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What is the worst quality that you find in people?

  1. taw2012 profile image60
    taw2012posted 6 years ago

    What is the worst quality that you find in people?

  2. FreezeFrame34 profile image76
    FreezeFrame34posted 6 years ago

    The worst quality that I find in people is actually lying.

    I CAN NOT stand liars!

    I was raised in a household where I was always told the truth. My parents didn't sugar coat anything. My mom never made a promise she couldn't keep. I expect that in return.

    I have no patience for people who lie and can't keep promises!

  3. oceansnsunsets profile image88
    oceansnsunsetsposted 6 years ago

    Its a toss up between dishonesty and plain cruelty, which often includes some kind of dishonesty.  When a person is willing to cheat and be dishonest and cruel, that is not something you can work with at all.  You can't reason with such people, and they can ruin completely good situations with their tactics.

  4. tammybarnette profile image60
    tammybarnetteposted 6 years ago

    Closed mindedness, if people are open minded they listen to one another and try to understand and learn and grow.

  5. bmcoll3278 profile image76
    bmcoll3278posted 6 years ago

    pompous self Righteousness the people who are so sure they are Superior to you that they wont discuss an issue , Because your opinion can be backed up and their's can't    Since they can't win the discussion with facts and you can they just act as if you are not bright enough to speak about it.

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      Larry Wallposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I think you found the trait that bothers me the most. I was thinking about stubbornness. But, without question, the pompous know it all has to be at the top of the list. Thanks.

  6. whonunuwho profile image77
    whonunuwhoposted 6 years ago

    The largest flaw in human relations is that of putting on a false face or deception in order to make personal gains. This lack of quality in some individuals, such as in the political arena, is perhaps the most despicable human trait and even though most folks recognize it for what it is, they somehow seem to accept it as the norm, rather than the exception.The next most disturbing lack of values in human kind at times is that of some who deliberately do misdeeds, as with adultery and other sexual atrocities, and still are accepted by their peers and the public as a whole, as heroes and admired for what they have done. Thank goodness there are just as many admirable qualities in human kind, such as respecting others, kindness, compassion, and genuine caring for fellow human beings. These are the heart felt qualities of life and what makes it all worth living, after all. In the long run, this positive force of goodness, opposes all the evil done and in human history, and is, perhaps,the saving grace for us all.God is a forgiving Father.

    1. bmcoll3278 profile image76
      bmcoll3278posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Poly  latin for many Tics a blood sucking bug.  Politics.

  7. Jaggedfrost profile image79
    Jaggedfrostposted 6 years ago

    The only qualities that I dislike in others are usually the ones that bug me the most about myself. I am honest enough to say that the distorted mirror of someone who is not me doing what I would do but in a way that I cant justify leaves me the most cold.

    1. bmcoll3278 profile image76
      bmcoll3278posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Good show. I would agree I often get mad at my sons then on reflection realize im angry because I see in them what I dislike in my self.

    2. CR Rookwood profile image83
      CR Rookwoodposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Exactly what I was going to say! Thanks. smile

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    erickcbposted 6 years ago

    Heartlessness. Having no empathy or sympathy for others is the reason we all suffer. People need to reach out more.

  9. edhan profile image60
    edhanposted 6 years ago

    Two-headed snake.

    Upfront, the people pretend to be good to you.

    Behind your back, talk bad about you and spread rumors.

    This is what had happened to my daughter in school when she treats her classmates well and teach them. In the end, they turn against her and said bad things even though it was never true.

  10. phillippeengel profile image78
    phillippeengelposted 6 years ago

    The worst quality would be being too self-centered. I abhor these kind of people because they will only be thinking of themselves and disregard their relatives, friends and even parents. This also entail dishonesty, disrespect and superciliousness. People who have this quality are not fit to be leaders.

  11. OneFineG467 profile image59
    OneFineG467posted 6 years ago

    People who barge into other people space and wreck their life as if they have rights to do so..

  12. MilesArmbruster profile image60
    MilesArmbrusterposted 6 years ago

    Arrogant self righteousness. Because these people think that they are better than everyone else, they tend to have the following qualities.
    1) Judgmentailsm - The are free to condemn others because they feel they are superior. When you think you are better than everyone else, bigotry, condescension, and prejudice are not far behind.
    2) Insensitivity - Because they think that everyone should be able to be like them, they have no sense of kindness or sympathy when people fail. When insensitivity turns active, it becomes cruelty. They are SELF-righteous, they have a standard in their own mind that they have met. As a result, everyone who isn't as perfect as they are is a loser. (And I think that using the word loser is a nice way of putting it.)
    3) Nasty speech - Arrogant people don't listen to others and don't care about them. Remember that the base principle of arrogant self-righteousness, is that if you were like me, you wouldn't be such a loser. This gives the arrogant person the mental freedom to lie, gossip, and make up their own truth. They will say anything to make sure that their public image is always perfect.
    4) Uncaring - Arrogant people ultimately live only for themselves and they don't care about anyone else. It is interesting that self-righteous people are more concerned about blame and punishment than about the fact that frankly, people are weak and make mistakes. A self-righteous person can't comprehend what to do about someone who is weak.
    And, so that I will not condemn myself as arrogant and self-righteous, yes, I admit, some very specific people come to mind when I ponder this question. And since they are arrogant and self-righteous, obviously, I am better than they are. Oops! For the record, I pray for these people regularly, and I pray that I will be humble.

  13. suzanno profile image74
    suzannoposted 6 years ago

    backstabbing ,
    you trust someone with your whole heart ......the person listens to you like they totally cares and finally they stab without us even knowing what really happened...

  14. YvetteParker profile image75
    YvetteParkerposted 6 years ago

    Deception is at the very top of my list of the very worst quality in people. I believe it's because so many other undesirable qualities are manifested from deception.

  15. Eric Prado profile image75
    Eric Pradoposted 6 years ago

    The worst quality I find in people is ignorance. A infectious quality that spreads faster than any disease known to man.

  16. smzclark profile image59
    smzclarkposted 6 years ago

    There is nothing more frustrating than a people who JUDGE. People who can't look beyond appearance~ who use nothing more than their eyes to see a person...who take other people's word about a person before getting to know him/her themselves...

    1. bmcoll3278 profile image76
      bmcoll3278posted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I Judge your comment as being very good LOL  You hit it on the head an open mind is a must to get along.

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    oceansiderposted 5 years ago

    I find it very difficult to get along with people who are downright arrogant. I think that is the worst quality anyone can have.

  18. Darrell Roberts profile image71
    Darrell Robertsposted 5 years ago

    Cruelty is the worst humanity as far as I see.  Cruelty implies that a person has intentions to harm others.  I could understand harming some one by accident or in some kind of mental break down.  I cannot understand plotting to harm others. 
    I could deal with Arrogant, Greedy, lusty, dishonest, ignorant people, but if a person is truly a cruel person, I would want nothing to do with them.

    Best wishes.