Why Do Men Love Strippers And Porn??

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   Colebabieposted 15 years ago

   The boy enjoys porn and strippers. I enjoy porn and strippers. We enjoy it together, we enjoy it apart. Basically there is a lot of joy.

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   ralwusposted 15 years ago

   Why do you ask? Got something ya wanna show me?

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   Sue Adamsposted 15 years ago

   All, even if in secret. But they are not to blame. It's very hard for men you see...
   In the animal world (and we too are animals on the sexual level), the male is only interested in mating when the female is on heat. Now the poor urban human male is 7/7, 24/24, 365/365 stimulated by sexual images in advertising, music and fashion. Industry runs on female sexual images, poor buggers. So their natural instinct wants to mate all the time. Now the wife, she is normal, she only feels the urge maybe for a few days a month when she is ovulating. At other times she has to tell her mate it's nothing personal but she has a headache. Result: Man must get it out somehow, so he resorts to strippers and porn. I wouldn't fancy being a man with such a terrible dilemma. Think of all the broken marriages because this is not understood.

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      Colebabieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      Then I guess I'm not normal.

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   ralwusposted 15 years ago

   I don't think I'd be normal if I dint like strippers and porn. long as they're the right gender for me. Like a stallion drawn to a mare in heat

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      Sue Adamsposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      xactly

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   Niteriterposted 15 years ago

   I'm researching origins of the species so I do it for the dialogue.

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      Sue Adamsposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      

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      Sexy jontyposted 15 years agoin reply to this

      That was funny ...... Niteriter .....

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   dave272727posted 15 years ago

   Visual representation of fantasy.  Or another way to look at it would be, No man would ever look away if there were some nice boobs to look at.  Married or not.

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   LEWJposted 15 years ago

   Why do men love strippers and porn?   Cause they're fun, man!

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   Beth100posted 15 years ago

   Well, I know just as many women who are into this as the men.  I don't believe its gender based.  So, it's probably the lure of fantasizing without the commits and complications that a real relationship would bring.

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   prettydarkhorseposted 15 years ago

   I think both men and women like to look at pornography. They both want to satisfy their primal desires, stimulation of the mind and senses. This is alright unless it becomes addiction, then it becomes a problem.

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    Lady_Eposted 15 years ago

    It's in their Genes.
    
    No matter how loving his wife/girlfriend is, he'd still love Strippers and Porn.

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    Manly Manposted 15 years ago

    Manly men, generally speaking, like porn but don't become addicted to it because of the many beautiful women who are waiting in line to become a part of their lives.
    
    Inspirepub or Jenny has a point. American attitudes that nudity is shameful and one's body should remain hidden no doubt contribute to the booming porn business. I doubt that porn even exists in cultures where nudity is the rule rather than the exception.

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    Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago

    well to simply put, porn is simply catered to mens fantasies without the trivial heartache or strings attached relationship.  porn is essentially nothing more than a product based fantasy shoved down by the media. 
    
    strippers on the one hand, i can't speak for everyone here.  however, i know i'll probably get laughed at for this next comment, but I'll say it anyway.  strippers are simply part of that diluded fantasy that caters to men's desires when relationships seem to complex for some.  i know i've had my fair share to those places because most women i often meet in real life think im a jerk, so strippers doing lap dances and flirting helps as sort of a ego boost for me personally as i fantasize that they're really into me.  when in reality, i know they're just in it for the money i tip them.  however, i digress it helps take away the pain i feel sometimes getting rejected by other girls. 
    
    as sad as that may seem, its true.  however, that is not to say that im one of those sad guys that feel sorry for themselves or has low self esteem around girls.  im merely pointing out a fact thats all about myself, and trying to help provide a reason why some men go to such places.  however, thats just me.

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    Jonathan Jancoposted 15 years ago

    I've stopped going to strip clubs because they just seem to get sleazier every year . . . or maybe I'm outgrowing it. Anyway, anyone who claims to like strippers and porn more than an actual partner is sexually frustrated. Plain and simple. And usually in a relationship that offers plenty of what the person needs, but the sex is for some reason not up to snuff. Of course, there are also those guys who refuse to recognize the fantasy-based commodity that is the stripper scene and approach these women as though this is how they really are . . . very dangerous and I seriously warn againt such delusions.

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    johnmatrixposted 15 years ago

    Why does anyone view it!! That would be a better way of putting  forward this question. I mean why target men? It's not just men that view porn. Women look at porn too.
    
    28% of women view porn and 72% of men.
    
    The largest group viewing porn is 35 - 49 year old men. .
    
