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  1. Cat333 profile image60
    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    I gave you the answer straight from God's word regarding the new bodies God has promised us. I gave no interpretation for this, just the scripture. You will get a similar version from another believer who relies on God's word to answer the question. I can't say what you'll get from anyone who arrogantly speaks their own words, rather than the word of God (yes, we've all been guilty of that and so much more at times).

    God's love is perfect. His people who are made in his image are not yet perfect, though praise be to God he has DECLARED them perfect in his sight and one day when he comes they will be perfected!

    1. Dr Lamb profile image54
      Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Yet given what is written, we cannot tell the difference between those speaking the words of your God or the word of yourself, especially when someone presents a contradictory word out of the same Bible that you don't like wink



      But you said people's love is the love of God because it is in his image Right? So either the love people display is not truly in the image of your God or the love of your God is not perfect.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Some of God's word is designed to be extremely clear and there is little disagreement in such places. Some of the word is purposefully designed to be discerned - hidden gems to be found, revealed by God himself.

        I say humbly that I certainly haven't been given all revelation about the hidden gems.

        What I'm about to say may sound arrogant to you, but it is actually opposite of arrogant because we are not relying on ourselves (as arrogant people do), but relying on God:

        Guided by the Spirit of God, many of us generally can tell the difference between those speaking the words of God and those speaking on their own, based on how closely they stick to the actual scripture and how accurately they reflect God. (That doesn't mean we don't all slip and put in our own inaccurate thoughts here or there.)

        I am confident that many here on these forums are my true sisters and brothers speaking the very words of God (yes, with their humanity at times entering in). I can tell the difference, though I understand that one without the Spirit of God cannot.

        We may offer a poor, hazy reflection of God's perfect love (as a rocky brook might offer a poor reflection of your face), yet any love we show does reflect (though imperfectly) the perfect love of God, who is love.

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          Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          You alone can tell the difference between who is saying what because you have a special power that others don't. I have the spirit of God (which has never been shown to exist) and you don't
          so I'm special..

          Nope, no arrogance there roll


          Sorry, but this is an example of the very definition of arrogance

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Dr. Lamb - It is certainly not me ALONE who can tell the difference, but untold numbers of God's people! You also have been OFFERED salvation and God's Spirit, but you must make your own choice.

            Arrogance = Relying on one's own wisdom, strength, "truth", etc.

            Humility = Recognizing your own great limits and humbly relying on God's wisdom, strength, truth, etc.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              How does God give you his wisdom? Little voices or conversations

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Psalm 111:10 "The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding. To him belongs eternal praise." (NIV)

                Proverbs 4:6-7, "Do not forsake wisdom, and she will protect you; love her, and she will watch over you. Wisdom is supreme; therefore get wisdom. Though it cost all you have, get understanding."

                Job 28:28 "Behold, the fear of the Lord, that is wisdom, and to depart from evil is understanding." (NKJV)

                Proverbs 1:7 "Fear of the Lord is the foundation of true knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline." (NLT)

                James 1:5 "If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him." (NIV)

                James 3:17 "But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere." (NIV)

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Not going to answer my question then. Isn't there something in the bible about honesty?

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    That is how God gives wisdom. Your question was answered according to the word of God.

                    God bless you, Rad Man.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          You may actually believe that because it validates your untruths.

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      tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      2 Timothy 1: 3 I thank God, whom I serve with a clear conscience [c]the way my forefathers did, as I constantly remember you in my prayers night and day, 4 longing to see you, even as I recall your tears, so that I may be filled with joy. 5 For I am mindful of the sincere faith within you, which first dwelt in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, and I am sure that it is in you as well. 6 For this reason I remind you to kindle afresh the gift of God which is in you through the laying on of my hands. 7 For God has not given us a spirit of timidity, but of power and love and discipline.
      Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony of our Lord or of me His prisoner, but join with me in suffering for the gospel according to the power of God, 9 who has saved us and called us with a holy calling, not according to our works, but according to His own purpose and grace which was granted us in Christ Jesus from all eternity, 10 but now has been revealed by the appearing of our Savior Christ Jesus, who abolished death and brought life and immortality to light through the gospel, 11 for which I was appointed a preacher and an apostle and a teacher. 12 For this reason I also suffer these things, but I am not ashamed; for I know whom I have believed and I am convinced that He is able to guard what I have entrusted to Him [h]until that day. 13 Retain the standard of sound words which you have heard from me, in the faith and love which are in Christ Jesus. 14 Guard, through the Holy Spirit who dwells in us, the treasure which has been entrusted to you.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Amen, brother tbHistorian!

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      tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Those who have witnessed the light - honor the Heavenly King.
      Those who protest and deny - will never pass into the light.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    1Th 5:6  Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober.

    There are many who sleep and will not know when the Lord comes until it is too late.  I am reminded of the ten virgins, five were wise and five were foolish.  The wise virgins kept their lamps trimmed and ready, watching and waiting because they knew the Master was coming.  The foolish virgins used up their oil and their lamps went out.  They had no idea the Master was coming and were not ready for Him.

    We must be ready to see Him when He appears.  We can't be ready if we are asleep.  We must keep our lamps trimmed and burning because when He comes, we won't have time to get more oil.

    Trust in God to keep you.  He will give us all the oil we need if we do.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Gal 4:16  Am I therefore become your enemy, because I tell you the truth?

    Many say they want truth but when it is shown or told them, they reject it.  They even go so far as to make an enemy of the one speaking truth to them. 

    This shows me that what they want is to be lied to and told everything is all good and nothing bad will ever happen to them.  No matter how many times I am called a liar, made fun of and mocked, I will speak truth.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Or perhaps you don't have the truth after all. Just maybe others don't see your truth because it's not the truth at all. It doesn't help to just claim it's the truth, you have to demonstrate that it's the truth. All you've done so far is post scripture.

      1. Cat333 profile image60
        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        SirDent speaks the truth, Rad Man, take it or leave it!

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          wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Or perhaps you don't have the truth after all. Just maybe others don't see your truth because it's not the truth at all. It doesn't help to just claim it's the truth, you have to demonstrate that it's the truth.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Acts 4

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              wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Sorry - a bible quotation is evidence the bible contains that verse.  It is certainly not evidence of truth as half the bible is false to fact.

              I'm sure you do understand that when someone wrote down something 16,000 years ago, claiming it was the work of someone 400 years prior to that who in turn claimed it was the words of Jesus, a man that cannot be found in any other record, well, it takes a little more than being in the only book to have those words before deciding that it's all true.  You have to demonstrate that it's the truth whether it is your particular holy scripture or not - others do not take your personal scripture as Truth with a capital T.

              1. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                2 Timothy 3:16, "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness."

                2 Peter 1:21, "For prophecy never had its origin in the human will, but prophets, though human, spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit."

                Acts 5:38-39, "If this plan or action is of men, it will be overthrown; 39but if it is of God, you will not be able to overthrow them; or else you may even be found fighting against God."

    2. Righteous Atheist profile image58
      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      But you don't have any truth. I reject all the nonsense you preach. Does that make me your enemy? The truth is - your beliefs are divisive nonsense. But - you don't want the truth.

      1. Cat333 profile image60
        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        It is your right and your choice to reject the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ, Righteous Atheist.

        Truth divides - light and darkness are divided, the works of God and the works of Satan are divided, the "sheep" and the "goats" are divided, the crop and the weeds are divided, goodness and evil are divided...

        "The word of God is alive and active. Sharper than a double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart." (Hebrews 4:12)

        Within a certain context, Jesus, the prince of peace, himself stated "Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword" (Matthew 10:34).

        It is not true love to offer you a "feel-good" religion. It is true love to offer you the TRUTH! That truth will divide you from others, that truth will divide even you yourself, as it divides your inner being!

        Enemy of the cross or not, I love you still. In truth, if you were before me hurting or in need of help, I would sincerely and lovingly give it to you. Many have persecuted God and his church before one day finding the truth, and becoming our sisters and brothers.

        Whatever your final choice may be (and neither of us really knows yet, just as we don't know how much longer you have to make the choice), I hope the best for you. May the God of all compassion and mercy be gracious to you.

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    Deepes Mindposted 11 years ago

    This is a PSA: I actually decide to peek in and I see my name mentioned a few times.  I haven't really been active in a few weeks. Leave Deepes out of any points. I'm not in this.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Respected.

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        Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Thank you, Beth. I sincerely hope all is well with you.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Thanks.

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            Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            You're welcome.

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Haha. Is it her fault you are famous and your name pops up everywhere? I think not. smile

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        Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I wasn't pointing fingers at anyone directly.  That's why I posted a general reply rather Than a direct one. I am aware that my name was first mentioned by a friend, but it was repeated by others. My comment was a general one to friends and non friends alike.


        On a side note, its kinda nice to know I'm thought of even in my absence.  Gives me the warm and fuzzies smile

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I actually hadn't read through the thread. Just watching a bit of the cat fight. I had to giggle when i saw your post.

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            Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Ohhhh. Okay. Well, I see I'm not missing much.

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    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years ago

    When did it become impossible for us to see each other as individuals?  I'm entirely fed up with being lumped in as part of this "gang" or "group" that's out to insult and wound and aggravate Christians.  There are two reasons for this: first, I am one.  But I am in no way afraid to acknowledge flaws within my belief structure or the institutions that perpetuate it. Second, I am a person who thinks for myself and is willing to address those thoughts individually with anyone who cares to ask about them.  I'm not afraid of what anyone thinks of me and I'm not afraid to say what I think or feel.  I do not need to hide behind a big, bad gang.  That said, if you want to talk about me, I'd prefer that you talk to me - because I will certainly ALWAYS extend that courtesy.  Thanks.

    Enjoy the rest of the night, folks.

    smile

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I can only assume you're talking to me Michele, unless you are angry with Melissa or Radman for lumping you in with them?

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        Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I'm actually speaking in general, because I don't like it, but specifically I am addressing you and Emile. Melissa and Rad are both familiar enough with me to say what they think about me directly to me.  I get frustrated with the overall assumption that because we are friendly, we must be some sort of collective out to rule the world (or at the least, the HP forum...lol). 

        It will happen often that people agree with each other. Just as often, people will disagree.  But at the end of the day, we need to all put our big girl panties on and deal with it like adults.  Adults talk to each other when they have something to say, not to everyone else.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I don't believe I was wrong in saying that you were friends with them.
          I did talk directly to you about it today and you apologized for coming across unkindly.
          You do seem to be at it again, but that's ok. I was ready to lay all this to rest, but you seem to want to pick it up? I really don't enjoy the bickering. Melissa and I finished our discussion.

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I see you've alluded to me directly. Back off. Please. I call them as I see them. If you don't like it you might check your own big girl panties.

          1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            And you don't see your's and Beth's little show of unity as cross-validation... It happens quite a bit. Enough that I've wondered whether you two are a matching pair of socks.

            Pot...Kettle.

            Seems like those big girls gave you a wedgie.

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              Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I'm still feeling pity here. smile

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Funny, I feel it too. Nah, I really don't. I got over feeling pity for the pathetic a long time ago.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Whatever you say. smile

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            Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Your explanatory post came at the same time as mine.  I was just about to address it.  Sure, it isn't uncommon for those who occasionally agree to appear united.  Beth, I'm not back at anything except saying I don't like that people make assumptions about me without talking to me.  Emile, I agree with your points about that.  As to your request to "back off" I have no problem with that.  I've no need to either reach consensus on this issue or to be right at anyone's expense.

            Beth, my smart aleck remark last night was playfulness. It really had nothing to do with anything. I found Melissa's remark funny.  I followed suit.  Apparently, you aren't the only one who has trouble with people "getting" your sense of humor.

            Sigh.  What a mess these conversations turn into.  It's really no wonder that most people choose to participate anonymously. If you have any sort of sensitive nature at all, this place can be brutal.

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              Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Hey. Instead of a few Hail Mary's for the faux pas, just play scrabble with her to make amends. That should do it.

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                Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Actually, that could work! smile

                I am a huge fan of online Scrabble.  I've lost many an hour of sleep playing that game.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  That's one reason I leave the lap top at the office. When it's here I convince myself I can't sleep so I can go downstairs and play.

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                    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    For a while I played Words With Friends on my phone.  My mother in law and I would stay up sometimes until 3 and 4 am...lol

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I would just like to clarify that the only time I mentioned your name, I was talking about "Christians"... I included myself in that group.

          At one point I said "Melissa and her group" although never mentioned you. I guess you assumed you were included in that post.

          So, just to be clear, this morning, when I had an issue with you, I discussed it with you.

