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  1. Chris Neal profile image75
    Chris Nealposted 11 years ago

    Not to be too self-centered here, but I should probably share this before I get into trouble. Hope no one is offended.

    I go to open mic night on Wednesdays, and I usually tell a couple of one-liners ("Yes, I am just another pretty face" and "I'm only in it for the money" usually get the biggest laughs.)

    So tonight I did this bit: "I'm a drummer in a band called The Lightning Jumpers. I have a friend, you know one of those friends you've never met, they live several states away, but they're on FaceBook. Anyway, they saw me playing drums in a posted video and she said, "You're cute, for a drummer." (Several people crack up at this point.) So I said, 'I'm an ugly hairy mountain bear, and you've heard me growl, so don't you forget it!' Then she said to me, 'You're cuddly, like a panda bear.' And I told her, 'It's just like you to see things so black and white.'"

    Got big laughs and a few groans.

    In any case, hope I didn't offend anyone.

    tongue

    (I'd, like, offer to share the profits of the joke but this is Open Mic night.)

    1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I'm glad it got you laughs smile You could at least buy us all a round of whatever we're drinking. I'll have a coke please smile

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      Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Chris, I love that you shared that.  smile And that you seem to be doing well.  Peace, brother!  And may the laughter and love continue.  smile

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Matthew 5:43  Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
    Matthew 5:44  But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
    Matthew 5:45  That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust.

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      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Are you feeling hated and persecuted by your enemies?

      Funny, how you say you used to cavort all the time, drinking and fighting, but now are a good, upstanding Christian, and look down your nose at others, sort of like the reformed smoker constantly harping at other smokers.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Proverbs  3:24  When thou liest down, thou shalt not be afraid: yea, thou shalt lie down, and thy sleep shall be sweet

    Good night everyone.

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      Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good night, Sir Dent.  Rest well.

    2. MelissaBarrett profile image58
      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good night.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    John 8:36 If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Job 38:4  Where wast thou when I laid the foundations of the earth? declare, if thou hast understanding.

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Jesus wept. John 11:35

      Maybe still does. At moments such as these.

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Moments such as. . .?

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Well, I've noticed (and correct me if I am wrong) that you tend to post scriptures as a rebuttal to a previous post without replying directly. The problem is, sometimes when someone uses scripture in an attempt to rebut, without opening a dialogue, what they do is support the argument they think they are rebutting.

          Everyone interprets the words differently. People are more alike than they are different. We fail to see that because we get caught up in our own idea of things without attempting to find the similarities.

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Scripture speaks for itself and needs no interpretation.  Believers are to be apart from unbelievers meaning they are not alike. 

            I don't post scripture to rebut without addressing the post I am rebutting.  I post scriptures to try to keep the topic on track with the title of the thread.  Sometimes it is also to give a break for those who seem to be getting too emotionally charged in their posts.

            1. Righteous Atheist profile image59
              Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Cutting and pasting biblical drivel makes you look righteous as well. Don't forget that. wink

              Odd - I thought you used scripture to interpret scripture - now you say it does not need to be interpreted. One of those statements is untrue.

              Save me a seat by the fire, wink

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Stop winking!

                People who wink at wrong cause trouble, but a bold reproof promotes peace. Prov 10:10

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Yes Mark, iron sharpens iron and scripture interprets scripture.  All scripture stands and is given by inspiration of God and is used for teaching, doctrine, reproof and correction.

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                  Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  That is a blatant contradiction. It either stands alone - or where it obviously contradicts itself - you have to choose the one you prefer . Therefore scripture does need interpretation. Judge not, lest ye be judged.

                  Save me a seat by the fire. wink

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              wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You're joking, right?  You don't really think the English words mean exactly what they say, according to dictionaries?  There are no parables, no metaphors that need interpretation, no cultural differences to work through and the translators always got it perfect. 

              You are joking?

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Did you really think he was joking or was that just added as an extra measure of scoff in case the fact that you disagreed wasn't enough?

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                  wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  While there are literalists in this world, believing all the bible says while ignoring reality or pretending it is not what it is, I did not put SirDent in that category.  HE does, though, with this post.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    It's strange the way the dynamic is here. Is a question asked for clarity? No. An accusation is waged and a verdict decided before the defendant even has a chance to answer the round of accusations being fired at him. It seems to me, offering patience and withholding assumptions is vital if true understanding is to be gained.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Whether they got it exactly right or not makes no difference.  It is by revelation that the Word of God is shown not by man's interpretation. 

                Explanation is not the same as interpretation.

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                  wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  How long did it take to form the universe, man and all?
                  Was the entire land surface under water in Noah's flood?
                  Did a man live for days in the belly of a fish?

                  Literal readings of the bible are worthless.  Without value until the meaning of the words are changed to match reality, but when you then claim "revelation" instead of "interpretation" that is even worse.  They both mean the same thing - scripture does not mean what it says - but one implies a make believe creature gave you the interpretation.  Which is of course why no two people even interpret it the same - they all have a different god talking to them, don't they?

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this
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              Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Since many people understand the scripture to mean different things; your statement is proven to be patently false. What you are saying is that those who don't agree with you are unbelievers. They are simply unbelievers in your belief. As are you, conversely, a disbeliever in theirs.

              You chose to place yourself in a not alike category. In a step above your fellow man category. I'm not sure that, in any way, follows in line with what Jesus was hoping for. As a matter of fact, I think there are multiple sayings attributed to him which were specifically arguing against this mentality.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                People don't understand scripture because they do not have understanding.  I could explain to you how to use a nail gun to fasten lumber together but that doesn't mean you have understanding of it.  A person will never have understanding until they put it into practice.

                Rom_12:2  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

                It is not a step above unbelievers.  Just not the same.

                1. Righteous Atheist profile image59
                  Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Let me get this straight. You are now claiming better understanding of the written word that everyone else. And are demonstrating the will of god by your actions and words?  And you don't see why this comes across as self righteous and divisive. How poorly you understand.

                  Save me a seat by the fire. wink

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I beg you to get a new tag line.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Not claiming to be a step above? You are joking. Right? You understand scripture. Anyone who disagrees doesn't. You are tuned in to the creator of all things. We aren't. This makes you beloved of God and us not. This gets you into heaven. We get hell.

                  Sounds like a claim of a step above to me.

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Joh 14:17  Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you.

                    The world is all unbelievers.  Not a step above, just different.

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                  Deepes Mindposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  There is a lot about this statement that is true and profound. But If I may interject a couple of things here as to a slight (but important) issue with this statement for others. The first thing I would point out is the fact that a lot of times, a person has a tendency to teach something as according to the way that they learned it themselves. As a result, they often fail to consider the learning style of the person that they are trying to teach. As a result, the teaching and learning process become more difficult due to some communication barriers. A second thing (related to the first) is that a lot of time, people want to simply TELL others how something should be done, but they do not always SHOW them. You can explain the use of a nail gun to another person as much as you can, but what if the person you are trying to explain it to speaks a different language? This is an example where you would have to show them how to use it in the best possible manner.

