Daniel I wouldn't post all this in 'Need help ask '. You would have to post it in the right category. Cagsil did give you this advice yesterday I noticed. Please ask the team to change it to another category.
Beauty lies beyond physical appearance. Not all of them are lazy, to begin with. I would like to say, I don't like this thread.
I have always thought that I had good reading comprehensions skills until I read what Daniel wrote. Everybody deserves loves. Thats another reason why they say different strokes for different folks. Sometime its the beautiful ones that turn out to be crazy and whatnot.
First off ... Last resort ?? Didn't know we had to get Married ? first choice ? Last resort ?
Like Reba MCintire sings in her song
Unless he couldn't bear the thought of loosein her ... He needs to get it on down the road. or something like that.
And if a Guy feels like "she" is his "last resort" ? YEP ...
He needs to do them both a favor and take it on down the road.
....and they say the younger generation is devoid of romance... and a knowledge of grammar
I probably will earn myself a ban, or at least a warning, but I believe the original poster might be better off with the name,
Why would ya marry anyone?
Why ruin a great friendship!
Why would ya have your best friend live with ya?
Both of ya have yer own places and get together when the "want" is there.
If ya want to have kids, have 'em!
Sign the papers as mommy and daddy and take good care of yer "kiddies."
That's the best I can offer.
you probably have issues,asking such a question
I guess you got issues bro ! I don't think you need worry though cos dem fat babes aint got no time for teeny weenies.
You know Lord Daniel, you really are a arrogant pompous ass, aren't you? Look, I don't want to do a person like you any favors but since I feel sorry for you, as you're obviously an idiot, I'll give you a piece of advice along with some analysis of your situation.
First of all, who said that people are obligated to get married? Are you saying that you're so desperate that you would actually marry women your obviously not physically and/or emotionally attracted to? Is that what you're saying? Wow, you must either have very bad social skills, or you must look uglier than sin. No offense.
Second of all, you shouldn't marry anyone that you're not in love with to begin with, as that's very misleading and cruel to your spouse. Seriously, how would you feel if you married the girl of your dreams, and you found out years later that she only married you out of desperation? That she never found you remotely attractive at all, and she only married you out of fear of being alone. You know, kind of similar to what your planning to do. How would that make you feel? Knowing the girl you loved was repulsed by you, and only married you out of desperation. Wouldn't feel so good, right? Well, just imagine how that overweight girl you married would feel. If that logic alone doesn't make you feel bad, then you obviously don't have a heart.
Third of all, I got news for you..there's more to a relationship than one's looks. And, if you can't see that, then you're going to end up being a very lonely guy. Trust me, if this op is any indication to how your personality is, then I do feel sorry for you. Wanna know why? Because I'm guessing if you're contemplating marrying a girl your not even attracted to, out of desperation, then you're probably very ugly yourself, right? If that's the case, then a bad personality along with looks will detract most women. After all, as I always say, women are the smarter sex and unlike men, they can acknowledge and appreciate the inner beauty of others. Sure, there are some men, like myself (not bragging, just saying), that can do that too, but majority of men are visual; which is where you are. The point is if you had a better personality, then you might be able to go out with the women you wanted. However, since you're obviously a shallow jerk, then you're probably going to be a very lonely guy for the rest of your life. Unless, you plan on winning the lottery or buying a fancy sports car, then you might get lucky, but I doubt it.
The bottom line here is this. You should only get involved with people that you want to be with, and never out the sheer notion of desperation, or just for the sake of being in a relationship. Plus, you need to stop equating love to something as subjective as looks. Seriously, looks aren't everything, as looks can fade away in time. However, it's the inner beauty of a girl that'll last forever, as that's the important aspect to any partner you end up with. Anyways, I hope that helps, but you really need to grow up.
Well said, Stevennix. And, completely on point.
wow.. very well said.. i can't believe there are still guys out there who uses their heads to think... kudos! :-)
Maybe the 'fat' woman should answer this question: "Would She marry anyone so shallow?"
