Having more than one Partner.

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   Lady_Eposted 14 years ago

   Some Countries in the world allow men to marry more than one wife. It is perfectly acceptable.
   
   Single Men Hubbers - Could you cope with more than one wife?
   Single Lady Hubbers – Could you deal with being a second wife?
   Married Hubbers – Any views?

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      accofrancoposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Double-dating right? Sounds adventurous but looks insane too! I would have to reason first;Tina,Chioma,Nnenna,Christy,Chelsea,Anne,Julie,Rosy,Gina,Funmi,Aisha,Rhobo,Ibiye,Ufok,Tanya,Sabrena,Lila...o no, i rather choose one so my peener can rest...

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         goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         work dat peener ACCO, it needs to get stronger!

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            accofrancoposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            My careers and engagements won't permit me Goldent.

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         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Wow you are a real stud accofranco no wonder I am your biggest fan

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      usmanali81posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Yes, i think i can handle with more than one wife upto 4

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         VENUGOPAL SIVAGNAposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I very much appreciate the question of Lady_E... For men, it is "can you cope with more than one wife". For ladies, it is "could you deal with being a second wife" and not "can you deal with more than one husband". Really surprising.
         
         For Usmanali, there is no limit for greed. You can have any numbe of wives, if you can keep them honorably. But you cannot give that privilege to your partner. It is better to do what we expect from others.  (In Hindu myths, Emperor Dasaratha had 60000 unofficial wives and four official wives. But his son Rama was devoted to one wife only, called Sita.)

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            usmanali81posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            No, Muslims have the limit upto 4, not any more
            
            Regarding giving privilage to women ... well ... Firstly you should realise, that man is more sexual than the woman. Biogically, a man can perform his duty as a husband, even after he has more than one wife… which a woman, if she has more than one husband, she will not be able to perform her duty, as a wife, enough and satisfactorily. Medical Science tells us that… ‘a lady… during her menstrual period, undergoes certain behavioral and psychological changes… in which she is mentally disturbed and therefore… the majority of the quar¬rels that take place are during the menstrual period.
            
            Further if a man who has more than one wife, if he marries and if he has children, the identification of both the parents is possible - The father can be identified, and as well as the mother can be identified. In the other case, if a wife has more than one husband, you will only identify the mother, not the father. Islam gives utmost importance, to identification of the parents. And Psychologists tell us that… ‘If a child cannot identify his parents, he undergoes mental trauma’. No wonder the children of prostitutes, they have a very bad childhood. And if the child goes for admission in the school, and if he is asked… ‘What is the name of the father?’…  You will have to give 2 names - and you know what the child is called.

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               Blackngoldbananaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               I agree that a male "role model" is important to a child's self-esteem, but it does not have to be the "birth" father...many people have been quite happy and successful with men who have acted as "surrogate" fathers.  Also, nowadays, at least in the US, there is such a thing called DNA testing.  Scientific proof of who the father is...just swab the inside of the cheek of all parties involved and there is no question.
               
               As for men wanting and or needing more sex, that is absolutely not true, especially when a man gets older or a man has medical problems.  Bigamy is merely an excuse for a man to screw around without having to leave the house.

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                  usmanali81posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Sorry, you are totally wrong about it, men whether old or young always have greater sex drive as compared to women. You can do a poll on it and see the results.

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                     Shil1978posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Hmm - so you have proof of that? Polls aren't used to prove or disprove, so its pointless to have polls!!!

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                        usmanali81posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        then you can do a research

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                           Shil1978posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                           Why should I --- you made a claim, the onus of proving is up to you. So, go ahead and prove!!

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                     chukra Gposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     hello number of female incresing and the male cromosom shrinking do anyone knew this, thats why islam urge a man to marry with 4

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      alekhouseposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Don't think I could do it. But now, having two husbands, that's a different story. Might be able to handle that.

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      TrinaLynneposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      In Islam it is acceptable to have more than one wife but only by certain terms. And it is also prescribed that if you find one who is true to stick with that one. While this is my religion, I am not comfortable with polygamy.

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      chukra Gposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      i am actually fANtacying( i dont know the spelling) a married gal

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      Davinagirl3posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Could a woman have two husbands?  I think it should be fair.  Personally, though, to each his own.  I don't like to see women being turned into chattle, but if that is not the case... and the man can afford two women... Go for it.  It works for Hef.

