I am the ideal man, now please worship me and feed me grapes.
I think an ideal guy, from a woman's perspective, would be someone with their own life. He is someone who has goals and a vision about where he wants to be. He is not needy because he has already found what he needs within himself, which in turn makes him ooze confidence. He may also be funny, cute, hot, have a nice ass, and a devilish grin, but all this is just icing on the cake.
I could be WAY of base here though! Based my experience, woman are very confusing creatures that might not know what they want from one second to the next