How Do Ugly Guys Get Gorgeous Girlfriends?

They turn on the Charm and become Smooth Operators.... saying all the right sweet nothings and if they're loaded, well.... all the Gorgeous girls would be falling at their feet.

Also if an Average looking Guy (don't like to use Ugly) has any of the traits listed below, he will definitely "pull" as we say in the UK.

1) has a very nice dress sense.

2) Smells lovely. (nice perfume/aftershave)

3) Wikid sense of Humour

4) Caring and sensitive

5) Good Body

etc. etc. for Some Gorgeous G/f's this makes up for him looking Average.

Finally, there are some ladies who don't look on the outward appearance. They look at the person inside and fall in love. Can't believe I've written so much, maybe I should write a Hub. lol.

In my humble opinion, the way to turn anyone's head is the same no matter how you look.

Confidence is a large attractor. That is the main reason so-called "Lookers" get the people they are attracted to at a glance, because they have confidence.

Now, don't mistake a cock-sure and vanity for confidence. Real confidence doesn't brag.

After that, a good sense of humor will win almost every time.

If you're just looking for someone who looks good, you need to readjust your priorities. In my humble opinion.

Sincerely,

-Calliope Jones

Ugly guys are not full of themselves, don't turn all the conversations to them, and spend every available minute trying to be the centre of attention. Therefore, they have the time to dote on the gorgeous girls and give them the attention that they crave, and their ugly mug doesn't detract from the girl's beauty. Also, people will admire the gorgeous girl for not being shallow and only going after a guy for his looks. The gorgeous girls wins every time in these situations.

ngureco,

first thing to remember is beauty is only skin deep. A gorgeous girl could turn out to be cornflakes on the inside.

what you are probably looking for is the whole picture, which one can only find through self discovery, self worth and self respect. "you attract what you've become" start there and then look around.

All the best,

KStyle

It may be because women aren't always as concerned about appearances as many men are. It may also be that there is more help (make-up, hair, clothes, etc.) for women with average looks to "turn themselves" into women who appear "gorgeous". As a result, it could appear that there are more very attractive women than men; and a lot of women who look "gorgeous" may really just have good make-up, hair, and clothes.

My guess is that Pretty women are use to dating good looking men, probably because its more of a stereotype to see two good looking people together, but when you actually meet someone thats got a great personality and you just go crazy for them , you dont mind what they look like. And guys that arent gorgeous to look at usually have better communication skills than good looking guys , because theyve had good looks their whole life, that they dont try any harder than they have to.

Hmmm.......if I honestly answer this one "women" definitely wont be happy, so I'll leave it alone. All I can say is, go figure, it's a "woman" at work!

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My husband asks me this from time to time. He's good looking, but he doesn't think so, he's mostly bald. However, I still get hit on. (which I hate)

Anyway, I told him he got me because he was nice to me. We girls are not made the same way as you guys. We look for a guy who we can belong to. And we want to know that after we belong to him that he will take good care of us. We gals sell ourselves short so much of the time. Sexy is a bait that can get a man quick because of how men are made up, but if you want a man who will care for you, use a better bait. You won't get every fish, but you will get a good one if you dress down and relax. If you are a guy, go after a gal who is just being herself. Most often she is not aware of her looks, and she will be very attracted to you if you show her you are interested in her as a person and not as a sex toy.

This is a shocking facts that handsome guys can be beaten by ugly guys or average looking guy. There are several factors girl like these type of man because this man inner value is not based on looks but rather their social communication.

This type of guys usually learned how to please women using the art of sentences or seduction through giving a warm, pleasant, fatherly smile. The sincere type that knocks the heart of the girl and would let a girl know that she is safe!

If you see that the plus point of these guys that they can dressed totally nice and trendy and it creates a uniqueness as the girl will see that these guys care enough about themselves.

This indicate that a guy who can take care of themselves can take of their girls pretty well

I m ugly and women like me cause I provide security to the relationship.

They play a numbers game that works because it is governed by the law of inevitability

For more of an explaination on how this works, see my hub: Finding Real Love Finally.

There is one thing about an unattractive mate which I find very enticing. And it is simply security.

When you date an attractive man who is so dreamy he makes you melt, you will find yourself comparing yourself, thinking perhaps you aren't good enough and he thinks you are the "not so attractive one". You are forced to maintain perfection so as to compete, you tell yourself. But with a man who looks at you like an angel whether you have makeup or not, there is a calm comfort there.

And although you may find you are missing out genetically, or your girlfriends wont be awe struck by some stud you bring to reunion. You know you have someone to worship you.

Now perhaps to some this is silly, and simply being the center of attention in the household isn't enough to some, but there is another side that some may overlook.

We have all heard the expression, "They were so pretty, until they opened their mouth.." and I am here to tell you, looks aren't everything. Often men with amazing looks, are so conceded, and they expect to be spoiled so much, that they become quite ugly to us.. to a gorgeous woman, they are the ones, that want to be spoiled.

Lets just say, two pretties, can be pretty ugly.

Gorgeous women like to be taken care of and appreciated, and sometimes, ugly guys are just more worth it!

And often times, they are the ones with real personality anyway, because they didn't have a hunky face to hide their demons behind.