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Just to point out... that issue was over a smiley face and a two word quote from a 1950's movie. No over-sensitivity there...

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              Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Talk about over sensitivity. roll . Can you say pot kettle?

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Now that I call BS on. I may be many things, but over-sensitive I'm not.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  If you say so. smile

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              Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I enjoy online scrabble.

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Do you? Are you any good? I love Pogo scrabble, but few will play long. They leave when they get behind. I don't understand that. When I'm losing (which isn't often) I stay to the end out of courtesy.

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                  Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Actually I am good. But it's just about the only game I like.

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                    Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Do you play on Pogo? If so, if you want to play some time tell me your user name and I'll try to figure out how to look you up when I'm near my computer and signed on.

    2. janesix profile image60
      janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I don't really see any "groups" or gangs here. Short term maybe, but it seems pretty changing and dynamic to me.

      I've seen other forums that were way more cliquish than this one.

      1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        There are some that are friends outside of HP. I can bring up threads where we've argued with each other too. The group thing is an illusion perpetrated by people with exclusion issues.

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          It's kind of weird though, there seems to be a ton of fighting between a lot of different people the last few days.

          It seems like there's a new fight or two every day.

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That's how it usually goes. It doesn't help when people bring arguments from one thread to another.

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              janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You're probably right. I've only just been coming here a lot recently (practically living here, it's a little embarrassing that this is my current social life) so I'm just getting used to every one I guess. I used to just pop in and out, but lately that's not the case.

              1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I'm essentially useless to the world right now, so yeah, I've been here too much too.

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        Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Some of us are friends away from HP, Jane.  We respect and value one another in spite of our differences.  We argue a lot on the forums, but we do coincidentally agree on some things in the middle of it all. You should hear us outside of the forums.  The way we argue away from here would get all of our accounts shut down... LOL. But the key thing that bonds us is the understanding that our religious beliefs (or lack thereof) are only one aspect of who we are

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I didn't know that some of you knew each other until today. That's cool.

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            Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            We met here on the forums and gravitated to each other. We have very different stories,  perspectives,  and personalities.  We argue as much as(if not more than) we agree. Unfortunately,  the others have a hard time accepting that I'm right and as such the smart one...lol

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              Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Yup. He's the "smart one."  At least we let him think that wink

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                Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Finally,  one admission.  Three to go big_smile

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              It's a struggle.

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                Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I'll take that as partial admission.  Works for me...lol

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  You need to make up your mind. Are you going to be the smart one, or are you going to be the devastatingly handsome yet unavailable essence of male perfection? You and Rad can't keep switching back and forth. It confuses us poor hapless females.

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                    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Right?!  They really need to pick a seat and stay in it!

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                    Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I'm both. Rad just hasn't come to terms with it yet wink

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I'm sorry. Who are you again?

      Just kidding. Good points, but it's been my experience here that few want to see people as individuals. I'm constantly accused of thinking things I've never thought and saying things I've never said.  I'm considered a believer for disagreeing and an atheist for disagreeing, depending on the party involved.

      But, I also see a lot of feeding off of each other here and to say there aren't those who tag team an opposing view by belittling and attempting to intimidate with hostility is wearing rose colored glasses. Imo.

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        Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        +1

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    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years ago

    Oh...and no, I have no problem with your statement about me and Melissa being friends.  I'm also friends with others here outside of HP.  It doesn't shame or bother me to have that made public.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      lol... So hard to imagine why you thought that I thought that would shame you???
      Oy. I was truly hoping this was over 10 min. ago.

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        Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Beth...there isn't anything to be over.

        I don't like something and I say so.  End of story.  I can't (and I mean I am fundamentally incapable of doing so) hold a grudge.  More than that, I don't like to.  Takes too much energy and makes people miserable to be around.

        That's all.  I'm not mad or anything.  Promise.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I understand, but did you see my post about not having mentioned your name? So in my mind, it was a whole lot of hoopla over nothing. And you did say you had directed it at me, so I felt I should address it.

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            Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Hmm. It wasn't over mentioning my name per se...although you did use my name, my real one, in a response to Melissa. It was in general regarding the gang/group accusations.  I'm really over it.  Wasn't ever anything more than irritated anyway.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Mat 15:32  Then Jesus called his disciples unto him, and said, I have compassion on the multitude, because they continue with me now three days, and have nothing to eat: and I will not send them away fasting, lest they faint in the way.

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Three days? Man. Three hours without food and I'm dizzy.

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    itsduboisposted 11 years ago

    Let us address each other with decorum.I believe in this world there is more room for love than for hate.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Mat 15:36  And he took the seven loaves and the fishes, and gave thanks, and brake them, and gave to his disciples, and the disciples to the multitude.
    Mat 15:37  And they did all eat, and were filled: and they took up of the broken meat that was left seven baskets full.
    Mat 15:38  And they that did eat were four thousand men, beside women and children.

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    Rad Manposted 11 years ago

    Well, I guess you are smarter than me as well. It's okay cause I'm older and will most likely die first. I've got you there. In your face (imagine Homer Simpson's voice).

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      Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Three down, one to go!

      And yep I'll give you the age thing

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        JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        You will NEVER get my vote for smartest.   I'll out history you every time.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Yeah well I'll out... I'll out....

          Yeah I got nothing.

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            Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            You'll out birth me.. big_smile

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              No, no I really won't. I don't want to win the competition that badly. wink

              Oh, you mean I'll have more kids than you? Well, yeah. So my role in the group (pack, clan, click whatever) is the human Pez dispenser?

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                JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Roflmao.  Do we get clan tartans?  Just saying

                Every time I see a Pez dispenser,  I'm going to think of you.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  http://s2.hubimg.com/u/8793409_f248.jpg

                  I'm having kilts made for the guys as we speak.

                  Clan Brattahan we be.

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                    JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I hate purple,  and I won't wear a skirt OR a kilt.   Damnit

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                    Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I'll have mine framed and hung on a wall but you'll never catch me wearing one..


                    Rad Man on the other hand... lol

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                Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Melissa - just one kid would out birth him.  If my Pez dispenser only gave me one candy, I'd be pissed! wink

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                Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                LOL!!! If you wish it to be wink

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          Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          If you say so, Dear wink

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Joh 3:6  That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
    Joh 3:7  Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    “God, that comforteth those that are cast down.” - 2Co_7:6

    Remember when you were a child and skinned your knee or got hurt in some way? Nothing could comfort you like mom could. She knew just the right words to say and how to treat your wounds.

    God is like a mother because He knows how to comfort those who have been cast down. Jesus told His disciples that He must go away but that He would pray to the Father to send another comforter. The Holy Ghost can comfort us like no one else can. He knows what we need even before we do. He has the power to comfort when things seem to be the worst they have even been.

    We should let God comfort us when we feel cast down, trodden underfoot, hurt, bruised and abused. No one can help us like He can.

    1. Dr Lamb profile image54
      Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Does a grown man need mommy to kiss is booboo?

      1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
        EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        +1

        Took the words right out of my mouth. lol

      2. Cat333 profile image60
        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        SirDent, my brother, came to my defense when people here attempted to falsely and slanderously say I would advocate the victimization of children. SirDent is truly a man of noble character!

        Thank you, SirDent!

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I agree.

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            Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Interesting Beth. I get associated with the KKK and you say nothing, but nod in agreement.

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              Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

              If you do not understand something, ask. You shouldn't make up stories b/c you think making others look bad makes you look good. If you need a lawyer to defend you, you might want to hire someone else. I seldom agree with a single word you say, I wouldn't be the best one to hire.

        2. EncephaloiDead profile image56
          EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Yes, the morally repugnant will defend the morally repugnant.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            When there are many words, sin is unavoidable, but the one who controls his lips is wise.
            Prov 10:19

            1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              So says the crowned forum queen. Perfect. lol

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us.
                1 Jn 1:8

                1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Yes, you are deceiving yourself, and us. No truth comes from you.

          2. Cat333 profile image60
            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Are you now "name calling", EncephaloiDead, calling me and others "morally repugnant"? Surely you would not "resort" to this, as you have said another "resorted" to name-calling when she called out your scoffing/bullying. I hope you never call anyone a hypocrite after this clear display of hypocrisy.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              How many times have you called everyone who isn't born again a sinner. Is it just okay for you?

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I don't actually tell people they're "sinners" except to say we're ALL sinners, and that God has so mercifully offered a way for us to be cleansed and made righteous and sinless through Jesus' sacrifice of himself. This is truly beautiful, wonderful news.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  But it's B.S. How can you claim you don't call anyone a sinner and admit that you call everyone a sinner and then you claim you are no longer a sinner. Just everyone else but you.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I don't say anyone IN PARTICULAR is the sinner, but that we are ALL sinners. Then by the GRACE of God, ALL who come to him in faith are cleansed from any and all sins - God makes ALL his children righteous, and God permits ALL to come to him and become his children if they choose (He will not force them).

                2. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  In other words, you would never say exactly what you actually do say.

                  I never actually tell people I golf, except when I go golfing.

                  1. Cat333 profile image60
                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Please see my reply to Rad Man.

            2. EncephaloiDead profile image56
              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              It is your words here that are morally repugnant, I don't know much about you personally other than you are JCSimonelli who was recently banned.

              1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Yes, I believe she had a "moment" when she went pretty much incoherent and called someone the spawn of Satan. Not jokingly, seriously. Which I guess I had always know people did or the joke wouldn't be around, I've just never seen anyone actually do it.

                1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Don't tell me, let me guess, she said that to another Christian?

                  1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
                    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    No, actually. To a very respectful... well honestly I don't know what the hell he is. The really smart one that is currently arguing with Headly in another thread.

        3. janesix profile image60
          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Your words speak for themselves.

          There was no slander involved. Anyone who wishes to go back in the thread and see for themselves is welcome to.

          1. Cat333 profile image60
            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Falsely accusing me of supporting the killing of one's children in order to spare them pain on earth, and falsely accusing me of supporting violence against children through exorcism are both SLANDER, as I said not one word about us killing children or engaging in violent behavior toward children, and I would NEVER advocate such. You can deny it all you want - it was in fact slander.

            Since I have done you no wrong, janesix, but only hoped well for you, I must conclude that there is more to your desire to support slander of me. What is the purpose of this slander; what is to be gained from discounting me through false portrayals?

            Some of you here are very "see-through" in your motives!

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Perhaps you misspoke. Because a lot of people were concerned when you went on about how it's better for suffering children to go straight to heaven.

              1. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                "A lot" of people were "concerned", huh? It wasn't so much that I misspoke as that I left myself too open for those who desired to manipulate my words.

                God alone has the right and the responsibility to determine when his children go home to him. Being in heaven with God is far better than being here (at all, and most especially in a state of great suffering). This is truth. Yet recognizing this does NOT imply we take any murderous actions, and to say I am saying such is slanderous.

                Were you truly concerned? Because even if you looked at it statistically it was HIGHLY unlikely I would promote murder of children. It appeared less about concern and more that you wanted to portray me as evil for your own purposes.

                1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Speaking for myself, I don't care how you are portrayed.

                  I am concerned about the thought process spreading. Parents who think that way -STATISTICALLY-are more likely to load the minivan up with the kiddies and drive it into a lake.

                  1. Cat333 profile image60
                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    The "thought process" spreading? When speaking of the faith of others helping us, I referred to scriptures in which the parents' faith led our Lord to free their children from demons (which Jesus did lovingly). I said nothing more. Do you now wish to censor the word of God, so that no one will ever mention those scriptures again?

                    Parents who think what way - That people, including juveniles, can have demons in them? I understand from other posts that you do not accept the truths within the word about the devil, demons, evil spirits, hell and the like. It seems we either believe the word or we don't; If we pick and choose...

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Portray you as evil? I don't even believe in evil, I guess you think everyone thinks like you, trying to portray others as evil.

                  The concern is for the children.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Rad Man, you say "I don't even believe in evil". What exactly do you call murder, rape, child molestation and the like?

                3. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Please seek professional help before you hurt someone, or worse.

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    Beth37posted 11 years ago

    How blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked, Nor stand in the path of sinners, Nor sit in the seat of scoffers! But his delight is in the law of the LORD, And in His law he meditates day and night.…Ps 1:1-2

    1. Righteous Atheist profile image58
      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Is "blessed," the same as "self righteous."?

