In Love With a Psychopath — a Call to Death! by Misbah

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   surovi99posted 2 years ago

   Misbah writes three intriguing poems depicting a woman in love with a psychopath and how devastating it can be leading to suicidal thoughts. Read her fabulous poetry from the following link:
   https://discover.hubpages.com/literatur … l-To-Death
   
   Hi Misbah,
   Thank you for this write-up. I learned how difficult a life can be with a psychopath. Women under such circumstances should reach out for help because every life on this earth is important. I sincerely hope your friend finds a good way-out. Excellent poetry! I loved them all.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing my hub, Rosina. I appreciate all your kind and insightful comments. Gratitude, dear friend.
      Tak care and stay safe!
      Blessings and lots of Love as always!!

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      ChitrangadaSharanposted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Hello Misbah!
      The life, which your friend is undergoing, is heartbreaking. I think she must visit some relationship expert or counsellor. In fact, the couple should together sit down and have some conversation regarding this.
      One must raise the voice, when physically or emotionally oppressed. There is help available in many ways. Children growing up in such atmosphere, will have behavioural problems. Women should be aware of their rights, and no one can exploit them.
      Anyway, I feel sad and sorry to read this, though you have done a great job.
      Thank you for sharing.
      Thank you Rosina, for sharing this in the forum.
      My best wishes to both of you.

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         Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

         I appreciate your kind and insightful comments, Di. Thank you for reading and your wonderful feedback. I believe we all want a happy life, but yet in life, we have to make many sacrifices and compromises along the way, sometimes for ourselves and sometimes for our loved ones. I feel sad and sorry for her. I hope she will find a way out soon. Take care and have a great weekend.
         Many Blessings and love!!

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   RozlinMohsinposted 2 years ago

   Excellent article, Misbah. I love all your three poems. They are all well composed as per your friend's life with a psychopath. I hope she finds her way out. Your hub reminds me "laapata", a Pakistani drama, which is featured on life of a psychopath.
   Blessings and Much love.
   
   Thank you Rosina for sharing.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you for your kind comment, dear Rozlin. I, too, hope she finds a way out of the situation. I haven't seen the drama serial you mentioned but I am keeping it on my watchlist. Much appreciated!
      Have a great day!
      Many Blessings and Love

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   Jodahposted 2 years ago

   Misbah, it is very concerning what your friend is going through. She must have been reaching out to you by telling you all that as she had only known you for a short time.
   Excellent poetry, my friend. Thank you for sharing your friend’s story. I hope she finds a way out of the situation.
   Thank you for sharing this, Rosina.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Dear John, thank you very much for your generous and insightful comments. I also hope she finds a way out. She is living a troubled life and I really feel sorry for her.  Life is unpredictable; I hope it brings her some lovely surprises and that God eases her pain. Take care and have a beautiful day.
      Many blessings as always!!

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   Pamela99posted 2 years ago

   I accidentally wrote my response to these poems on your your the poem you wrote just prior to this one. LOL!

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      No problem, Pamela. I appreciate your kind and sweet comments. Thank you so much for reading. Take care and have a great weekend.
      Lots of love and heaps of blessings

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   Peggy Wposted 2 years ago

   The life your friend is leading with a psychopathic husband is heartbreaking and scary.  I hope that she and her children survive, Misbah.  They will probably bear some scars. Thanks Rosina for sharing the link.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you, Peggy, for reading and leaving a meaningful comment. I pray for a happy life for her and her children. The life she is living now is sad.
      Take care and have a wonderful weekend.
      Love and Blessings

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   MsDoraposted 2 years ago

   My heart goes out to anyone who experiences this kind of deception, in which a person receives abuse in any form, in response to love. Thanks for reminder to be careful how we choose. Hoping that Misbah's friend finds a way out. thanks, Rosina, for sharing.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Ms. Dora, thank you very much for your kind words. Yes, having now spent 30 years of my life on this planet, I feel that I have evolved a lot, and I really believe that we have to be very careful how and what we choose. But I also believe that there are more good people in the world, which is why the world continues to exist. We can only hope for the best.
      
      Take care of yourself and have a blessed weekend.
      Much love and many blessings

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   Brenda Arledgeposted 2 years ago

   Misbah...
   Welcome back.
   
   These poems all express narcissism so well.
   They play with fire.  It's like they must consume the good from others to feel alive.
   
   In the end, the wiman is left drained feeling that life isn't worth it.
   
   It's hard to love a narcissist.   They hate being told you've spotted their lies.  They will stare you dtraight in the face & say you are wrong.
   
   Great writing.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you for your kind words and warm welcome, Bredz. It means a lot to me, dear friend. I feel sorry for the narcissist as well as anyone who is in such a scenario, like my friend. Psychological studies show that a narcissist feels regrets and emotions but rarely displays them. There is a thin line between the three, narcissist, sociopath, and psychopath, but psychopaths are considered to be the worst-case; nothing can bring them on the right track, and they are believed to be born that way, whereas narcissists and sociopaths adopt the behavior as a result of what they experience or suffer in life.
      Please take care and have a fabulous weekend.
      Sending you hugs, love and Blessings

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         Brenda Arledgeposted 2 years agoin reply to this

         Misbah...
         I find it hard to believe that a narcissist feels any regret or emotions.
         I have been told they have feelings, but their actions speak otherwise.

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            Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

            Bredz, please see this: https://youtu.be/6dv8zJiggBs

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               Brenda Arledgeposted 2 years agoin reply to this

               Certainly alot of information there.
               I agree that narcissist hate Shame.
               
               That's one thing they can't stand & does make them stop and pay attention for a bit.
               
               I like Val's comments too.

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                  Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

                  

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   AliciaCposted 2 years ago

   Your poetry in powerful, Misbah. I hope your friend finds a good way to solve her problems and finds happiness for herself and her daughters.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you so much for reading and leaving such a thoughtful comment, Linda. I sincerely appreciate your kindness. Stay healthy and happy. Have a wonderful weekend.
      Love and blessings as always!!

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   vidsagsterposted 2 years ago

   Hi Misbah, your friend's situation is  heartrending. You have conveyed her despair so well in the poems. Women go through so much for the sake of their children. But it is always better to seek help than suffer in silence. Ending her life is not a solution. As you have rightly said, every life is precious and must be saved. Hope she finds help for herself and for her daughters.

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      Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you much for reading and leaving such a thoughtful comment, dear Vidya. I appreciate your kindness. I too hope she finds a way out. Stay safe  and healthy. Have a blessed weekend.
      Much Love and blessings!

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    Vladimir Karasposted 2 years ago

    Narcissists are not to be categorized as psychopaths. While both are nuts in their own way, both have emotions, twisted as may be. Hitler loved children and his German shepherd, and he very much sympathized with the poor and starving people -- which didn't prevent him from killing masses of people.  That's where their emotional repertoire selectively and insanely splits between noble and evil.
    But talking strictly about narcissists, they are just "madly in love with themselves", while capable of also loving others. To them, love is all a matter of intensity, mostly focused on them, and they will love you as long as you see some kind of "superior humans" in them -- whether by looks or by intelligence.
    They can be very manipulative, while proving to themselves their superiority.
    But many are also sheer neurotics compensating their deep seated inferiority with an exaggerated self image.
    That's how I see them.

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       Misbah786posted 2 years agoin reply to this

       Excellent explanation, Mr. Val. I agree with you! Thank you so much
       Keep smiling and have a great weekend.
       Blessings as always!

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    Vladimir Karasposted 2 years ago

    Misbah, dear -- You have yourself a fabulous weekend as well.

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