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   Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months ago

   This has been a really tough time, but your kindness definitely helps me.
   
   I've been running nonstop every day.  Finally getting a few things accomplished.
   
   Alot yet to do with Ron's will, but I'm getting there.
   
   I'll be back full force when I can.

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      ChitrangadaSharanposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Hello Brenda!
      Good to hear from you. Take your time, and I just wish that things become easier for you. More strength and lots of good wishes for you.
      Take care and come back, when you are comfortable.

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         Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

         Chitrangada...
         Thank you so much.
         
         I'm hoping the days ahead start getting easier.
         
         I miss reading everyone's work.

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      surovi99posted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Yes, we understand you are having a tough time setting up all things. Glad to know you got a few things accomplished. Go slow and steady. You will make it. We believe in you.
      
      Sending you blessings, hugs and miracle prayers your way. May God bless you.

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         Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

         Thank you Rosina...
         The hugs & blessings are appreciated.
         Those miracle prayers are working.
         
         I believe things are starting to get on track.
         
         Take care & keep writing.

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      SerenityHaloposted 12 months agoin reply to this

      Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Hoping for peace during this difficult time.

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         Brenda Arledgeposted 12 months agoin reply to this

         Andrea...
         Thank you so much!

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   Gianella Labradorposted 13 months ago

   Be praying that may everything you have to do be settled soon and things will eventually get better. Take your time Brenda. Prioritize first what should be done and what matters. We'll be waiting patiently when you can already come back and when that happens we can welcome you again with our warm hugs and blessings for you. May God give you all the strength to conquer all these tough times.
   
   Stay safe Brenda. Keep an eye close to your health too. Will continue to pray for you.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Thanks Gianella...
      I'm beginning to start looking after my health again..
      There gave been many days I've went without eating far too long...but I'm starting to do better.
      I know God has this handled...so I just need to trust in his will.
      
      I look forward to coming back, but I don't want to start & then stop again.
      
      See ya all soon.

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   Jodahposted 13 months ago

   Our thoughts are with you as you deal with this difficult time, Brenda. Take your time, and we will see you back here when you are ready.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      John...
      Knowing that everyone is sending me good wishes & keeping me in their thoughts is what keeps me going.
      I thought I could handle anything...but this requires a bit more than I knew.
      
      I will get there..maybe spens sone time reading & catching up.

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   ravirajan01posted 13 months ago

   Take care Brenda.I pray for you that you would come out of this difficukt time at the earliest.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Ravi...it's good to see you are back
      
      I look forward to coming back soon.
      Thanks for those prayers.

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   Misbah786posted 13 months ago

   Bredz, just take proper care of yourself. We are keeping you in our prayers and thoughts. God bless you and keep you safe. Remember that there is a light at the end of every tunnel, and that every night transforms into a day. I understand this is a difficult time for you, but it will pass as well. I know Ron will never return and his memories will make you weep, but please try to find happiness in his memories and be happy while remembering that your separation will not last forever; one day you will be reunited and nothing will harm you. Continue to be brave and strong. I pray that God give you all the strength you need to fulfill Ron's wish.
   
   Sending you healing hugs and lots of love.
   
   Blessings and Peace

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Awe Misbah..Thank you.
      
      I can hear Ron saying...brenda you need to just relax.
      
      I know God is in control and everything will work out.
      
      It's a different road I'm traveling..but those memories keep me going.
      
      The baby monitor goes off everynight which makes me think Ron is trying to tell me something...who knows, but my cats seem to see things I don't.
      
      Oh well...one day at a time.  Progress is being made.
      
      Maybe not all of his wishes..but mostly everything.

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   Pamela99posted 13 months ago

   I think of you every day Brenda. I know this is a tough time. I have been where you are, and there is much to be done when you lose a loved one. You are surely missed, and we all understand why you can not be here right now.
   
   Many of us will continue to pray for you. I hope your father is doing well also. Take care dear Brenda.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Pamela
      Thank you. 
      Dad is doing well.
      
      Stubborn...but good.  He's been driving when he wasn't supposed too.
      
      Ron & I thought we had everything almost done, but there was a lot we didn't get finished.
      
      I have paid a lawyer to help handle things...so I'm hoping my days will get better.

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   Abby Slutskyposted 13 months ago

   Best thoughts. We are thinking of you.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much Abby.
      
      Take care

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   annartposted 13 months ago

   Just like to add that I'm thinking of you too, Brenda.  Many here are hoping to see you back writing whenever you're ready.  Only you can decide when that will be.
   Wishing you well. Take care.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Ann
      I have managed to write a couple of pieces, but time limits me from posting just yet.
      
      Writing is a part of me...so I'll be back.
      
      Can't wait yo see what everyone has been working on.

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   Peggy Wposted 13 months ago

   As you can tell from the already-made comments, you are in many people's thoughts and prayers.  Take your time, Brenda, and take care!

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 13 months agoin reply to this

      Peggy...
      Believe me...all those thoughts are helping me.
      
      Thank you

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    MsDoraposted 13 months ago

    Brenda, I could tell that your heart is here on HP. I miss you too and pray for your comfort and peace of mind. Dealing with loss gets easier with time. One day at a time, you'll make it through. Take care.

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       Brenda Arledgeposted 12 months agoin reply to this

       Thanks Ms. Dora
       
       I'll be glad when I get to the point of one day at a time where I can relax.
       
       I definitely miss writing & reading everyone's work.
       
       See you soon.

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    Miebakagh57posted 12 months ago

    You're trying your best. But take things easy.

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       Brenda Arledgeposted 12 months agoin reply to this

       Miebakagh...
       Thank you.
       
       One day at a time, but at least I think I can log on every now & then to say hello.

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          Miebakagh57posted 12 months agoin reply to this

          Pamela, you're welcome.

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    jansharesposted 12 months ago

    Hi Brenda,
    Sending you hugs as you get through and return to your community.

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       Brenda Arledgeposted 12 months agoin reply to this

       Thank you Jan.
       I appreciate your kindness.
       
       I will return full force as soon as possible.

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    Pamela99posted 12 months ago

    am glad you know how much you are missed Brenda. You are still in my prayers.

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       Brenda Arledgeposted 12 months agoin reply to this

       Thank you so much Pamela...
       I still need them.

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    abwilliamsposted 12 months ago

    I am so sorry Brenda! I am praying for you to have peace of mind. Hugs!

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       Brenda Arledgeposted 12 months agoin reply to this

       Thanks A.B.  ~ I appreciate your kind words.

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