    Christian Promise Keeper Men who viewed porn in the last week... 50%
    
    Christians that say porn is viewed in their homes....47%
    
    How do I know....I checked it out here: http://www.familysafemedia.com/pornogra … stics.html
    
    Lying to people, cheating people out of their earnings, being angry at someone without a just cause, wishing harm on other people, etc.  is a far worse sin than viewing porn.
    
    Why do we look. Because without sex there would be no life. We are sexual beings and curious about sex. We like to see others having a good time. It's a nice change from all the wars, terrorist bombings, murder and mayhem, etc.  shown on the evening news.

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    Dark knight ridesposted 15 years ago

    Men tend to be more visually stimulated than women. But as johnmatrix points out, there are a large number of women who enjoy both strippers and porn. But the type of porn tend to be different for women, which is kind of odd to me. What kind do you prefer?

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       Black Lillyposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       As much as I've experienced, there are no different types, just dumbness of film-makers. What really puts me off in porn is vulgarity and no idea.
       They say one type of porn, targeted at men, is "the more they show the better". I mean, we all had anatomy lessons in school, and at least I have attended them - no need to remind of the subject.
       The other end of the stick is "porn for women", where there's emphasis on lots of romantic nonsense at the start and as long as it's there, nobody cares how it all ends.
       
       But this only impies that men like sex, and women don't. Cuddles only? No thank you.
       
       What catches the eye and is pleasant to watch is something else, something that gets to the instinct level. Something deeper. But it takes a lot of skill and insight from a producer (incl. crew), not just one guy with a camera making documentaries.

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          logic,commonsenseposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Yeah, if they can make you cum while you are just sitting there, then they have touched you emotionally as well as physically.

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    brimancandyposted 15 years ago

    I don't like strippers or porn. Well, not all of it.
    
    Some porn is just so stupid. The most exciting aspect of having sex with a partner is the intial losing of the clothing, the making out for a bit, enjoying intimate glances, a little romance. Some candles, maybe a little chit chat.
    
    Most porn goes right straight from being clothed, to naked pounding without the in between. I usually lose interest in it imeadiately. Another thing that makes me want to hurl, is the close up shots of genitalia. What's the point! Not only the closeup, but the same scene repeated multiple times just so they can make it last, before the money shot. And, the music is always loud and tacky. So, I don't care for it.
    
    As for strippers. Not really interested. I have been to a few clubs were there would be strippers, and they come out already in a g-string or some kind of underwear, without ever stripping at all. So, what is the point of that?
    
    I just find it all really boring.

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    DragonChefposted 15 years ago

    Well, actually there are men who truly dont watch porn. People have even been addicted to it, and no they are not losers without a life. Porn has become a problem for both men and women these days.
    
    I hadrly watch porn as a man at all, I watched 3 movies the last year. Most porn is fake, unrealistic and mostly based on women. It gives out the wrong picture of both men and women, and well. I think its much better to actually feel a woman than spanking the monkey watching a bunch of dead pixels on a screen.

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    shinujohn2008posted 15 years ago

    strippers do everything their masters ask them to do

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    Smooth as Silkposted 15 years ago

    I can tell you that rocking the almighty brass pole on a nightly basis, I've learned that women are just as into strippers as most guys are and that a lot of the guys I dance for are married.  I guess the spark is gone at home, so they come to me to get them fired up.

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       Andrea Hanlyposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       More women should try to enjoy these things WITH their men as opposed to making it something taboo. You would be surprised how good that can be for both partners......

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          Smooth as Silkposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          That's my idea.

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       dejajolieposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       and thus me joining a strip tease class at my local gym.... I want to swing upside down on a pole too, it's not only fun, and sexy but develops tremendous upper body strength, a great work-out altogether.

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          Smooth as Silkposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          That it does.  No one believes how hard it is to do a good pole dance until they try.  It is a great workout.  I always teasedmy last boyfriend that I get money thrown at me everytime I workout. That always pissed him off.

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    theonegoodmanposted 15 years ago

    Strippers and Porn is easy sex.  Men in general have a tremendous libido, and strippers and porn is an easy fix.  Sex for money.  Some men just want to get off and that's it.  Others want a relationship with a woman, but when they feel randy they need love easy. 
    
    Masturbation is a normal part of life, but porn is eye candy and can be addictive like a drug.  All in all, porn is worse than strippers, because porn is selling a fantasy and appealing to the lowest common denominator. 
    
    Strippers are essentially high-class prostitutes, and we all know that prostitution is man's oldest profession.

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    Anathposted 15 years ago

    It's not just men... I am a woman and I enjoy it too!

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       Smooth as Silkposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       My point exactly!  I dance for a lot more woman than you would believe!

