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   Crazdwriterposted 10 years ago

   At 6:00 Am this morning CA time, my Papa finally took his last breath and has passed on to go home to God. Thank you all for your sweet words and supporting me and my family through this hard time. His suffering is thankfully over!

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      prettydarkhorseposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Hugs crazd, and more hugs,

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      drej2522posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Hugs CW...(and remember, I don't hug)

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks drej I will cherish the hug for life

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      advisor4qbposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Sorry to hear of your loss.

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         thank you advisor

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      kirstenblogposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Sending my best wishes you way. I am sure that your Papa is now an angel watching out for you

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         I am sure of it too. thanks Kristen

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      Pacal Votanposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I just saw this thread, Crazd. Reading some of your hubs I know how much he meant to you. May he rest in peace eternal!
      
      I hope you feel ok. I'm here if you need me.

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         I'm okay Pacal, thank you dear friend!

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      Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I'm sorry to hear. Soon will begin the time to heal and you will.

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         Yes time will heal the pain, thanks cagsil

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            Cagsilposted 10 years agoin reply to this

            I find it interesting that you got 'time will heal the pain', from what I said. How ever, true that may be, it's not what I meant.
            
            Soon will begin - the - time to heal - and - you will. It meant right now you're grieving, when you are done with your grief, then the time for healing will begin.
            
            The healing process can not happen, while you are grieving.

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               Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

               True Cagsil very true.

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      Uninvited Writerposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      I'm so sorry, take care.

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         Thanks UW...Might get another story done...since I write when I'm down

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      yoshi97posted 10 years agoin reply to this

      No one is ever truly gone, so long as there is one who remembers them ...

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         Very true, thank you for these wonderful words yoshi

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   lynnechandlerposted 10 years ago

   My thoughts are with ya. This is a tough time to lose someone as we had a family member pass at 4 this morning. Light and love to you and yours.

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   readytoescapeposted 10 years ago

   Crazd,
   
   You have my sincerest condolences, I have read in some of the threads this is a blessing, but loss, even when expected is still hard. You're in my thoughts.

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      Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Thanks ready, mind if I have a sip of scotch now?

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         readytoescapeposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         Anytime you want

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   Crazdwriterposted 10 years ago

   I am sorry to hear your loss too lynne. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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   europewalkerposted 10 years ago

   My condolences to you and your family.

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   TINA Vposted 10 years ago

   My prayers and condolences to you and your family.

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   Ron Montgomeryposted 10 years ago

   

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      Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      thanks Ron Love the candles

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   Crazdwriterposted 10 years ago

   thanks for the hugs pretty definitely needed 'em.
   
   And thanks Tina and europe. I appreciate it <---smiling through the tears

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   bloodnlatexposted 10 years ago

   I'm so sorry to hear that.  There comes a time in everyone's life when it's time to move on, and no matter how hard it is to let go, they need you to understand that they will always be with you and you will never be alone. 
   
   He is in a much more peaceful place now.

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      eyeofhposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Having recently seen my wife go through the same thing with her father, I could not agree more.  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

         thank you eyeofh I am sorry for your loss as well. thank you

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      Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

      Yes he is and I am relieved that his suffering is finally over. thank you blood

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    XTASISposted 10 years ago

    I'm happy for him.
    All my love to you !
    
    this is tantrum 

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       tantrum you changed and thanks

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          XTASISposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Just for a couple of hours. then I will be my old self again !

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             Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

             lol go scare some newbies

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                XTASISposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                Glad to make you laugh !

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    Lisa HWposted 10 years ago

    So sorry to hear that, Crazd.   Condolences.  As you say, at least he's not suffering now.
    
    Lynne, condolences as well.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks Lisa I appreciate it

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    myownworldposted 10 years ago

    ah..may he rest in peace! we're all here for you.....you're such a strong and wonderful person...and you're holding up so well.... stay with us....and we'll help u laugh the pain away! always xx

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks myownworld. I appreciate it. Definitely need some laughter right now

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       XTASISposted 10 years agoin reply to this

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          myownworldposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          is that someone familiar???