                  This same scenario applies to the bible as well. A lot of people have a tendency to try to teach people about God and Christ in everyday conversation but when someone doesn't understand, They go back to the Bible itself to get the scriptures. I'm not saying that there is anything wrong with that, because that is a good move, HOWEVER, where some of us lose people is where we fail to show them with our own actions what is meant by what the bible says. The issue with that is that we then write a lot of people off with statement that are basically the Christian equivalent of calling someone stupid, IMO.

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                    Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    True dat.

                    I have to say though if you are here to evangelize and are afraid of losing people you may not want to be very quick with your advice of showing people rather than telling people about your love unless you Got the showing thing down well yourself.

                4. EncephaloiDead profile image55
                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  That makes no sense and reflects as much on you as everyone else, whatever it means.



                  But, you don't need to explain how the nail gun works because like the Bible, we can read the instruction manual ourselves.



                  That is not true, a person can understand something without putting it into practice.

            4. JMcFarland profile image71
              JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              What you're saying here seems to directly contradict what several of your fellow believers are saying.   Some say that you cannot possibly understand scripture without the spirit.   You're saying that scripture stands on its own and needs no interpretation whatsoever.   

              If I open the Bible and read it,  I understand the words because I can read just like believers can.  Yet believers tell me that since I no longer believe,  I somehow magically cannot understand the words I'm reading.  Either scripture stands alone and needs no interpretation,  as you're saying (if that were the case, there would not be 40 thousand different denominations who can't seem to agree on what it says or means) or it needs interpretation,  and different groups interpret it differently,  which explains the denominations.

              That being said,  just because people may interpret it differently than you do does not make them automatically wrong,  and you automatically right.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                As I stated in a previous post, to truly understand, it must be put into practice. 

                You can search every discussion on HugPages and you will never see a post where I said I was right.  God is the One who is always right. 

                I only write what I know to be true.  I don't know it all but I do have a little knowledge.  If I am speculating on something, I say it is my opinion or my speculation.

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                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  That's not a problem, it only is a problem when you refuse to listen to others who have more knowledge than you.

              2. MelissaBarrett profile image58
                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I'm responding to you because I love you, but here's my general take on the whole multiple interpretations thing...

                I'm not sure why it would be so hard for Christians to accept that the Bible was written in such a way that one gets the message that would most help them on their own spiritual path. As such, it's going to mean different things to different people because no one walks the same path/has the same needs.

                It's entirely possible, to me, that all interpretations are correct and none are. That's kind of what I understand the whole "living word" thing to be. If you want to call the personal forces that drive those interpretations the "spirit"... then have at it.

                That being said, there are certain interpretations that are more dangerous than others, and that needs to be acknowledged and dealt with.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Lamentations 3:22  It is of the LORD'S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not.
    Lamentations 3:23  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Off for a few hours though I may get to check in for a few minutes from time to time.

    John 3:16  For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

  8. Jerami profile image59
    Jeramiposted 11 years ago

    No one can find God or go to God unless the person is called out by God.  No man can come to me except the Father draw him, Jesus said that. 
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    me   ....  That is what is written !   and I see no reason to disagree.    I feel like I was called as I am sure many do. It is also written in Isiah (Don't remember where); that God gives faith to those he chooses to give it to and he doesn't to those which he chooses not to. 
      According to these verses, I don't think that a persons lack of desire for it has anything to do with whether we get it or not.  And I don't think having faith in God makes us any better in Gods eyes than those people that he didn't give faith too.
    If hell is a real place and people who do not have faith go there; it was predetermined as to who is going to hell when God chose to not give faith to that person.
       
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    Without revelation, no one can go to God. 
    God does not give His wisdom or revelation to those who reject not only Him but His son also.  You can believe or not believe but it doesn't stop me and others from believing and it doesn't stop me and other from KNOWING who God really is.
    - - - -
    me ...  This last paragraph is your understanding which you have reached according to that measure of faith which was given to you from God. 
    How can I judge anyone properly according to "MY" level of faith and or wisdom.  If I am to be judged by anyone; it should be according to my level of faith and wisdom' not theirs.
    Maybe, when God judges us, he uses the curve method; cause ...  to those to whom much is given, much is expected. in return.

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    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years ago

    Regarding teaching...anything, not just spiritual things...the best teachers I've ever had were the ones who never stopped learning.  From everyone and everything.  They are perpetual "students."

    And how often does the "student become the teacher."  We humans are forgetful beings.  Often, children remind us of the most basic and fundamental lessons.  Be nice. Share. Take naps.  Remember the book from years ago "Everything I Ever Needed to Know I Learned in Kindergarten?"  None of us is post-graduate level where God is concerned and we are constantly learning, from him and from each other.  I think we forget that.  A lot.

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    Emile Rposted 11 years ago

    All these posts about teaching. I don't remember seeing a request for it. I thought the forums existed for an exchange of ideas.

    Seriously,I haven't seen any posts by anyone (myself included) such would warrant anyone to respond with 'oh, teach me. Please.' Maybe, we need to attempt to get over ourselves?

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Snatch this pebble from my hand.

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        Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        lol

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      That's the damn truth.

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        Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        You do realize this level of bonhomie you've acquired when responding to me is freaking me out?

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          It's that whole 'the enemy of my enemy is my friend' kinda thing... I don't know, but it does my heart good to see you two getting along. I'm having an Avon party tomorrow and I want you both to come.

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Is that how you really see life? In terms of enemies and allies?

            Wow. I just have people I like and people I don't like.

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              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              And, prepared you should be, for the decision you make may be one of deep regret.

              Think about it.

              If you choose the path of a Christian and believe you'll indeed be seated next to God and Jesus in heaven for an eternity with all the self-righteous, self-promoting evangelist wannabees.

              Knowing that now, living in hell instead, amongst us all of us atheist heathens doesn't sound so bad, does it? wink

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Wow. Neither option is appealing. I wonder if there is a limbo option.

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                  Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  How about being with God?
                  I mean the way ED has it set up, it's like trying to get you excited about going to Disney Land with your mother in law... When was your mother in law the goal? Disney was the goal... if she's there, and her heart and mind are made new? All the better, but hanging with your mother in law for all eternity was never the goal.

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                    Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Well, I don't think of an afterlife in terms of being around those I liked or disliked. Honestly. My parents believed they'd end up in eternity with their first spouse. It created a bit of a problem at my Dad's funeral since he wanted my Mom's ashes in his arms and his wife he married after Mom,  died did everything she could to head that off at the pass. I was torn between wanting what Dad wanted and what I'm sure my Mom would want as opposed to doing what would make someone living happier.

                    After death......we'll look back and say 'Seriously? I thought that mattered? Sheesh, was I an idiot.' If God is, everyone will be however they will be. This silly idea that what we think matters in the long run makes no sense to me.

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                    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Man, I'd have a blast with my MIL at Disneyworld.  But I'm blessed with a terrific MIL.  I'm probably unusual in that regard.

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                    Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Going to Disneyland with a jealous, fast tempered genocidal maniac doesn't sound like fun. And I'm not talking about my MIL. big_smile

                  4. EncephaloiDead profile image55
                    EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    If God is as He is depicted in the Bible, I wouldn't want to be with God, I would much rather be in Disney Land with my mother in law.