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          Sa Toyaposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Yep Yep I'd agree here I've never been to a strip club...I'm too chicken but I can't say porn has never got me going

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    littlesimoneposted 15 years ago

    Men (and some women) love porn because it feeds the ego and masks deep feelings of inadequacy.  For women it tends to be about vicarious experience.  In terms of men, porn is not so much about “being visual” and needing visual stimulation because truly women are visual creatures as well.  But porn offers men the ability to satisfy themselves selfishly without requiring them to give anything of themselves emotionally or otherwise.  Most men feel deep shame about their own inadequacies whether real or imagined and porn in the form of strippers or magazines offers them the illusion of unconditional acceptance from women that they could never otherwise engage.  This is why fantasy is so often dangerous because it offers a false reality in which to live thereby robbing men (and women) of the opportunity to relate deeply to another human being emotionally and sexually.  Sexual intimacy represents the ultimate in vulnerability.  Strippers are paid well to provide the illusion of acceptance to otherwise undesirable men.

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       Qazarlyposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       "otherwise undesirable men"
       If the men are truly undesirable they will be robbed of the opportunity to engage emotionally, because they will not be acceptable by women. If your argument is correct, the fantasy must be better than their reality and therefore porn is a good thing.
       
       However what you are not saying but perhaps thinking, is that men who would otherwise be DESIRABLE are engaging in the fantasy and thereby robbing women of an emotional connection.

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    chigoiykeposted 15 years ago

    Because both men and women love did I say sex?

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    Justine76posted 15 years ago

    why does anybody love anything?
    it makes them feel good.

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    Mikel G Robertsposted 15 years ago

    Because sex, and sexual relations are controled by women. Strippers and Porn give men the illusion of contol.

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       Smooth as Silkposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Illusion  is a great word for that.  Don't worry, we're let you think you're in control. 

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          Sa Toyaposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          Ha ha ha ha
          So true
          
          This is off topic a bit but I've always wanted to learn to pole dance but I'm afraid for two reasons-I'm chubs and a Christian, I was raised to think pole dancing is wrong BUT I don't. I think it's good exercise and will spice up relationships- I'm such a confused lil thing...I might have to start a thread on this.
          
          

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             Smooth as Silkposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             A lot of gyms have classes for pole dancing now.  Take one, it's one of the only things that keeps me in shape.

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                Sa Toyaposted 15 years agoin reply to this

                I just might have too...cheers

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    JesusYourSaviorposted 15 years ago

    My children! Have you been tempted to sin by these Devil women and their withcraft? They enchant you with their naked bodies to lead you astray from the flock! Come back to me my children, so you may enter the Kingdom of Heaven and witness God's Glory!
    
    (Plus, we have candy)

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    Denno66posted 15 years ago

    Sugarless, albeit.

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       prettydarkhorseposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       DENNO< can you tell my sheeps, Merry Xmas to them hugs....theyre taking so long,
       
       Men love strippers and porn, and women loves it too,
       
       People are drawn to sexy images always

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          Poppa Bluesposted 15 years agoin reply to this

          As I am drawn to you Pretty!

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             prettydarkhorseposted 15 years agoin reply to this

             oh POPPA< how are you,

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    Poppa Bluesposted 15 years ago

    I'm well my pretty friend! And you? I trust you're well are are ready to enjoy a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

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    gusripperposted 15 years ago

    Because these ladies they have no demands after............

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    Mortgagestar1posted 15 years ago

    For the same reason women love harlequin romances. Fantasy! Most men is wired physiologically for polygamy from the early days of human development. Women erotic litterature is as pornographic as men's magazines. One is driven by emotion and romantic fantasises while the other is a primal compulsion. Studies show that the average man has sexual thoughts every nine minutes to fifteen minutes. Some men use voyerism as self medication from emotional pain or the feeling of never obtaining such a desire.
    Women who are drawn to repeated erotic experiences from litterature and film are equally into the thrill of extracurricular activity, in mind or actual physical participation.
    Men are sexually aroused visually as women are from emotional erotica.

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    prettydarkhorseposted 15 years ago

    because they love to, women also loved male gigolos hehe,
    
    men are easily aroused by visual images thats why, and asked them why they are easily aroused it is hormonal

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    andromidaposted 15 years ago

    excellent research topic.I will be waiting for your next hub.I think your question is true in the opposite way also.

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    John Arumugamposted 15 years ago

    I dont think its a question of "loving" porn which implies that people are hooked to it.I don't deny that there are guys or perhaps even girls who maybe hooked on porn. For me iif I do get to watch a porn movie or go to a strip club(normally with a group of guys),it's to relief stress. That's all.