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             XTASISposted 10 years agoin reply to this

             It's me, tantrum
             tantrum is resting a couple of hours more

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                myownworldposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                ooh....chilling....!!!

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    akirchnerposted 10 years ago

    For anyone who has seen someone they love suffer, it is a blessing for that to end but the folks left behind sure struggle with it.  Heartfelt sympathy for your loss - may his memory fill you with peace since he suffers no more and over time bring you only gladness when you reflect on his life and times.  It is a gift the time that we get to share but it seems it all goes by too quickly.  Take care.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks akirchner I appreciate it

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    Lady_Eposted 10 years ago

    I'm so sorry. (((Hugs)))
    
    May he rest in Peace.
    
    Take Heart & hold on to the Happy memories.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks Lady_E. I definitely take the memories and cherish them even more now

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    manlypoetrymanposted 10 years ago

    Goodbye to your Grandpa...Thanks for everything you did (Grandpa), And ...Peace be to you! So sorry to hear the news...so glad he is no longer suffering, Crazd.
    
    God be with you at this time...and with your whole family.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks MPM you are a sweetheart

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    wordscribe41posted 10 years ago

    Oh, Crazdwriter, so sorry to hear about your loss.  It must make it even more difficult so close to the holidays.  I'm not on here much anymore, but I saw this post and wanted to share my condolences.  My thoughts are with you and yours.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks wordscribe. I appreciate it. you should come back mroe often

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          wordscribe41posted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Needed a real life break.  Am working on my book like a maniac.  Just saw that Art got banned, some things never change.

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             Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

             Art got banned? I got banned! hehehe I am so proud of it too haha
             And real life? what's that? Oh I got my book written in only 24 days. you should try it...it's a rush!

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                wordscribe41posted 10 years agoin reply to this

                What THE???  24 days?  Going on 2 years now.  YOU GOT BANNED?  I love it, CW!  Little old you?  Not picturing it.

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                   Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                   Yep wordscribe you missed it. Went head to head with someone and said bad bad words. and yea 24 days...PHEW don't know if it's any good, posted the first chapter in a hub but I liked it, I enjoyed writing it, so I'm good HEHEHE

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                      wordscribe41posted 10 years agoin reply to this

                      I'll look for your hub. 
                      
                      You naughty cusser, you. 
                      
                      Hang in there, okay?

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                         Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

                         I'm not that naughty I swear hehe
                         And yep I'll be okay

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    charanjeet kaurposted 10 years ago

    I am so sorry to hear about your father, Crazd. May he rest in peace and will keep you in my prayers. Love ya and take care.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks charanjeet...I guess not a lot of ppl have heard a kid call their grandpa papa not my dad my grandpa has passed thank you though

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          charanjeet kaurposted 10 years agoin reply to this

          Aww i am sorry about the goof up, that indeed is sweet of you to call up your grandpa pa. I have to be around in forums more often to catchup.

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             Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

             that's okay. I think we called him Papa because we couldn't say grandpa lol

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    Wendi Mposted 10 years ago

    May he rest in peace Crazd, and my thought are with you!

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you Wendi!

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    Poppa Bluesposted 10 years ago

    My deepest sympathies to you and your family! I'm sorry for your loss.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks Poppa

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    caravalhophotoposted 10 years ago

    My heart is with you Crazd...your love will always be part of the memories you shared with your Poppa...much love and hugs being sent your way.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks caraval appreciate the kind words and the hugs

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    Justine76posted 10 years ago

    im sorry for your loss, and thankful he is at peace, as I know you must be too. hugs crazed, we love you.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Oh most definitely am Justine. Most definitely am glad he is no longer suffering thanks for the hugs

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    Beth100posted 10 years ago

    Crazd,
    
    I feel for your loss as well as the relief that your Pappa is no longer suffering.  My condolences and sincerest sympathy to you and your family.
    