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        Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        bless·ed adjective \ˈble-səd\
        : having a sacred nature : connected with God

        : very welcome, pleasant, or appreciated

        —used to make a statement more forceful

        Full Definition of BLESSED

        1
        a :  held in reverence :  venerated <the blessed saints>
        b :  honored in worship :  hallowed <the blessed Trinity>
        c :  beatific <a blessed visitation>
        2
        :  of or enjoying happiness; specifically :  enjoying the bliss of heaven —used as a title for a beatified person
        3
        :  bringing pleasure, contentment, or good fortune
        4
        —used as an intensive <never had one blessed minute of instruction — Charles Scribner Jr.>

        1. Righteous Atheist profile image58
          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          You could have just said "yes."

          Held in reverence? lol lol

          Self-righteousness (also called sanctimoniousness, sententiousness, and holier-than-thou attitudes) is a feeling or display of (usually smug) moral superiority derived from a sense that one's beliefs, actions, or affiliations are of greater virtue than those of the average person. Self-righteous individuals are often intolerant of the opinions and behaviors of others.

          1. Cat333 profile image60
            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Humbly I say to you, we believers have no righteousness of our own, Righteous Atheist.

            Philippians 3:8-9
            " I count all things to be loss in view of the surpassing value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and count them but rubbish so that I may gain Christ, and may be found in Him, not having a righteousness of my own derived from the Law, but that which is through faith in Christ, the righteousness which comes from God on the basis of faith..."

            1. Righteous Atheist profile image58
              Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You say that, but your self righteousness is apparent. wink

              1. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                By GRACE I have been saved, and this is not of my own doing, but the doing of the Lord, who offers that same grace to ALL. I have no boast in this; it is all God's doing! To him be the glory both now and forevermore! Amen and amen.

                1. janesix profile image60
                  janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Honestly, do you really think you are humble?

                  Or is that false humility?

                  Is that a sin? If not, maybe it should be.

                  1. Cat333 profile image60
                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Yes, I believe I am humble before my Lord.

    2. EncephaloiDead profile image56
      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Calling us wicked sinners, again? Funny, how the verses you post here are meant to put others in an inferior light compared to your "blessed" superiority.

      1. oceansnsunsets profile image83
        oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        In fairness, there are other verses that call everyone sinners.....  Which we all have broken even our own moral codes at some time, never mind a possible moral code of god.....

        1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
          EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          That is why Beth posts them here and why we reject them as hateful nonsense.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I didn't call anyone a sinner, though ocean is right, we are all sinners and have all fallen short of the grace of God. If I was calling anyone anything, it was the word "scoffer" that came to mind b/c you and Dr. Lamb were scoffing at Sir Dent. You were scoffing at Sir Dent were you not? Maybe I misunderstood, but I don't believe so. If you scoffed and I pointed out that you scoffed, I don't believe that is "hateful nonsense." It's just an observation.

            1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              lol Gee, how did I know you were going to say that? Oh yes, the fact that you never take responsibility for your actions.



              Exactly, your immediate response was to resort to name calling. That's just an observation. smile

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Words.

              2. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                If Bob makes fun of someone (scoffs or what we'd now call bullies), and Ann then says Bob was scoffing or bullying, does Bob have any sympathetic grounds for complaining that Ann name-called?

                Where does this logic end? If no one can call scoffing or bullying such, should we also avoid calling those who rape us rapists, those who steal from us a thieves, because we are then "name-calling"?

                If called out on bullying behavior, wouldn't the better and bigger thing be to apologize to the one you bullied, rather than complaining that someone else called you a bully for bullying?

                1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  So, you're now calling us bullies because we laugh at childish beliefs from grown adults?



                  When the adults grow up, of course.



                  So, now you equate us to rapists and thieves?



                  Here is the definition of bullying, so that you are educated and need not use terms falsely:

                  "Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively impose domination over others."

                  1. Cat333 profile image60
                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    "Does a grown man need mommy to kiss his booboo?" is a form of taunting; it classifies as "verbal abuse"; it's intent is clear. It IS a form of bullying!

                    I did not equate you to rapists and thieves. I said if one can't call a scoffer or bully such, must we take this logic further and refrain from calling rapists and thieves such because this also could be labeled "name calling"?

                    I don't see that the one who confronted your scoffing did any wrong; she was defending someone. I think you, Encephaloidead, and Dr. Lamb owe the one you scoffed at an apology and you both could benefit from a lesson in compassion and kindness, but based on what I'm now witnessing from you, I won't be holding my breath for that.

            2. oceansnsunsets profile image83
              oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Yes, I saw the scoffing at Sir Dent's post.  To that, I would just say that it seems to me that the equivalent of pain from a child to adult, is still there.  Mock as some will, this life IS super painful at times.  It just downright hurts, and we have been through it or know others that have been.  To that kind of pain, there is some hope for people, comfort to be had which is a welcome blessing.  To say its like an adult needing a boo boo to be comforted was goofy to me, even if they disagree with Sir Dent. 

              Edit:  To everyone, no matter what their views, there is often a type of "pain reliever" sought after.  That is pretty human.  Even those that do the worst to end their pain, are seeking freedom from the pain.  The point being, its not that much different from when we were kids and got hurt.  Feeling better is nice no matter how it comes I think.  Sir Dent was sharing his thoughts on that I think.

              1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Sure, and religion offers exactly the same "Feeling better" solution as does the needle to the junky and the bottle to the alcoholic.

                1. oceansnsunsets profile image83
                  oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Ahhh, I can see why you say that based on some other things I have seen.  However, I would have to disagree from my point of view and understanding, because I think that needles and bottles in those situations actually hurt the person more than help them or numb the pain.

                  If the comfort is true and real, and the hope is also, that is very different from the killing effects of the other things compared.  Or I think so anyway.  I understand that you think very differently and find some beliefs harmful, so I can see why you might try to make the parallel. Its only all true as it is, that they are the same though.  If there is hope in God truly, and comfort and meaning  to even the greatest pain we encounter, that is true hope and help, not like bottles and needles, imo.

                  1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                    EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    As does religion, which does nothing to solve anything and only serves to exchange one bad vice for another.



                    As opposed to the killing effects of religion on the mind and in societies?

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              That's funny Beth, You didn't call anyone a sinner, you called everyone a sinner. That makes it okay?

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                What is sin?

            4. EncephaloiDead profile image56
              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              No one cares what you believe about yourself based on the rubbish contained in the bible. If you want to believe you are evil sinners with no self esteem, that is your prerogative. Obviously, it is a very unhealthy attitude that doesn't help you in any way, an attitude in which one should seek professional help rather than just accepting it, but again, you are free to do so. No one will suffer more than you and the people around you trying to live with such a morbid worldview.

              However, to blanket the rest of us as if we share your personal problems is not something anyone is going to accept or sit idly by while you demonize and lower us to your standards. We know we are not evil sinners just as we know the vast majority of people on the planet are not evil. Hence, it is an insult to our intelligence for you to say that to us, but we understand that those words are just the result of having no self esteem and a morbid outlook on life, and all we can really do is laugh at the immaturity or feel pity.

              I personally see no reason to feel pity as that outlook is self-inflicted and childish, so I would much prefer to just laugh at those immature believers who have yet to grow up and be the responsible adults they are expected to be. If they refuse, they will only be laughed at even more.

      2. Cat333 profile image60
        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        ALL are wicked sinners UNTIL we come to God THROUGH Jesus Christ, and then we are DECLARED righteous, only because of what Jesus has done, dying in our place on the cross, and not because of anything we have done or will do.

        1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
          EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Yes, that hateful nonsense, exactly the stuff we reject.

          1. oceansnsunsets profile image83
            oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Still, you have to admit that IF we have done wrong things, and IF there is a god that has moral rules or codes, and that IF then he has forgiven the wrongs done to him in his "greater court" of justice, then how is that a bad thing? I am saying, the idea itself is not a bad one, even if you aren't into the idea of there being a god to answer to.

            IF there is, it is pretty great, is it not, that he makes a way to be forgiven if people are sorry they did something wrong?  We live in a society that seems to esteem doing right, and shuns and punishes for doing wrongs.  Just thinking it through on a practical level there.

            1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Because we can make up endless amounts of "If" fantasy scenarios to justify anything, but unfortunately for those scenarios, reality takes over.

              1. oceansnsunsets profile image83
                oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I am speaking of good ideas vs bad ideas there.  Not just trying to make up "if" scenarios.  They matter in that case to the point being made.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Sounds like boot camp brain washing. Strip every thought out of them and then put your own in when they are weak and vulnerable.

    3. Dr Lamb profile image54
      Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Says nothing about women. Either God doesn't care about women or the men who wrote it did think women had value. Which one do you think it is?

      1. Cat333 profile image60
        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        The words of God have been passed down from ancient days when "mankind" and "men" referred to both men and women, thus both men and women are referred to, and "men" in most cases in ancient writings, including the books of the bible, can be translated men and women.

        1. Dr Lamb profile image54
          Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          That's a rationalization to say the least. Are you saying the bible does't refer to women as her and men as him?

          1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Now, don't be silly. I'm sure she speaks Hebrew and Aramaic perfectly...or at least  Greek. Surely she speaks Greek.

            1. Dr Lamb profile image54
              Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I'm certain the bible also refers to women or does it always say men or man?

              Let's see…

              Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT
              "However, you may purchase male and female slaves from among the nations around you.You may also purchase the children of temporary residents who live among you, including those who have been born in your land. You may treat them as your property,passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance. You may treat them as slaves, but you must never treat your fellow Israelites this way."

              Male and female.

              Exodus 21:7-11 NLT
              "When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are."

              Man, daughter, slave, she.

              It's all there. She must have made a booboo.

              1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                You don't understand the words because you aren't being led by the spirit. Your argument is invalid.

              2. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                It can be verified in nonreligious writings that "man" in ancient days often referred to both males and females. This is not to suggest that the writers did not also specify both males and females at other times. It's the way it was; it's not my opinion.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            This may help. Read thru it and see if it increases your understanding of the matter.

            http://www.ushistory.org/DECLARATION/DOCUMENT/index.htm

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Luk 23:34 Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Cat and Beth, I appreciate the support.  You are both great people and true friends.

    1. Cat333 profile image60
      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you, SirDent! May God bless you for your kindness!

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Jer 1:8  Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the LORD.

        1. Cat333 profile image60
          Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Amen. Thank you!

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    “Thou shalt call his name Jesus.”

    - Mat_1:21

    A name given of God to Mary the mother of Jesus. The name Jesus in the original Greek is Ie?sous. The definition of this name is Jesus, the Son of God, the Saviour of mankind, God incarnate.

    Oh what a Savior we have in that he took our place and entered into the realm of death so that we may live.

  17. MelissaBarrett profile image59
    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years ago

    Next person who says cross-validation gets linked to the above conversation.

    If my eyes rolled any further back in my head right now I'd be having a seizure.

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      Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Cross-validation?

      1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Yeah, apparently Emily took a psychology course at some point and decided to show us her Freud impression...

        http://hubpages.com/forum/topic/109430? … ost2555811

        Wonder what the doctor would feel about the above lovefest?

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    1Co_1:18  For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    When you see lemons on a tree, you know it is a lemon tree. 

    Reply when you figure that out.

    1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Oh, I don't know if I can get that one... it's ever so cryptic.

      It would help if you could see the tree... oh but you can't. So you are just guessing. Wrongly... obviously.

      So yeah, I can discount your opinion smile Have a good day.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Mat 5:14 Ye are the light of the world.

    A light is meant to shine in darkness and show the way. Do you show the way? Is your light hidden under a bushel?

    Jesus once said, "I am the light." As long as He was here on this earth, He was the one who illuminated the path of righteousness. He said, "I go away, now it ir your turn to light the way."

    Let your light shine. Stop hiding your identity. Bring others to the path of righteousness so they can be saved.

    1. Righteous Atheist profile image58
      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You think you are shining a light the same as jesus did? Wow!

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    I asked the Lord, "What do you want to say this morning to your children?"

    Tell them I see their sorrow and their grief.  Fear not because of what the enemy is doing for I am with you.  Stand strong, for the day of my coming is near.  Keep your lamps trimmed and ready so you won't be found lacking and unaware.

    A light shines in darkness and darkness flees.  A light illuminates so what is there can be seen.  Keep your eyes open  and do not fall asleep. 

    May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

    1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      "Absolutely nothing, mind your own business and leave people alone, you don't speak for Me."

    2. janesix profile image60
      janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      God talks to you? Did he actually say those words?

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Sometimes He does talk to me yes.

        1. janesix profile image60
          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Me too. Mostly it's more of an intuition thing though. It's like talking directly to my soul at times too. Has it always happened to you? What's it like? I hope you don't mind me asking.

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            It started only after I gave my life to Jesus.  I used to hear Him a lot more back then than I do now.  Back at first it was like just chatting with someone but as time went on, I heard Him less not because he stopped talking but because I stopped listening as much.

