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   Mishaposted 16 years ago

   Can anybody tell me what this comment is supposed to mean?

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   SunSevenposted 16 years ago

   Any directions?!

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   Mark Knowlesposted 16 years ago

   

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   Mishaposted 16 years ago

   http://hubpages.com/hub/Should-Polygamy … ent=269801
   
   LOL forgot the link...

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   SunSevenposted 16 years ago

   OMG this is really funny!

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   Mishaposted 16 years ago

   I thought people might like it

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   SunSevenposted 16 years ago

   I did!

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   Mark Knowlesposted 16 years ago

   So, how many wives exactly do you have Misha?
   
   I have always thought the best number would be three. That way they would spend more time arguing amongst themselves.

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      Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

      Two. The former one and the later one

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         SunSevenposted 16 years agoin reply to this

         Hmmmmmmmmm! ! !

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   Abhinayaposted 16 years ago

   How come you came in? I liked it too.

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    SunSevenposted 16 years ago

    Hey Misha,  Off Topic - I think HP news letter should include the most active people at the forums too. What do you think? Mark are you there?!

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       Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       IDK SunSeven. It probably will feel good though

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          SunSevenposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Thought so too.

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    Stacie Naczelnikposted 16 years ago

    Misha, is this wife getting out of hand?  You should be more gentle with your wives.

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       Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       I'll try Stacie

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    Mark Knowlesposted 16 years ago

    LOL
    
    I love a good argument. And if I'm honest, since I started making a living on the 'net, I am bored to tears. I have no one to talk to all day long At least, not in person.

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       SunSevenposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       So sad Mark. I heard French men are the best! LOL

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    Mark Knowlesposted 16 years ago

    Actually, I am English. (Which is even better) I just live in France.

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       SunSevenposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Aha! I am coming up with a hub on false beards! LOL

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    funrideposted 16 years ago

    When I was younger I also wanted more than one. Know that I have one I suppose that´s enough, perhaps too much .
    
    I just wonder what Misha have said about that hub .

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       Abhinayaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Funride what is that supposed to mean? May be your wife will have something to say on this.

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          funrideposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Shhhhhh... don´t write it so loud , she´s near and I don´t want her to listen .
          
          I was joking but it´s true that now since I have got two women at home (wife and daughter) I really don´t want more. There are already enough babes arguing each other in my house .
          
          In the other hand it´s also true that there is at least 6 or 7 women for each man ...

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       Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       I just said I think polygamy should be legalized - and I think I said it nicely There was another comment from Jenny which also disappeared And link to discussion of the topic on Mixx: http://www.mixx.com/stories/220785/poly … o_colorado

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          SunSevenposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Ha! I knew that you were mixing it up LOL!

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    SunSevenposted 16 years ago

    Perhaps in the line of' 'How to wear a false beard' or 'How to make a false beard'? !! ROTFL
    
    PS: Don't cry Mark

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    Mishaposted 16 years ago

    LOL She removed this comment finally

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    There were no weird comments on my hub.  I was just cleaning it up.  The comments you made on my hub were not exactly nice yesterday.  Misha, I think you could have talked to me about this directly rather than making fun of me on the forum.  You have hurt my feelings several times.  After showing my comments to a friend she suggested I delete all the comments from yesterday as it appeared you just were trying to argue with me.  If you do not agree with me I suggest you write your own article about why polygamy should be legalized   Also, I am not being defensive, but I feel picking on someone just to get a laugh is not cool.  I read two books on the subject and I had lots of good information to offer on the topic.  Another lady I work with also read extensively on the subject before I wrote my hub. We discussed the topic at length and I really thought out this hub. Making fun of someone for deleting comments they choose to delete is not cool.  Everyone else seemed to have made constructive comments on the hub up until yesterday.  I just do not make it a practice to go to peoples hubs and poke fun.  You really hurt peoples feelings and it is not nice.

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       Stacie Naczelnikposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       This is true.  The way I originally saw it, the comment was completely random.  Now that I know there were other comments, it does seem to really be making fun of you.
       
       SweetiePie - I enjoyed your hub.
       
       
       
       
       Misha write a hub?  That would be shocking.

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          Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          LOL Stacie, and I thought for a moment our recent tendency to agree went beyond just dislike of spammers

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             Mark Knowlesposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             Misha - seventy five bucks. That seems to be the going rate
             
             I never delete comments that disagree with what I have written. Which is quite a lot LOL
             
             But, if sweetie pie wants to delete them.......
             
             And if Misha wants to make fun of that......

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       Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Sweetie Pie,
       
       If you feel a need to delete all comments that do not agree to your case, it just shows how weak your case is.
       
       And again, I think I was nice, I just stated my disagreement with your premise without any offense or personal attacks. If you want to prove this was not the case, you have to approve my comments back
       
       Jenny is one of the nicest persons on these forums, and she was nice this time, too - but you disabled her comment anyway - because she did not agree to you.
       
       It is definitely your right to control comments on your hubs - but then this is my right to point out that the leftover of your clean-up looked funny.
       