Bobbi, you've got the right idea here...lol
Most "fat" women I know (myself included) wouldn't want to marry someone with such a prehistoric mindset, because we're obviously capable of doing our own hunting and gathering.
@bobirant is it bad to be shallow and funny sometimes do u like boring men?
The OP does not seem to be responding to all these view points, I would be interested in the reaction.
Maybe he just figured out, that this really is not appropriate content to discuss about in this thread. Besides two things I learned, never to discuss with a woman. Number one...never comment on her size or weight, because none of us are perfect. And number two-never ask a woman her age. See my mom brought me up right. (:
@sofs as for u i am neutral with u u dont look insulting but i am compelled to find your trouble but i wouldnt no one can please,yeh lady what do u mean lord daniel didnt post in the right plcae would u now the the the third in the universe?huh!
Try to look past the package and see a person's personality. There are a lot of beautiful, slim barbie's out there who, when you really get to know them are not all that...
Read my Hub: Being Fat is not a Crime
Nice. I'm assuming you think you're a bit of a catch then, Daniel?
Newsflash...most women wouldn't be bothered if their man was overweight but if he was shallow, presumptuous and insulting...well thats another story.
yeh i am everywomans dream nicely built and sexiest body well still working on my abs i was just been shallow cant u people get it lord daniel didnt mean to insult anyone
Kate Middleton married a prince who's almost bald! So, I guess depends on the status or it could be really love!
I think Lord Daniel lives under the bridge used by the Three Billy Goats Gruff.
Now, Lord Daniel. You know I'm a fan of your insane and quirky sense of humor, and outlandish ideas on your scripture. However, this is in poor taste. And might hurt the feelings of people with a BMI outside of the range they feel comfortable about. I would have thought a guy that claims to be greater than Zeus would have known that. I'm afraid you fell quite short on this one.
I think that the points raised by the OP and his question are insulting to large women. A person’s character is far more important than his or her size, whether the increased size is due to genetics, a medical problem or lifestyle. Implying that all large women are "going to be very lazy" and the other statements made by the poster are not only inaccurate but in my opinion are also extremely unkind.
I couldn't get past the horrible grammar/slang much less answer the question.
This is typical locker room banter. The whole who would you rather bang? Rosanne Bar or Ryan Seacrest? Obviously to catch the guy who would rather do the hot guy, then have sex with Rosanne.
Nobody ever takes it that seriously. And, I don't think this is a serious question either. More like Lord was bored, and wanted to see if he could piss someone off. Mission accomplished. Like I said, nothing more than locker room trash.
The way lord post this question I'm surprised it didn't end with "Yo know what I'm sayin'...ditch da bitch."
impotent cockroach who asked you,i got an insecticide lurking somewhere u know,think twice before insulting me and u dont have to cry,because i havent seen adelinquent cocroach that cannot decipher a shallow message cry ok,heehe,its paining him in the heart,temper temper,my mouth is sharper than two edged sword be warned.so just give up,or u will test the paind of my sword,i am the master of samurai x.google it or check u-tube u will uderstand.
Why is there Such a BIG Fuss over someone who clearly;
Has a SMALL Membership Issue?
Get a Life devoid of delusion fella..
It takes a Real Man to get into these!!
Is this a joke thread?
If not, the OP is displaying values beneath contempt.
It never ceases to amaze me how shallow some people can be. I guess a low intellect, a complete lack of social skills and a hurtful uncaring attitude have something to do with comments like this one.
Really? This is just a very sad and despicable thread, and should be banished from the HP Kingdom!
Pearldiver I will need those panties back...