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Yeah, while I admit the general company in hell would probably be better (not to mention the food and music) Sorry. I really do believe in Christ. I think of it as the family reunion I go to to see the really cool uncle, even though the rest of my family are tw*ts.

                I don't really believe in a literal hell though. Not really trying to get to heaven either.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Eh, if I agree with something someone says, I agree with it. If I don't then I don't, doesn't really matter if I like the person or not.  Don't get too freaked out. I'm sure you'll say something I disagree with very soon.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I think our Totally Kissable Lips Racy Red is your color.

            1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Sorry, I don't really do make-up. Always kinda figured my face was my face, adding paint to it doesn't really change it.

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                You have a very pretty face. I've always thought the same thing... like... why do we have to slather crap on it to make it acceptable? Men don't have to do that. And Im not one of those ppl who run around going, "If men don't have to do it, why should we?" But in this case, it just doesn't make sense... why are they ok just the way God made them and we're supposed to be sub-par without it? It makes no sense. And of course, like a lot of women... I still wear it. Shame on me. I don't sell Avon, I hope that came across as a joke. lol

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            Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            OK. The world hasn't turned topsy turvy. That's a comfort.

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              Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I've already set aside some Avon Instinct for Her shower gel for you, Emile. I think you'll really like it.

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I've got to go with Melissa on the make up thing. And, perfumed things make me think I'm going to suffocate. I'm neurotic, I know.

                So, you're an Avon lady?

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                  Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  No, I was just joking. What I am is sick. I think I need some meds. lol
                  I gotta go pick up my kids from school soon and I need to hop in the shower, but I feel like death...

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                    Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Hope you feel better.

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    EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years ago

    Notice that the preacher often cannot follow through with his own logic? If the first statement were true, the second is either redundant or it implies the first statement is false.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      S'cuse me, we're having a serious conversation here. lol

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      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      This one contradicts himself constantly. Scripture does not need to be interpreted. Except it does - either by using scripture to interpret scripture or being led by the Spirit. Thank the Lord I don't live in a time where this would have got him a seat on the council. big_smile

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Isaiah 24:23  Then the moon shall be confounded, and the sun ashamed, when the LORD of hosts shall reign in mount Zion, and in Jerusalem, and before his ancients gloriously.

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      janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      What are the Lord's ancients? That doesn't make any sense to me.

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        wildernessposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        And how do you shame an inanimate ball of hydrogen or confound a big rock?

        No interpretation allowed...

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I'm not sure what the passage is supposed to mean. I was HOPING for an interpretation:) I'm wondering what it might mean metaphorically.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          It has to do with his "glow". It's just saying he's going to be really bright.

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        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        The Jews.

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          janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          OK, thanks.

          EDIT it makes sense to me now.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You know, that kind of implies that the Jews are going to be in heaven... right?

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Yes, it is as you say, Melissa. Jews will receive salvation and be given eternal life. They come to it later than the "gentiles" (the rest) because it was through the Jewish nation's rejection of the message of the cross that the way was opened up for all the rest of us, which was God's plan from the beginning - he calls from every tribe and nation. 

        "For I do not want you, brethren, to be uninformed of this mystery-- so that you will not be wise in your own estimation-- that a partial hardening has happened to Israel until the fullness of the Gentiles has come in; and so all Israel will be saved; just as it is written, "The deliverer will come from Zion, he will remove ungodliness from Jacob"… (Romans 11:25-26)

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Which, of course, means that the Jews will be saved without faith. They will actually see a shining glowing Jesus as proof.

          Edit: They will also be in heaven before believing. Just saying.

  13. Cat333 profile image61
    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    I don't think Sir Dent was ever saying interpretation of scripture wasn't allowed, nor do I think he was contradicting himself as people have been saying. Correct me if I'm wrong, Sir Dent, but this seems the basic idea:

    The Spirit himself gives revelation of the meaning of scriptures (He's the one who guides us into all truth). When God's children read scripture with the Spirit as their guide, they will be given understanding of the scripture (though even this is a gradual process).

    Although a person with the Spirit may give the interpretation of the scripture to one without the Spirit, even then the person without the Spirit will not understand because it is "spiritually discerned" and cannot fully be understood without the Spirit. Some may ask then why even give the scripture at all. Going beyond the fact that the verses are also for the believers to read, here is why they are still given to unbelievers (and without interpretation), even though unbelievers cannot interpret them without the Spirit -

    We cannot judge who God will bring into his kingdom (this is different than making a determination of present status based on present fruit). So because God's word is living and active and will accomplish all that it was intended to accomplish, the Spirit himself may come to the unbelieving one who reads the word and then give the understanding of the word, and himself lead the unbeliever into the truth, so that thanks to the Spirit and the word that was given, the unbeliever now becomes a believer.

    1. Righteous Atheist profile image59
      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      No - he was saying this:



      Which of course nullifies all the other self righteous stuff you just posted. Which is it? Does it stand alone or do you need "special powers" to interpret it to say what you want it to say?

      Such as Paul saying women are not to try to teach men?

      Save me a seat by the fire, wink

  14. JMcFarland profile image71
    JMcFarlandposted 11 years ago

    Additionally,  a lot of people, including Christians,  have no problem whatsoever understanding and following those rules and never get banned.   If you keep running intoa problem,  instead of looking for a grand conspiracy, perhaps you should start examining your words and behavior and take personal responsibility rather than offense.

    1. Cat333 profile image61
      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you for your sincere, heartfelt advice, JMcFarland. Who said I "keep running into a problem?"

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        JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        You did, by admitting you were currently under a four week ban, and outright assertion that someone is trying to ban and silence all Christians.  If you think it's slander to make false statements, and that statement is so false as to be downright funny, aren't you then guilty of slander?

        1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Especially since her four-week ban was for telling someone that he was the spawn of Satan.

          1. JMcFarland profile image71
            JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Did Christ ever tell someone (other than the holier than thou religious leaders) that they were the spawn of Satan?.

            1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              No.. and if he would have, it wouldn't have put me in mind of the MP Holy Grail witch trials.

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          Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          How would YOU know, JMcFarland, that the statement about Melissa was "so false as to be downright funny"?

          Anyway, I said who says I KEEP running into problems? That would imply she is making repeated reports; do you have knowledge of such? If I've already seen her to make a couple reports against Christians in my brief time on Hub Pages, I'm thinking it's likely she's made many. I see that Melissa fights with or at least contradicts almost every Christian on the forums. Since she appears fond of both instigating fights (just take a brief look through the threads) and reporting Christians, it suggests she instigates fights so as to get Christians banned.

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I reported you because you said that someone was the son of Satan.

            Seriously, you consider that MY FAULT?

            Next time, and here's a clue, don't call someone the spawn of Satan. And he damn sure didn't instigate.

            Jesus, take some personal responsibility. No one can be banned unless they break the rules. If someone reports that, then it was STILL YOU that personally attacked someone... Apparently every reasonable person thought it was pretty severe as well, as 4 week bans don't get handed out very often.