       I definitely could talk to you directly and privately - but I did not feel like that after you deleted my comments publicly without telling me a word in private. I think you can understand why

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          SweetiePieposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          That is fine.  However, in the future please do not post my link on the forums for your amusement.

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    Thank you Stacie.  I appreciate constructive comments on the hub, but the ones yesterday were deleted because it was just getting out of hand.

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    What does seventy-five dollars have to do with this?  Now this is getting confusing.

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       Mark Knowlesposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Some one is offering to write hubs for people for $75.
       
       Which I think is funny all on it's own
       
       You are quite entitled to delete your negative comments, but I find that counterproductive myself. I prefer to make my point and accept that some will disagree.
       
       Stacie - not going to underbid you   I would never do that to a fellow hubber

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          Stacie Naczelnikposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          

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             Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             LOL I have a cheaper source for text anyway, and pics I think I can do myself
             
             If seriously - we can ask Jenny to write a hub on this, she will do it thousand times better than me conveying pretty much the same message I would

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                Mark Knowlesposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                Nah - You need a man's point of view for this one.
                
                And think of the photos

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                   Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                   ROFL

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                   Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                   Here is an interesting view from a woman http://hubpages.com/hub/LUSTANDLOVE Not exactly on polygamy, but close...

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          Whitney05posted 16 years agoin reply to this

          I think $75 is just to set it up. There's another fee to actually have the hub written from my understanding.
          
          Also, I agree that everyone is entitiled to delete negative comments, but what's the point to delete comments that are opposite of your opinion. I've had many of my own deleted about a particular topic just because they were against the hubber's views, even though I did pose a good arguement with real data and stories.
          
          I think by letting all comments through whether for or against your opinions, you let readers create their own opinions. The only comments I delete are the nasty rude comments and the duplicate comments where people post the exact same question twice.

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             Mark Knowlesposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             Really? - Holy crap. No offense to anyone, but I haven't seen many hubs I would pay $75 for let alone more for (my own included) But then - I am a writer, not an internet marketer
             
             I agree with you on the comments. I delete the spam, but it's crazy to think yours is the only point of view. Plus - I like a good argument.

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                Whitney05posted 16 years agoin reply to this

                I believe that one particular hubber charges $75 set-up fee and a $90 fee to "hire" her for a "good" hub that only takes her about 30 minutes to complete with title, tags, pictures, and content. Now, that's a steal. Ha
                
                I think arguments can be healthy if all parties go at it unbiased and with an open mind. Many of the arguments on HP though go at it from a "I'm right not matter what you say" point of view, which is how many comments get deleted especially when they actually prove a point against the hubber's views.
                
                No offense to Sweetie Pie because I didn't get a chance to read any of the deleted comments, so I don't know how that were worded or why exactly they were deleted. That's just my view from personal experiences.

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    Stacie Naczelnikposted 16 years ago

    To each his or her own, right?
    
    Mark, I'll beat you by offering $70.
    
    SweetiePie - it is a reference to another thread.  It isn't making fun of you.

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    I did not think Mark was, I was just curious what the seventy-five dollars was about.  Thanks for clearing that up Stacie.

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    WeddingConsultantposted 16 years ago

    Sweetie pie, thread is found here:
    
    http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/4404

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    Thanks WeddingConsultant

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    These are good points and I did try to get the comments back, and now they are gone and I cannot get them back.  However, my friend suggested I do this last night as she thought the comments in question were not conducive to the discussion on the hub.  If I do not agree with someone I always find one or two good points about their hub instead of just disagree.  It shows I read the hub and thought about what they had to say.

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    Mark Knowlesposted 16 years ago

    I predict another deleted account. 10/9/8/7......

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    Mishaposted 16 years ago

    LOL - talking about photos

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    Jykeith Comalposted 16 years ago

    At one point I had so many....Now "there can only be one" LOL. That woman is going to kill me for posting that hub about cheating LOL...I must be getting old

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    firetownposted 16 years ago

    I'be been cheated on before so I kinda feel like it's good to be with just one and make the best out of it. Seriously, you can talk your girl into having a 3 some with her friend or whatever, and she may do it for you, but after that your relationship with her will never be the same.

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    MrMarmaladeposted 16 years ago

    There are a couple of times when I post the same comment twice.
    The fingers do not do exactly what the brain tells them do. A bit like some hubbers.
    It does annoy me that the Originators of the hub,
    wants to check it out first. Who are thesae almighty hubbers.?
    I also like to get my spelling correct and become frustrated when this is denied to me.

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    Inspirepubposted 16 years ago

    Satori's explanation of the difference between polygamy and polyamory disappeared, too.
    
    My comment was not even controversial - I said the issue was the abuse, not the number of wives, and that's where law enforcement should be focusing.
    
    It looks like this particular Hubber is not open to anyone deviating even a tiny bit from her chosen line of argument when making comments - just deletes any comment that doesn't totally agree with her 100%.
    
    Well, people have a right to do that, of course, but they lose my respect - and my willingness to participate in comment discussions on their Hubs - when they do.
    
    It is far better in my book to respond to comments you disagree with than to delete them.
    
    But hey, if people want to use HP as a propaganda platform, it's a free cybercountry.
    
