How Can A Woman Tell If A Man Is Really Into Her?

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  1. ngureco profile image81
    ngurecoposted 13 years ago

    How Can A Woman Tell If A Man Is Really Into Her?

  2. stricktlydating profile image83
    stricktlydatingposted 13 years ago

    He's reliable, affectionate, showers her with attention, makes frequent contact with her, respects her needs and feelings, includes her in his activities with family and friends.

  3. dabeaner profile image60
    dabeanerposted 13 years ago

    If she feels pressure against her cervix, that would be an indication.

  4. hiphopconsul profile image61
    hiphopconsulposted 13 years ago

    If he keeps coming around and doesn't want anything from her.

  5. She-rah profile image68
    She-rahposted 13 years ago

    He wants to introduce you to family and friends. Calls and shows up when he says and doesn't pressure you with sex.  He includes you in things he would normally not mind or prefer doing alone, ie. going out with the guys, watch sports, play video games, grab lunch, etc.

  6. khood1357 profile image66
    khood1357posted 13 years ago

    If he smiles when he sees you and looks into your eyes when you talk to him. If he looks anywhere else, he is only in it for one reason.

  7. Anamika S profile image69
    Anamika Sposted 13 years ago

    I answered this question with a hub only one day before you asked this question.

    Many guys are quite skillful at making the girls believe that they are indeed in love when he is not. But still if you watch him carefully you may find signs to identify if your husband or boyfriend is in love with you or not. The Body Language and Behavior of a man can say a lot about the commitment level of the individual. … you-or-not

  8. ladyjane1 profile image76
    ladyjane1posted 13 years ago

    He actually gives her a call when she gives him her number or after sex lol.

  9. Hubbin4V12 profile image64
    Hubbin4V12posted 13 years ago

    When he calls you instead of you calling him all the time. And when he sincerely asks your opinion on a topic, which equates to him actually valuing your perspective. Finally, when he is willing to wait for the goods, which is when you know you have a keeper!

  10. generalbrat profile image67
    generalbratposted 13 years ago

    i know by the way he loves me slowly taking my breath away i can feel his warmth trough out my entire body giving me chills as if his soul came into me all my husband has to do is look at me and i'll feel this especially when we become one between the sheets our hearts beat together we are totally intune with each other

  11. petersandison profile image61
    petersandisonposted 13 years ago

    Come on girls, pack up those insecurities and stop looking for signs. You're wasting quality time; time you could spend enjoying yourselves with the guys in question. Assume that he is 'into you' (cervix thing aside) until you know otherwise. Enjoy the moment and then, when it all comes crashing down, write some poetry and find another guy. And by the way, stop obsessing about the phone and who calls who; girls like to chat more.

  12. Jennifer Lynch profile image71
    Jennifer Lynchposted 13 years ago

    He calls her all the time and he isn't late for dates.  He will wait for sex because he respects her and he listens on the date instead of looking all round the room for other females!  Once you have got this attention, he is into you!

  13. True Blue Tips profile image60
    True Blue Tipsposted 13 years ago

    The simple answer is: he does what he says.  If you want to know if a man is in to you, don't listen to his words, watch his actions.  If his action matches words, then this is a man you want in your life.

  14. profile image57
    injurylawfirmsposted 13 years ago

    The answer is very intricate and it depends upon the mindset of the women. If women is experienced and mature, she would be able to pick this thing easily. Otherwise, no tutorial in this world can help her.

  15. wavegirl22 profile image40
    wavegirl22posted 13 years ago

    if a woman has to ask that question then the answer is NO. When a man is into a woman there are no questions needed.

  16. profile image56
    Ekpeesposted 12 years ago

    A man who likes you,wil not lie to you.He wil not abuse and beat you,instead he wil correct you when you are wrong.He wil always be caring and always there for you.He wil love and cherish you.whenever you are sick or in trouble,he wil not rest until you are ok

  17. optimus grimlock profile image60
    optimus grimlockposted 12 years ago

    he calls when hew says he will. Does the little things that drive her wild and he listens to her!