            It was always a voice I heard, not a loud screaming voice but a soft voice.

            1. janesix profile image60
              janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              That's interesting. I've heard several people say that before. How has it affected your life, if you don't mind me asking? I'm just really interested in other people's religious experiences.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                It changed me completely.  The old me that ran around to clubs, cursed, and drank was not there anymore.  I used to play music in bars and watched people get drunk, fight, have shootouts etc. . .  No longer did I have a desire to do that.  What didn't bother me before, bothers me now.

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                  janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  That is really wonderful, I'm happy for you:)

                2. MelissaBarrett profile image59
                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  So you are more irritable AFTER finding Jesus?

                  1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
                    EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    With us, probably. wink

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                    Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I wouldn't think it makes one irritable after converting.  I know that for me, I simply lost interest in clubbing as I wasn't comfortable in those environments.  As such, I redirected that energy into writing and other interests.

  22. Cat333 profile image60
    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    Thank you sister skye2day for your kind, encouraging words! May God bless you!

    Thank you brother SirDent for your words of prophesy this morning.

  23. Cat333 profile image60
    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    Hello, sister Beth, I see many are coming against you, so I wanted to give you a word of encouragement:

    "If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you. Remember the words I spoke to you: 'No servant is greater than his master.' If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the One who sent me." John 15:18-21

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You do realize no one is being persecuted? Claiming that does not make it so. No one is anti Christ. None that I have seen, anyway.

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        Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        How dare you minimize my suffering! I am in sackcloth and ashes. JK

        Cat, you are very sweet and your encouragement is always welcome and appreciated. Thank you. smile

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Well, people can come off as a bit jerky, but that bit of 'encouragement' basically says anyone who questions someone claiming to be a Christian is persecuting them. I doubt many professed Christians would profess Christianity if they were truly persecuted.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I think we envision persecution to be burning at the stake, imprisonment, torture etc., but I s'pose it can be things as simple as feeling pressured to remain silent for fear of being mocked or rebuked. I personally do not enjoy the mob like mentality that takes over at times, it makes actual grown up communication more than difficult.

            That being said, you are absolutely right! Speaking only for myself, I have not endured a hair of the suffering my beautiful brothers and sisters have... especially in countries where speaking anything biblical is off limits (illegal, even.)

            I still appreciate Cat's efforts to be supportive. She is obviously a compassionate person.

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              skye2dayposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Millions of Christians have been martyred for the name of Jesus Christ. We will be persecuted. For over 2000 years of recorded history Christians have been persecuted for loving Jesus. We will be until Jesus returns. He will return. Every knee will bow and tongue confess Jesus is Lord. Many will go oops big times and it will be too late. Jesus is the way truth and life.  John 14:6 , Romans 10:9-10. Choose Jesus because He so loves you. He wants none to perish. That is why He came into the world. John 3:16.  Love, Skye

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                JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Isn't it also true that for 2000 years,  Christians have been persecuting others - often martyring other professed Christians?   Christianity began with Roman pagans almost immediately after gaining political power,  through the crusades,  the inquisitions the witch hunts, Catholic vs Protestant,  early American settlers,  puritans,  pilgrims,  etc?

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I think, we stretch the word persecution here a wee bit. But, if it makes you feel good to feel put upon...go for it.

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                  skye2dayposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  No I do not feel put upon?? Not exactly sure what that means but I get the drift.  No problem. Jesus is my shield and my buckler. He is for us not against us. Any arrows that may come my way ping right off of me and go back.  Jesus loves you girl like no other. He only wants our love. Skye.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Acts 14:22  we must through much tribulation enter into the kingdom of God.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Psa_37:9  For evildoers shall be cut off: but those that wait upon the LORD, they shall inherit the earth.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    http://www.wholesalefishingworms.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/Live-Fishing-Worms-as-Bait.jpg

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Actually, it was real respect. I worked with families down there. It's a rough area, damn rough.

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        What kind of work did you do down here?  What area?

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I worked as a service coordinator for Birth to Three. We went into homes with kids who had medical issues/developmental delays and arranged things like speech therapy and physical therapy in home. I was up north for most of the time but they had some shortages down in Mcdowell/Mingo/Wyoming/Logan area so I covered four or five days a month.

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Mingo county is where I live.  It isn't as bad as it used to be but still not as good as it should be.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              The people were all good people, they just REALLY liked their privacy and were kind of guarded. It was a voluntary program, of course, but it is ran by the state... so a lot of suspicion. Once they warmed up though, I was hard pressed to leave a house without a meal in me. 

              Before we go back to fighting... is Miner's still open? The food was amazing.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Not sure where that is.  Seems I have heard of it and it may be in the Delbarton area but not sure.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  It's down near Matewan.

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I am thinking it may have been in a community called Taylorville.  It sits between Delbarton and Matewan.  There is also another community called Red Jacket between Taylorville and Matewan but no diners there.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Psa 4:8  I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety.

    Good night and God bless you.

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    Dr. Lamb, you wrote:

    "You remind me of a friend who doesn't eat pork, but eats bacon. I thought you guys thought a sin was a sin. And here I thought the Kingdom of God was not a matter of food, drink or murder therefore no food, drink or murder needs to be a concern once we are freed from the letter of the law, which was already fulfilled by Christ himself."

    I hope this helps, Dr. Lamb - Now that the letter of the law has been fulfilled by Christ, it doesn't matter if a person eats pork or bacon (unless their own conscience is bothered) since the "kingdom of God is not a matter of food or drink". Murder is an entirely different story - murder violates not only the letter of the law but also the Spirit of the law, which is love.

    Yes, many say "a sin is a sin", and there is a context in which this is a truthful statement - The blood of Jesus covers over EVERY sin, small or great, and make us clean and righteous. Once cleansed and freed from all sins by Jesus himself, we are forgiven of any and all sins, so that it doesn't matter what the particular sin was. So a person who was a murderer but has repented and is hidden in Christ can say with the same confidence as the one who lied but never murdered: I am made righteous by my Savior.

    However, in another context, we do not equate one sin with another. As a follower of Christ, we need not worry about what food we eat, knowing that Jesus Christ has fulfilled the letter of the law and knowing that the kingdom of God is not about food or drink. But since we have the Spirit of God, we strive to keep in step with the Spirit, and so we are careful not to violate the Spirit of the law. "Love does no wrong to its neighbor, so love fulfills the law" (Romans 13:10). When we walk in love, in accord with the Spirit, we cannot murder, which violates the spiritual law of love.

    JMcFarland, it is the Lord who decides all this and whose Spirit prompted men to write it in his word. The verses can be found throughout the bible. For example, "The entire law is summed up in a single command: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself” (Galatians 5:13-14).

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      janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      This is why I don't like you're religion. You pretty much get a "free pass". You get to do what you want, regardless of the consequences to other people. And then, all you have to do is accept that Jesus was real, died on the cross for your sins, and ask for forgiveness to get your ticket to eternal happiness in Heaven. While decent non-Christians get to spend an eternity in Hell simply for not believing. While they may have been practically a saint in life. Then you have the Charles Manson's of the world getting into heaven just with a few words. Doesn't make a whole lot of sense to me.

      It seems like a cop out, and a way to do what want without ever having the responsibility of facing the rotten things in life you've done (not you in particular, I mean anyone).

      Too cheap, and too easy.

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        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Obviously that's just the sales pitch.

        If Christians truly believed that was all it took, they would never question each other. No one would ever say anyone wasn't a "real" Christian because of *insert thing they don't like here* There wouldn't be any "telling a tree by it's fruits"

        They would know that all those horrible gay and lesbian abominations that they keep saying are going to hell would be walking through the gates beside them.

        Lip service... sales pitch...saying crap they obviously don't mean... however you want to put it.

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I don't think all Christians are out for free passes. I have more faith in Humanity than that. I also think there are some very valuable lessons and wisdom to be found in the Bible.

          TRUE repentance is rare, I think many "born again Christians" aren't truly repentant. All I have to do is look at my Facebook page to see that. They talk the talk, but don't walk the walk. I don't expect people to be perfect Christian angels, but I can tell when some one is lying, and when they actually feel the guilt and want to do better.

          Still, it's true what I said. And there are plenty who DO think that way.

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Also, Melissa, people like you don't carry Bibles around in their pockets, and bang people over their heads with it at every opportunity. People like Cat do.

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Why use a Bible when almost every car trunk has a tire iron?

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              janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              lol..not exactly sure what you meant here, but it sounded funny:)

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            janesix - Are you bothered that I refer to scriptures in a "Christian Discussion"?

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              janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              No. I am bothered that you go around preaching things that aren't true, many things that aren't even in the Bible, and that are only your interpretations. You're interpretations are what I don't agree with. I don't like your thoughts on how you see the world.

              I have nothing against you personally.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                In all sincerity (and I am not being "smart" about this) where do you believe I have made errors, so that my words are not biblically sound?

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                  janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Honestly, I really don't have the time or inclination to go back through this huge thread and find the things you say that I disagree with. I've already told you in earlier posts some of the things that I disagree on.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I'm sorry to have bothered you with the request, janesix. Truly I did not mean for you to go back through the thread. I thought perhaps you might recall some. I was specifically looking for anything I said that was not biblically sound, rather than ones you simply disagreed with. Thanks for responding anyway. Take care and God bless you.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Salvation itself is a gift that cannot be earned, so yes in that sense it is a free pass. But the Christian life thereafter is certainly not easy.

        janesix, you say you don't like Christianity because as a Christian we get to do whatever we want, and perhaps at first glance (if tuned in only to the fact that any and all sins are erased once someone puts their faith in Jesus) this might appear the case. If you will read the next paragraph about striving to keep in step with the Spirit and obeying the Spirit of the law, you might see how a Christian must live a careful and wise life.

        The funny thing is that in people's hatred for Christianity, they will make opposing stereotypes and complaints - Some will say (as you do) that it isn't right that people get a "free pass" and can do whatever they please as a Christian; others will make the exact opposite argument about Christianity and say it is too restrictive, not free enough for them. Our human nature without Christ is to reject and hate the message of truth, and we insert any and all excuses for our rejection.

        I've never met any of these people you say are practically saints. Even the best of people (or those who APPEAR the best) are often selfish, prideful, greedy, hypocritical, judgmental, dishonest, rude, thoughtless, biased, uncaring, etc. People are often blind to their own tendencies. ALL are in need of a Savior. 

        Jesus said to those who were righteous in their own eyes: "The prostitutes and tax collectors are entering the kingdom ahead of you." (Matthew 21:31).

        The prostitute, the thief, the murderer and so on recognize their need for a Savior much more easily than the prideful, judgmental, selfish, uncaring, hypocritical people.

        Once saved, the prostitute is not to go on prostituting, the thief is not to go on stealing, the murderer is not to go on murdering. It must be TRUE repentance, so that they are sickened by their own past behavior, and now being a new creation in Christ they chose to follow Christ.

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          JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Cat -
          again, why do you assume (wrongly) that disagreeing or speaking out against Christianity amounts to hatred of it?  I don't hate Christianity.  I don't hate Christians.  I disagree with them.  I argue points with them.  I disagree with a lot of what the religion stands for, but that does not equal hatred of it.  It seems that you have a persecution complex, and that it somehow makes you feel good to feel hated or persecuted.  You're not being persecuted.  Disagreement is not persecution.  Argument is not persecution.  Do you think that anything but absolute acceptance of Christianity equals a hatred of it?

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I see hatred in harsh words, lack of any kind words, twisting of words, accusations, ridiculing, jeering, etc. (I am not here speaking of you in particular). I haven't sensed hatred from all unbelievers on the forums. But it seems a tendency.

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          .

          " Our human nature without Christ is to reject and hate the message of truth, and we insert any and all excuses for our rejection."

          I don't hate the message of truth. I'm no longer a Christian. How do you know what I hate? I don't hate anything, actually. I am sickened or saddened beyond belief of certain things that go on in this world, but I don't feel "Hate". And I certainly don't hate Christians or Christianity.

          I don't think YOU get the message of truth at all.

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      Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Gotcha, so, we can murder as many as we want as long as we repent. Is that why Christians are over represented in prisons?

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Dr Lamb - If someone WANTS to murder as you say, then they clearly have never repented. True repentance involves a complete change of direction so that the person who was once a murderer now abhors their past and would not now murder any more than those who never murdered.

        Keep in mind that many a murderer who has never really repented will claim belief in Christ, but Jesus has said "Not everyone who says to me Lord, Lord will enter the kingdom". Only the truly repentant, only those who become a new creation in Christ will in fact enter his kingdom.