Personally I would prefer that the thread remains as testimony that this idiots views are not tolerated, nor are they aligned with the views of others here at HP. I would prefer that he was immediately banned for life from HP as a warning to any other fuckwitted dinosaurs out there who share his views.
shut up u bed bug,sinse u know u are a cockroach u should know where u belong... al izard is waiting for in that bush kingdom
It amazes me that I still can hold my head high after sharing a gender w/ people like this for the last 37 years. I've never been married, but I've dated many many women and have gotten serious with some. I've dated women with average bodies, I've dated women w/ permanent disfigurements, I've dated women with eating disorders and YES! I have dated fat women, too! In my eyes, every one of them was beautiful!
And I loved all of them!
Of course, the one I really cant do without, the one who is the Moon to my ocean, the Heaven to my Earth, so to speak, she is the one I will marry. I have no idea what she looks like, but I know she will be beautiful to me.
I'll marry any woman that I love and I believe love me, not just because she's the "last resort" period. why desperate?
Here's the thing, OP: some men prefer fat/big women! My husband is one of them. He's always gone out of his way to look for this type. He always thought Kirstie Ally had a pretty face, but he thought she was too skinny. He was elated when she packed on the pounds - his dream come true! lol
@Peter Hogan, I actually kind of agree with you.
@habee, I agree with your husband, Kirstie Ally is very beautiful; more so these days.
@newmember, your heart is in the right place!
yeh woman just joking u know,they could be fun
I find this thread very offensive to plus-size women.
Its not right to call plus size women a "last resort".
Although I do respect your opinion, I think you should learn not to stereotype women or people in general. Not all plus-size women are like that. And plus, you love a woman for who she is, NOT because she's the "last resort".
I think (as mentioned above) there's the "living-under-a-bridge" factor going on with this thread. Posting offensive threads is what creatures who dwell under bridges do. Regardless of all the other ways it's offensive, the horrendous grammar (and overall inelegance of presentation ) is enough to make anyone want to claw out his own eyeballs after reading it!
hello sorry i wasnt able to get back to you all,he was banned from forum posts,well i am lord daniel's companion,he said i should tell you that he was only being shallow and didnt mean to insult or hurt anyones feeling but actually he has women who loves him so much because he is beautiful to look upon and could make anyone including u all to pee on your panties.
However,he wasnt happy receiving insults from some while some praised him some were neutral but were repulsive.So he has chosen to punish the repulsive ones,now instead of using his conventional method he has decided to give them their own medicine but due to the fact the his thread seemed to be abusive he has decided to classify all that posted into two groups.
There are tow classes of (OP)peopLe:low IQ cockroaches and GOOD butterflies.The butterflies might be protected during the coming 7-year tribulation while the cockroaches are on their own.
(OP)GOOD butterfiles:mindtraps(protected),earnest hub,jonathan,carol vc,k9keystrokes,habee,newmember,brimancandy(man of understanding high IQ),stevennix2001(he understands lord daniels mind HIGH iQ),alicia c,univited writer
low IQ cockroaches:perterhogan(bug xteristics too),sofs,pearl diver(in big trouble),
UNDECIDED:(i dont know where to place these):wrintinglaska(funny weird name),THEJEFFRIESTUBE,just_curious(atheist,but with reason),darknlovely.
WHETHER u believe it or not tribulation begins fall of 2011 and stretches out to 2016/2017,get ready i will send some angels to protect you butterflies unless if u are already saints of GOD,u passed the test,the rest of the cockroaches you are on your own,for the undecided;u are in no mans land.
This is the verdict from lord daniel.
Remember God is not a respecter of persons,but lord daniel has love and respect people when in the mood and forgives thats y he is not God,just_curious u can never understand me,to know my deep wisdom and riches will take aeons of years for u to comprehend,bye from the heart of lord daniel.
lord elijah(his companion)
I don't know whether to take this post seriously or not. Whatever way it was meant, I would suggest it was posted to cause controversy. It is not only patronising and insulting, but shows a distinct lack of education. I think a more pertinent question would be - would any woman, whatever her size want to marry the poster?
If I was fat I'd like someone to marry me.
I thinks this post might be at risk of offending someone.
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