Do you want cabin Girl to Stay, on Hubpages and Forums

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   candice5posted 15 years ago

   I say yes please just add yours.
   This may make the Admin see what members want.

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   BrianFanslauposted 15 years ago

   Yes

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   lrohnerposted 15 years ago

   Definitely yes.

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   Dale Mazurekposted 15 years ago

   yes

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   tksenseiposted 15 years ago

   If he wants to leave, he wants to leave. Why the drama?

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      Ladybird33posted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Because we like him and he adds character to this place...he doesn't want to leave it's about principle and doing the right thing and fighting for what you believe in.

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         Ron Montgomeryposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         A fake alter ego?

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            Ladybird33posted 15 years agoin reply to this

            Yeh, why not? Being creative, is that so weird?  Alter ego's we all have them one way or another...

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               Ron Montgomeryposted 15 years agoin reply to this

               I'm fine with alter ego's but maybe there are more pressing matters to protest?

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                  Ultimate Hubberposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                  Ron you should give some space to people with split personality disorder.

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                     candice5posted 15 years agoin reply to this

                     He hasn't got this disorder this Forum is about do people want them both or No. The yeses are winning by a Mile.

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                  Ladybird33posted 15 years agoin reply to this

                  I agree, I am sure their are more pressing matters to protest, but I hope my friends will help me during my pressing times when I am protesting something that I believe in...

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                     tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                     Protesting is all right if you know how to do it. All this drama and tantrums ( ) don't lead anywhere

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         tksenseiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         If he's putting on the makeup and making a big drama over something like this then he WANTS to leave. His choice it seems.

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      Kmadhavposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I agree.....

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   Ladybird33posted 15 years ago

   Yes, most definitely

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   mommyfreelancerposted 15 years ago

   Hi! Sorry, just saw this? What's happening? What's the background story??? - confused mommyfreelancer

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   Ladybird33posted 15 years ago

   Tantrum, Agreed! But you gotta love a healthly debate Get's your blood pumping and to others that debated with me...loved it and thank you, it was fun and I like hearing all sides of opinions...keeps your mind open to what others see.

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      tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I don't think this is healthy at all.  Is pathetic .

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         Colebabieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         So don't comment

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            tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

            I'm entitled to comment as much as you

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               Colebabieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

               Sure. But why waste your time if you don't care?

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                  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                    I care for myself, and i'm having fun here, with this soap opera. Don't attack me is a waste of time, for I don't care

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         Ladybird33posted 15 years agoin reply to this

         
         
         ohhh..come on...it can be fun

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   Colebabieposted 15 years ago

   I want her to stay. I don't know why she was banned. Maybe that could be explained? Even to her?

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      tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         An intelligent thing to do , is create another alter ego and continue from there. This is all very childish

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      fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Notice how you're the only one calling Cabingirl a her? Most people think she's a he, you know posing as a hot exotic kinky chick that's hiding out in a cabin somewhere. I mean, how real is that? I dont buy into stuff like that, but I've read hubs from CG and they're quite good.

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         Colebabieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

         Alter ego was a she. So I say "she"

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      beautyroseposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      I don't know this issue. She was banned in hubpages? or her google adsense was banned? was this about her commentary on badcompany and fortunerep?
      
      Is she a woman or a man gush I'm confused.

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         candice5posted 15 years agoin reply to this

         There were some closed threads and a Goodbye Hub written, by a Hubber.
         Cabin Girls page tells all

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    kmackey32posted 15 years ago

    i do, i do.

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       candice5posted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Knew I could count on you as a yes. Where have ya been.

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    mommyfreelancerposted 15 years ago

    Yoohoo... where can I find the background story for cabingirl's..eviction???
    Thank you to the one who will answer this.

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       tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       you should ask B C . would like 2 help u but i really donno

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       fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Look for Cabingirl's avatar in any thread, then click on her posts. There you can look for where she supposedly fouled up.

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    Mishaposted 15 years ago

    Hey, I have no idea what happened, but I like her. Can we put her on probation at least?

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    Randy Godwinposted 15 years ago

    Sure, I would like CG to stay because of the principled stand.  It is funny how some people can be so jealous of an alter ego though.

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    gamergirlposted 15 years ago

    If the staff saw fit to ban badcompany's alter ego from the forums, maybe that says something - it's not every day a frequent poster is banned, and that tells me that whatever that alternate account had been used to post was something far and beyond what would have caused disciplinary action.

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       SirDentposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       I agree. Management here are very fairminded with everyone.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years ago

    Badcompany99 himself has already been banned once after forum outbursts and the Hubpages staff gave him another chance after he emailed them. So I think he should remember their fairness with him. According to him they haven't banned CabinGirl from writing hubs or commenting on hubs. Just appearing in the forum. And of course he can still particpate as BadCompany99.
    