            Oh, btw, I've reported exactly one personal attack against myself. I will report the hell out of personal attacks against others though.

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              Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Someone who claims God is dead, etc., etc. IS carrying out the work of their spiritual father, this is truth, whether you like it or not. There are only two Spiritual fathers, and those who carry out the acts of darkness make it clear who there father is.

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                THAT! That right there. That is why I disagree with you and everything you stand for. THAT is not the Jesus I worship. That is a personal attack. THAT is why you got banned for 4 weeks. Not because you were reported but because you verbally attacked a completely innocent person who just happened to disagree with you.

                If that is what I have to be for the Christian community to consider me a Christian, then no thanks. I'll just keep following Christ. YOU are nothing like the Christ I know. You're damn sure a Christian though.

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            JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I know that I've only been banned once.  It was for 24 hours.  A 4 week long ban doesn't seen typical of a first ban, unless it was really, really severe.  Although, I never called someone the spawn of Satan, so I wouldn't know the banning limit for such a post.

            Christians are always crying personal attack, and several of them have told numerous people that they were going to report their posts.  Yet the posts didn't break the rules, and as such, no ban was put in place.  They report other Christians.  They report Atheists.  They report Muslims.  So what?  Not every report results a ban.  If the post in question goes against the forum rules, the user will be banned.  Why are you so insistent on not taking responsibility for your posts, and recognizing that, if you were banned, perhaps it was because you broke the rules - not because of some grand conspiracy against you?  You were banned NOT because someone disagreed with you, but because you broke the rules.  That's all.

            I have many people on the forums of all beliefs, and I don't report people often, if ever.  We talk.  We disagree.  But none but a select few assert that I've ever personally attacked them.

            Prove that i've ever personally attacked you and called you a name, and I'll apologize.  If you can't, I'll assume that you made it up - bearing false witness, and your words should not be trusted if you're not willing to hold yourself to your own standard.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    1John 4:10  Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    1John 3:16  Hereby perceive we the love of God, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.
    1John 3:17  But whoso hath this world's good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him?
    1John 3:18  My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Sir Dent, I get what you are saying, I really do. My brethren are all people. If it is a sister or brother in Christ harming that person, then it is also my responsibility to show compassion to the one being harmed, not the harmer.

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        Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Seriously? You and I go head to head more often than not; so I don't think it is out of the range of possibility that we would disagree on this point. Your brethren are all people? Wouldn't that statement encompass the one you have labeled the harmer? By labeling them the harmer (in the context of Christians lashing out at what they label unbelievers) aren't you putting yourself in a similar position? Sure, you can justify it in your mind by claiming the moral high ground but, there again, aren't you doing the exact same thing as the 'harmer'?

        I'm not implying one shouldn't point out what one considers harmful behavior patterns. But, if we react with similar behavior patterns to the actions we consider harmful to some, what is gained in the end? A great deal of contention, but little else.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Other than yes, I am taking the moral high-ground on this one, I have no idea what you are talking about.

          Do you seriously see me lashing out? Could you explain why? Do you seriously see me behaving in a way that harms someone? Could you explain why?

          Warning: If the answer is anything remote resembling "But you aren't polite and sweet." Then don't even bother.

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            Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Isn't that the gist of your problem with those you say are 'harmers'? They aren't polite and sweet? Seriously. Who gives a rat's behind where one person thinks the other may be in the end? Isn't that the primary harm done by those you label 'harmers'? They don't think someone is right with God? How does that harm anyone unless they chose to be harmed? I suppose if the Almighty were holding one or the other up so we could all hear better there might be an argument for more harm being done; but I'm pretty sure everyone made their own little soap box.

            Their moral high ground stands on a different hill than yours. Be king of your hill. Enjoy it. They enjoy their little hill. Why scuffle around in the sandbox when you've got a hill?

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Actually, the gist of my problem with the "harmers" is that they believe they are polite and sweet. They believe they can wrap hatred up in a candy-coated brick of "Gods love" and beat someone to submission with it.

              The primary harm done by religious bullies is the continuous systematic erosion of the self-esteem and happiness of the one being bullied. In addition, these zealots also spread their message, like an infection, without any regard or responsibility for who they might hurt.

              The way I see it, if you are OK with that and don't see any need to stand up to try and stop it... then your fence-sitting is part of the problem. Don't forget to dust your soap-box off, btw.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          What is gained from trying to stop harmful behaviour patterns?

          Are you the kid in the school yard that sticks up for the bully when others are attempting to prevent someone being bullied by stating that only a great deal of contention will be gained by preventing the bully from continuing?

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That was my general understanding of her post as well, but I was giving her the benefit of the doubt.

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            Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I wish I could say that made perfect sense. I'm sure it does to you. However, I don't wear blinders on a daily basis. smile

            If the only result from addressing contention is to spread the contention it sounds to me as if we've just created more 'bullies' as you label it.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You're right. We shouldn't do anything.

              Point proven.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You don't think those who spread hatred towards homosexuals or unbelievers are doing anything wrong?

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                No, they are just responding to their own emotional needs.

                They're OK, I'm OK, You're OK.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Isn't your label of 'harmer' simply a display of your reaction to the emotional needs of others?

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Of course. But, we should respond with as much right as is humanly possible. Right, all the way around.

                But, that isn't the point. Melissa attempted to imply it was her Christian duty to label harmed and harmers; because all people are her brethren. I would think it was her Christian duty to find a compassionate way to deal with all of her brethren. Not just the ones she chooses to show compassion toward.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Of course, but….

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                    Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    You are going to have to post what is supposed to come after the ....

                    I can't decipher that.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Melissa implied no such ******* thing. Emile might of implied it, but Emile is good at failing armchair psychology.

                  Melissa implied the point that being Christian gave you no particular right to insult non-believers and that being chastised for standing up against a bullying Christian rather than ignoring their behavior because they were the same faith doesn't float.

                  Melissa was also compassionately dealing with her brethren... by defending them against someone who was calling them the spawn of Satan.

                  If Emile didn't feel that needed defending, then Emile might want to spend her time sitting on the fence in contemplation on that issue.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I hope you're not including me in this, Rad Man, as I've not spread hatred towards homosexuals or unbelievers. I've confronted one person who calls herself a believer and either is not in truth, or is giving the impression that she is not for an unknown reason. I respect that unbelievers simply don't know God, and it's not for me to know which ones will one day, so I stay open to the idea that any unbeliever may one day be a brother or sister. I also understand that God loves all people and we all are sinners apart from Christ, and all are undeservedly declared righteous through Christ.

                Many blessings to you, Rad Man.

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            Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I'll give you an example. Something happened to us the other day.

            I don't know what precipitated the event, but our company Facebook page had a guy come in. He posted horrible ethnic slurs. He thought they were against us, but we aren't the ethnicity he seems to think we are. I don't monitor the page. My son called to tell me what happened. He tried to respond to the guy, ignoring the slurs, but the guy kept responding with more. Others jumped in and attacked the guy for his comments. My son, feeling sorry for the guy because he was being ganged up on at that point; banned him so the conversation would then be deleted.