  18. John B Badd profile image60
    John B Baddposted 12 years ago

    As a man i would say listen to ladyjane1, She-rah, True Blue Tips, and stricktlydatings answers.  They are very good.

    and ROFL dabeaner that was funny stuff (sorry ladies but it was)

  19. Sparhawke profile image60
    Sparhawkeposted 12 years ago

    Ask the question in bed that most women want to know..."are you done yet?" :p

  20. carmenph profile image69
    carmenphposted 12 years ago

    The answers here are so funny :-) and yet serious :-)

    I think the key word in the question is the word "tell".

    There is no one formula. Only the woman can TELL if her man is into her IF she takes the time to observe him, get to know him better, find out how he behaves when he is so into something like his passions (like how his eyes light up when he sees a new model of the car or gadget he loves -- does his eyes light up the same way or more when he looks at his woman), his causes and his dreams.

    People love in different ways and each man may show their love in ways that are different from another. But they do not love any less. Just differently. But if you are the woman and he is the man you love then your heart will TELL you and you never need to ask this question.

    Constantly comparing him with another man will only make the woman's life (and the man's) more miserable...after she has already chosen him amongst others.

    This question then is most useful and will be most beneficial when the woman is yet choosing the man for her. It will take time and effort to get to know him better so she can TELL for herself if he is really the guy for her. And it will be different for every woman. So no cheating and copying from each other, gals :-)

  21. volleyball-jumper profile image64
    volleyball-jumperposted 12 years ago

    If he gives honest, deep, frequent, and long eye contact with you. I think that's the biggest sign if it is involved with other positive body language signs of interest.

  22. profile image0
    erickcbposted 12 years ago

    simply the fact that he call YOU, more than you call him.

  23. CheapInMadrid profile image60
    CheapInMadridposted 12 years ago

    If a guy wants to be around you whether with his friends,family or the two of you and is interested in who and how you are then there is interest.I say there is no official list,and any girl should have an idea of whats up.We can generally tell,and if its still not clear then its better to ask the guy straight up and if that scares him away,the answer to the question above is answered:)

  24. Vanrentals profile image60
    Vanrentalsposted 12 years ago

    I usually find that the midnight calls, texts, waiting outside the house and general stalking will get the message accross. If not, its time to step up your game!!!!

  25. Jaggedfrost profile image60
    Jaggedfrostposted 12 years ago

    There are questions more important to be answered before one addresses any sexual attraction or actual interest.  The first would be what he intends to do with the woman and how far he sees things going?  The second is whether he is educated enough to know that women have a set number of prerequisites before their bed is even an option? The last question that comes to mind is if you have ever stepped out of your own shell long enough to understand how he ticks as he is probably studying you for the same tells if you will in order to properly judge whether his actions have anything deeper to them  then general regard for your happiness and welfare in the first place.

  26. bushraismail profile image58
    bushraismailposted 12 years ago

    if a man sacrifices for her!!.......................

  27. menvious profile image58
    menviousposted 12 years ago

    From a guy's point of view: If I was into a girl I would agree with one of the answers below: It's about what you do not what you say. There are actions that can make you feel good and some that ring alarm bells. I guess to a long lasting relationship right from the beginning is how much you can share open heartedly without judgement. You really need to have no doubt or feelings of mistrust, the minute these thoughts come into your mind, then this raises some serious questions. It shows some of your partner's actions are making you suspicious.

  28. qtkeeks profile image60
    qtkeeksposted 12 years ago

    He answer her questions the 1st time she asks.

  29. lanealanea profile image61
    lanealaneaposted 12 years ago

    Behavior is everything, pay attention to it. Everyone has different schedules, jobs and family commitments so it differs. You can always tell in time. Always be patient.

  30. toddlerboyclothes profile image58
    toddlerboyclothesposted 12 years ago

    If he is always showing care for the woman.


  31. EinsFloW profile image64
    EinsFloWposted 12 years ago

    I think as a woman you have it much easier than men. The easiest thing to find out is to just ask him and many of my female friends say that is simply the best technique if you are brave enough. :-)

  32. Tusitala Tom profile image64
    Tusitala Tomposted 12 years ago

    I'd say if he's breathing over her shoulder.


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