    Hugs,
    
    Beth

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks Beth we are definitely relieved that's for sure

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    niishta88posted 10 years ago

    cradzwriter , even if im new here and i dont know no one lolll  my condolences , may god be with you and you family , he will be watching you up there happy and in peace

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thank you niishta88, I appreciate your kind words.
       And also welcome to hubpages

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    I*n*v*i*c*t*u*sposted 10 years ago

    Big hugs, crazd! My thoughts are with you! Many blessings.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks I*n*v* I appreciate it

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    Ultimate Hubberposted 10 years ago

    I read about his condition in another thread and prayed for him.
    My condolences crazd.
    
    You know crazd, when my father passed away, someone told me that maybe its good for him, as his health was continuously deteriorating. And told me to be happy for him as he doesn't have to go through all those health conditions again. We all love you!

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thanks UH and trust me I was praying hard that God would take him so his suffering would end. But dang it, UH, My papa was a stubborn one! lol He kept hainging on but thankfully he let go this time. We are all relieved he has so his suffering ended. Thanks again UH

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    Google Galposted 10 years ago

    May peace and love be with you always
    
    

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks Google gal. the pic is beautiful
       And by the way Welcome to hubpages

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    Denno66posted 10 years ago

    On behalf of my family, I offer my sincerest condolences.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you Denno

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          Denno66posted 10 years agoin reply to this

          You've a lot of friends here who've gone through the same thing.

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             Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

             very true Denno very true. It's a part of life but it's never easy for anyone to lose a loved one, family or friend. so thank you for being here for me

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                Denno66posted 10 years agoin reply to this

                You are most welcome

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    Helen Caterposted 10 years ago

    Thinking of you at this sad time.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thank you Helen

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    Zsuzsy Beeposted 10 years ago

    So sad to hear about your Papa. Knowing in your head that your tremendous feelings of loss means eternal peace for him does not make his passing easier in your heart. Dig out the great memories and hang on to those tightly.
    My thoughts are with you.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you ZsuZsy and only good memories have been playing in my head right now.

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    wannabwesternposted 10 years ago

    
    
    Our sincerest condolences for both of you. God bless.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       thank you wannabwestern I appreciate it. thank you for the pretty flowers

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    cosetteposted 10 years ago

    so sorry CW. i am glad he is at peace now. my sincere condolences to you and your family.
    
    

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you Cosette and thank you for the flower pic, very beautiful

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    mega1posted 10 years ago

    My condolences to you and family - I really hope you are taking care of yourself because at this busy time of year, losing someone is very hard and you may be thinking of others with no time for yourself.  You know how important it is to take time every day to kinda pamper yourself now! Just a reminder.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       lol mega1 yea I do always think of others before myself but I do take out time for myself whenever I get on the computer and write. thanks

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    habeeposted 10 years ago

    Crazd, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know from my father's passing that even when it's expected, the ultimate death is still somewhat of a shock because of its finality.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Yes it is always a shock but for us a sigh of relief since he was suffering so much. thank you habee I appreciate it

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    Frugal Fannyposted 10 years ago

    My condolences on your loss.  I recently lost my brother-in-law to a lung cancer that was diagnosed and claimed him in less than a week, shortly after the birth of my daughter.  I think it's been a hard year for everyone.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       sadly it is a hard year for someone out there no matter the year but I always think of it this way. With a death brings life; with a death brings the birth of a child.
       
       Sorry for your loss, Frugal and thank you.

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    Naomi R. Coxposted 10 years ago

    My family and I send you our condolences, Crazd. We are also sending you a hug,((Hug)). Sometimes that's better then words.  Your fellow hubbers are here if you need us.

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Thank you Naomi I appreciate it

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    poetlorraineposted 10 years ago

    my thoughts and prayers are with you, your family must be so happy at how you turned such a negative experience, into something positive, with your writing.....
    
    will be thinking about you, this is a hard time for you, anything i can do, just listen maybe.... i am always here for you.  Reading your work, and so enjoying it  Brenda x

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       Crazdwriterposted 10 years agoin reply to this

       Glad you like my stuff, Brenda and thanks for the kind words.

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