            He called me and told me a little bit about what had happened. I called information to get the guy's phone number and called him directly. I didn't comment about the racial slurs, I simply told him I understood he had expressed some concerns on the Facebook page and I was hoping I could have the opportunity to address them. He told me he was fine, all his concerns had been addressed and complained that people had misunderstood his intent; he had simply wanted to let us know what others thought of us.

            I later saw the comments since my son had taken screen shots before the conversation was deleted. The comments were hateful and horrible.There was no way to misunderstand the intent. But, what could be gained by responding in kind? The only thing you can do, in the face of such contention, is take the high ground and pull as many along through example as possible. Responding with what can only be construed by the viewer as a negative emotion, to something which causes you to feel a negative emotion spreads the negative emotion.

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              Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Very wise.

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                I'm hoping it stays wise. When I called information to get his phone number Verizon texted me his address and phone number. The men in the family have badgered me for it. They want to go by and see him. Their feelings were hurt pretty bad by the comments.

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                  Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  I would burn the address. You don't want to lose someone cause they're imprisoned or worse.

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                    Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I will, at some point. When the shell shock wears off. Right now, I'm still thinking of sending him a follow up letter. I know it won't do any good calling him an aryan racist redneck because, judging by his reaction when I called he already knows he is. And is at least rational enough to be embarrassed by it.

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Yes, very wise to allow someone to post racial slurs with no consequences and to ignore the feelings of those who were offended. Very wise to teach your children that those who spew racial obscenities should be tolerated and protected from their own actions.

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                  Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Melissa. I was the one offended. My spouse and his family were offended. However, allowing people to attack an obviously demented individual doesn't show compassion for that individual. My son took the highest ground available and I am very pleased with his behavior.

                  Are you sure you are up to speed on the definition of compassion? Showing compassion for only those you agree with isn't really a good display of compassion.

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                    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    You didn't say he was demented, you said he was a racist.

                    If he was demented, your responsibility was to help him find treatment. Not to shelter him from the effects of his dementia.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              So why did your son ban him? Why not just let him continue? Clearly he was being a bully, why not let him continue?

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                Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Because it was unfair all the way around. He attempted to be a bully, but didn't succeed. Why let others come in and bully him in response? They thought they were defending us, but the more important thing was they were attacking him. He had lost, because that type of mentality will always be in the minority.

                He was wrong. They were wrong. Two wrongs don't make a right.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  That's called peer response and it's a very important societal natural consequence. That's how people learn that their behavior is unacceptable.

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                    Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Well sure, Peer response. I'm an ass and let's see how many of you can be an ass to my assiness.

                    I don't strive to be a peer to that mentality.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Did the others who were responding to the racial comments (I assume that's what you meant) also get banned.

                  I curious as to what the comments were and what were they about. I respect your privacy but my I'm still curious.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Matthew  5:44  But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

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      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You are a wise man, Sir Dent.

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    I'm done, Melissa. Move on to the next of the many you fight against.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Then you have just reaffirmed my faith in Jesus. Bye-Bye now!

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    it seems we have a spammer on thread but I can't see the post until I hit reply.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Well, let's see if this post pushes it out to where we can flag it.

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    Beth37posted 11 years ago

    http://s1.hubimg.com/u/8815240_f248.jpg

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Sure you can. There is no God required for love.

      The second part shows how manipulated you have become.

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      JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I am more than capable of both love and compassionwithout a god telling me I should.  I don't hate people, even when people behave hatefully.  I don't hate Christians,  even though I disagree with them.   I've always had Christian friends.  I have Muslim friends too.   I have diverse friends,  and I can feel empathy and compassion for complete strangers without ever having to ask a god for help.

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      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Good for you sticking to your guns and obeying god's word. How many homosexuals have you killed today? Lewis was a moron of the highest magnitude. The only thing he could do well was wring money from the sheeple. wink

      http://thaumaturgical.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/10/CS-Lewis-reasoning.jpeg

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        tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        [img]http://s2.hubimg.com/u/8815387_f248.jpg[height=600 width=600 /img]

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          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I can't read anything that small. big_smile

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      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I wish Beth all the luck in the world that she someday learn those traits, if that's the way she wants to learn them. Whatever helps. smile

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    "Because of the increase in wickedness the love of most will grow cold, but the one who endures to the end will be saved." Matthew 24:12

    If Dr Lamb is not one of your characters, Melissa, then I apologize to you. If he is, you can answer to the Lord about it, as you can also answer for any of the things you've spoken against his bride, and I can answer for my many sins as well. If you are covered in the blood, as I am, then we have our answer already in Jesus' sacrifice for us.

    Blessings to you, Melissa. I'll say no more about anything I see you doing.

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    If you look through the threads you see that many of the believers at some time or another question this one who calls herself a believer yet speaks against Christianity and fights with all the believers. In the end they realize that it only makes them appear to be the same as she is, and so they stop.

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      If you are referring to Melissa, you should stop. You are already behind. Don't dig the hole deeper.

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      janesixposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Oh please. Give it up. It's getting old.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      That's interesting Cat. I often see you tell other believers what a real Christian is. Just as you are doing now.

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    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years ago

    You know, I try to see the best in everyone.  Sometimes I fail miserably, but it's in my nature.  Some of my best friends are often people others can't stand because they think they're jerks.  But I can find good...always.

    But that does not mean, under any circumstances, that behavior that truly harms a person physically or psychologically should be accepted and left alone.  It needs to be acknowledged and dealt with.

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I'm all for defending others. But, we have to be realistic. If someone pulls a baseball bat out of the trunk of a car in a parking lot and attempts to hit the next person innocently passing by; that is one thing. The best reaction is to  attempt to disarm the individual to protect others.

      But, let's say there is a husband abusing a wife. It's continued for some time. Does simply stopping him from hitting her address the problem? Shouldn't we also attempt to understand why she allows herself to remain in a position to be harmed? Isn't their's a co-dependent relationship?

      That's my point, in a nutshell when discussing psychological harm in the arena of adult interactions . As adults; we are all, in some manner, responsible for psychological harm. We harm, allow ourselves to be harmed, inflict harm when attempting to stop what we perceive as harm. We can start attempting to determine the degree of blame for the harm caused; but there would be no harm if we didn't believe it to exist. If we didn't allow our feelings to be hurt.

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        Motown2Chitownposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I can agree with most of that.  But I think we end up excusing away a lot of things that way and no one really ends up taking responsibility in the end.  We do need to hold each other accountable - to a point.  But beyond that pointing out to others what might be objectionable, or having it pointed out to us, the individual being brought to accountability needs to then figure out how to keep their own numbers.  We're saying something very similar, even though not identical.

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          Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I'm not necessarily talking about holding others accountable. I'm talking about holding ourselves accountable.

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    Rad Manposted 11 years ago

    Perhaps you didn't read the entire page. At the top of the page it says specifically.

    20 The Lord said to Moses, 2 “Say to the Israelites:

    it goes on to list punishments for said deeds.

    then.

    13 “‘If a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.