        Those in prison turn to God with great frequency for many reasons, including, 1) they are those whose sins are obvious to themselves and to everyone else , so they more easily recognize their need for a Savior, as opposed to the prideful people with HIDDEN sins; 2) their desperate situation pushes them toward calling out to God; 3) many evangelists are going into the prisons with the words of God, so the opportunity to discover God is increased.

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          wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          "Dr Lamb - If someone WANTS to murder as you say, then they clearly have never repented."

          When did the change occur, then?  Believers murdered abortion doctors, murdered gays and witches, murdered thousands in the inquisition and murdered in the crusades.  God himself murdered a world full of people, murdered Egyptian children and the people, both innocent and guilty of mistreating strangers, of Sodom and Gomorrah.

          So if believers now would not murder, when did it change?  Or are you invoking the logical fallacy of "No true Scotsman" and calling it truth?

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            1 John 4:20 "Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen."

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              wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              The "No true Scotsman" fallacy.  Gotcha. 

              Partially because, as you will be aware, many of those murders were ordered by God.  Just ask the murderer and they will tell you that - especially the Inquisition, witches and Crusades.  And the abortion doctors, of course, as well as the evil homosexuals. 

              Plus very few actually murdered a brother or sister, just a stranger that was living in sin and in violation of God's orders.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Matthew 7:21-23 "Not everyone who says to Me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father who is in heaven will enter. Many will say to Me on that day, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in Your name, and in Your name cast out demons, and in Your name perform many miracles?' And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you who practice lawlessness."

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                  wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  And from this you deduce that you can tell the difference between a true Christian and a fake one?  That you are a god?

                  I would disagree, and I think that most people will.

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                    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    If you add the two together, it basically means that anyone not agreeing with her is not a Christian... throw in the fruits of the tree and you have the self-righteousness judgmental hat-trick.

                    I swear, same three verses...every time.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                So you would believe the word of a murderer over the word of someone decent and moral?   This is what you are saying in a round about way.  Believe the murderer when he says God told him to murder but don't believe it when someone tells you about the Love of God, though they did not murder anyone. 

                I think I talked a little with you about all this before.  Crusades were fought by Catholics who sold their farms and homes to the Catholic church to fund their crusades.  The church ended up with lots and lots of property.

                I may be wrong but I think the inquisition was done by the Knights Templar who called themselves Christians but were not by their very own deeds.  By their fruit you will know them.

                Witch burnings I don't have enough info on to decide or discern what really happened.

                Now a little Bible lesson for whoever reads this.  When Jesus stood before the people after being arrested, PIlate offered them the release of one prisoner.  The people decided which one to release.  They chose a murderer and thief over a man who did no wrong.  The people today are of the same ilk, (generally speaking).

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                  wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  With no other information, it would seem prudent to believe the murderer.  God has a very long history of both murder and giving orders to murder; it would seem reasonable that an unchanging God will continue to do the same.  The one claiming God loves people He has every intention of burning for eternity, though...well, that one doesn't make much sense.

                  Yes, the church ended up with property.  And the people God told to kill marched off and did just that.  It's what I said.

                  So God told the Knights Templar to murder - again, what I said.  But be careful with that "fruit" thing - you come perilously close to the same logical fallacy as well as violating God's right to be the only judge that Cat appears to follow.

                  Witch murders were most often a simple land/possession grab, because God told them to.  What I said.

                  Yep - the people chose a reformed murderer and thief over a rabble rouser that was destroying their way of life and belief.  Much like murdering gays, wasn't it?  Or anyone else preaching that the accepted "interpretation" of God's word just might be a little wrong?  You don't like to hear what they have to say, and they are different and threatening your belief, so kill them.  Christians have been noted for that for a long, long time.  I do seem to remember reports of going after the gnostics way back in the 3rd and 4th century...

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    My last reply for the night.  Jesus told believers how to know who were real and who were not.  It is not judging as you believe it to be but discernment of the spirit.  If we have no way to tell, then  the gospel cannot be preached to the lost, which is also a commandment of the Lord. 

                    God removed cancerous people from the earth.  Who in their right mind would only want a small part of a tumor removed?   God gave land to Abraham and while his descendants were in Egypt, it was taken over.  What would you do if someone moved into your house while you were gone on vacation?   Would you leave them alone and find a new house or remove them?

                    If murderers were believed, there would be none put into prison.   Ted Bundy would still be alive and still killing most likely, same with Jeffrey Dahmer and many others. 

                    Believers are called liars constantly in these forums, but yet many would still rather believe killers and thieves.  It makes absolutely no sense to me at all. 

                    If a tree bears bad fruit, it should be cut down and cast into the fire.  If a tree bears good fruit, it will be used to the glory of God. 

                    I hadn't heard about the gnostics in the 3rd and 4th century.  I wonder if they were trying to de-convert believers or something similar.  I do know that in the early days of the church many believers were turned over to the authorities for a reward by pagans. 

                    One last warning.  You should be careful how you treat believers and how you talk about them  God loves His children and does not take kindly to them being put down.

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                  JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  The templars were the victims of the inquisition, not the perpetrators.  Several hundred of them were caught, tortured and burned at the stake as heretics.  The inquisitions were ruled by the Catholic church, who went after lapsed heretics previously forced to either convert to Catholicism or die.

                  The witch hunts were much the same, except for the most part, it was a war against women.  It was so severe in some areas that there were no women left in some towns - every single one of them had been accused and ultimately killed as a witch.

                  I'm sure you're going to say it was all the fault of the Catholic church, ignoring that, with the exception of Eastern Orthodoxy, the Catholic church was the ONLY church at the time, and without them, we would not have the Bible as it exists today.  Except that excuse loses steam when you focus on what happened after the Protestant reformation.  When the protestants gained power in certain areas, they turned around and started accusing catholics of heresy and burning THEM as well.  Your only recourse from the bloodshed that both sides believed they were doing according to the will and laws of god, incidentally, is to say that NONE of them were "true" christians, because YOU"RE a true Christian and you wouldn't burn anyone at the stake.  I'm sorry, but that excuse is just that - an excuse - and not a very good one.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    This is the "day of favor" (prophesied long ago in the Old Testament and fulfilled by Jesus Christ) - we have now been set free from the law and its death penalty by God himself, who fulfilled the righteous requirements of the law when he died in our place. We who are in the day of favor are now instructed to live in love, mercy, peace, forgiveness and the like BECAUSE OF WHAT JESUS HAS DONE (receiving the death penalty in our place, and opening the way to him for ALL who will believe).

                    Any person who murders, claiming God so instructed him, and so profoundly violates this law of love in the day of favor is clearly not in truth following the lead of the Spirit. We don't pat ourselves on the back for discerning this truth; it is written clearly for ALL who will study the word with the guidance of the Spirit.

                    Here are some of the many, many verses that support what I am saying to you:

                    2 Corinthians 6:2 " I tell you, now is the time of God's favor, now is the day of salvation."

                    Galatians 5: 14-18 "The entire law summed up in a single command: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other. So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under law."

                    Galatians 5:22-23 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control."

                    Matthew 5:9 "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called the children of God."

                    Matthew 5:43-45 "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' "But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.…"

                    Romans 8: 9 "You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ."

                    Romans 12: 14 "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse."

                    Romans 12: 17 "Do not repay anyone evil for evil."

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        tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        When the Devil sees that the individual is confined, he leaves the individual because the Devil cannot create his chaos in the prison.  Therefore, once the Devil has left the individual, the individual then turns to Jesus who gave his life to save them.  They then find their strength through acceptance of the Christianity that bears Truth, Love and Righteousness.  Through this avenue, the criminal rejoices in the Heavenly Father.

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          wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Man has built an edifice that the devil cannot operate in?  Are you sure you aren't giving architects and builders a little more credit than they are due?

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            tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            It is not the building - but the individual that is freed from the Devil.  The Devil cannot expand the sins of an individual that has become incarcerated - only the individual can achieve that.  When parted from the sin, many turn to the Heavenly Father for solitude and resurrection.  Thus the Devil is defeated within the individual through spirit redemption, not the physical edifice.

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              wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Men cannot sin while in jail?  And Satan cannot help them do it?

              Where in the world do you get these ideas?  Because there is certainly nothing in the bible about it...

              (You should also know that most parole boards look kindly on prisoners "getting religion" - it just might be a reason to "rejoice in the Heavenly Father" so to speak.)

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                tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                blah-blah-blah-blah-blah
                negativism is not going to do any good in this matter.
                positive advancement taming the criminal mind comes from Christian acceptance.
                We rejoice in the spirit that has awakened many of the incarcerated criminals.
                Praise the Lord.

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          Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I see, everyone who is not what YOU consider a true christian is ruled by the devil.

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            tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            the problem is you do not see.  so as a blind person, you presume too much.  the spirit of the Lord will always offset the actions of the devil.  therefore, you must open your blinded spirit if you are to observe the righteousness.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    John 15:3  Now ye are clean through the word which I have spoken unto you.
    John 15:4  Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine; no more can ye, except ye abide in me.
    John 15:5  I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.

    I love the words in red!

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      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Amen, SirDent!

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Mark 11:25  And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.
    Mark 11:26  But if ye do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses.

  31. Cat333 profile image60
    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    Melissa - You seem to be missing what I said entirely. You were the one who said you get the same three verses about not really being a Christian "every time"; I wasn't even directing the verses at you, but was using them to demonstrate that those who are murdering in the name of God demonstrate through their actions that they are not of God.

    It has nothing to do with you bashing me in particular. I've noted you repeatedly bashing Christianity itself; this is very different than you simply disagreeing with me or others.

    Here is a sampling of your own words against Christianity (there are many others from other places on these forums):

    Melissa says, "There are parts of it (Christianity) that are quite dangerous"; "Are you okay with your religion causing children to die?"; "That's why your religion causes so many deaths"; "The parents that do it (cause death of their children) are embraced by the church"; "I can pull up thousands of examples of parents killing their kids because of their faith in God. THOUSANDS. It is indeed Christianity"; "How about the countless indigenous tribes that suffered extinction at the hands of well-meaning Christian missionaries that were spreading the word of God? (And smallpox, influenza... hell in some cases the common cold)"

    These are just some of the many things you have spoken against Christianity. I am not saying this is true of you, Melissa, but when you speak SO MANY words AGAINST Christianity, it gives the impression that you are claiming to be a believer for the purpose of legitimizing or permitting your words against it (the thought often goes that speaking against one's own country is okay, but not against someone else's; speaking against one's own ethnicity is okay but not someone else's, etc.)

    Just as a man who truly loves his wife does not tolerate well ill words about her, so also we must keep in mind that the "church" (believers, Christians) are the "bride" of Christ, and though she may be yet imperfect here on earth, God has made her "perfect" and flawless in his sight through his own sacrifice for her, and he may not tolerate well words spoken against his beloved wife.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I understand that in your own mind there is only one kind of Christian, and you are that kind. But I have found that some are more Christlike than others and you are NOT one of them.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        As an unbeliever you speak against Christianity. Why wouldn't you? You do not state that you are a believer.

        You can see for yourself her own words against Christianity. I am saying nothing about her.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          As an believer you speak against Atheism. Why wouldn't you? You do not state that you are a unbeliever.
          No, I didn't see any words against Christianity, only your particular version of it, the part that makes you look un-christlike.
          You just did dear, and then there is that very long post where you did say plenty about her.

          Just my opinion, I'm in no way defending her or pulling her into a conversation. I don't need to, she can handle herself just fine. She's all grown up.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I was giving you credit, Rad Man, that you were not calling yourself a believer and then speaking against the faith, the word, Christians and so on.

            I am now "un-Christ-like" because when speaking of the faith of others helping people, I pointed out scripture in which the parents' faith brought about Jesus' actions in freeing people from demons? That doesn't even make sense. Jesus was the one referring to demons regularly.

            If someone says Christianity causes deaths, and says of the killing of children "It is indeed Christianity", how are these not "words against Christianity"?

            I'm letting her words speak for themselves. I wasn't addressing her or talking about her when I gave verses about true Christians; she implicated herself.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You did it again, you complain that she speaks against your particular version of Christianity and then claim to have not said anything about her.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I said I was letting her words speak for themselves. To say the killing of children "is indeed Christianity", which is absolutely not true, is speaking against Christianity in general, not any particular version of it.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  She indeed said that. She stands by that.

                  She said that if Christianity tells someone to do something and they do it and a kid dies from it, then Christianity is to blame.

