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What do you do when you give a man everything and he still cheats?

  1. Azizi527 profile image61
    Azizi527posted 8 years ago

    What do you do when you give a man everything and he still cheats?

  2. jacklhasa profile image61
    jacklhasaposted 8 years ago

    You get a new man.  If someone makes a commitment to you, they should be willing and able to honor that commitment.  They say a cheater will always be a cheater.  Find someone who will treat you with the same respect you give them.  They are out there.

  3. advisor4qb profile image78
    advisor4qbposted 8 years ago

    I agree.  Someone else will love you.  Don't degrade yourself by staying when he is straying.

  4. Mr. Happy profile image81
    Mr. Happyposted 8 years ago

    I think when one partner "cheats" on the other all trust is lost, or most of it anyway and a relationship cannot work without trust. "Cheating" is so sad; it shows great weakness in the character of the person doing the "cheating". If one is no longer happy in a relationship or if one is looking for something different, why not just break-off the current relationship?

  5. stricktlydating profile image81
    stricktlydatingposted 8 years ago

    What do you do? You leave him! It's not worth your dignity...  When you've given him your everything and he still can't commit to your relationship, it means you're in the relationship deeper than what he is.  So while you've been there giving him your everything, he's kept one foot out of the door. He is spending intimate times with you, and he is spending intimate times with other woman.  Keep this picture in your mind to try to stop yourself from continuing to try to GIVE to him.  He can't commit to you of his own free will, so he doesn't deserve your 'everything' right now.

  6. NorthEast Timber profile image60
    NorthEast Timberposted 6 years ago

    The best revenge is going on with your life, being happy, successful.  Taking revenge on them just boosts their ego and gives them something to say bad about you to people.  Next time you see him quietly ask him how things are going and then tell him you are happy for him.  Be calm and relaxed and he will realize your over him.

  7. kblover profile image89
    kbloverposted 6 years ago

    Drop him and move on.

    Give him nothing else. No more of your attention, emotions, anything. Yes, this includes anger, sadness, etc. Allowing him to manipulate your emotions is giving him power over your mind and heart. He doesn't deserve it.

    Part with him and find someone who deserves your love and attention and that you can feel comfortable and safe with. Talk out your feeling with some friends and remove any reminders of him (within reason - i.e. don't burn your house down or anything LOL) so that you don't feel over it, and then see a picture of you two together and then get mad/sad all over again.

  8. gmwilliams profile image87
    gmwilliamsposted 6 years ago

    I hate to say this.  Leave the jackass and get him for everything that he is worth,.  Do not ever stay with him so it shows that you are not worthy of respect and the lout will do it again and again.  Move in and get a better man.   Hopefully, he will find a woman who will cheat on him.  Ha!!!