Come Back Brenda Scully
- ryankettposted 14 years ago
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- ryankettposted 14 years ago0
It was, he admitted it later on. In fact, he admitted it just half an hour before Brenda told him that people were getting fed up with him. The sucking up to BadCo that then proceeded, and the critiscm of Brenda's justified comments, were probably what have driven Brenda away. And I cant blame her to be honest.
I just hope that she has a second login somewhere, from which she is making lots of adsense money.... and doesnt use for the forum
I don't understand why she would quit over that. I mean, stop coming into the forum, but you don't have to delete your entire account. Anyway, I have fanned two less people. (if that makes sense
)Uh-oh, I missed on the drama.
But did not Brenda try to help him professionally? That was my impression, and if it is so, she's unlikely to quit. Why did you decide she did?Have you read the first link? Follow the thread from the start (you dont need to go too deep) and look for any posts from a poster called 'HealthTips'.... otherwise known as BadCo
Brenda Scully has quit. Her account is deleted completely, there is no way back for her account, and it was within hours of this falling out. I personally cannot see any other explanation; she has obviously taken this badly.
No, you can't seriously expect me to read 24 pages
But I see your point. Well, Brenda definitely is a nice person, but people come and go for various reasons. It's like birth and death, you know.Looks like the most offensive bits have been snipped anyway, but Im sure you get the point
- ralwusposted 14 years ago0
well, I've been gone for the last 5 days, so I don't know the drama, but the short couple months I've been here, I don't really see why anyone gets so emotionally tied with another poster. I know bonds are formed for various reasons, but all the same, we do not know the real person behind the words, the avatars, the drama... if someone wants to come back, he or she will, to beg them seems rather childish.
the way I see it, anyone who is a jerk online is a worse jerk in real life. let people be.
Brenda don't leave. I'd miss you so.
What the? Argh! *bangs head against the wall*
I was writing last night, so I missed the show. Had I seen it, I would have been inclined to have responded to that thread differently.
I didn't badger Brenda or Cole ... nor would I ... as I saw the thread simply as another should I stay or should I go thing and I voiced my honest opinion ... stay if you want Badco and use aliases if you like.
However, I didn't see the argument that precipitated it all and feel like a bit of an arse for adding two sense to it all.
Those who know me on the forums know I don't attack others, nor do I care to see others doing it. I hate to see talented people on the brink of leaving, but in the case of Badco, perhaps he is inspired by the same madness that took Mozart. By that, I mean that his genius leads to boredom, which is often followed by acts he regrets later.
I due truly think he feels awful later for what has been done (thus, the 'I'm leaving' threads, but the far better cure is to consider how others will perceive your thoughts before unleashing them on a forum ... and this advice is for all ... not for just one.
Personally, I get a bit perturbed when somebody places the one ahead of the many, allowing one person to push them away when there are so many that want them around (I speak of the Badcos, the Brenda Scullys, and the Goldentoads).
We're all equal members of this community, not leaders, each with as much right to be here as the other. As such, we can't take the animosity of one as a sign to leave when we have so many others wanting us to stay. How does that serve those who chose to fan you and those that read your hubs?
Are we here for ourselves? Because if we are, then there is no need for forums, as forums are about unity and being part of a big family ... and being part of a big family does mean there will be sibling rivalries (some will be ugly).
Still ... That's why you ignore the ogre and interact with those who are decent ... allowing the ogre to be carried off and spanked for a bit.
So for those others planning to leave over animosities in the forums ... don't ... allow the system to weed out the ogres and give them a ripe thumping. That's the better plan of action, as leaving only punishes those who stayed behind and liked you.
I didn't know much about Brenda, but I did see her kind, warm, and generous, and it ticks me off to see one less person like this on the forums.
And Cole ... doncha think about following her ... If the ogres come after ya, come get me ... we'll knock them off the bridge together.The good Lord gave me one shoulder for crying on ... I haven't figured out the purpose of the other yet, though I suppose I'll reserve the other for myself.
Ack! K-l-e-e-n-e-x ... repeat after me ... K-l-e-e-n-e-x ...
Ya gets a slap from the angry sea bass for even suggesting my shoulder be used to treat the snuffles.
Haha. I'm not leaving. Don't worry. A few people have said things to me here. But I really don't know any of you, so while I love to hear your opinions, negative personal ones really don't matter.
but cole baby, i love you, that matters right?
he know he has friends!! brenda will be ok too. i get all this, but really...i did have to leave once nothing to do with hp at all, and as nice as a big forum thread makes you feel, if you mean it email them.