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   wychicposted 14 years ago

   I'm somewhere between single and married, so I'll chime in . Personally, I'm a very jealous kind of person and wouldn't be able to "share". However, I'm sure a large part of this is because of the culture I was raised with as well as the views on marriages in the US. In some countries and cultures (both past and present) marriage has had many uses other than the joining of two people that love each other. I suppose if I weren't in love with my husband, there would be the possibility of comfortably co-existing with the other wives. As is, heck no!

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   Dame Scribeposted 14 years ago

   There is only a tiny percent of monogamous relationships around the world...but don't think I want to handle more than one husband or be 2nd, 3rd or 4th wife to anybody lol

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      badcompany99posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I am way happy with 4 pulses

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         Mark Knowlesposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I agree. 4 is good. Too much chance of them to gang up on you with only 3.

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            badcompany99posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Lol nice reply Mark ; )

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      tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Dammit Dame I wanted to ask you out !

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   Dame Scribeposted 14 years ago

   Bc99, of course, lol

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   Dame Scribeposted 14 years ago

   Woesy to the man with discord in that sort of marriage lol

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   countrywomenposted 14 years ago

   It is perfectly unacceptable for me. I get jealous even if he starts praising some of his pretty female colleagues. It just doesn't seem fair for women to have to deal with that kind of situation on a daily basis. I read somewhere that even in US there are some sects which practice polygamy (and women's role becomes subhuman where except for child bearing/rearing no decision making is granted to them). Well anyway that is my view.

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   cindyvineposted 14 years ago

   I wouldn't mind having two husbands but don't think I'd like to share my man with another woman

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      badcompany99posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Lol talk about having yer cake and eating it. Is it just me or is that a stupid saying, like cmom of course yer gonna eat yer cake or else why get the damn thing, life is strange, doncha think ?

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         RooBeeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I always hated that saying - it's about time someone called it out for making no sense!
         
         As for the sharing thing: I'd say I'm not for it - I definitely couldn't share a guy (hubscore be damned lol) and having a bunch of men to pick up after? I did that when I had male roommates back in the day, nah. I'll pass

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            saherneenoposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            im am also agry with u usmanali

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               usmanali81posted 14 years agoin reply to this

               why

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      countrywomenposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Even that thought didn't cross my mind. You sure have very bold thinking, Cindy. Btw in our class on world cultures we read that there are some Tibetan groups where polyandry is practiced.

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         Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         I guess it might be a product of demographics -- where there are way more men than women, say, polyandry would make sense.

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   Teresa McGurkposted 14 years ago

   I wouldn't mind having two husbands.
   I wouldn't mind sharing a guy with someone else either, though.  I could disappear to write whenever I wanted to, and he wouldn't feel neglected.

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      Inspirepubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I'm with you, Teresa - I am very happy for someone else to accompany him on those infernal camping trips where you have to carry in all your own food and water, and dig holes in the ground to poop ... I'l be off with someone else in a 5-star hotel, thank you very much!
      
      Jenny

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   Teresa McGurkposted 14 years ago

   Look, girls!  Saying I wouldn't mind sharing a guy made my hubscore go up one point!

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      Aya_Hajimeposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I always knew that the Hub Score algorithm was made up by a guy!
      
      As for monogamy vs. polygamy I think that any kind of arrangement can work out well as long as people are honest with each other and with themselves.

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         Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Makes sense.

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      Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      youre so naughty lmao 

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         Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         But the second I posted the comment the score changed --

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      Frieda Babbleyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      In that case, I don't mind either.  LOL.   No ideas Paper Moon!  I know where you live and I'm not afraid to distroy your pillows!

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         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Mine has not changed yet either and I suggested five grrrr

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            Paper Moonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            my wife said she would share me and I went up TWO!  (not that I am getting any ideas)

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               blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Mmmm you and Frieda came at the same time not that I noticed or anything, I am blind with all the steam here...

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                  Paper Moonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  we got into a tiff over a comment I made on her hub, so she posted on mine so I followed her here.  She would give me away for a hub score!  But I am not falling for it.

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         Paper Moonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         as if I could handle more than one of you.  Hmph.

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            Frieda Babbleyposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Double hmph!

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               Paper Moonposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               No not double Hmph.  I already said two of you would be too much! 
               Hmph.

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      kmackey32posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Ok Ill try it. I Have shared a guy. LOL

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      R. Blueposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Teresa....a gaggle of guys just might hit you the century mark.