    And then there is Leviticus 18
    18 The Lord said to Moses, 2 “Speak to the Israelites and say to them:…

    then.

    22 “‘Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah, I read what you cited which was 20:13.

      Ok, I read the whole thing. It is God's law for His ppl. concerning what is clean and unclean. I'm sure He would know what is spiritually clean and unclean better than we.

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        Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        So, since all these laws were written for Israelis do you still think homosexuality is a sin?

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        Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        So you are good with following a racist, homophobic, sexist God because he must know better than you.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          You have mistakenly labeled Him that way. That is not who He is.

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            Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Someone who has a favourite race is a racist.
            Someone who hates gays is homophobic.
            Someone who thinks women are less then men and dirty is a sexist.

            I don't think God is any of those things as I don't think the writer was a God.

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              Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

              This is what you don't get:

              God doesn't love one race more than another, read the WHOLE bible. One is just naturally His. Remember how I mentioned adoption?

              God sent His son to pay the price for our sin so that we might be forgiven and live with Him in paradise. That includes every gay person, you and me... every single sinner. He loves all of mankind.

              He is not a respecter of persons. He loves women as much as men. For whatever reason, a woman's blood made her unclean... you don't have to get it. You can ask Him about it when you stand before Him, though I doubt you'll even remember that question at that point. Jesus came to replace the old laws. Read the bible as a whole, Rad Man.

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                Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Which is it Beth, follow his laws or else or we all get forgiven anyway? So anyway I guess we can do away with the OT then. Does that mean you will no longer say that homosexuality is a sin? Can you imagine a God asking for lambs to be slaughtered to appease him?

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                  Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  You have to confess your sin to God and ask to be forgiven in order to be forgiven.
                  Homosexuality is mentioned in the NT too. You can't do away with the OT, it's all a part of the same God.

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                    Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    It's interesting that you think God made us by design and yet mades some of us homosexual. Who's error is that? It seems to happen naturally in nature.

                    Anyway, so according to you all we have to do is repent when we see God so we are all good. You can continue with following your God's homophobic, sexist and racist ways if you like, but I suspect if their is a God he will wonder why you would think so poorly of him.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    This discussion has taken off really fast it seems.  I am trying to catch up.

    I see a lot of talk is about how God treats those that are His and those that are not His.

    How many of you would favor someone's else's children over your own?

    How many would favor those who spit in your face over your own children who love you?

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      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      So - God is no better than us? Excellent. God favors those who are scared of him over those who think for themselves.  You win after all. lol lol

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        oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Sir said,
        "I see a lot of talk is about how God treats those that are His and those that are not His.

        How many of you would favor someone's else's children over your own?

        How many would favor those who spit in your face over your own children who love you? "

        As an idea, how is that a bad idea?  What is a more reasonable and realistic idea to you, the opposite of those things?  Nah.....

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          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Reasonable and realistic? Well - how about there is no god that favors one group of his children over another? What say you?

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            oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            You were seeming to have issue with what Sir Dent said, which is what we usually see in reality with human families in the example given.  I was curious what you thought was more reasonable if his comment is not a reasonable one.  Otherwise, it stands. 

            If you want to discuss existence of a possible god, we can do that too.  Or, we could discuss why a spiritual father ought to act so opposite of how we would, etc.

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              Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              No - you asked for reasonable and realistic. I answered. Guess that is not what you wanted after all.

              I especially liked the whole "spitting in the face," thing. Very reasonable and realistic. lol

              No wonder your religion causes so many fights. sad

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                oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                The idea, being a Father or a God even, that ought to treat everyone the same no matter how badly they are treated is an idea that doesn't hold a lot of merit.  To show otherwise you would have to show how it would be the opposite, which would be rather hard but I didn't choose that stance.  I don't think you really believe it either if I had to guess, so I asked.

                Bad ideas don't make people's views cause fights, usually its the bad ideas and what comes with those, that do.  So I disagree with that. What I believe, would end a lot of fights, even if people don't believe and accept it like I do, but just characterized it correctly.  It is often not done that way, and it does cause fights.

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                  Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  The idea of treating a god in some way shape or form that upsets it is ridiculous. Sorry - did you want reasonable and realistic or not?

                  Just so we are clear - not believing in it is "spitting in its face"?

                  No wonder your religion causes so many fights. sad

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                    oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Why is the idea of upsetting a god, ridiculous? Yes, reasonable and rational is always what I strive for. 

                    The idea of a human parent getting upset, is normal, why wouldn't the same be true for this god?  Keep in mind, the spitting part that you had an issue with, was done to his son Jesus repeatedly when on trial for our sins, and the spitting was the least of the wrongs that he didn't deserve.  I am in keeping with where the conversation is at currently, adding in an example.  In that scenario.  God shouldn't be upset?

                    Yes, I think it is less reasonable than not.  That is just going with that one example.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Is it not reasonable to expect a perfect God to not be homophobic, racist and sexist?

              Is it reasonable to think childbirth is a sin and giving birth to a girl is more sinful?

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        Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Way to twist it. Bravo.


        tongue

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Aren't we all God's children? After all, if he made one he made all.

      What you're really asking is if I would only favor those children that agreed with me and lived exactly as I said for them to live.

      So the answer would be I would still love them the same.

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        oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        You give a different scenario, and have his question be a somewhat different one, but if it was as you put it with those differences, I imagine many would answer that they would love them the same.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          How is it different again?

          Edit: Ok, I get it, so we're not all God's children. I guess that's a different discussion.

          However I would say if he made one of us, he made all of us. So we are.

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            oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Did I miss where you asked that before?

            Here is what Sir Dent said,

            "I see a lot of talk is about how God treats those that are His and those that are not His.

            How many of you would favor someone's else's children over your own?

            How many would favor those who spit in your face over your own children who love you?"

            You said,

            "Aren't we all God's children? After all, if he made one he made all.

            What you're really asking is if I would only favor those children that agreed with me and lived exactly as I said for them to live.

            So the answer would be I would still love them the same."

            So the example changed from what Sir Dent said, not having all the children be the parent's but belonging to others, "Not His..." he said.  He was talking about how you would favor someone else's child over your own, unlikely, nor does it make sense.  If another person's child spit in your face, you would treat them all equally?  Really?  Then, you change it from how they are treated, to if they are loved.  The example put the way you put it, would cause that to be a more agreed upon response.  The other one, to side against it just isn't reasonable or rational.  I could ask you the same as I did to RA, how is the opposite of what Sir Dent said, more reasonable?  Then you would have a case.  I could be wrong, but it stands as I see it for the reasons given.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              No, because in this case, I refuse the assertion that we aren't all his children.

              However, would I treat a child that spit in my face any differently if they were mine or not? No.

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                oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                It is still a different situation then.  You are discussing or debating a new point was all I was pointing out.  Which is fine, but its good to be clear when things change up a bit is all.  Many people still love a child that spits in their face.  Many probably wouldn't disagree with you there either, especially if a young child that was upset, etc.  If parent's didn't there would be lots of kids that were unloved.

