what will you do if your partner cant satisfy you in bed

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  1. EWS profile image58
    EWSposted 14 years ago

    Talk and ask questions.  Does he even know he is not satisfying you in bed or is he supposed to read your mind?

  2. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    I am Gertrude I give much love to horny Irish...he say he love me...he say he want my babies...he say I am most wonderful woman in the world smile

  3. mega1 profile image78
    mega1posted 14 years ago

    Read my mind, baby, read my mind!

  4. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    I am Gertrude I can read mind...you complicated woman....you high maintainence.....me just want water and hay......and love Irish smile

    1. mega1 profile image78
      mega1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Irish who?  well, you can just get on that horse and ride, sister! My mind is already gone, anyway .   so where where was I?   oh yeh  - one two, cha cha cha  one, two, cha cha cha!  You do the hokie pokie and you shake it all about!

  5. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    you put your left leg in, your left leg out, take out your rooster and shake it all about...oh oakee oakee pokey....smile

    1. mega1 profile image78
      mega1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      ooo - don't that hurt, though?

  6. profile image0
    sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

    Buy a new bed?

  7. mega1 profile image78
    mega1posted 14 years ago

    don't hurt the little guy!  No wonder he's so limp!

  8. mega1 profile image78
    mega1posted 14 years ago

    I believe I will do a little rhumba!  ♫♪♫♪

  9. Flightkeeper profile image68
    Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

    I'd probably put some viagra in his food.

  10. profile image52
    norelieposted 14 years ago

    I will say it to him and we should talk about it. I have researched about viagra and buy it online from medsheaven.com. My husband is suffering from ED or erectile dysfunction that's why I am not satisfied whenever we are in bed. I will going to give it to him later and hopefully to have great sex. Wish us luck!

  11. Flightkeeper profile image68
    Flightkeeperposted 14 years ago

    You go get some girl!

  12. pooja0908 profile image60
    pooja0908posted 14 years ago

    I will tell him not to worry honey we will try some another day




    and after some days i will tell him




    Dont worry honey we will try some another person





    to check each other

  13. Red_Dragon profile image60
    Red_Dragonposted 14 years ago

    Oh......I'll make it work alright big_smile

  14. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    phones o8000,000000000000 and ask for big Bridget Mc Tart...she wont let you down, well she might, but you know what I mean smile

  15. Anamika S profile image68
    Anamika Sposted 14 years ago

    If your Partner can't satisfy you then you should buy a Vibrator.

    1. ImChemist profile image58
      ImChemistposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      What if i haven't enough money to buy lol lol lol

  16. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    AnamikaS, beautifully put smile

  17. Sab Oh profile image56
    Sab Ohposted 14 years ago

    If your partner can't satisfy you in bed, try doing it somewhere else.

    1. ImChemist profile image58
      ImChemistposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Where!!

  18. Lalit Varshney profile image61
    Lalit Varshneyposted 14 years ago

    what do u mean by this

  19. Lalit Varshney profile image61
    Lalit Varshneyposted 14 years ago

    than we try on table..........nice question

  20. profile image0
    lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

    get a new bed.

  21. hollywoodjames profile image60
    hollywoodjamesposted 14 years ago

    Try open communication voicing your dissatisfaction with the current situation and talk it out to try and resolve things.  Nobody is a mind reader.

  22. mike71090 profile image58
    mike71090posted 13 years ago

    more practice..

  23. bornagain30 profile image58
    bornagain30posted 13 years ago

    How do you know your not the one whos bad in bed, an the other person isnt putting the effort in cause their hearts not in it cause they are bored of you????

  24. philirodje profile image60
    philirodjeposted 13 years ago

    Emm i am a good learner so i would try as much as possible to know what really turns her on ( i mean what would make her want to go on and on) if every attempt fails, we shall have a chat and see how she would improve.....

    1. Christy Goff profile image62
      Christy Goffposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      In almost 14 years, I haven't hit that point.  I have read many books, and tried various things, I want to make him happy, and he wants to make me happy, that is what a partnership is all about.  If someone doesn't care enough to please the other, it's not a partnership.

      1. philirodje profile image60
        philirodjeposted 13 years agoin reply to this

        You should try long romance before the real sex... i mean play  with the body a very long time and don't rush then you would get to some height then the real action comes to take you there... this way, you will get to the point.

  25. 6 String Veteran profile image67
    6 String Veteranposted 13 years ago

    It all depends on how much emphasis is put on sex in the relationship and what the priorities were when it was initiated. Mine was based a lot on conversation--there's nothing we can't talk about so our 'verbal' relationship is great, which really helps to counter the considerable shortcomings* in our physical relationship.

    *pun perfectly placed but unintended. Really.

  26. tritrain profile image69
    tritrainposted 13 years ago

    What's wrong with a battery powered little friend?

  27. Yuconman profile image59
    Yuconmanposted 13 years ago

    How is your partner supposed to know he is not satisfying you unless you tell him. Are you faking your orgasms just to be done with a duty. Maybe you both should read up on what it takes to satisfy your partner in bed. There tons of literature  on the net that can help.
    Yuconman

  28. ImChemist profile image58
    ImChemistposted 13 years ago

    I think if you love your partner really you can forget any thing .
    LOVE is the solution!

  29. qwark profile image59
    qwarkposted 13 years ago

    Well golly, it seems to me that YOU  are responsible for YOUR satisfaction...eh?
    I don't think it's a man's responsibility to satisfy you!
    Use what he's got and satisfy yourself!
    If "IT"S" not adequate, don't blame yer man! You knew what he could offer when ya made him yer lover.
    I've always believed that I'm responsible for my sexual satisfaction. My lady lovingly helps.
    It's the "old story" about a guy with a tiny penis who was asked by a lady: "Who ya gonna satisfy with that?"
    He replied: 'ME!'
    Qwark  :-)

  30. qwark profile image59
    qwarkposted 13 years ago

    Well, I guess that answer took care of that question.
    Next?
    Qwark

  31. AskAshlie3433 profile image62
    AskAshlie3433posted 13 years ago

    That's why you solve this problem the first time through. If it's bad, disappear.

  32. tomy101 profile image63
    tomy101posted 13 years ago

    I would assume we were incompatible and go our separate ways.

  33. HattieMattieMae profile image59
    HattieMattieMaeposted 13 years ago

    Usually if you have problems in the bedroom there are issues outside of the bedroom, and usually personal ones, or ones that involve the realtionship. You shouldn't leave a partner for this reason, but talk it out, or go to a professional counselor to understand what is going on in the moment.

  34. Sneha Sunny profile image86
    Sneha Sunnyposted 13 years ago

    a big noooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!
    because usually people go physical with the person whom they really love........ so you will not be able to leave him/her for this silly reason if you actually love that person....... it can be handled or can be improved by talking and discussing...... smile

  35. Greek One profile image64
    Greek Oneposted 13 years ago

    I would turn the TV on and watch the hockey game.

 
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