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    Hey Teresa maybe my score may go up one point too. Yes I want 5 husbands but I only want to be one wife. Can you imagine picking up 5 lots of dirty jocks off the bathroom floor everyday, the toilet seat would be forever up, they would all have to go see Cindy first so she can house train them.

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       Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Good grief it would be like being married to a frat house. . .

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    thranaxposted 14 years ago

    I know religion doesn't allow it, but I think that if a husband can treat all of the wifes equally, then it should be allowed. With so many problems as it is with abuse of women in relationships, I don't think it is a great idea unless somehow that changes.
    
    ~thranax~

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    LondonGirlposted 14 years ago

    I would mind sharing a lot. And I don't care if my score goes down a point!

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       Rochelle Frankposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Yes, but you have points to spare.

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    moposanposted 14 years ago

    poor children

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    Think about it 5 husbands
    1. an accountant to work things out
    2. a doctor to act out the doctor/nurse thingy
    3. A checkout operator to press the right buttons
    4. A trawlerman to bring home lots and lots of prawns everyday
    5. A musician to make some sweet music with
    See it all makes sense

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       Rochelle Frankposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       You need someone to repair and maintain your car

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Oh Rochelle that is a great idea ok lets make it 6 husbands we need a mechanic too.

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          mydreamsRtrueposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          dON'T NEED FIVE MENS WITH ONE IT'S FIND FOR ME AND WOULD NOT LIKE TO SHARE MY MAN! IF I NEED A NEW MAN I WOULD RATHER HAVE SOMETHING ELSE TO SATISFIED MY NEED (YOU KNOW WHAT i MEAN) MY TOYS lol

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    Shadesbreathposted 14 years ago

    I would not share a wife with anyone; I insist on being adored and held as the center of the universe.  However, as the center of the universe, it is only natural that many heavenly bodies be in my orbit, so I'm totally in support of me having multiple wives.

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       Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       typical - you expect us ladies to revolve around your needs - what about the other 23 hours and 45 minutes of the day?? Do we get to shop using your credit cards? LOL!!!!!!

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          Shadesbreathposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          You are free to amuse yourselves after my needs are met as you like (barring contact with other men), and yes, feel free to use my credit cards.  However, you may not leave me without my permission once they are maxed out, and I do prefer that you are gainfully employed so you can pay them off.  That'd be great, and I do appreciate how we are on the same page here.  I feel like we've really connected just now.
          
          

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             AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Shade you are so naughty, can you send the credit card..lololol:D

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                Shadesbreathposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Credit cards are handed out post-honeymoon. 
                
                
                
                
                Did courtesans really "choose" or did the work to create circumstance in which they were chosen?

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                   Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Some choose, I'm sure...  Ever see "A Dangerous Beauty?"  Great stuff, lol.
                   
                   Anyway, I've chosen every guy I've had, why would I stop if I become a courtesan?  Didn't say I'd give up my day job, .  Women have soooo many choices these days, Shades!

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                      Shadesbreathposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                      Yeah, I did see it.  That was good.  Rough way to make a living though.  lol.
                      
                      And the choices thing, yeah, I think we've already discussed the end of male dominance on that robust women hub.  The only thing guys ever had was brute strength and the ability to "provide."  Women can provide for themselves, and brute strength is not a means of securing mates anymore now that the whole club-her-over-the-head-and-drag-her-to-the-cave thing is over.  We got nothing left.
                      
                      
                      
                      Oh, so you like it rough and in control.  Nice.  You'll fit into my universe nicely.

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                         Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                         Some guys... will do anything to live out their fantasy!!! Shade you are just too much!!!!
                         
                         I may just have to put you on my list of things to try - once.

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             Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Shade....Dear...Honey - have you read my profile? Go look - I'll wait....
             
             Now about connecting with you? I can see parts of my anatomy connecting with parts of yours - but not in any intimate way!!!
             
             You work - I lead the shopping and if you're really good - I'll let the ladies bring you back some "toys" to play with on us.

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I feel the same way such wisdom you speak. There is no way anyone is putting their hands on my 6 husbands.

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          Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Think of all those salaries coming in, too, BP: you would never need to work again.  Six is a good number.

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             I never thought of the dollar signs til now oh this gets better all the time. All resumes I gladly accept....

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    AEvansposted 14 years ago

    If the men can have two wives which many countries have it , I believe then it should also allow women to have two husbands. It is only fair, what is good for the man should be good for the woman.
    As for me personally I would not share my husband with another woman as I like for it to be all mine.

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    Nanny J.O.A.T.posted 14 years ago

    NO sharing - As a Leo - I need one on one adulation as well as give it.