    Jenny

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    MrMarmaladeposted 16 years ago

    Have not read much of the hub, but agree with Jenny.
    You can post what you like surely we can disagree.

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    SweetiePieposted 16 years ago

    Can we please close this discussion here?  I did try to get the comments back, but they would not come back.  I am open to other discussions, but the way it was worded it came across as only criticizing.  Also, originally for someone to make fun of me in the forum was not fun.  I am sensitive and it hurt my feelings, and I would never would make someone in a forum.  There is no point and it is not good for a sense of community.  It was very disrespectful to make fun of someone in a forum and it shows people need to consider others feelings.  As I said before people can email me privately about this matter if they want to discuss it.  So if you can all please stop and think about it for a second this entire thing hurt my feelings.  I am open to anyone making another comment if they want since several people got so mad about the issue, but please no more bringing this up.  Please close it here.  I would never question someone if they deleted my comments, I am shocked people are bringing this up again and again.
    
    One more thing, Satori's explanation is still there.  I know I am a nice and open person, but I do not have to defend myself in this forum.  However, as I said before the comments were not positive towards my hub and good friend suggested I delete them.  She saw how upset I was about the issue and she pointed out that they were not conducive to the hub.  I think maybe this has gone to far at this point.  Any further questions about this issue can be addressed in an email to me as I am human with feelings, not someone that wishes to be belittled in the forum.  Another suggestion is for someone to write a hub about how polygamy should be legalized in western countries if they feel that their argument is so much stronger than mine.

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       Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       I was going to refrain from posting here, but you keep adding and adding to your last post.
       
       I just want to inform you that other people here - surprise! - have feelings, too. And this was yours first abuse of other people feelings. It was very disrespectful to delete comments of people who tried to discuss the topic with you.
       
       Also, it IS very disrespectful to repeat that comments were "only criticizing" when you cannot prove it. It hurts feeling of the people who made those comments. And hurts feelings of people who read those comments when they were available and know comments were insightful.
       
       However, nobody got mad about the issue except for yourself. Get over it. This is a public forum, and people are free to have opinions different from yours. And people are free to bring up any topic they feel like discussing. And to discuss this topic in any form they think viable, public or private, as long as this form does not break the rules of the forums.

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          lady luckposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          You know, like YOU should talk about respecting people. HA. Who are you to play principle of the hub forums? Get off it.

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       Stacie Naczelnikposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       Yes.  The best way to do this is to stop posting in this thread.
       
       Every hubber has the right to do with their comments what they want - and SweetiePie chose to do what she wants, so there is no need to discuss it further (even if some don't agree with handling comments that way).
       
       SweetiePie, my advice is just to drop it.  Misha likes to always be right (most of us know that by now ), but probably will let it go if we all just move on.  Let's let this thread die. 
       
       P.S. I think you guys mean "principal" not "principle."

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          SweetiePieposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Staci you are also right.  Thanks for the advice.

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             Mishaposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             Can't you just listen to Stacie's advice and stop posting? If you really want this thread to die?
             
             Stacie, I think she secretly enjoys publicity

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                lady luckposted 16 years agoin reply to this

                I hope youre not suggesting that I enjoy the publicity. Your little facetious comments might not cause such a  commotion if you elaborated on what you're talking about and not have passive aggressive little INSIDE jokes with people on the forums just to try to prove that you have a little army behind you.

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    Mishaposted 16 years ago

    I don't "play principle". I'm just having fun

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    Whitney05posted 16 years ago

    Sweetie Pie, it is you option to delete whichever comments you'd like, so just keep that in mind. But, also remember by allowing a comment box to appear, you can expect that you'll get 1) comments in agreeance, 2) comments in complete non-agreeance, and 3) spam. You just have to decide which to show.
    
    As, I've mentioned before I accept all except those that are derrogatory or spam, even if they are negative to my hub and disagree with it. Now, if the comments said something like "you hub sucks. you're an idiot. you can't write." etc... Then I'd delete that, but if it said 'this is why I think you're wrong,' then I'd leave that one just as long as it didn't continue with anything derrogatory and mean. See the difference in what is actually negative to the hub and the hub's content?
    
    Again, I have NO clue what the comments said. Just trying to be helpful.

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       SweetiePieposted 16 years agoin reply to this

       You are making a good point and I do agree.  At this point I wish I had never deleted the comments, but I also wish that the people making the fuss could just say sorry if what they said came across wrong.  I will say here all is forgotten on my part, but if someone still has a serious issue with this go ahead and make the commenton the hub.  I will not delete them.

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          lady luckposted 16 years agoin reply to this

          Did you delete comments people made on YOUR hub? Whats all of the fuss about? ITS  YOUR HUB DO WHAT   YOU WANT.
          
          Ive noticed some people spend a little TOO much time on hub pages so I wouldnt take it personally.

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             SweetiePieposted 16 years agoin reply to this

             lady luck wrote:

             
             
             Thank you for pointing that out also

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    Mishaposted 16 years ago

    OK, it's almost 1 am and I'm heading to bed. We can continue tomorrow if you would like
    
    Good night and sweet dreams everybody

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