why pay for sex
really?
you are equating any woman in a relationship with a hooker?
first of all, not all women play those headgames - "buy me this and i will send you into the stratosphere"
a loving relationship is built around trust and mutual give and take. why are men not described as prostituting themselves when they do things for women?
greeneyes, i haven't 'backed down' from my opinion. i do think the idea of some beefy bald sweaty old stranger grunting all over me after i performed whatever ministrations to his nether regions that he bought and paid for is personally repugnant. i just don't judge those people for doing it. if that's what floats their boat, whatever. i don't call women who agree with it lowlifes, so they better not call me a prude.
I know a lot of handsome latin guys that once in a while pay for sex. And they're on their late 30s or 40s.
As I said, if you want to pay, where's the problem?As per usual the only ones with the problem are those completely unaffected by it.
It's easy to look down from a high tower and condemn.
LOL I was wondering what happened to "beauty from within" motto - or is it applicable only to ugly women?
But to be frank MrVoodoo, Prometheus sort of prompted an angry response with his sweeping statement LOL. I am surprised nobody else chimed in on this yetLOL, you make a good point Misha, guess the old 'beauty is on the inside' argument doesn't apply to balding sex fiends.
As for Prometheus, he may have prompted an angry response, but he can't alter the nature of another's heart with a couple of lines of text.
Omg that is disgusting! I had no idea it would be so high. That is so sad.
Yes why?
Not that I ever did, but I never say never
Because gettin' it for free isn't workin' out??
*shrugs*
Never done it. I dunno.
Because you get what you pay for?Exactly!! I honestly don't know why males get the reputation for being so sex-centered where women seem to be perceived as more frigid. The people with the highest sex drives I know, by far, are all women...and it's not just me
. Even in a committed relationship there's bound to be a mismatch in sex drive, and if there's a HUGE difference in drive there's temptation to buy...and many significant others don't have a problem with it, because it keeps their higher-sex-drive partners out of the arms of someone that might try to keep him/her.
In another time and place (that is, one in which I didn't have a significant other) I wouldn't put it past myself to be a seller, and if more males were in the profession who knows...I could very well be a buyer! Granted, that's much more likely if it were legal so that one would have the benefit of being able to see certificates of health and what-not, but still. My SO and I recently had a discussion about this...my personality means I'd do much better as a madame than a worker, but morality aside it's a commodity that's in demand and who is to look down on the buyers and sellers of said commodities? Why is it okay to spend $20-$50 on a dildo or a battery-powered vagina but not on a real person? As someone said, "If you're going to spend $100 and an entire evening on dinner anyway, why not cut to the chase and just give her the cash?"Shhhhh, don't tell anyone...I guess it's a good thing I was born female, that kind of tackiness seems to be seen as an attribute to most males because they don't have to try to be Romeo or Fabio or something...poor guys, they have so much more pressure to be all romantic and what-not
- lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago
0It's all about power, control and the game. Ultimately the fun for some
Sorry, never paid cash for sex.
But, I've been taken to the cleaners by some of my ex's, but I guess that's another story in and of itself. Paid sex existed loooooong before CAPITILISM
Coming from your upbringing, you get hairy palms and go completely blind from DIY, so paid sex looks like a bit more viable alternative
- lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago0
I paid. Twice
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
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- lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago0
Oh, giggity.
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Hey! I call 'em the way I see 'em.
well also it's fun being the boss when you pay
not that I have before or anything
:Um, no, sure, I follow you.
- lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago0
goodnight leader of men
Good night, there Milady.
hmmmmm, that's true, never thought of that. Maybe I could get an apprentice Asian?
Now you're talking!
why not??? ppl judge all the time... i said its gross that is MY opinion.. i deal with nonbelievers who are just as judgemntal and im still alive and the stars still shine.... so im sure yall will get over it
after all it is my opinion why should my opinion matte to you
no thank u i read enough when i suddenly realised how gross it was... had enough of the comments its merely gross to even think of just had to make my point like everyone else does
I'm still waiting for a hub from her.
- Denno66posted 14 years ago0
Okay, take care.
Are you a natural blonde?
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
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- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
oh ok. sorry ralwus. i was all 'wtf?' haha
thanks Misha.
anyway, i watch this show called Cathouse sometimes. they are all smiles going 'oh our clients are doctors and lawyers' as if to dignify what they do because they don't just do it with average men
the owner of the house has sex with all of his staff. they all say they want to. um, right. i imagine some feel obligated to or it's out the door for them.
they have hidden cameras in the rooms and it's pretty explicit and i don't know even if i adored sex i don't think i could turn it on and off like that. they say they don't have to do antthing or anyone if they don't want to. let's face it, they have to be productive and part of any job is doing something you don't necessarily want to to. i would rather my unwanted task for the day be filing and collating, not, well, you know.
but i don't judge anyone for being a prostitute or for seeking one. i just have my own feelings about it. if i disagree it doesn't mean i am judging anyone who agrees with it. to each his own.
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
I would not touch her with yours Misha.
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
I smell a marine with a big dog
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
why thank you!!
compliment accepted
im not being angry and negative... why am i being attacked now havent u seen what others wrote about me?? i think pointing fingers is irrelevant in these pages..
once again this thread does not allow for tone of voice.. so take my words as you willkool we in the same boat then as far as humanity goes...nice to meet you
- cosetteposted 14 years ago0
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
im also just trying to lighten the load in here.. ppl get sooo serious in these forums.. gosh tantrum even knows how iam!! although it is hard to tell when im serious
hah!
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
HAH!! ill get to it when i feel like writing i guess... i have to be in the mood for it im not a magician who can just pull em out of u know where and write em on here... but trust me ill get to it when I feel like it
Goodness, this thread has exploded since yesterday
. I just got done catching myself up...reading...and I'm glad to see that a couple of other people have pointed out that STDs really have no idea whether you're paying for it or not, they'll spread regardless . There's definitely a distinct advantage to legal prostitution, though, in that it offers much more by way of transparency and protection than in areas where it's illegal. I'm certainly not an expert, but have been told that in places like Nevada there are more options for health care coverage for the "working professional" and most cat houses insist on a clean bill of health before someone can work there. If I were in the market, that would certainly make me feel a lot better than picking up some 15-year-old that sneaked out in the middle of the night to raise some money for entertainments and what-not.
Now...what's that about all the ladies thinking it's gross? Or are the rest of us females just not ladylike enough for the term?- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
I just knew the religious (or self righteous) would one day curse every thread here! It's FINALLY happened!!Internet connection dying, dying, dead.
- come back when you can. Ive got to move my computer to the kitchen soon. wii sucks...
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
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