                  She is sorry if you are in denial. She also knows that you will not be the one judging her so what you think of her words means dick.

                  She desparately wishes that it wasn't against her faith to judge other people, because she is terribly embarrassed by the actions of other Christians. She thanks God she follows Jesus instead of other Christians.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    The thing is though that Christianity never told anyone to do anything violent that could cause a kid to die, so Christianity can't be blamed for what Christianity never said to do.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Of course it's against Christianity. That is what she is trying to tell you. You clearly sounded like you were in favour of not letting children suffer and even suggested that she ended her childs life early to end the suffering. So, if doing so doesn't sound very Christian than what can we deduce? Are you sounding Christlike?

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I am in favor of God, the author of life, taking his children who are suffering to himself.

                    Occasionally a person whose child is dying is in the difficult position of making such a decision and communicating this to medical staff. I don't judge whether the person keeps them alive or lets them go to God. I would seek direction from God, so I can't say which decision I would make if I were in that position.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      And every single one of those things is true. You would rather ignore it and pretend it didn't happen, I would rather try to fix it so that it doesn't happen again.

      Pointing out the truth isn't bashing... it's saying "Hey, maybe someone might want to do something about this."

      Unless it doesn't bother you. I have a feeling, though, that it would have bothered Jesus.

      I follow Jesus. Christianity is so unlike what Jesus stood for. You seem to be fine with that. I'm not.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Melissa - I don't pretend people haven't twisted the words of God and done horrific acts "in the name of Jesus"; however, these are not the acts of those who know God and follow him. Rather they are the acts of those who are deceived. They may even believe themselves to be followers of Christ, but they are in reality followers of Satan, not God.

        The TRUTH is not that Christianity has caused the atrocities, but that the deceiver who twists and distorts is the one causing the atrocities. We need to make sure we're pointing the finger at the right one. Acts of darkness are perpetrated by those who belong to the darkness; those who belong to the light act as children of the light and are not murdering in the name of God.

        Please don't pretend I'm fine with any distortions of the word, any acts of violence, or any other acts of wickedness. I am extremely troubled by evil, and all the more when it is claimed to be in the name of God, but we need to know who the enemy is. The enemy is not Christians or Christianity; it is Satan and the rulers of the dark world.

        Ephesians 6:12 "For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms."

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          OK, missionaries go to Africa to spread the word of God. Their colds kill the entire tribe.

          Were they twisting the word?

          Parents read the Bible believe their kid is possessed by evil spirits. Take the kid to clergy. Kid dies during exorcism.

          Who was twisting the word there?

          Shall I keep going? Or is denying responsibility for those two examples sufficient for you? I can bring up tons more.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            If in the word we see Jesus commanding demons to come out of people, but never harming a single person in so doing, and we are told in the word that we have the same authority to command demons to come out in the name of Jesus, but then we have a clergy performing some sort of violent exorcism, I would say, yes, that clergy twisted what we've been given in scripture.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Even if he was lovingly performing the exorcism? If he truly loved the child and was trying to rid it of "demons"? No violence.

              Hint: Yes, I can pull up links where "loving" exorcisms killed the child. Being told you are possessed by demons can be a bit stressful.

              Yep, you missed the ones about the kind missionaries too... were they warping God's word?

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                You are blaming Christians for unintentionally spreading a cold virus?

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Are there still missionaries?

                  Yes.

                  Do they know that they could potentially kill entire villages with their diseases?

                  Obviously.

                  Do they keep going?

                  Yes.

                  Regardless, it doesn't have to be intentional. Christians, following the Bible, killed thousands. Are you OK with the collateral damages? Obviously.  Would you like more examples?

                  The point that I'm making... AGAIN... is that Christianity causes bad things to happen. Now, it doesn't ONLY cause bad things to happen. Sometimes it causes really good things to happen. However, if you continue to ignore the bad things, then they never get fixed... which means they keep happening. If you willfully continue to ignore the bad things, even when SHOWN they are happening, then yes you are choosing to allow those things to happen.

                  This is all pretty simple. Have you ever really sat down-without the knee-jerk "My faith is the most perfectest thing in the whole wide world" glasses and really looked at what it causes. Have you ever said "Hey, the Bible says that children can be possessed by demons... I wonder what that statement could ultimately lead to?" or "Hey, the Bible says that homosexuals are an abomination... I wonder if that could lead to prejudice?"

                  Then, when you figure out "Oh crap, I guess bad things could happen from both of those statements." Then you might want to ask the holy spirit "Would Jesus be OK if the Word, even accidentally, caused prejudice and dead children?" (or, would Jesus be OK with entire villages of people dying because of his words? Because he never really struck me as a collateral damage is fine kinda guy)

                  When you get the (hopefully) obvious answer, then you might want to pray for guidance on what, possibly, you might be able to do to help stop such things from happening.

                  Or, conversely, you could say that anyone pointing out this is obviously a big mean fake Christian that is personally attacking, you, God, and every Christian (real one) out there.

                  Wow.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Keep the faith, Cat. Do not get weary in well doing.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Thank you, Beth. Your encouragement is much appreciated!

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    Righteous Atheist and Rad Man -

    "What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? By no means! We died to sin; how can we live in it any longer?" Romans 6:1-2

    Forgiveness of sins is absolutely NOT a free ticket to continue sinning. The one who has been freed from the bondage of sin now lives as a slave of righteousness.

    We are ALL sinners (myself included). God DECLARES us righteous in spite of our sinful tendencies, not because of anything we have done, but because of his love for us and his fulfillment of the law for us and the payment of his own death for us.

    May God bless you both.

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      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      So - this is why you are allowed to continue to sin. Interesting - is this why so many Christians are murderers and rapists? Because they get a free pass to continue sinning?

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        We are not "allowed to continue to sin", Righteous Atheist. Once freed from our bondage to sin, we are now free to go forth in acts of righteousness. Nevertheless, we have One who we can turn to and who will faithfully heal us and restore us when we do mess up. All praise to God for his faithfulness!

        It is not that the Christians are murdering and raping; it is rather that some of the murderers and rapists are recognizing their need for a Savior, putting their faith and hope in Jesus, turning from their past wickedness and now embracing the truth of the good news about Jesus Christ. Matthew 21:31 "I assure you: Tax collectors and prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God before you!"

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          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          So - you are without sin then? You said you continued to sin. How many can you murder before it doesn't work any more?

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Not being allowed, isn't the same as not being able. We are told to go and sin no more, that is the goal, but we are human and it is in every human's nature. That's why Jesus paid the price for our sins. We are told to confess our sin and repent (turn away from it) when we fail.

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              Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Interesting. I always wondered why so many of you sin. You get the free pass after all as long as you repent. Disgusting. sad Wouldn't it be better for all if you learned some morals instead?

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

                That's everybody. Do you think *I think I'm better than you?
                The difference is, I recognize that I cannot please God without the forgiveness of sin.
                So I seek Him. That's it... I confess my sin openly, I ask God to forgive me and when I confess my sin, "He is faithful and just to forgive our sin." He may still allow us to live with the consequences here on earth. If I kill someone, I'm most likely still going to jail, but if I look at the sin, hate the sin and turn from the sin, b/c He hates the sin, He will forgive me. It may seem complicated... but it's so simple a child can understand. That's why He tells us to come to Him like children.

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                  Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  No - it doesn't seem complicated at all. It does explain why so many self professed Christians continue to kill and rape - I get it now. As long as you say sorry and repent you are good to go so you continue to sin and then repent afterwards. Thanks for explaining it so well - and in childish terms as well. Much appreciated.

                  You sure it wouldn't be better for you to develop a moral code instead?

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    The truly repentant are not going to make a practice of sin, they will not "continue to kill and rape" as you say, Righteous Atheist. 1 John 3:9 "No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God." 1 John 5:18 "We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin. Rather the Son of God protects them, and the evil one cannot harm them."

                    We do all continue to have our sinful human nature (see Romans 7:15-23, for example), so that it is often a struggle to do the right thing and we do slip here or there, but we do not continue in a lifestyle of sin, continuing to rape or kill.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  For those who don't repent the sin remains and for those that do all is forgiven. Everyone has sinned, but yours is forgiven so you are without sin. It's a good thing we have secular laws or we could murder as many people as we want and then simply claim that it's okay because I've repented and won't do it anymore until someone else messes with me.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    It is more that she is COUNTED or CONSIDERED by God as one without sin, not that she (or I) are without sin. "The righteous will live by faith". We are covered in the blood of Jesus, so that God does not see our sins when he looks at us; he sees Jesus' sacrifice on our behalf; he sees Jesus' righteousness. We are HIDDEN in Christ.

                    Believers cannot as you say, Rad Man, "murder as many people as we want and then simply claim that it's okay because I've repented..." Below I've copied my response to Righteous Atheist who made similar statements.

                    The truly repentant are not going to make a practice of sin, they will not "continue to kill and rape" as you say, Righteous Atheist. 1 John 3:9 "No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God's seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God." 1 John 5:18 "We know that anyone born of God does not continue to sin. Rather the Son of God protects them, and the evil one cannot harm them."

                    We do all continue to have our sinful human nature (see Romans 7:15-23, for example), so that it is often a struggle to do the right thing and we do slip here or there, but we do not continue in a lifestyle of sin, continuing to rape or kill.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Isaiah 53:1  Who hath believed our report? and to whom is the arm of the LORD revealed?
    Isaiah 53:2  For he shall grow up before him as a tender plant, and as a root out of a dry ground: he hath no form nor comeliness; and when we shall see him, there is no beauty that we should desire him.
    Isaiah 53:3  He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Revelation  12:10  And I heard a loud voice saying in heaven, Now is come salvation, and strength, and the kingdom of our God, and the power of his Christ: for the accuser of our brethren is cast down, which accused them before our God day and night.

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    Deepes Mindposted 11 years ago

    It's interesting to see how easy it is to try to shine a spotlight on the actions of others and decide whether they are real or not while simultaneously trying to cover up, rationalize, and justify our own actions.  But at the end of the day, all of us who believe must keep Matthew 7:1-5 in mind as it relates to our treatment of one another as Christians as well as those that lack belief

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      This post looks as if you are judging someone who is judging? But in any case I wish you the best. You will be missed my friend. Live long and prosper.

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        Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Just making a general observation of behavior that I am guilty of at times myself. 

        Thanks Rad Man, but I highly doubt my absence will be noticed after a while

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Don't take this the wrong way, none of us would. I'm not here to be appreciated, as you can see. I'm here for several very selfish reasons. I'm aware I can and will effect no one. I find it entertaining and I practice skills that I am lacking in.

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            Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Not taking it wrong. You're not here to be appreciated, but I know a few that do.

            Oh wait, Mo said we shouldn't joke or be nice... ummm.. you godless heathen you

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnmDRGYHtGc

    One of the best songs ever written and sung.

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    When people speak against the God I love, I defend my God. If people speak against his bride, I'll defend her also.

    You can speak against me, even slander and make false statements about what I'm saying, but in the end it is my God who defends me.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      That's one messed up post. Does your Gods bride defend you as well?

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Gee, that's kind of what I'm doing. Defending my Jesus and what not.

      I don't expect God to defend me. I'm pretty good on my own. I also don't think I'll be defending everyone who calls themselves a Christian even if I disagree with them. I have a faith, not a cult.

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      JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Do you think an all mighty,  all powerful god needs you to defend him?   The guy that destroyed the entire earth witha flood?   That God?   

      Why is it so hard for you to admit that Christianity has been responsible for some horrible atrocities?   Does it expand to other religions?  Do Muslims who fly planes into buildings not act according to the will of Allah?  Are they not true Muslims,  then?   Or is it the fallacy of special pleading only for your belief system?

      You're out here daily dating people are twisting your words and making false statements about you.  It seems like you do care about your reputation quite a bit, and I don't see a god stepping in to defend you.  Maybe it means you're wrong.  You may want to rethink that.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        It's not about God needing to be defended. If someone spoke ill about your loved one and you defended them, would this really be because they NEEDED to be defended?

        Are you angry about the flood? Do you not know that the one who gives you every breath you breath is not obliged to give you breath eternally? Do you know that the earth was filled with violence and creatures who were not merely human but had mated with the fallen angels? Do you think God did wrong to bring down his judgment? Why not rather be thankful he has made a promise never to do so again until that appointed time of judgment?

        The deceiver and his forces have been responsible for the horrible atrocities of perversions, torture and murder, whether they do it through those who falsely and deceptively claim the name of Jesus, those who follow demon gods, or whoever. This is not the doing of Christianity. This is a lie against the bride of Jesus.

