Ladies-Top 5 qualities you look for in a man? Gentleman-Top 5 qualities you look

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   yshashikantposted 14 years ago

   Ladies-Top 5 qualities you look for in a man?
   Gentleman-Top 5 qualities you look for in a lady?
   
   I was reading through some of the articles on the internet which details on the qualities a lady and a gentleman should have to impress the other sex. However, I m still confused because almost all of things on the internet are the same with re-construction. So now, here I come and ask this question to my fellow hubbers. Please donate your time to this question for my research.
   Ladies, "What are the top 5 qualities you look for in a man?" and Gentleman, "What are the top 5 qualities you look for in a lady?" before you consider them as your potential soul mate?

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   stricktlydatingposted 14 years ago

   In a man I look for the following qualities:
   *  Sincerity.
   *  Reliability.
   *  Positive attitude to life.
   *  Attraction and sexual compatibility
   *  And someone who's into me

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   Cardisaposted 14 years ago

   In the following order:-
   
   1. Honesty
   2. Loyalty (being faithful)
   3. Ambition (not lazy/hardworking)
   4. Considerate
   5. Affectionate

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   beverlyannblockposted 14 years ago

   What I look for in a man is:
   
   Honesty,
   Sincerity,
   Loyality,
   openess
   truthfullness
   
   Beverly

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   Rooskayaposted 14 years ago

   A man must be-
   
   1)  Loyal
   2)  Honest
   3)  loving,caring
   4)  Must respect me
   5)  Responsible and the one with whom I can share  my thoughts,who is ready to listen to me.

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   malindab144posted 14 years ago

   a man must be -
   . Honest
   . cute
   . into me
   . responable
   . [if we have kids] a great daddy
   .smart

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   moonfairyposted 14 years ago

   hmmmm.
   a good sense of humor
   honesty in every aspect of his life
   respectful
   loving
   kind

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   thursposted 14 years ago

   Men must be
   - Intelligent
   - Honest
   - Lovely & Caring
   - Have a good reputation
   - Handsome
   
   Lady must be
   - Beautiful
   - Must respect
   - Loyal
   - Honest
   - Lovely & Caring

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   DexisViewposted 14 years ago

   Qualities in a potential soul mate:
   
   Honesty ~ without it there's nothing
   
   Loyality ~ he's sure I'm the woman for him
   
   Confidence ~ he must like who he is
   
   Passion ~ lives life with it
   
   Best friend ~ for life

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    Sarah Massonposted 14 years ago

    Honest & trustworthy
    Caring & loving
    good sense of humour
    patient and understanding
    supportive

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    Jonathan Jancoposted 14 years ago

    Honesty
    Loyalty
    Spirituality
    Owns her own style
    and . . . oh yeah
    Has an uncontrollable attraction to me, of course!

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    Andi Rposted 14 years ago

    How I chose my man:
    1. Athletic/toned
    2. Shared music together
    3. Chemistry/attraction
    4. Truth seeker
    5. Honest
    
    Reasons why I am NOW thankful for my man:
    1. Faithful for life
    2. Willing to enter honest conflict
    3. Has perseverance in love and all things
    4. Willing to fight against his own vices
    5. Has strength to stand up for me and our future children
    
    If you can find qualities from the 2nd list..... he is a catch! I am just so thankful that I was able to find a man who has qualities in BOTH lists!

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    neefah1988posted 14 years ago

    TOP 5 QUALITIES
    1.DOMINANCE- a man must show me that he is independent, charming,  and in control of his life and surroundings...
    2. RESPECT- you can definitely tell if a man has respect for a woman, by the way he cares and shows love for his mother.
    3. HOME ECONOMICS-  a man must be able to cook, clean, have the ability to show proof that he can manage his billings without assistance...
    4. EDUCATION- a MUST...at least a highschool diploma...show me that you committed to some type of education.
    5. WELL GROOMED- a man must know how to care for himself...keep a clean hair cut, (shave or shape up), smell good is a MUST, well dressed...(if you are 25 or older no more mohawks and tight jeans), and most of all BREATH MUST SMELL MINTY FRESH...(even if you smoke).
    HOPE I HELPED

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    stclairjackposted 14 years ago

    in no particular order,...
    
    intelegent,... no one wants to spend a night, let alone a life time with a dullard.
    
    sense of humor,... laughs AT himself and WITH others.
    
    NOT a gentleman,...but instead,... a gentle MAN,... theres a big difference.
    
    usefull-handy,.... know your way round the tool box, ths is not a eaphamism, you realy should know how to change your own flat tire, etc.
    
    loyalty, to your friends family and partner,.. and the wisdome as to in whom this loyalty should be placed,... who you are loyal to says a lot about you,

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    White Sapphireposted 14 years ago

    I'm married now, but I'll use some of my husband's best traits for the top five things I look for in a guy.
    
    1.  Willingness to try things your lady really wants to do
    2.  Willing to sometimes do the cooking and cleaning
    3.  Remind his lady daily that he loves her
    4.  Regularly compliment his lady's appearance
    5.  Put his hobby skills to work to show his love for his lady in unique ways.