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    Leta Sposted 14 years ago

    I wouldn't do sloppy seconds for anyone!  Yuck. 
    
    However, if that's the way its gotta be, easier to be a courtesan and choose what you want, .

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    Well, I was amazed when I went to Xi'An and visited an old stone age village to see that the ancient Chinese culture was a matriarchal one, where one woman had many husbands, each with a special duty or job as Blonde pointed out.  You see Blonde, we're just two stone-age women!

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       AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       We are three lolololo

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Yahooo of course AE is in. Well there are three of us so we got to multiply 3 x 6 =.......hang on I will go grab my calculator

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I knew there was wisdom in my words woo hoo now Cindy we got to find those six men

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    Hey AE, three of us can start our own commune, just us and a herd of men like stud bulls.  We'd have to have so many men as with so many men to please we wouldn't be able to do any work, all the men will have to take care of the chores while we are busy pleasuring!

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       Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Em. . . can I play, too?

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          AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Yes !!! Now we have four anyone else want to play??? I do love Cindy's idea.

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Wooo hooo Teresa the belly dancer wants in ok girls we now need to multiply 4 x 6= ....got to go and work this out on paper...where is my accountant????

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Oh Lordy bring on the herd I am packed ready to go..

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       tksenseiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       You realize of course that these men would eventually kill each other and the few remaining survivors would invent ESPN and expect you to fetch them wings and beer on a regular basis.

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    One guy do to be the handyman ( electrical repairs, techie stuff,kill cockroaches)
    One to be a driver, and man enough to ask directions
    One to dig the garden, clean the pool
    One to humor, entertain,escort  etc
    One Spare who doesnt like sports (therefore will not hog ,or switch channels when moi goes to pee, or let dog out.
    
    Yep five oughta do it ,but ok economys down , we all gotta cut back so never let it be said I was greedy , three will be fine.
    

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       That is now five in...oh this is turning into a massive orgy.

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          Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          BP..five with drive lol

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    yeah, the four of us with twenty men!  Omigod, what pleasures might lie ahead!

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       My mouth is like the sea beneath the golden skies, it is foaming.....

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    Teresa McGurkposted 14 years ago

    Did anyone's hubscore go up at the idea?

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       Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       not mine ,but I suspect somethings on the rise teresa..lol

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       No not yet Teresa am just sitting here waiting for the Hub people to press the button, gee they take their time hey?

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    psst would it be alright if I can be one with the headache tonight

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       Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       See?  Now, see that's why I wouldn't mind sharing a guy with another woman, either -- tag team.

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Yes sure we will look after your share while you rest ROFL

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    goldentoadposted 14 years ago

    I can barely handle my weekly two minute session. I am way past my prime and I can't imagine doubling my time. My poor wee wee.

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       Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       aww GT well swap shifts with the pool guy for a couple of nights, we have good benefits too lol

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       AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       You are not way past your prime, you and I are the same age. You can do it GT , you are not ready for Viagra yet. LOLOLOLO :::

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       You are too modest toad sorry too late us girls have already kidnapped you....we going to get your engine going again against all your protests

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    Gee, we scared all the men commenting in this forum away!  Lol, they want more than one women but have problems when we want more than one man!

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       tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I am not scared of anything !

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          AEvansposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          I didn't think you would be.

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       tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I am not scared of anything !

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Do you want in Tony...do you know how to press buttons? If so can you handle five of us ? ROFL...

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    goldentoadposted 14 years ago

    I'm just playin, I am the energizer bunny still and more than one partner sounds like a great idea for me. Can someone convince my wife it would be fantastic?

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I am calling her on the phone now.
       "Hello Mrs Toad"
       "Hello"
       "Can we share your hubby Mrs Toad"?
       "Yes sure BP."
       "Oh thankyou very much it was nice to talk to you "
       "You too BP"
       
       See GT I just asked her

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          Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          She sounds nice.

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             goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             She must have stolen my weed again to answer so politely. Normally she walks around the house with a machete.

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                blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                ROFL well GT pack your bags now for the weekend she also said she will give you some spending money. Yes Cindy I agree we got to add Pest in to this massive gang bang. Hey he called me up the other day after all this time. I was so happy to hear from him.

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                   goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   I threw her a bucket of Kentucky Fried Chicken, she said I could scram!

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                      blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                      Mmmmm please save me a piece of chicken preferably the breast, I will come pick you up in my Porche and drive you out to the others. I will have a Dora Explorer mask on so noone gets upset at your pad.

