Poem: Heaven Scent

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   Pamela99posted 23 months ago

   Take the time to read Brenda's heart wrenching poem reflecting on her memories of her precious Ron and Mothers Day. It is a lovely poem Brenda.
   
   https://hubpages.com/literature/Poem-Heaven-Scent

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Pamela...
      I've put a few touches to the area below the front porch.
      
      
      

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   Pamela99posted 23 months ago

   I know your memories of Ron on these special days are difficult Brenda. I feel for you on these occasions. Only time can dull the grief. You are in my prayers.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Pamela.
      
      The flowers really help me.  It's a tradition we always did.
      
      Thanks for sharing.
      
      Happy Mother's Day!

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         Diana Leeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

         Such a beautiful poem, so sorry for your loss.

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            Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

            Thank you Diana.
            
            These little moments will help me even if I'm a bit sad.

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      surovi99posted 23 months agoin reply to this

      You have composed a very moving poem, Brenda. It was very kind of Ron to give hanging baskets of flowers every Mother's Day. And I appreciate that you are keeping up with the tradition. I loved the ones you got this time for yourself. I am sure your love embedded in each of these flower petals will reach his soul, and he will be more at peace. Hugs and loving prayers to you.
      
      Thank you, Pamela, for sharing Brenda's poetry.

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         Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

         Rosina
         Thanks.
         
         I really do believe Ron likes the flowers I've bought so far.
         We always started with the front porch and the deck out back was next.
         
         I haven't gotten to that part yet, but the front is starting to come along.
         
         I think I'll finish the flowerbed in front of the porch first. 
         
         I'm working on a hill in the front yard where we used to plant flowers, but we didn't last year.
         
         Hopefully I can get all the weeds out of there and start planting.

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         Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

         Rosina...
         Unbelievably our weather has taken another turn.
         I've had to turn on the heat...I'm hoping these flowers survive.
         They should...only going to be in the 40's but ohh..it's a shock to the system.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Pamela...
      Each day gets better.
      
      The more I get unpacked & settled.  Keeping precious memories of Ron around...although it does seem to bother others that visit...I don't care.
      This is our home and he will stay here with me for now.
      
      The flowers...well its like the best room of the house.  I love them.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Pamela....
      I'm tackling a hill on the front part of the house.
      
      Removing the weeds and get the dirt ready for planting more flowers.
      
      I haven't gotten too far yet.
      
      
      
      
      I think it might need more dirt.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Pamela...
      I've been working on an area we usually plant flowrrs, but now with plumbing issues the ground might have to be dug up.
      
      I'm not sure whether to take the chance or wait.
      
      I hate not being able to plant there.. but if i do I might have to move them.

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   Peggy Wposted 23 months ago

   That was such a sweet gift Ron always gave you on Mother's Day, Brenda.  I am glad you have kept that tradition alive even though Ron is no longer there to give that gift to you.  You will always have those wonderful memories to cherish, and the beautiful flowers to brighten each day.  Thinking of you with love.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Peggy
      Thank you so much.
      
      Flowers seem to bring comfort and love.  Their beauty will always have a special place in my heart.
      
      I hope my flowerbeds this year will reflect our love.

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   AliciaCposted 23 months ago

   Brenda has written a lovely poem. The last verse is beautiful. I love the idea of giving flowers in pots or baskets as gifts instead of cut flowers because with the proper care the plants will live for much longer. Ron's Mother's Day gifts to Brenda were very kind, and her poem is a lovely tribute to him. Thank you for sharing it, Pamela.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Linda
      I really appreciate your kind words.
      
      Ron was very thoughtful on Mother's day by bringing me flowers.
      
      It's a tradition I plan to keep. 
      
      I'm hoping my flowerbeds will do well this year...time will tell.
      
      But I got an Angel helping me look after them.

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   Jodahposted 23 months ago

   This is a touching poem in remembrance of Ron and his gifts of flowers to you each Mother’s Day, Brenda. Those flowers are beautiful.
   Thank you for sharing, Pamela.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much John.
      
      I usually always spend time outside.
      
