, they might as well get screwed in this life too

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         mega1posted 11 years agoin reply to this

         you must take your licks as they land - no holds barred - she will be eloquent, and you must compliment her and truly hear what she has to say! AND listen to her sis too, women love it when you are attentive to their family!

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            Greek Oneposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            trust me, i ALWAYS take the licks where they land

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   classicalgeekposted 11 years ago

   My mother always said that a good husband was like a good used car:
   reliable
   dependable
   doesn't require a lot of expensive or complicated maintenance
   works, and
   just boring enough so that nobody wants to steal him/it.

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      Ivorwenposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Forget boring!  Just put a good anti-theft system on him, namely, your lips.  He'll have a very hard time looking elsewhere while kissing you.
      
      My husband is like a suped up off-roading vehicle.  One would be crazy to steal him 'cause you certainly can't hide him.  And while I find him very dependable, I don't know that he would run well for anyone else -- the tricks of a vehicle you know and love. 

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      Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      And doesn't try to control or change you in any way!

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         Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Changing is more of a woman thing, women are thinking more like men in relating them to a car, that's ok a degree of detachments is healthy
         
         I like the kissing policy, like an apple a day, a kiss or more, I would love to give freely daily

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            Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Changing is more of a woman thing
            
            Is this analysis based on your experiences as a woman in a relationship with a man?

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               Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

               No,
               Man biggest complaint about women is they are always trying to change them, for Women it's not enough attention from men.
               
               Do I look like a women?, aw gee thank you, I also eat nails for breakfast

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                  Hollie Thomasposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  No you do not look like a women, sorry if I have offended you. But men also try to change their partners too.

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      Taleb80posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Really, it is a funny wise opinion.

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   Stump Parrishposted 11 years ago

   Take a good look at me and then imagine the exact opposite. You should be real close to finding out what woman seem to want.

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      Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You forgot already, there is a lid for every pot?

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         Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Not in my house

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            Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I just hope your not in the same Adam's Family way as Creek is.

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   Natashaxoposted 11 years ago

   sense of humor, a man with drive and goals in life, someone who you can trust, and someone who looks out for your best interests

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   Stump Parrishposted 11 years ago

   castle, I understand the analogy but you have to admit that if the handle on the pot's too short, it takes to fun out of cooking

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      Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Aint the size of the boat
      
      Tis the motion on the ocean

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         Castlepalomaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         That's the spirit! That's why women are my spiritual guilds

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    MissEposted 11 years ago

    Someone who knows who he is and is comfortable in his own skin.  I find a great personality, kindness, and a sense of humor can make anyone more attractive if they're genuine.  Patience is a must.  Men with anger management problems are unattractive to me, no matter how much money they have or how aesthetically attractive they are.  I don't think that having nice clothes, hair etc... are as important as just taking care of yourself.  Showering regularly is appreciated by women everywhere!  LOL!!!  My husband is a perfect match for me.  11 years and counting!

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    kmackey32posted 11 years ago

    A honest one....

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    Home Girlposted 11 years ago

    Rich
    Stupid
    Madly in love with her
    Never at home, always working, making more money
    Almost blind

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    mrsvercellinoposted 11 years ago

    i can say that a woman just need a man who is honest .

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    mega1posted 11 years ago

    women may say all kinds of things about what they want in a man, but when you look around you see that there just ain't no accountin for taste!  it's not what we want, apparently, but what we're willing to settle for!

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       Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       Sometimes its all that glitters is not gold either.

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          mega1posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          right on!

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             Home Girlposted 11 years agoin reply to this

             If that glitters we go for it, stupid butterflies!

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    TheQuietRebelposted 11 years ago

    I am the ideal man, now please worship me and feed me grapes.   
    
    I think an ideal guy, from a woman's perspective, would be someone with their own life.  He is someone who has goals and a vision about where he wants to be.  He is not needy because he has already found what he needs within himself, which in turn makes him ooze confidence.  He may also be funny, cute, hot, have a nice ass, and a devilish grin, but all this is just icing on the cake. 
    
    I could be WAY of base here though!  Based my experience, woman are very confusing creatures that might not know what they want from one second to the next

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