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Can Love exist when there is not enough trust?

  1. cutequotes profile image60
    cutequotesposted 6 years ago

    Can Love exist when there is not enough trust?

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  2. cruelkindness profile image79
    cruelkindnessposted 6 years ago

    As long as the people engaged in the relations acknowledge the degree of trust between the ones involved.

    Expect nothing more or nothing less.

    Cruelkindness (Subliminally Thoughtless)

  3. SidKemp profile image93
    SidKempposted 6 years ago

    "deep beneath the winter snow / lies a seed, that with the sun's love / in the spring, becomes the rose." Lyrics from The Rose (sung by Bette Midler, among others). Love can survive without trust, but it cannot blossom. My wife and I are in our 26th year of marriage. Early on, trust failed, and frustration overwhelmed respect and outward signs of love. Working together for over a decade, we have cultivated the buried seed to create a new blossom, a whole garden, a whole new life. And focusing on respect, on being trustworthy, and on learning to re-open trust was the light of the sun that we shone on the seed of our love.

    1. cutequotes profile image60
      cutequotesposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Wow I'm so impressed, thank you SidKemp for your answer/comment!smile You expressed the meaning of love and trust in just a few words so good that it's kind of an example to me of what am I looking for.

  4. songbirdmom profile image60
    songbirdmomposted 6 years ago

    I believe there can be love without trust but most of the time people get quite annoyed at the other person and causes strains of the relationship.  In lots of families there's much love without trust.  It definitely depends on the person as to how long they are willing to put up with it.

    1. michememe profile image76
      michememeposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      I agree love is blind. Common sense and your intuition isn't.

  5. ii3rittles profile image83
    ii3rittlesposted 6 years ago

    TRUE Love can over come anything.

    Remember....
    Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails...But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.

    1 Corinthians 13:4-7,13

  6. michememe profile image76
    michememeposted 6 years ago

    If you don't trust the person how can you love them? Trust is what leads you to love the person in the first place. You trust them with the most value parts of your which is your heart. If they violate your trust, yeah, you may love them, but not in the sense you once did. When you begin to doubt a person, that lead's to jealous rants and that means insecurity exist. No one can make you feel secure, and if you don't trust, there is insecurity within the relationship.

    1. songbirdmom profile image60
      songbirdmomposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Love is also blind.  You can't choose who you love if the love is real.  You can choose you have a relationship with though and if when you are building that relationship you don't trust them you can choose to not be with them.

    2. Terrielynn1 profile image93
      Terrielynn1posted 15 months agoin reply to this

      Love is not blind. People chose not see. I have experienced this. Lust may not be a choice, but love is.

  7. jeanniedoe profile image54
    jeanniedoeposted 6 years ago

    Yes, still it will exist. However a complete trust is needed so that true love will be nourished or bloomed.

  8. Vegas Elias profile image33
    Vegas Eliasposted 6 years ago

    Yes true love can still exist without trust. I have faced it myself; I kept loving someone for 24 long years in spite of the fact that neither of us trusted each other.

    1. michememe profile image76
      michememeposted 6 years agoin reply to this

      Wow! That is an amazing story.

    2. Terrielynn1 profile image93
      Terrielynn1posted 15 months agoin reply to this

      That's not true love. You can't have love without trust in a marriage. My husband and I have 32 years together. Everything grows over time. With out trust and respect. I couldn't love him the way I do.

 
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