    Let's not forget we're talking about one person.

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       candice5posted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Just a yes or no I want this to be simple. I care not for the whys nor wherefores, I think most people enjoy these two.

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    Mighty Momposted 15 years ago

    I don't want to see either Cabin Girl or BadCompany go away. But somehow I don't think Admin will count up the posts on this thread and read it as some sort of "petition" to keep CG in the FOrums....

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    Lady_Eposted 15 years ago

    Well, I was upset to find out Badcompany wanted to leave due to Cabin Girl being banned and found out later in his thread that he is actually Cabin Girl. (2 different HP Accounts).
    
    So.....  well.... I'm quite happy if either of them stays.

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    Bredaviesposted 15 years ago

    badcompany and cabingirl are the same guy?
    
    well badcompany is great!

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    candice5posted 15 years ago

    Tantrum, Ron we hear you you and the Husky or is it a Samoyed.
    It is not unhealthy to Debate, it is unhealthy to supress opinions, and this guy has never really pretended Cabin Girl is not him. So I think it is just Fun. harmless fun, people need to realise they do not need to Comment, on any Forum they find displeases them. I only wanted Votes, to see how everyone thought.

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       Pearldiverposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Abuse is abuse... When the 'look the other way' argument is promoted here as Not Participating in the forum: The person promoting that stance is in my veiw no better than the abuser, if it is made as a reason to accept or put up with, the abuser.
       
       Personal Attacking and Slagging off of a person is not a "FUN" Thing. It is ABUSE. When that action is a manipulated one via the use of a secondary identity... then in my veiw; it indicates a hell of alot clear intent on the part of the abuser!
       
       In a similar way; using a secondary party to mark down the hub values of others who don't agree with the original party.. is also element of manipulative abuse. 
       
       I don't agree with any form of abuse from anyone with whom I share an association with (HP or otherwise).
       
       Perhaps in parts of this community... the common stance is to endorse the presence of abuse?
       
       If you're a writer of any substance; you should be able to select the right words to get a message across; without being directly or indirectly Abusive.
       
       Don't forget... each member in varios degrees contributes to the success of HP. That may be worth considering during the period it takes to create a physical income here. I'm not that sure that secondary identities contribute.. Are You?

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          candice5posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Yes in an perfect World, everyone would get on, and no one would be nasty, and I think we would all die of boredom, I have tried to get the Message accross to everyone out there, that if you feel abused walk away.
          Secondary entities obviously do not normally write Hubs, but this one does, it is a very surreal situation, but it can be argued that we are in Cyber land and anything goes, including a whole pile of Posts just saying Hello with a wad of Bags spammed at us. (I refer to the Squidward saga.) It isn't real we shouldn't believe that it is. We should pick out the bits we like and ignore that which we do not.  I will end with Kia Kaha Kia Manawa

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             Panda Manposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             Then I have to ask. Why have I been banned for not being 18? I write not bad (if not good) hubs too. What's with being 18 anyway? You think an 18 year old can be mature, and those below 18 cannot?
             
             I may not be over 18, I might fool around from time to time, perhaps most of the time, I might not be an American, I might not be a theist, but I am who I am, I think, therefore, I know, I see, I understand, I speak. That does not differ me at all from fellow hubbers. From my interaction with a few people on this site, they find it astounded when they know my exact age. I just don't see the reason. But whatever, seemingly you cannot reopen closed accounts anyways.

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                fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                i didnt find it amusing. You were very immature playing games all the time. Dead giveaway, kid.

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                beautyroseposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                Panda why not mind your study and take a career in writing dont be hurry growing old you still have your time.
                
                Panda even if you don't tell your real age it is seen the way you interact still a boy with so much to learn.

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             Pearldiverposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             Interesting But a well missed point.
             Don't get me wrong; There is a lot of fun that can be derived from kicking the butt of any abuser.. as opposed to walking away. As far as dying of boredom is concerned.. Sadly, some have a 'Small' Span of Attention and are forever seeking to be entertained... albeit with a fantasy!!   Thanks for Kiwi.

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    Pearldiverposted 15 years ago

    Got to admit... Good tracking skills CJ

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    Eaglekiwiposted 15 years ago

    Candice I dont doubt your good intentions, however my opinion is split pardon the pun.
    
    For one who has been here 2 short weeks , its good to see you confidently ( you sure you havent been here in another lifetime)? expressing yourself, as older members no doubt will too.
    
    1/ There are other alto ego's on Hubpages ie multiple account holders ,who use that function for Im assuming anonymity, or I guess in BC's case 'for fun'
    But in both scenerios they all sign up to obey the rules.
    Nobdoy likes rules and I think a couple of them suck too.
    Life huh.
    
