How many possible lovers have you turned away?

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   Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years ago

   I would have to say around 50. I'm not bragging on these Forums, some people just have more luck.

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      do you mean AFTER having sex with them?
      
      just about all lol

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Greek,
         
         No! I meant you turned them away so t didn't  happen.

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            Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            well, you have to define "possible lovers"
            
            When I was young, any woman i talked to was a possible lover as long and they didnt slap me in the face

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               Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Greek,
               
               If I have to explain ......................................

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                  Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  can I count myownworld in my total?
                  
                  She said 'hi' to me once

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                     myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     ......

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                     Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Greek,
                     
                     One of us is slow. I mean they made themselves available to you, like coming to your place in a rain coat. If I need to explain further ..................

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      SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I have no idea.. I am pretty dense sometimes and usually don't know I am getting hit on until my friends ask me why I blew so and so off.. lol.

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Summer,
         
         Workon your wiles.

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            SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            do you have a few pointers?

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      donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Do you mean before or after marriage?

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         Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         DNF,
         
         What about during? Before , unless you want to tell everyone about your adventures.

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   Poppa Bluesposted 14 years ago

   I never say no to love!

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Poppa,
      
      You know I didn't necessarily mean love.

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   myownworldposted 14 years ago

   hmm...now that's a tough one!

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      Greek Oneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      was the one really that tough?
      
      ;P

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         myownworldposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      MOW,
      
      You don't have to say anything, I wouldn't want you to be uncomfortable.

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   frogdroppingposted 14 years ago

   Not a one. I'm uglier than a babboon with toothache

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      SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      frog.. will you make love to me?

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         Art 4 Lifeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I turned one down, last year...it was not something that happens often to  me....
         he flirted, threw casual compliments, fed me candy from his saddlebag, as we rode up the mountain, and told me that it had been along time since he had been attracted to another woman since his Mary died....
         it had been a long time since anyone had noticed me... I've been married forever, and as you all know, compliments are few and far between when you have been married to the same person you're entire life...but this was wrong, and I knew it, but it...made my heart beat a little faster, and made me feel a little better inside.....
         he was an old cowboy, slightly grizzled face...he fit the saddle well, a little too well...and slightly reminded me of an old western movie I had seen once....where the good guy comes in riding on a pale horse....ummm...it was interesting...but, of course I had to turn it down...but, I can still dream.

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            Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Art,
            
            Don't let anyone fool you, we all fantasize.  I'm married 32 years and in a wheelchair. That doesn't stop the ladies.

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         Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I would almost pay to see that....

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            SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            haha.. I bet. Frog turned me down

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               Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Hey Summer,
               
               Just in case, you didn't know?
               
               Here is Frogdropping -
               
               
               
               Frogdropping is a very smart, talented and wonderful lady.

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                  Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  So the Frog is really a pretty lady.

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                  SummerStewardposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  she's is lovely! I am sure she has turned many a suitor down!

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      Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah right? Not even close Frog.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Frog,
      
      Honesty is good!

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   Cagsilposted 14 years ago

   As for answering the post. I've turned away about 5-10, however, it was based on respect other than anything else.

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      Art 4 Lifeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      well, it was a first for me....like I said, no one flirts with me...I am not a pretty person, I'm old, ....but it was fun, while it lasted...

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   Arthur Fontesposted 14 years ago

   Do you mean refuse to participate In relations with the person or simply the act of turning them first?

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Art, I'll bet you understand.

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   Justine76posted 14 years ago

   none that I know of.

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Justine,
      
      Then most guys want to meet you.

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   Ivorwenposted 14 years ago

   All but one. 

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   luvpassionposted 14 years ago

   Counting road crews and construction workders?
   
   
   Teri

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      Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      luv,
      
      Nah, they would hit on road kill.

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    Nell Roseposted 14 years ago

    I turned one away the other night, for two reasons, one being that an ex of mine was there, and I wanted him back! and second, the man who asked me out looked like shrek!

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Nell,
       
       Sounds like a good move.

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    mega1posted 14 years ago

    many many many  and some I didn't even realize I was turning down at the time -

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       mega,
       
       Why don't I doubt that!

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    prettydarkhorseposted 14 years ago

    maybe 20 plus, they just want me for sex, but I dont like only sex I want loving!

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       K Partinposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I Maita! Smart woman!!

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          prettydarkhorseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Hi K, hmmm not so smart, little bit hehe, how are you!

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       pretty,
       
       They all want you for sex, some want more. I guess I should have said something like; as a singer they would line up after the act. Better would be meeting, and they go to the bathroom. When they come back they hand you their panties and say; I'm much better without them, I''ll show you.

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    Rafiniposted 14 years ago

    Possible lovers?  None, honey. 
    
    Those I turned down when I was young only wanted sex.  Those I slept with before I was married were for my practice! Those I turned down after I was married were out of luck Those I turned down after I divorced - well, lets just say by then I had learned what I was really after.
    
    so, seriously?  i don't know  lol

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I'll bet they do.

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    Falsor Wingposted 14 years ago

    Big. Fat. Zero. There has never been anyone to turn away.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Falsor,
       
       There will be.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    Three.

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       sneak,
       
       That's more than two!

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    christal2010posted 14 years ago

    I turned away moe than 20 lovers

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       cristal,
       
       It's usuallywomen that turn away more, I think that's obvious.

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    Glenn S.posted 14 years ago

    I can't really say, I was pretty drunk at the time. hee hee

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Glenn,
       
       If you were barfing, it was probably zero.

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          Glenn S.posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Could be, Could Be

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    Beth100posted 14 years ago

    Why would you like to know Harvey?

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       Harvey Stelmanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Beth,
       
       I just wanted to see how many people would tell, or just comment, you did!

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