        I'm here for a little while and then I'll be gone. These are all FALSE words that have been said about me: I have claimed to be the only one without sin, I am a Mormon, I have said it is okay to continue sinning, I have encouraged parents to kill their children to spare them from a life of suffering, I have encouraged parents to kill their children through exorcism. Not one of these statements is true. When many attempt to falsely bring charges against you, to intentionally put false words into your mouth, then it really makes you aware of what a spiritual battle you are in, and how important the message must be for so many to want to twist it!

        My God is and will continue to defend me! I do not complain when he allows me to suffer a little while. I thank my God that I share in his sufferings to that I will be overjoyed when I also share in his glory!

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          JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          None of my loved ones are supposedly all-powerful deities that could erase the universe with a simple snap of their fingers.  Any god who is offended by dissent and disagreement who needs a created being to defend his "honor" against those who do not accept him comes across as a simpering idiot with ego issues - not a god.  And a god that would behave that way is not worthy of worship.  Do you think your god is a petulant, insecure child?  Because you're kind of treating him like one.





          Why do always assume the worst about others who disagree with you?  The flood was an atrocity brought about by your god, if the story is to be believed, but that doesn't meant that I'm automatically angry about it.  I don't think the flood happened.  I have no anger towards your god because I don't think that god exists.  I'm angry about a lot of things that his followers do when the follow the example of the Old Testament god who had no qualms about mass-murder and genocide, and not the example of Jesus who they claim to worship and follow.  You're saying that because god gave everyone life, he has the power to take that life away.  That amounts to a parent saying "I brought you into the world, and I can take you out of it".  It's childish. 



          No, it's not a lie against the bride of Christ.  You saying that the people that did these things are not "true christians" is ultimately meaningless, because they would say the same of you.  You can post verses that support your opinion.  So can they.  So what?  Ultimately, it's two parts of Christianity that disagree.  It's not surprising, there are over 40,000 denominations who can't agree on much.  Again, it doesn't automatically make you right and them wrong.  It makes you a person with an opinion.  Everyone else has opinions too.  Yours has no more weight than any other, and I haven't seen a single example in these forums of you taking responsibility for the things done in the name of your god by people who were also interested in defending and following his word who did it differently than you did.  You just want to denounce all of those other Christians because they make you feel icky.  I understand it, but I don't have to agree with it.




          You say he will continue to defend you, when no one has seen him defend you at all.  He's absent.  Where is his defense?  How in the name of Pete do you think you're suffering?  People are disagreeing with you and criticizing your posts - the words that come out of your mouth.  How, in ANY sense, does that equate to suffering?  Is anyone torturing you and causing you physical pain?  Are you in danger of imprisonment or execution?  Are your rights being stripped away?  Are you being prevented from speaking your mind?  The answer to all of those questions is a resounding NO.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            God does not NEED to be defended, as I mentioned in the last post, but we nonetheless defend those we love.

            Parents are only the MEANS by which we come into the world. The AUTHOR of life, God alone, who provides us every breath we take, is the One and only who has the right to determine when are lives begin and end.

            Our opinions count for little; God's everlasting word is what counts.
            No, there are NO verses that support a "Christian" engaging in atrocities (such as murder) in the day of the Lord's favor when we have been given the message of love, reconciliation and the like. God is still a God of justice, along with being a God of love, and a day of judgment has been set; however, the message to the people is that they have the wonderful opportunity to come to God, be cleansed and freed from their sins, and live with God for eternity, rather than face their due penalty of death, which Jesus so lovingly took for them.

            Many follow demons rather than the One True God, including many who masquerade as children of the light.

            How do you know how God defends or what future glory awaits his faithful ones?

            Psychological suffering is a form of suffering. Regularly having your words twisted, being falsely accused, etc. is not a psychologically healthy experience. I am not here as the many who say "I don't mind what people say; It doesn't bother me". Rather I confess to you that I have a sensitive nature. I was sent here with the message in spite of (or perhaps because of) my many weaknesses.

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      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Just so I am clear on this - you are here to defend your god? And you don't stop to wonder what a feeble sort of god needs you to defend it? What are you defending it from exactly? It can be hurt? How pathetic. You must not be talking about the god in the bible that can wipe us out with a word. Which pathetic god are you defending?

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        God doesn't NEED to be defended, Righteous Atheist, we defend the ones we love. Yes, God hurts. Yes, this is the God in the Spirit-inspired word - the one who weeps over his children, cries out in pain, longs to gather them as a loving mother, and so on. All this is recorded in the word he has given and maintained for us.

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          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          So - the god who murdered every living soul except one family because he was annoyed at them asked you to defend it? Sure you are not making this up? - because your weeping, cries in pain god burns liars for eternity.

          Show me where it says your pathetic weenie god weeps and cries out in pain like a little girl. lol

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            God did NOT ask me to defend him. He is my loving Father and I am his loving daughter, and I chose to defend the one I love, as we defend those we love, whether they NEED it or not.

            Regarding the flood, God "started over" in a sense not because he was merely "annoyed" with the people he created, but because the people were violent murderers and he was grieved that he had even created them (not to mention the fallen angels had mated with them and corrupted them). Genesis 6:5-6, “And God saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every imagination of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually. And it repented the Lord that he had made man on the earth, and it grieved him at his heart.”

            I will show you where God weeps, but not like a "little girl". You see people are so silly (or perverse) they turn everything upside down - God weeps, animals do not; yet people try to portray the absence of weeping as superior and weeping as inferior. It was my own silly tendency - as a little girl I almost never wept, even when I required medical treatment (and I still don't really cry from physical pain), but as I matured spiritually, I weep all the time over spiritual matters (I have shed a tear for you, Righteous Atheist, though you probably don't believe me). You will find many grown men who never wept in their natural states, weeping as they are spiritually awakened. 

            Here are verses about God hurting and/or weeping:

            Jeremiah 8:21 ” For the hurt of the daughter of my people am I hurt."

            Isaiah 42:14  "For a long time I have kept silent, I have been quiet and held myself back. But now, like a woman in childbirth, I cry out..."

            John 11:35 "Jesus wept."

            Also, God's prophets who had the Spirit and heart of God, all wept for the people.

            You try to mock, but "Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap." (Galatians 6:7).

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              Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              So it doesn't NEED defending. But you are defending it anyway. What are you defending it from exactly?

              Feel free to shed as many tears as you like for me - whatever makes you feel good about yourself. But - no I don't believe you for one second.

              Jeremiah 8:10 Therefore will I give their wives unto others, and their fields to them that shall inherit them:

              Isiah 42:15 I will lay waste the mountains and hills and dry up all their vegetation;I will turn rivers into islands and dry up the pools.

              Keen to know what you are defending your imaginary friend from though, because he seems capable of taking care of the business of murder and rape just fine without you. Do tell. big_smile

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I'm curious, do you believe the story as a global flood that killed all life on earth except for what was in the boat?

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                Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Careful. You are speaking with The Defender of the Creator of the Universe. wink

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                  Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Are you Zelkiiro? Why not post as yourself? Were you banned from the forums?

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                    Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Was Zekiiro posting as himself?

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                    Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    No. I am. No. That is cat you are thinking of. You know - The Defender of The Creator of the Universe. Odd you did not attack her - how come?

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              skye2dayposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Hey cat333.  Bless you dear precious sister for sharing the truth. I was thinking of jumping in but it is like clanging cymbals. Today I am led to write a hub. I wanted to say God Bless and keep going dear child of God. U Will!  Phil 4:13. This post may get some grief (like I am cowardly or something similar) perhaps not. No worries,  I know who I belong to. Amen.  Hugs Galore sista. Love ya, Skye

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                Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                And you wonder why your religion causes so many conflicts. sad

              2. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Thank you so much, sister skye2day! May God bless you and may your hub bring glory to him!

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                  Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Wow - he needs glory from hubs as well as defending? lol lol

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I'm going to have to weigh in on this. I agree with RA. God would need no defense. Were God offended, God could certainly act in a manner to assure all knew it.  I would assume the same would be true of Jesus.

      You are defending your ideas, your beliefs. I realize it must be difficult. I saw where someone posted a picture of a child who probably belongs to someone in the Westboro Baptist Church. Attempting to graft beliefs such as that onto your own, in order to make you feel guilty, is unfair and only done to elicit emotional response. It's a cheap shot. But, the forums are full of those.

      Anyway. You need to accept that no one is attacking God, Jesus or anything metaphysical. They are simply questioning your beliefs. As should you. We all should. Only by introspection can we understand why we think what we think and put ourselves into a position to realistically understand how our actions affect the world around us. And, your interaction with the world is said to be as important as your interaction with your God.

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        Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        If you're talking about the pic I posted, you misunderstood it. Maybe you are talking about the pic Melissa posted.

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I don't know who posted it. It isn't worth going back to look at. But, it was a kid with a sign about God hating people.

      2. Cat333 profile image60
        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Thank you for your sensitivity, Emile R. And you are right to say God NEEDS no defense.

        I am defending the living God, not merely ideas or beliefs. I have had to discipline myself to make my beliefs line up with the word of God. And it hasn't always been easy. In my natural state, there are things I would love to have different. For instance, I would have women as the spiritual leaders of the family, lol, because so often they seem to be more spiritually aware and spiritually beautiful than the majority of men (with obvious exceptions; no disrespect to my beloved brothers in Christ); yet I don't decide because I am not God, and I think it is precisely because women tend to be more spiritually beautiful that they have initially been given the second role, so that God can as he always does make "the first last and the last first".

        May God bless you, Emile R!

        1. Righteous Atheist profile image58
          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          What are you defending it from exactly? Little diddums god is crying that some one doesn't believe it exists? lol lol

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            You can't bring it up a notch at all in order to have a mature conversation?

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              Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You can have a mature conversation with some one claiming to be defending the Creator of the Universe?

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Ummm. Have you actually read the book you are referring to?  I know Paul didn't appear to think much of women, but women were leaders in the early church. Your ideas line up with the 'word of God' as your specific branch dictates and as a male dominated society taught your specific branch to dictate. Nothing more.

          Give the rest of the world some credit. Heck. Give your God some credit. Come to the light and out of the dark ages.

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            Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Historically speaking, yes. Women were leaders in the early church. Paul didn't disassociate from women leaders, but as a Jew he did firmly believe that men should lead. Don't discount the ideas that some saw a pagan influence in having women leaders. 'Male dominated' is an easy thing for 21st century people to say, but what would we have thought had we lived at that time in that place? What about Paul's Jewish-oriented ideas vs. some of the more pagan-influenced ideas found in Rome or Corinth?

          2. Cat333 profile image60
            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Yes, women were leaders in the early church and they make up the majority of those in the churches today. Further, God pours out his Spirit generously on both women and men in these last days (as he prophesied he would in the old testament book of Joel), so that both women and men prophecy (speak the words of God, bring messages, teach, etc.). Even further, it was women who Jesus Christ FIRST revealed himself to upon rising from the dead. In many ways women (who were created second and so on) have already become the "first" while men in many ways have already become "last" (again, there are many brothers that are led by the Spirit, and this is not meant as any disrespect to them who have fulfilled their call).

            This truth that the "first will be last and the last will be first" is the way it works with God so that it may be based on his mercies and gifts, and not on that which was obligated by the order of things - the Jewish nation Israel was called first, but the Gentiles (the rest of us) are answering first (Jews will still come to salvation); the firstborn privileges were so often going to an "undeserving" later born. Why take offense for example as a "gentile" who was called second to a Jew, when you see that God has designed a way for you who were last to be first? While humility is not valued in most societies today, in the kingdom of God humility is of far greater worth than pride; the humble get the honor.

            To deny the INITIAL order of things is not truth, regardless of what our nature desires (and my nature desired to say there never was an initial order when it came to men and women). But that is not truth. But you are right that God values women and men equally, and in making the "first last and the last first", the men are abandoning their instructions to be spiritual leaders in the household, and women are becoming "first" as they in greater numbers now spiritually lead.

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              wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You make many assumptions that simply are not described in scripture.  God values men and women equally (now) solely because society does and women will not tolerate being second class citizens.  Not because God changed anything at all.

              We see that all through religion, and specifically through Christianity.  Slaver is not tolerated today, but God is fine with it.  Terrible, sinful and evil clothing is common, but not tolerated by God.  Homosexuality is tolerated, but not by God.  If you are honest, you can clearly see this - whether you accept it (you don't appear to) is up to you.

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                psycheskinnerposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I think you might accept that people can *honestly* see things differently.  Irritating, but sincere. The Bible has enough in it to support all kinds of interpretations.