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    d luckposted 15 years ago

    because every normal men like nude girls.
    men who don't like it is not normal.

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       Rod Marsdenposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       Back to genetics for your answer.
       
       

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    jessicabposted 15 years ago

    Its a thrill, men are different from women, its a thrill and entertainment for them.

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    logic,commonsenseposted 15 years ago

    Curiosity, the desire for something different.
    Speaking of which, did you hear that they are coming out with a Playboy for Married Men.  It has the same pictures every month!

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    Rod Marsdenposted 15 years ago

    Maybe it goes back to primitive times when men were hunters. This is also the reason why we surf a lot when we have a remote control in our hands.

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    Top Shotsposted 15 years ago

    Porn is like eating Kentucky Fried Chicken. It feels great while your doing it but you feel dirty afterwards

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    THDEM4EVERposted 15 years ago

    Part society and part genetics/the general male phsyique, I think.
    
    In society, guys among other guys are expected to like porn.
    
    Women are not expected to be horny and need to get off like guys are, so it is not the same thing for a woman to like porn and without being a woman, can guess that porn does not give a woman the same gratification that it can a guy when he's horned up as guys are more up for and open to empty sexual gratification in general. Guys are also more open about needing to get off and needing physical sex itself, regardless of whether it is in a relationship or an empty lay.
    
    Sex for guys is less personal and is more about getting one's rocks off, at least generally and guys, understanding this, are more willing to engage in a greater variety of acts that get their rocks off, such as one night stands, empty/casual sex and porn-watching and live in a society where among their peers (other guys), it is acceptable, an "everybody does it" mentality, at least among the other 20-something guys I know.
    
    In short, I think it is true that guys think with their penises alot more than girls think with there "vajayjays."
    
    At the very least, society is more condoning of guys who think alot with their penises than girls who think alot with their viginas.
    
    Hope that is helpful.

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       Marisa Wrightposted 15 years agoin reply to this

       I think that's true, though I'm not sure whether it's genetic or upbringing. Most girls are brought up to think there's something slightly shameful about revelling in sex.
       
       I do think men enjoy variety in their sex life and personally I'd rather my partner get that variety by looking at pretty women in a magazine or a video than going out and f***ing one.

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    lyricsingrayposted 15 years ago

    The same reasons women do.

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    Sean Leongposted 15 years ago

    It's just like asking why do men like screwing. Because it's enjoyable!

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    logic,commonsenseposted 15 years ago

    You know why a penis can't be 12 inches don't you?  Because then it would be a foot! 

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    NewYorkerposted 15 years ago

    Strippers are awesome. Porn is also awesome. I love porn and strippers.

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    theirishobserver.posted 15 years ago

    Actually I dont like porn, does nothing for me, as for strippers, never seen one, well unless you count that film Miss Congeniality. Furthermore, I save all my desires for the bedroom, yep I like a lot of lovin and I like to give alot of lovin, but porn, not interested...

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    Gentlesunposted 15 years ago

    I thnk m0st men dnt hv much patience for m0st ladies drama,,so they prfr 2 pay as u go(stripers,pornstar,aslng as u dnt fallin as a dramatic lady....

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    SensuousWorldposted 15 years ago

    I have read somewhere that it may be due to men being driven by visual stimulation while us women are more driven by emotional stimulation. I enjoy porn for time to time, and have been to strip clubs also. I can truly appreciate the beauty of the female form, don't get me wrong I love men but us ladies are just so much nicer to look at!

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    B.C. BOUTIQUEposted 15 years ago

    I do not know , but if they would look at the natural, un airbrushed photos they might be surprised at how turned om they may be...but this is what i have gotten in feedback of fully dressed and only one half bikini shot I have given of myself to find out ......
    I guarantee you , you give a man what he will not want any porm amy,ore and turn into a respectful man on public forums as long as you are a decent ladie to look at...and every man has a choice of women he prefers , so we are all desireable if you really think about it

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    zzronposted 15 years ago

    I would have to say it is a sexual turn on for most who indulge in this, somewhat of a taboo, and I have to say that the maturity level of men and women who enjoy this kind of entertainment may vary. As for me personally, not to judge anyone but people like what they like. I'll just stick to my wife and hubpages

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    H.C Porterposted 15 years ago

    Because they aren't real- they are an illusion (fantasy)

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    Sungaposted 15 years ago

    Men are generally turned on sexually by what they see. That is in their DNA and we cannot do anything about it. Period.
    
    The porn (and other industries) use this to cash in on the money.
    
    Women are generally turned on by emotions, words. Which is why there romance novelists cash in with the same story line...
    
    I am not sure that all men like porn but the majority do.

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