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    Ludivineposted 14 years ago

    Honest, caring, has a positive attitude about Life, open-minded, and good-looking

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    Dexter Yarbroughposted 14 years ago

    1. Lovingkindness (look it up)
    2. Integrity
    3. Mutual Respect
    4. Great Communication
    5. Physically Attractive

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    Ashantinaposted 14 years ago

    In a man:
    Loyal to his woman aka me
    Depth
    Honest - 100% real!
    Loving
    Hardworking

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    TCM Specialistposted 14 years ago

    passion
    strength
    determination
    loyality
    ambition

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    jielg97posted 14 years ago

    honest
    family-centered
    Popularity good
    Filial piety
    respect

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       blondeyposted 12 years agoin reply to this

       Honest
       Good communicator
       Loyal
       Affectionate
       Not lazy

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    ethan.guberposted 14 years ago

    why are you short out only 5 quality ?

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    mommyneal6posted 14 years ago

    If I was to answer that today it would be different from when I was younger. Today I look for, great with kids, goal orientated, supportive in all ways, sense of humor, and sporadic. When I was younger it would have been, is stable in a job, sense of humor, wants kids, and supports themselves financially.

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    RosalieTuomeyposted 14 years ago

    Good moral character
    Compassionate
    Intelligent
    Good Sense of Humor
    Knows a Good Woman when he sees one

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    Candis35posted 14 years ago

    Top 5 qualities I look for in a gentleman
    1. Beliefs
    2. Listens to me
    3. respects me
    4. honest
    5. confident and well rounded
    Most of all he can't be selfish!!!!!

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    yshashikantposted 14 years ago

    Are you the perfect gentleman that a women desires? Let's find out... read more

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    ExoticHippieQueenposted 13 years ago

    1.  Honest (no lying, deceit, game playing)
    2.  Sense of humor (in general)
    3.  Easy going attitude
    4.  Responsible
    5.  Kind
    
    I could go on.. 5 doesn't seem like enough!

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    Bobri Dobriposted 13 years ago

    My list for guys
    1. Kind
    2. Smart
    3. Funny
    4. Intelligent
    5. Balanced

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    Le_connaisseurposted 13 years ago

    Honesty
    Loyalty
    Caring
    Healthy (must workout)
    Unselfish

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    Guantaposted 13 years ago

    These are not necessarily listed in order of priority, but these qualities in a man are a good start, I think.
    
    1. Funny
    2. Intelligent
    3. God fearing
    4. Neat
    5. Clean

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    bswan17posted 13 years ago

    I would like for a guy to have a few qualities that are different from mine such as I'm quiet, but it'd be nice for him to outgoing. Minor things like that.
    
    But overall:
    
    1) Great sense of humor (playful, spontaneous)
    
    2) Ambitious (active, has many dreams and goals)
    
    3) Spiritual (his faith is important to him)
    
    4) Interesting (quirks and traits that make him 'different')
    
    5) Faithful (loyal, devoted)

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    ImYoungAtHeartposted 13 years ago

    Personally I look for
    
    1, Good listener and communicator (listens and pays attention to what i say and is articulate and can express his love for me easily and often
    
    2. Honest (all that communication is open and honest)
    
    3. Has same love language as me so we are compatible in how we communicate our love to one another -Physical Touch (for more explanation see my hubs on relationships)
    
    4. Loving person (caring, kind, easy going, gentle spirit)
    
    5. Sense of Humor (can make me giggle without it being at the expense of others or being sarcastic)

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    dorothy0328posted 13 years ago

    The 5 top things I look for in a man are...
    
       Intelligent
       Reliable
       sense of humor
       spontaneous
       self sufficiant/ responsable

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    ar.coltonposted 13 years ago

    Sincerity is the only one I've got.
    
    You never know what you're going to fall for until you get it and people change but sincerity is invaluable.

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    felicitylovespariposted 13 years ago

    QUALITIES that i'm looking for a man are;
    1.With good sense of humor
    2.Health conscious
    3.Family man
    4.Intelligent
    5.Flexible

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    carriethomsonposted 13 years ago

    I would prefer somebody who is
    1. intresting to talk to
    2. Loving and caring nature
    3. has a great smile and a great sense of humor
    4. Someone who can stand by me through thick and thin of life
    5. some one who loves me truely (that should be at no 1)

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    AllSuretyBondsposted 13 years ago

    Hardworking
    Honest
    Loyal
    Good sense of Humor
    Patient

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    europewalkerposted 13 years ago

    Honesty
    
    Sense of humor
    
    The way he treats other people
    
    Optimistic
    
    Genuine

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    eapratteposted 13 years ago

    1) Respectful
    2) Respectable
    3) Loving
    4) Driven
    5) Relatable

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    ssmith1534posted 13 years ago

    1. Faith Based- i'm not picky on the faith because i can work with almost everything, but it's important that you have a belief in some higher power. i want to be able to go to church together and raise our children in churh
    
    2. Open to New Things- i want to travel and see the world. and i want my husband to go with me, and be willing to try new things too. and my husband will take me to disney world, for the record. :-)
    
    3. Intimacy- this does NOT mean sex. i want a man that wants to be around me. A man that wants to hold my hand, and feels like he can trust me, and can be honest with me, even if it may hurt my feelings. i want a man that's strong, but if he's nervous or scared about something, he feels comfortable talking to me about it when he's ready.
    
    4. Sense of Humor- life is going to throw us some curveballs, so it's important to have a man that can laugh at the good times and the bad.
    
    5. Ambitious- with me being an ambitious person, i need a person that is ambitious as well. a man that makes goals, AND achieves them. And with this comes reliability, and dependability, which are also qulities i'm looking for

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    Kemet Musiqposted 11 years ago

    Brave, artistic, funny, beautiful, sexual.

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