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             She was lovely about it all, so nice and polite I was a little nervous asking but you got to tackle the bull by the horns and all that.

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    getpaidtopostposted 14 years ago

    Muslim Men can have 4 wives at the same time, however each wife must be treated equally.
    
    I for one think one wife is enough for any man.
    
    No where in the world is it legal for a women to have more than one husband. Women can only have 1 man. Sorry girls, I dont make the rules.

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       Lady_Eposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I agree with you.  One wife is certainly enough for one man. (They should both be the centre of each other's universe). Your comments about Muslim Men - having to treat each wife equally, I think is impossible for men to do. For starters, what happens on Valentine's day?
       
       May I use this opportunity to thank every one for their interestng, funny and wise comments. Overall, Hubbers don't want more than one Partner.

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          Inspirepubposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          You book a table for three, of course ...
          
          
          
          Overall, people can't imagine how having more than one partner could possibly work, unless they happen to know someone who is happily living that way. And even then, even walking into the home and watching the loving interactions, some people still can't get their heads around it.
          
          Until there is the poly equivalent of "Will and Grace", we will never know what proportion of the population could and would have more than one partner by their own inherent inclinations, because we are all so ruthlessly indoctrinated that monogamy is the only healthy relationship structure.
          
          Jenny

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          usmanali81posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Impossiblity is not the dead end, it can be possible.

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    Capable Womanposted 14 years ago

    I'm insanely jealous of my girlfriend...but I am expert at hiding it, which helps me stay in the drivers seat, for the most part.
    
    relationships are weird and complicated...I wish there were no games, but there are so the key is to be the winner of the game(s).
    
    Short answer: hell to the NO, I wouldn't be in a relationship with more than one partner (hers or mine or both).

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    BP we can round up Pest as well, he can be the handyman as he has big thumbs.  GT can be the cook boy and beer fetcher.  Tony, what are your skills?

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       tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I am good with tools and I can cook pretty good too !

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          This is looking better by the minute ROFL

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          goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          You can assist me Tony, when I need a break.

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             Woooooo hoooooo no time for Kit Kat breaks GT, we got to return you in 24hours...

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                goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Labor laws say that after every four hours I get a fifteen minute beak, at that point, I think Tony can handle it.

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                   blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Fair dinkum, fair suck of the saveloy, you are so legalistic,, trust you GT to know all these laws and regulations...okie dokie pig in the pokie I am happy with that. Done deal....It will bonza..

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                   tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Are coffee and beer provided or Is Is BYOB ?

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                      blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                      I think it is a BYO will go check with Cindy. I am bringing some Midori and my bag of tricks

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                         tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

                         damn I am officially excited !

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                            blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                            You are back did it get all too steamy in here ROFL

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    That's great then GT, can you pick up Pest on the way?  Maybe we should bring CC as the stud manager?

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Agreed and Tony is in too ..

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          tony0724posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Right on BP !

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             goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             CC is the old bull stud, we have to stand in line to take what he gives us. I'll pick up Pest in Tony's ride, oh yeah Tony will be DD too.

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                blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                Wooo hooo Pest, GT,Tony and Pearl and C.C......my toes are tapping with anticipation ROFL

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             this is so exciting I think I am going to faint

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    Now if one woman can do allllllll those things!! ,how come we need five??? guys.
    We need a meeting one of those need a bucket team meetings
    wheres the barman? lol

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    Pearl is good at diving he told me.

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    Teresa has passed out with ecstasy of it all can someone go take her smelling salts....

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       Teresa McGurkposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       zzzzzzzzzzzzzz
       
       zzzzzzzzz
       
       zzz
       
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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Oh Teresa wake up wake up you don't want to miss this one

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    This is going to be an amazing commune, we'll have to set up a thumb-screening check at the entrance

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    Yeah, tell Pearl to join us Eagle, we always need a good diver!

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    HealthCare Basicsposted 14 years ago

    I have many friends who have taken on an open relationship. If that is what makes them happy or at least perk their curiosity, then so be it. I found it to be more romantic to remain in one relationship and continue to create wild sexy interests. Spice is something most do not dare try because they think it's "not me" or "that is stupid".
    
    I like wild things, or at least excitement when you least expect it, like going out and fondling one another during a rather boring gathering with friends at pub. Staying home with dinner around the fireplace, candles lit, dining in the nude. Why would a loving couple need a third party to spice it up ??