I tend to be a peace lover, though I can get rankled into a brawl if the cause is for the better of many.
He-he. My penis is bigger. Did you have a hub written just to bash you? Called something like "Mark and Misha are condescending vaginas"? I did
I don't think so, but i never looked. I can't care less !
I want a Hub written about me! Something with vagina in the title is cool, as long as its classy
Ah, those were the good old days. When even the insults and flames had a bit of style!
cheers, Eric G.What really Misha, LOL, I would love to have read that
Firstly, Brenda is not weak. We don't know why she left and what she felt. It could be disappointment, or maybe she thinks she should find a more suitable place for her.
Then, consider that we should probably impose some restrictions on those who attack others rather then just allowing them to do according to their nature. That's why hp bans such people.
We as human beings can't help but care for those that we like and anyone who attacks them will get us angry.
Even if anger is an acid that...
- cosetteposted 14 years ago0
ok i read a little just now...i think you became collateral damage
it's too bad that if people speak up for a friend or someone they like it's assumed they are aligned with them in some way and therefore "against" the other person. i think for the most part everyone here is a decent talented person so hopefully it will blow over soon.
- rednckwmnposted 14 years ago0
LOL Actually it was quite angry. It's long gone of course, but the whole Hubpages had some fun reading it for sure
Ryan, it's nice of you to speak on behalf of Brenda and "call her back". I suspect it will mean a lot to her, considering how much she has expressed fond regards for you and admiration of your work.
Brenda (if you see this), what about that multi-author poem Hub you were going to edit and post? I, too, was sorry to see that you seem to have deleted your account.You are going to be in trouble with Fiery finds out...
You've never lost my respect captain, but I do wonder why - when you make a gaff - you post a thread asking if you should stay or go, when you should post a message saying you messed up and you're deeply sorry.
I know your character, and I noted as much when I said in my response that you appear genuinely upset later when these things happen. However, your response is to devalue yourself and threaten withdrawel rather than to accept your human, ya want a step too far to the left, and apologies mean more than your absense at that point.
The fact that you handled this behind the scenes is all good, as again, it proves that you have a good character that wants to get along. However, everyone else saw a tiff, someone wanting to leave, and nothing saying 'I wasn't myself and I admit it' (until now).
So ... my advice good captain ... the next time you want to post 'should I leave or should I go', don't ... Just post what went wrong, why it upset you, and ask 'can we all get along again'. You'd be surprised to find the answer will probably be 'yes', as deep down you are a good soul ... quite possibly a bit of a silly irishman (and if you are not from Ireland, I apologize in advance - I guessed from your posts), but the fact is you are 'OUR' silly irishman, and we would care not to think of you leaving every other day.
So, settle down, relax, and have fun, eh?I never posted a thread saying I was going, the post was should I keep both Alter Egos. I am from Belfast but yeah I am Irish and I wud never leave, I love writing way too much. I guess I am just full of BS, still I like to think I am a good soul. And yes FD, am off back to work now, jeeeez bossy Frog !!
I will take up Yoga okRegardless ... you're OUR silly irishman ... and I'd have you here before many others ... whether it be one ego, two egos, or forty ... so long as none of your egos is mine, as then there would be two of us writing endlessly long forum posts ... boring the whole lot of everyone here.
*in the voice of yoda* hhmmmmmm yoga you will do, bendy you will be
you're right, Ryan.
i should have refrained from commenting since i didn't have all of the facts...my apologies.
hey, the sun just came out! that's a good omen
Come on guys - shit happens. Maddie Ruud must feel like a school headmistress at times.
BC knows what he's done - he's been an ass. Brenda has left but she's tougher than she looks. BC is capable of cleaning his own crap up and Brenda is capable of making informed decisions.
Public whipping posts were never any good at pouring oil on troubled waters.
The forum is a place to interact - not a public boxing ring.
Bugger off and write. That's the point of Hubpages afterallYou are always the voice of reason frogdropping
I learned from one or two V.O.R. masters ... such as your good self UW
You are talking sense, Helen.
I quite like Ryans way. And you're right about his knowledge etc. Sometimes I think he ends in conflict with people because he's similar Mark Knowles ... he backs his mouth up (as it were) and makes people uncomfortable. He's challenging and direct. I like to see that in a person.
Liam Bean's another. Stands his corner without spitting his dummy out.
Anyway - go on now ... get writing You especially Helen
Brenda
Put it all behind you and come back. I know you will - when the dust settles anyway. You'll rise above it.