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        At one point during Jesus' ministry He said this; "John 8:44  Ye are of your father the devil,"  when addressing the pharisees.  This, in itself, shows that not everyone is God's child. 

        God created Adam in His own image and His likeness.  After the fall of man, Adam and Eve procreated their children in their image and likeness, which is a state of sinfulness.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I would see that as fathering a child then giving it up because it didn't please you. Then beating it (sending it to hell) when it didn't do as you say.

          Sorry, if he made the human race, we are all his. If we did something wrong, maybe he should have raised us better.

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            So you are saying you don't believe those words I posted above from the bible?

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I don't believe Jesus was speaking literally. Do you? He was saying they were evil. Do you think he was saying that they literally were the children of Satan? Because that's a whole other discussion.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Those who are led by the devil, belong to the devil.  I believe Jesus meant it literally.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  You believe that they were actually fathered by Satan? You think that Jesus was literally saying that their mothers were seduced, drug into bed, and gave birth to his children?

                  That's literal.

                  You seriously believe that Jesus meant that?

                  Or is it more reasonable to believe that he meant they were evil?

                  Because from my reading of the Bible, Satan never created any children. He never created anything... so he can't be the father of any human being. God LITERALLY created us. He is LITERALLY our father according to the Bible.

                  Edit: As an aside, he never actually said that they were evil, just that they were doing the devil's work by not accepting him.

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    It is a spiritual thing.  The devil was their spiritual father. Now for the whole verse. John 8:44  Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.

                    I have other translations also if you want me to post them. They all say the same thing.

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          oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Here is more from that section of scripture, in case it sheds some light and I think it might,

          "31 To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. 32 Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.”

          33 They answered him, “We are Abraham’s descendants and have never been slaves of anyone. How can you say that we shall be set free?”

          34 Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. 35 Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son belongs to it forever. 36 So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed. 37 I know that you are Abraham’s descendants. Yet you are looking for a way to kill me, because you have no room for my word. 38 I am telling you what I have seen in the Father’s presence, and you are doing what you have heard from your father.[b]”

          39 “Abraham is our father,” they answered.

          “If you were Abraham’s children,” said Jesus, “then you would[c] do what Abraham did. 40 As it is, you are looking for a way to kill me, a man who has told you the truth that I heard from God. Abraham did not do such things. 41 You are doing the works of your own father.”

          “We are not illegitimate children,” they protested. “The only Father we have is God himself.”

          42 Jesus said to them, “If God were your Father, you would love me, for I have come here from God. I have not come on my own; God sent me. 43 Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say. 44 You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. 45 Yet because I tell the truth, you do not believe me! 46 Can any of you prove me guilty of sin? If I am telling the truth, why don’t you believe me? 47 Whoever belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God.”

          I thought it was interesting how he characterizes the two groups, and it seems to apply to this discussion.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That was really good, thanks for sharing that.

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              oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Sure, Beth.  Sometimes I find that context helps me.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Amen, Oceansnsunsets!

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      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I would be indifferent to other people's children because they are not my children.



      Spitting in your God's face? Is that what you believe people are doing who don't worship your God as you do? Have you never actually heard of the word, "indifferent"?

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        If you're so indifferent to God, as you say Encephaloidead, then why are you "wasting" all your time in Christian forums?

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          EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          I'm here to "save" you, of course. smile

  27. MelissaBarrett profile image58
    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years ago

    "God loves them so much that He gave His only begotten Son for them.  That is true love that cannot be matched by any man woman or child.  That doesn't mean He will reward them for their wicked ways.  He gave man freedom to choose."


    Then the analogy of a human father is a poor one and probably shouldn't be used any more.

    Here's a question for you in those same vein, if you had 6 children and they were all about to drown, would you only save the ones that had obeyed you? Would you let some drown because the were "wicked".

    Is not burning forever a reward for a child?

    Now, that is not an attack on the Bible, Christianity, God or Christ. I am questioning whether comparing God's "fathering" to a human's "fathering" is really apt.

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      SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I would save all of them that I could. 

      If I told them to come toward me and they went the opposite way, then what?  They have to make a decision no matter how much I love them.

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        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        But that's not exactly apt either. You have the ability to save them all, you just choose not to because they disobeyed you. Once again, not attacking the faith, just the comparison.

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        EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        That's called using ones freedom of choice. If God didn't want anyone to use their freedom of choice, why bother giving it to them?

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      There's a difference between disobeying you and rejecting you. We are not talking about children under the age of accountability. We are talking about those who had been told the truth of God, what He had sacrificed for them, and spit hatred in His face. If He rescued them, what end would it come to? Would they all of a sudden become loving and kind? Or would they continue on in their ways of hate and rejection. Ppl reject God b/c they don't want to obey Him. They will fight to the death to do as they please.

      1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
        MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Oh, so you wouldn't rescue your children if they said that you weren't their mother?

        Once again, the comparison is not apt... unless your answer is yes...

        In which case this conversation is the least of conversations we should be having.

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          SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          if your children, when they reached the age of 18 years old came to you and said, "We hate you and are not going to live here anymore.  We never want to see you again and if you try to find us, we will have you arrested." 

          Can you save them?  No matter how much you love them, it is their decision to make to come back to you. 

          I am only writing this because it seems you are not understanding what I have been trying to say, which, of course, could be my fault.

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            MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            If they needed rescued, the threat of being arrested wouldn't stop me. Nor would I punish them with eternal damnation... because... it would still be in my power to stop it.

            I'm understanding what you are saying, and I'm not disagreeing that that is how God works.

            I'm just saying that's not how a father acts, so the comparison is not apt.

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              SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              So tell me, what good would it do you or them if they have you arrested?  You wind up in jail and they are still where they want to be.  They chose their place on their own.

              A father will save those children who belong to Him if they are in danger.  How can a father be expected to save all children, no matter who they belong to?

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                So are you saying that God doesn't have the power to decide who gets in and out of heaven... that he couldn't stop a soul from going to hell? That he doesn't have the power to save everyone?

                (God can't go to jail, there's no higher authority)

                If that's your view, then I'll gladly accept your logic for all your other views after that.

                If he does though, then I have to take the view that he is picking which children to save based on whether they obey him or not.

                In which case, that's not a good parent -or even if you take the view that not all of the children he made are his-not a good "person" as I know the definition. Because if I could save them all, I would and I expect any good "person " would.

                Again, not questioning God. Just questioning the comparisons I've seen used.

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                  SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Are you familiar with the scripture that in order to come to God you must believe that He is? 

                  I posted before in one reply that God created Adam in His likeness and Eve from the rib of Adam..  After they ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, they procreated and children were born in the likeness of Adam and Eve, who were then in a sinful state.  All children born were born with the same sinful nature. 

                  God has the power to save all but will not go against His own Word.  Jesus said, you must be born again.  He also said, Ye are of your father the devil, when addressing the pharisees at one point. 

                  Now, we can go back to the book of Job.  Job spoke of a daysman, Job 9:33  Neither is there any daysman betwixt us, that might lay his hand upon us both.  Without a daysman, no will be able to reach God. 

                  Then we can go back to the New Testament in 2Peter 3:9  The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. God wants all to come to repentance. 