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Oh indeed I believe in this after I have my rendevous here of course

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       goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Because they want to get their freak on!

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          ROFL

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    I'm going to bring a few crates of South African wines and some of that gold medal camembert the French are so pissed about at the moment.  Can you believe it, they are upset that a South African camembert has just beaten them and won the gold medal as the world's best camembert cheese?  Those silly French.  Okay, have to get ready now and hop into the shower!  Catchya later!

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Oh Cindy sounds divine yes I got to have one too.

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          goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Oh, now we are talkin'!

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             let's save water are you a economist???

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                goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                I as brought up here in Southern Cali, where they tell us we are always in drought and must conserve. I'm all for conservation.

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                   blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   Oh well I was brought up in little sunny QLD where my mom always used to say,you got to share the water before it all runs out in the hot water tank, so yeah I guess that is settled then. Can you pass the soap over when you are finished?

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                      goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                      oops I dropped it, who should pick it up?

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                         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                         I got it...whoops I just dropped it too damn slippery thing...

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    homes88mposted 14 years ago

    I couldn't have two wives, i feel like you don't have a lifelong soulmate one on one kinda connection with 2 people, by the way, im new to the site, everyone should check out my stuff, its very random and i think pretty unique

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       goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       soulmate? who the hell cares? people just want to do it!

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          ROFL

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    There are no towels here so we got to use our tongues.

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       goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Tell Tony not to lick me, I think he needs directions.

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Tony Tony I do say,what are you doing there. This bathroom is so fogged up I can't see a thing

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    goldentoadposted 14 years ago

    Oh No Hide the Plates!

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       I am going to have to feel my way

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          goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          last time they went at it, I had a plate thrown at me.

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             blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

             No plates here just jugs GT

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    HealthCare Basicsposted 14 years ago

    Blondepoet,
        Oh c'mon girl!! You love someone and you want to share that with someone else? I don't think so. If I love a person in my life then I am going to do everything to make that person happy. I'll cook in the nude, which I have done many times. I will rub their body in scented oils, as long as I can lick every part of the body. My goal is to make that special person feel good and relaxed being together. Oh, yeah, there was this time in the 70's when I did a groupie thing, but I blame it on the weed....

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Lol no way if I find the right one I am not sharing,I just don't want any woman sharing my 6 husbands.

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          blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Nothing wrong with a threesome

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       goldentoadposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Now you are talkin sense! Get back to that seventies mentality! Feel the love vibes man but don't sit next to me.

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       Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       This is cyber-reality, I'm afraid, on a Fri.,
       
       Yeah, there was that one time in the 90's when I did this band thing...I also blame it on the weed...  good times!

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    Anyway guys I just made some hot spicy noodles, the house is as quiet as a mouse, am going to spread myself on my fluffy couch and watch a cool movie on my widescreen TV, oh a woman's work is never done. I shall daydream about my rendevous growlllll. See youx0x0

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    HealthCare Basicsposted 14 years ago

    G'night Blondepoet. Enjoy the movie and noodles. You are talking about pasta? Right?

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Lol yes pasta those two minute specials. It was my lunch I had a little afternoon siesta and I am all energised again I watched Resident Evil 2 and dozed off. Saving my energies for tonight hahah

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    logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago

    multiple partners sounds facinating!  If I had 6 women, I would have no problem sharing them.  I'd probably live longer that way!

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    Shadesbreathposted 14 years ago

    If I had 6 women, I'd share them with each other.  That seems like perfect middle ground here.  No need involve some other disgusting human male.

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       Laughing Momposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       always the peacemaker, shades.

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          Shadesbreathposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Yep.  This is why God or Fate etc. or whoever it was put me at the center of the universe.  It is up to the rest of you to recognize it.

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Great way of thinking...

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    logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago

    Great idea!  Course it would be all right to share with 2 or 3 at a time.

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       Laughing Momposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Share what?

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    logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago

    Whatever your imagination will let you share!  And mine will let me share a lot!

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    logic,commonsenseposted 14 years ago

    I don't know if I am your biggest fan, blondepoet, but sometimes I am a huge fan.

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Awwww you say the nicest things !!!!! Tell me more,more, just jk.

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    cindyvineposted 14 years ago

    talking about fans, this air conditioner doesn't appear to be working and its hot as Hades here, so would love a couple of young studs wearing man-kinis to stand on either side of me and fan me with some big palm fronds.

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       blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Oh sounds great Cindy. Gee I am down tonight,got to pick myself up.

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