              2. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                "I the LORD do not change." Malachi 3:6

                "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever." Hebrews 13:8

                "But many who are first will be last, and many who are last will be first." Matthew 19:30

                "So the last will be first, and the first will be last." Matthew 20:16

                "There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus." Galatians 3:28

                "Scripture foresaw that God would justify the Gentiles by faith, and announced the gospel in advance to Abraham: "All nations will be blessed through you." Galatians 3:8

                "It was necessary that the word of God be spoken to you (Jews) first; since you repudiate it and judge yourselves unworthy of eternal life, behold, we are turning to the Gentiles. For so the Lord has commanded us, 'I have placed you as a light for the gentiles, that you may bring salvation..." Acts 13:46-47

                "She is your equal partner in God's gift of new life" 1 Peter 3:7

                "The older will serve the younger." Genesis 25:23

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                  wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  I presume, then, that you stoned your children for not being respectful?  Or did God change His mind? 

                  But I do understand; it is but one of a great many falsehoods in scripture.  You know it, but to admit it even to yourself means your God is a lie.  So you don't, but you really should expect others to recognize that the religion has changed in almost every thing it does or says over the past two millenia.  Very little of the original though remains.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    There is no falsehood in scripture. There is only the misunderstanding of those who read... or hear of stuff from other ppl, but don't actually read themselves.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Romans 10: 4 "Christ is the end of the law so that there may be righteousness for everyone who believes."

                    Acts 13:39 "Through him everyone who believes is set free from every sin, a justification you were not able to obtain under the law of Moses."

                    Romans 3:22 "This righteousness is given through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe."

                    Galatians 3:24 "So the law was our guardian until Christ came that we might be justified by faith."

                    Galatians 4:4-5 “When the time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under law, to redeem those under law, that we might receive the full rights of sons.”

              3. Chris Neal profile image77
                Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Um, no. You misread scripture there. Big time.

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              Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              As much as it pains me to read such as this, I do understand the need for structure. The need to be told what to think. The insecurity which leads people to these lines of thought.

              I don't begrudge you your needs. I wish you enlightenment. smile

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                There was no self loathing in her statement, nor was it anti biblical. There was an order placed by God as well as instruction to respect and love one another as Christ loves us. You are confusing Edith Bunker with Eve.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  There is, imo, a display of need. A need to be told how to act. That's why we have to sift through all of these ridiculous posts of scripture. But, it's mouthing words with no true understanding of the reasons behind the words. Everyone, at some point in their lives, goes through the motions they think are expected; without understanding why. They seek to please. But, arguing in defense of what is truly indefensible couldn't please anyone on earth. Much less a god.

                  And, there may be no self loathing but there is a great deal of insecurity involved in arguing in defense of beliefs that are not supported by fact. And, laziness. Simply wanting to believe isn't justification for belief.

                  Please don't fall back on the love as Christ loved us line. I don't find a modicum of love in the posts of those brandishing virtual Bibles and crying persecution anytime someone disagrees. Heck. My last post here was followed by a Christian posting some scripture about people sneaking into the ranks of the faithful only looking to deceive. I assume his comment was directed at me.

                  1. JMcFarland profile image70
                    JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    thank you, Emily.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Im not gonna fall back on any lines, you're just interpreting it the way it appears to you. That's the norm, right? To look at something and assume that's the way it is? I'm not offering insult when I say you're perspective is a common misconception. The Bible has to be read in whole. For God to be understood, He must be understood in whole. Those of us who love Him with our whole heart will not, even by death, fully comprehend Him, but we do know what is in His nature and not in His nature.

              2. Cat333 profile image60
                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                My nature or "needs" were actually the opposite - I don't just take anyone's word for things, but constantly question, challenge and so on. In fact, my tendency in the natural is to border on oppositional. But belief is not an option for me, since my Lord has already revealed himself to me. Therefore I discipline myself to bring my will into accord with his; to align my beliefs with His Spirit inspired word. And while I was at first offended (yes, by the God I love), he has since revealed to me "great and unsearchable things" that I didn't know and that have showed me that there never was any reason for offense, but that in Christ all are one, and that greater things have been reserved for those at first considered the lesser, and that he makes all things beautiful in his time.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Joshua 1:9  Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.

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      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Amen, SirDent!

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Jude 1:3  Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.
    Jude 1:4  For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ.
    Jude 1:5  I will therefore put you in remembrance, though ye once knew this, how that the Lord, having saved the people out of the land of Egypt, afterward destroyed them that believed not.

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    Chris Nealposted 11 years ago

    Totally unrelated, here is what I do for fun. First public performance for the band, so it starts rough but it comes together at the end.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Ml6tYR7 … e=youtu.be

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You guys sound great. Love the blues. (Don't be upset if I say you gotta getcha a new lead singer... maybe it was just nerves, but he wasn't on key.) Other than that, it was a good sound. smile

      Edit, oh you're right.. he gets on board toward the middle.

    2. Dr Lamb profile image54
      Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Cool, I'll assume you were the drummer and not the singer.

      1. Chris Neal profile image77
        Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        He's actually a good singer, he just had a bad case of nerves.

        Yeah, I'm the drummer.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Yeah, he sounded good after the first song. You sounded great. Im sure you guys are gonna have a lot of fun.

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          Dr Lambposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I thought the singer was cool. I'd have crapped my pants.

    3. MelissaBarrett profile image59
      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Nice.

      You know, you're kinda cute...for a Christian. wink

      1. Chris Neal profile image77
        Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I'm a mean ugly hairy mountain bear, and everyone around here has heard me growl so don't you forget it!

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          Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I beg to differ.  smile Bears can be very huggable!

        2. MelissaBarrett profile image59
          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          smile

        3. JMcFarland profile image70
          JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          bears are snuggly.  You're a Panda bear.   How cute.

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            Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            You're so black and white!

            smile

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              JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Sure,  call me racial.

              Roflmao

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    There comes a time when enough is enough.  JMcFarland asked Cat to stop.  It is in the best interest of the whole thread if Cat did stop addressing her, besides being respectful of her wishes. 

    The Gospel of Christ is not forced upon anyone.  It is up to the individual to decide whether to follow or not.  If they don't that is their business, If they do that is also their business. 

    In the Bible, not all who met Jesus accepted Him.  To be honest, only a few actually did.  Many are called but few are chosen.

    1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Dent. Sincerely and from the bottom of my heart.

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        You're welcome.  I should be in bed but I can't stay away.

        1. MelissaBarrett profile image59
          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          From the looks of it, we should all be in bed. Grab some rest when you can.

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      Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      +1

      As always, Sir Dent, you have good timing with a needed message.

    3. Cat333 profile image60
      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I have seen her post where she asked me to stop, and I will honor it. I also appreciate you as a man of God, Sir Dent. God bless you!

      May God's will be done.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Psa_119:105  NUN. Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Psa 4:8  I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety.

    Good night everyone.  May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good night. smile

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      Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good night

  44. Cat333 profile image60
    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    My sincere apologies to any and everyone I upset or offend. May God bless you!

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Psalms 4:3  But know that the LORD hath set apart him that is godly for himself: the LORD will hear when I call unto him.
    Psalms 4:4  Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still. Selah.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You sir, need a little more sleep than that.

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      Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Sir, Did you even sleep??

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Yes I did, the normal three and a half to four hours.  I think I am getting old.  :p

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          Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          LOL I know the feeling

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    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years ago

    Reading through these forum threads, I often feel that the biggest issue is whether we are engaged in conversation or debate.  In conversation, it seems to me, people engage in the exchange of thoughts and ideas with no purpose but to enjoy each other's company and understand each other.  In debate, the goal is to persuade one party or another to see things "our way" based on whatever evidence we present about a chosen subject.  In conversation, and discussion, IMO, there is no reason we can't disagree, criticize ideas, and step away, still without animosity.  In debate, the imperative is to persuade.  So, the question, it seems, is are we having a conversation, where we pack up at day's end respecting each other's right to disagree, even though we may not respect the ideas, beliefs, or opinions of the other, or are we continuing a debate whose only purpose is to persuade, and therefore must continue until we reach that objective?  I know that in my experience, I have encountered both mind sets, but conversation is generally enjoyable and never pointless.  Debate can be exhausting and make one want to walk on hot coals as an alternative to participation. Also, if debate is the road down which we choose to walk, then our personal histories and personalities need not ever be brought into the equation.  Conversation allows for that, IMO.

    Maybe we just all need to come in certain of what it is we're coming into.  We might avoid a lot of ruffled feathers and hurt feelings that way.  I personally dislike debate and generally choose not to engage, but I love conversation.  I try to determine a thread's current tone before diving in.

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      Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      At the risk of pissing off EVERYONE (which is really not fun) I don't feel like most of the time we engage in either conversation or debate. Debate is, yes, about persuading based on evidence presented but there are rules and structures about rebuttal and presentation, even in informal settings. So often, and (as I've said often) I see this on both sides, there is one blanket statement, usually without any backing evidence or logic, and then a continued denigration of the other side for refusing to simply capitulate to that statement.

      IMO.

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        Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Astute observation.

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        Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        It's true.  Sadly, if one isn't prepared to debate, they shouldn't.  If, in an effort to persuade, one can't present proper evidence, then they should really acknowledge that opinions, beliefs, and ideas are what they are, instead of throwing tantrums (and for a bunch of adults, we sure throw a lot of them here) and insisting that they're evidence.  If you can't debate but want to converse or discuss, just do it, but be honest about what you're doing.  I see people with a debate mind set being getting annoyed NOT because they're jerks, but because we aren't honest with them or ourselves about what we're presenting.  For example, the minute we start presenting ideas, beliefs, or opinions, we need to acknowledge that.  We should stop and examine ourselves at that point rather than getting pissed when someone else does it.

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          Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          +1

      3. MelissaBarrett profile image59
        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I'll concede that point smile.

        Which is another point. No one ever concedes points here either. It's like if they say "Well, you're right there." that their entire argument and everything they ever thought/believed is wrong. Which is not helped by the assumption of the other party (which thinks exactly the same way) that conceding one point really does invalidate everything that the admitting ever thought/believed.

        (If you can follow that, low coffee levels)

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          SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          https://encrypted-tbn3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRKsieLJT9VxCXo_S_Lg4mEKXUAyt-yIkxd5wyd1iYJlFpoCpJx

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            Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Hey!  That's big enough to share; may I have some?  smile

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              SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Of course.  I think all posters here can have their fair share.

              1. JMcFarland profile image70
                JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Can my share have whiskey in it after last night?

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                  Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Of course.  smile Just no driving after, please.

                2. Chris Neal profile image77
                  Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Whisky, yuck.

                  1. JMcFarland profile image70
                    JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I'm Irish, Chris,  if my last name wasn't a clear indicator.   We are required by blood to appreciate whiskey.

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                Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Thank you, Sir!  Your generosity is appreciated! smile

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        EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        If there is one blanket statement that may not be entirely accurate, it would be that religions cause good people to do bad things based on Michelle and Melissa. Other than that, the statement does indeed have a lot of evidence to support it.

        So many believers here who purposely or ignorantly make false statements based on their beliefs. And even though the evidence is presented to show those statements are false, the believers either reject or ignore it, once again due to their religious beliefs.

        How can anyone state that both sides are denigrating the discussions when that's obviously not true?

        1. Chris Neal profile image77
          Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          How did I just KNOW you would say that?

          1. EncephaloiDead profile image56
            EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            When reality and the truth are staring you in the face, you just KNOW.

            1. Chris Neal profile image77
              Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Yeah. Keep telling yourself that. That's how I knew.

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        Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Touche'

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Proverbs 27:14  He that blesseth his friend with a loud voice, rising early in the morning, it shall be counted a curse to him.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    2Corinthians 8:9  For ye know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that, though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, that ye through his poverty might be rich.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Sir Dent, you happen to be the only one on topic. lol

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You're a good guy, sir dent. Way to pull the conversation back on a direction in line with the thread name.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      That's a great thing to tell poor people so that they don't revolt and take your money. They also tell poor people that money can't buy love.

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        Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        You do understand that this passage is, in no way, talking about money?

    4. Cat333 profile image60
      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Amen, Sir Dent!

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    Elouise Lucasposted 11 years ago

    how do i remove myself from this thread.  I am not interested in the two of you bickering back and forth

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      There are more than two of here, but you can simple go to the top right of this page and hit the unfollow button.

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      Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Hi, Eloise.

      In the top right, you should see a green oval with a number. If you are following, it should read unfollow.  Click and it will change to follow, indicating that you are no longer following the thread.  smile

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Matthew 5:9  Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.

 
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