    
    2/ Personally I find it difficult to respond to two separate identities when I know  they are the same person.I relate well to all kinds of moods ,opinions ,styles etc so if either personality leaves, all those attributes that BC felt comfortable using via CG will always be around.
    I know in the past I added this person to my fan list and later discovered they were already there just under another identity.
    
    Gosh call me practical or old fashioned I dunno. Just be yourself.
    
    Where does it end , like Sybill, 16 personalities. Farrrkkk,!!! that be just one hub filling out the 'join here'
    
    
    I feel irked at times with favortism shown on HP to certain members ,but thats just my opinion at the end of the day, the site is not mine , so I dont get to make the rules.
    
    So take the advice someone gave  me months ago.
    
    When life throws you a lemon
    
    Either complain about the taste OR
    
    Make Lemonade

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       fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Is that a Lemon in a your avatar as well ?

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          Eaglekiwiposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Close enough , its a Lime
          Want some Limeade
          I make alot these days phat girls round the outside

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             fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             you know what it is, mami

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             fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             you know what it is, mami And is that you in the pic as well?

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    Jodi Hoekselposted 15 years ago

    I most definitely think Cabin Girl should stay and have the ban from forums lifted! Badco is very talented and adds great entertainment here. He has an awesome and creative personality. A true friend!! It seems there has been a lot of changes and losses of loved and talented people here and it would be a shame to lose BAdco and Cabin Girl. I feel alter-ego's are good to have in the cyper-world. Understandably there has also been much more disheartening drama than laughter lately, with many hubbers involved, so I feel it is greatly unjustified to single out Cabin Girl to ban from the forums.
    
    **Love and light**  Badco & Cabin Girl
    
    You FRIEND, Jodi

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    Zsuzsy Beeposted 15 years ago

    What melodrama again...For crying out loud how boring...
    If one alter ego leaves another one will pop up anyway. So whats the big deal? Only a big waste of time on postings...
    
    As far as that goes why have alter egos to start with? If you can't be brave enough to say it as yourself then don't bother to say it at all...just my opinion
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    Lisa HWposted 15 years ago

    Zsuzsy Bee,                   I agree.  I'm sorry...   This whole thing is cracking me up.

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       Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       I think that this is the right attitude. Sorry Candice whatever not a yes or no. like most others.

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    blondepoetposted 15 years ago

    I think from what I heard from BC this was the thread that did it
    http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/18447

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       Mrvoodooposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       After reading that thread I'm surprised they all weren't banned (permanently).

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          blondepoetposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          It was a very hurtful thread I am surprised it stayed open as long as it did

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             Ivorwenposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             It took place late Saturday night, US time, otherwise I am sure it would not have gone on so long.

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             Mrvoodooposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             That's an understatement, it was INSANE, I couldn't believe I was reading half of what I was reading. 

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                Amanda Severnposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                Jeepers! I just looked at it myself. The head honchos at Hubpages should do us all a favour and delete it.

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       Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Good idea to post that thread, so people can have the full picture.

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          blondepoetposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Yes Nellie I think so. I read somewhere here that BC had said that was the one that banned CG.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years ago

    If they delete it, then the record is deleted and we don't know the truth about how Badcompany (aka CabinGirl) really acted. We would not know how to judge his comments in other threads claiming he was treated unfairly.

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       Amanda Severnposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Very true Nelle, though I guess it will be archived in due course anyway, and it will all be water under the bridge.

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    Lisa HWposted 15 years ago

    I couldn't believe it went on so long either.  On top of it, the make-believe character is the only "one" banned, and that's only from the forums (if I understand correctly).  So all the "principle-of-the-thing" talk is about not wanting the fake character to be "censored" (penalized for essentially implying a threat to another Hubber, among other things).
    
    A lot of people on here are BC's friends and understand his particular version of a bad day.  Still, this "principle-of-the-thing" thing is no "Rosa Parks moment", by any means.  None of it's my business, but the whole thing was kind of disturbing.  (Then again, it seems to me at one point someone insulted the make-believe character, and that made things get even worse.  You can't help but see a little humor in that.     )

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    Pearldiverposted 15 years ago

    There really is a problem here.. It's more than merely a weekly slagging session.. And that's the sad aspect. 
    
    It is Not OK to do this BS.. it doesn't matter how drunk, stoned or unbalanced.. Abuse is Abuse.  some professional help & an anger management course required here I think.

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years ago

    I can't find the thread where he was banned the first time and then reinstated. It will support Pearldiver's assertion that this is really a regular thing with him.
    