Miss yah!One of the last things that Brenda did before pulling out was to visit one of my hubs and left a message:
"It's nice when you feel Safe."
I wasn't aware of the drama that was going on; so what she said made my wonder what was on her mind.
Clearly, the altercation really upset her.It just seems to be an unusual thing to say on a hub about Intuition.
Be well BrendaLook you lot, naff off now. Leave this alone - go write Hubs. Earn some money. Google, Hp and you will love your efforts.
Brenda is a great personality (hint: I don't know her for real) and I think enough blame game has been played for one day. The bits I picked up from Brenda is that she's no push over. She held her own with fiery - and has had the decency to devote the time to nurturing poetic abilities around the site.
Time to stop surmising and assuming. She has her reasons - respect them.
Now get back to work. Surely some of you are in the office?!mmmmm..... but she could be?
I still havent worked out whose alter-ego you are FD, just kidding
Can we just clear this up, I am not Brenda, I am however.
BadCo
PirateGirl
Redneckman
Healthtip
Wildlifelover.
I will write under 4 of them, btw if you are reading TK cheers for the fan as WildlifeloverOnly one of those logins has been a dickhead, so BadCo.... you are only one fifth dickhead. Which is no more dickhead than me
If you can call hubs about hamster cages writing then yes I am, I am filling my account with shit hubs like that to try and get to my 30 in 30...... and then I am taking a break. I've lost the spark, so when I get back after a break..... I want to see a George Best hub
The Bestie hub didn't make me one penny mate, in future it's humor with profit. Moi next hub twil be about my purchase of my massaging chair, now you can put yer imagination into how that's gonna turn out
I know that your Bestie hub didnt make you any money, you dont need to tell me that, I have about 30 footy hubs and only one made me over 50p. But I have started a series which I must finish now, and Im not enjoying it at all any more! As for serial killers..... they dont make any money either, except one, which scarily earns me quite a bit for no reason whatsoever! Education...... thats where I make my money. Course, qualifications, degrees..... need to get some of those bashed out
No amount of 'drama' in the forums can overshadow the fact that badco writes AMAZING hubs....and I hope we'll soon get to read more of his stuff. Who cares what avatar you use, as long as quality writing keeps coming through! let's all focus on what really counts here....
I think it's time we all let this go...You flatter me young lady, but another hub will be published tomorrow night, I have decided to mix humour with niche paying keywords. But will it work, ya never know
Oh Bad co....you'll always have my loyalty...! (hell, relationships shouldn't hang by a word here, but unfortunately they do!) yes...write....and once in a while, let the pirate meet us for a drink... u know all these men are just jealous of him!
omg...! no one seems to know anyone here anymore....!
our whole 'hub existence' is being questioned now...!
- xx
- yes, we'll starve..but atleast, we'll have love!!
Myownworld please don't put thoughts into my head, the kiss was bad enough for my wicked mind. Catch you later hotstuff xx
- ryankettposted 14 years ago0
Mate we were always going to be ok again, but just because I like you doesn't mean that I have to condone all of your actions. If I do something silly, I would want you to say something too.... Im sure it will happen again soon, so I await your ticking off
Make sure you let me know how your hubs get on, and drop me an email some time.... I will talk to you a little more about what is working for me adsense wise when you are in that kind of mood, not that I think you need me too.... you know damn well how to make money on here. - Crazdwriterposted 14 years ago0
after that one, right?
you say your done, but its so much fun!!!
I have been done soooo many times, glutton for pain I suppose. How are ya?
- Naul Pewmanposted 14 years ago0
Come back, Brenda! Don't mess with our heads.
What a load of bollocks, seen it a hundred times.
(note to self) 'Avoid the HP forums at all costs'.
'it's nice when you feel safe'Hey DM, long time no see, how you doing? I've been lifting furniture all day and am sore all over, lol.
No, I don't have it, never really spoke to her, but she seemed a nice sort, bit dippy, but in a nice way.
p.s. I nearly had a heart attack when BC said he was also Redneckman, for a minute I thought it said redneckwmn, lol.
No it's over and YOU don't even know it
In fact, it doesn't sound like you know much at all, but that doesn't matter because you don't "take sides" or anything, its just that I have to go to a different forum because I have upset BadCo? Your saying that you don't think I should be allowed to enter the Hubber's Hangout? Very impartial that Deborah. But I wouldn't like to accuse you of "taking sides". I guess I am just not "artsy" enough to act like a dick? No its not a deal, it couldnt be any further from a deal, I dont bargain my rights to communicate.
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