      It's like the outdoors is an extension of the house.
      
      We have a nice sized deck where we always plant flowers too, but we always started with the front of the house.
      
      In time, I'll get more for the rest.
      
      I'm glad you like this one.

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         ChitrangadaSharanposted 23 months agoin reply to this

         Hi Brenda!
         This is so heart touching! Your precious memories with Ron,  will help you heal emotionally too, and what's better than the lovely flowers to do so!
         Beautifully expressed-Thanks for sharing!
         Thank you Pamela for sharing this in the forum!

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            Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

            Chitrangada
            Thank you.
            
            Everyday when I see these flowers I know I will feel better.
            
            There's just something about flowers that soothe me.  Maybe we talk the same language.
            
            I hope you had a wonderful day.
            Happy Mother's Day.

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            Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

            Each day there are new memories.   Each one precious.
            
            Flowers that i can enjoy all summer really helps .
            
            Right now it's strawberry time.  We used to go to the farm & pick them: but the fields are too wet.
            Hopefully I'll get there soon..before they are gone.

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   MsDoraposted 23 months ago

   Beautiful touching piece by Brenda! A very important method to help the grieving process along.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Ms Dora...
      Both the writing & the flowers help.
      
      Have a great day.

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   Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months ago

   Is there a forum on my other poem...Like a Mother's Touch
   
   I can't find it...send me the link.
   Thanks

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   vidsagsterposted 23 months ago

   What a beautiful tradition Ron and you followed on Mother's day, Brenda. Flowers signify everlasting love. Its very touching that you have kept up the tradition this year too. And the flowers that you have gifted yourself are lovely too. I am sure Ron would be very happy. This poem is a wonderful tribute to Ron.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Vidya
      Thank you.
      
      He knew how much I loved my flowerbeds & he really enjoyed them too.
      I have four matching pots.
      
      Two are on front porch & the other 2 are on our patio deck.
      
      I can't wait until I get the whole yard looking good & adorned with flowers this year.

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   jansharesposted 23 months ago

   So beautiful, Brenda. Your intense longing for him came through the last stanza and off the page (screen ). Thank God for the loving tradition that will fuel your memories of Ron forever. The flowering plants are gorgeous and full of life. Thank you, Pamela, for sharing.

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      Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

      Thanks so much Jan.
      
      It's hard, but keeping these memories alive and using the pots we've had from years before certainly helps.
      
      Sorry, but I can't help but wish he were here.
      
      This will keep a part of him with us.

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         jansharesposted 23 months agoin reply to this

         Of course, no 'sorry' necessary. I wish he was there for you. I know it's very hard, especially on the days special memories were formed. A day at a time, one day at a time. Sending hugs of comfort.

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            Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

            He's here with me.  All I have to do is look around.
            He's in every corner of this house & yard.
            
            I'll get there.  One day at a time.
            
            Thank you for those hugs.

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               jansharesposted 23 months agoin reply to this

               
               Also, just read your latest on 'adapt.' The poems are awesome and relatable. I'll try to work on one. I have a client in 7 minutes. See you later, take care.

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                  Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

                  Sounds great Jan

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    Pamela99posted 23 months ago

    The flowers on the front porch are beautiful. You will get it all done when you can, and it is just spring time, so you have time to grow more flowers. I hope the weather cooperates for you.

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       Brenda Arledgeposted 23 months agoin reply to this

       Thanks Pamela...
       It's getting there.
       
       The weather is crazy.  We've been up in the 80's and 90's and I had turned my heat off.
       
       Only to find the house freezing for two days so the heat is back on.
       
       Only 66 today, but were headed towards 70's.  Then watch out for the weekend. .the heats coming back.
       
       I love my flowers & hopefully i can get some more areas ready for planting.

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    Brenda Arledgeposted 22 months ago

    I've planred a couple of new barrels this year....our old wood ones fell apart.
    
    I got ones that are waterproof  ..I'll try to post a few picks afterbit.
    
    Still no word on plumbing...so haven't planted anymore out front yet.
    
    Maybe I'll do barrels and then i can move them out of the workers way.

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