    But his hubber score is a 97 and going up. Mine is an 88 and dropping, so the hubpages community has voted. And I should just shut up and get back to making money.

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    badcompany99posted 15 years ago

    Ok guys I have been reading all this and I totally agree that night was beyond even me. I am not proud of that and I regret it which is why I personally gave an apology to Fortunerep the next day. But you only saw that post, you did not see why I reacted like a silly kid and to be honest I have forgotten it.
    
    I agree with all of you, Nellie, Pearldriver, Voodoo that my behaviour was totally over the top. But I cant change it but I can say it won't happen again. Do you honestly think I like reading back on that crap, I dont, it makes me  both feel a total child and a total fool.
    
    I am not the only one here that is a little crazy, jeez just check out the Religious Forums but yes I do go off on one and talk a load of BS and yes PearlDriver there is no excuse for it, I can only look back on it with total regret and my head hung in shame !

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       Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       I hope for your sake you mean it this time. You are very talented and creative and seem to have a decent side to you.

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          badcompany99posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          I actually do have a decent side and I do mean it, I intend to delete the Cabin Girl account because to be honest it does defeat the whole purpose of my writing. In all honesty I only introduced Cabin Girl because I didnt want it to be known I enjoyed writing Poetry but then I used the alter-ego for winding people up.
          
          It was daft and from here on in there is just myself writing from now on, Cabin Girl is no more. Anyways you have my word Nelle and if I have another Crazy moment you have my promise I personally will delete my account !

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             manlypoetrymanposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             C'mon with it BC...Bring the "Manly" Poetry...Let's tear down that Bullschlitz malt liquor...starting right now! Men go do the Poetry Thing...and it damn sure don't mean they are light in the loafers. Matter of fact...Men can bring it...in the Poetry dept. and leave the frilly, fluffy, wah-wah stuff...standing on its' head. Bring the "Manly" Poetry...BC! Kick some serious Poem Aspirins!

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             fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             Yeah, using Cabingirl to talk dirty to the men was quite a disgusting, if not a dumb thing to do. One of the reasons I hate flirting in here. You never know who's really a dude. Yurk! Now that being said, we all make mistakes, and I still think you're a cool enough guy....without the weird alter-egos, that is.

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       Pearldiverposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       BC.. No lecture required; but you fill a role here as a 'Senior Hubber' in the eyes of many.  You have a talent for good works and humour, so why open your mouth to change feet?
       
       Shame is irrelevant... it can only be a response to a negative event.  If that negative event is as a result of anger; then simply ditch the anger; before all the positive things about you; are consumed by it man!
       
       You KNOW This!

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          badcompany99posted 15 years agoin reply to this

          I know Pearldiver and I guess I do open my mouth too much. Just reading all this topic today made me realise a lot of things about myself and actually made me feel bad. I am going to make a big effort to ditch it, I actually owe you an apology to, you are actually an ok guy, I thank you !

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             Pearldiverposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             Yeah I am BC: and I deeply understand both sides of the equation. I speak and write from the heart.... time you found yours Mr BC.

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          Eric Graudinsposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Ditto.
          Thanks Pearldiver - Saved me writing something similar.
          Hope you're listening BadCo.

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             badcompany99posted 15 years agoin reply to this

             I am Eric !

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    tksenseiposted 15 years ago

    LOL!

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    goodfriendiamposted 15 years ago

    Yes!!! I believe most writers have different dimensions of there personality, and a lot of them write with there alter ego(s). I think it is cool way to express yourself, and I am even jealous, because I had thought of doing that, but changed my mind. So yes I hope she stays

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    badcompany99posted 15 years ago

    Lol you got it my friend !

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    Nelle Hoxieposted 15 years ago

    My husband writes poetry all the time. And he is very much a man's man.

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       badcompany99posted 15 years agoin reply to this

       No I am ok now writing Poetry as BadCo after I saw the ones CG wrote got a good response. I have always enjoyed poetry throughout school, look I am sorry guys I have been a real ass, I can only say I will change as today I seen myself in a different light, and not a good one !

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    Lisa HWposted 15 years ago

    BC, I know this hasn't been a laughing matter; but I do hope you can see a little bit of humor in it somewhere.  After all, think of all the people who very much wanted both you AND Cabin Girl to stay around.  The world is full of poetry written by men.  Tomorrow is another day.

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    SweetiePieposted 15 years ago

    Badcompany,
    
    I sent you a message.  Just wanted to let you know .

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    Candie Vposted 15 years ago

    You know how I feel already about this whole thing.. It's time to unify.  You have a poet's heart and someday they too will unify!! LOL!!
    
    Be well!

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    badcompany99posted 15 years ago

    Thanks you guys, and as far as I am concerned the whole episode is history. Candie unify it is

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