                  More later if you want.  I gotta run for a bit.  There is a forest fire down the road from where I live, approximately a mile away.  Need to check and see if there is anything I can do to help.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Be safe.

                  2. MelissaBarrett profile image58
                    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Hope everything's ok.

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            EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That would probably mean one of two things, those children have mental disorders or you have treated them so badly that they need to get away from you. And, if you behave the same way as your God by punishing them severely for not worshiping and praising you, then the latter is most likely the case. 



            We understand you perfectly.

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        EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        That problem with your ridiculous explanation is that you automatically believe that people who don't accept your God are rejecting and hating your God, which couldn't be further from the truth. But, of course, if you didn't believe that, you wouldn't have anything to preach.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Joh 3:3  Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.

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      Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Let me guess - you just happen to be born again? You win. Again! lol

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        tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        YES - and we win always.
        When the individual takes the path of righteousness, they always win.
        John 3: 16-21
        16 “For God so loved the world, that He gave His [e]only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life. 17 For God did not send the Son into the world to judge the world, but that the world might be saved through Him. 18 He who believes in Him is not judged; he who does not believe has been judged already, because he has not believed in the name of the [f]only begotten Son of God. 19 This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone who does evil hates the Light, and does not come to the Light for fear that his deeds will be exposed. 21 But he who practices the truth comes to the Light, so that his deeds may be manifested as having been wrought in God.”

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          Righteous Atheistposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Well done you! Oh wait - you are bragging. Guess you lose after all. sad

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            tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Truth provided as a response to a statement is not bragging it is what is commonly called "knowledge transfer" by wise individuals.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    I was reading about a baby left in the wilderness after being born, abandoned and left to die. The umbilical was still attached and it lie in it's own blood. Many walked by it and never had pity upon it.

    Eventually someone came and heard this baby crying. The person took the baby in his arms and comforted it. he cleaned the baby up and clothed it.

    If any of you have heard stories like this before, you know it is a really sad thing. A baby, helpless left to die alone. Where was the love of the love of the mother of this baby?

    You can likewise read this story by going to your bibles. Go to Ezekiel Chapter 16.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Hard to imagine.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I was never fond of that parable... too much anger.

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I am wondering if I should post ti all here from the bible.  I see compassion and love.  God said, "Live." and the baby lived.  It is fine if no one wants to discuss it.  I won't be offended.  We can move on to something else.

        1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          LOL, post scripture all you want. I like discussions. I think I'm just coming at it from a different angle than you... which is good. Different opinions are good.

          The way I see it, what he did was compassionate, but he kinda lost his temper there when it didn't work out the way he planned... which he should have known. Reminding then of what he did for them was more of a way of calling them ungrateful and chastising them rather than showing them love and compassion.

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            He called them out for being harlots.  They went after idols and made idols to themselves.  Of course He was angry and jealous just as I would be angry and jealous if my wife was out cheating on me.

            In the end, This is what is written:  Eze 16:60  Nevertheless I will remember my covenant with thee in the days of thy youth, and I will establish unto thee an everlasting covenant.
            Eze 16:61  Then thou shalt remember thy ways, and be ashamed, when thou shalt receive thy sisters, thine elder and thy younger: and I will give them unto thee for daughters, but not by thy covenant.
            Eze 16:62  And I will establish my covenant with thee; and thou shalt know that I am the LORD:
            Eze 16:63  That thou mayest remember, and be confounded, and never open thy mouth any more because of thy shame, when I am pacified toward thee for all that thou hast done, saith the Lord GOD.

            1. MelissaBarrett profile image58
              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              I agree completely. Still too much anger for me to enjoy reading, I'm not really seeing compassion there. It's just not a parable that speaks to me.

              I like Luke 10:30–37 for showing compassion and love.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                That is a good parable of love and compassion.  it is also one of my favorites.

                Out of curiosity, who do you believe the good Samaritan to be?

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  LOL... Do you mean do I take it at face value? No.I can't think of a parable that I do take at face value alone. Although I believe there is plenty of good to be had there and share the story in a modern version with my kids on a regular basis.

                  The good Samaritan is Christ, IMHO.  Of course.

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I also believe the good Samaritan to be Christ.  (Watching the ceiling to make sure it doesn't fall on me now because we agree on something. :p)

                    Many believe Jesus to have been a Jew but his mother was a Jew but His Father was not a Jew.  My understanding is that a Samaritan was half Jew and half something else, a mixed race of people.

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          oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Sure, why not?

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen

    Good night.

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      oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Thank you Sir Dent, and goodnight to you.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Night.

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    Motown2Chitownposted 11 years ago

    RA, the way I said it is indeed contradictory.  Let me rephrase.  I would be inclined to agree if I didn't believe there was a reason/purpose...

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    It was on my heart this morning to post a word that I see was exactly what was being discussed recently. It looks like the Spirit has moved among us and has been addressing this through many of the believers.

    In John 1:12-13 "Yet to all who did receive him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God - children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God."

    We know that God loves his creation tremendously and he came and suffered so greatly in order to offer a way for all to be saved. Anyone may answer his call and accept his gift of salvation. But it is only those who do who then have been given this "right" to become the children of God.

    All are created, all are loved, all are offered salvation, but only those who receive him have been given this right to be his children.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      And just why does God love sacrifices so much? Animal scarifies and then human/god scarifies? And why does God need us to follow him on spec?

      Would you trust anyone who would ask you the same? Would you trust someone who typically asks you to kill animals to prove your love and then asked you to by land in Florida without you ever seeing it. Just curious, cause I have land in Florida.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        God never "loved" animal sacrifices; all the lamb sacrifices were foreshadowing the perfect sacrifice of Jesus himself, the sacrificial "lamb".

        Because the God of love is also a God of justice, all sins had to be atoned for. We can choose to receive our judgment based on everything done while in the flesh (whether good or bad), or we can choose to let Jesus' sacrifice of himself cover over all our sins and shortcomings according to God's perfect ways.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          What about the bird sacrifices? I understand it's hard for you to see how silly animal and human sacrifices are as you in the middle of it. But would you ask that of any of your children? Would you ask a child to kill his hamster to show you that he is sorry for a swear word?

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            The animals that were sacrificed were not the beloved pets, they were owned for other reasons. Asking a child to sacrifice his pet would be in a sense more similar to asking a parent to sacrifice their child (considering the attachment between children and their pets). The only one who went through the horrible experience of sacrificing his beloved was God himself, who gave his One and only begotten Son that we might live through him!

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Okay I'll rephrase. Would you ask a child to sacrifice something valuable to show you how sorry he is for his error? Wouldn't that be the silliest conversations? "Mommy I'm so sorry" says little Billy. "I don't believe you are sorry Billy" says mommy " you must throw your PS4 in the garbage to repay me for your error"

              What you don't see how ridiculous that would be?

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                As humans we underestimate the seriousness and loathsomeness of sin. We do so more and more in the day when popular culture teaches us that "anything goes". In fact, our human nature, which is at enmity with God, actually enjoys or is drawn to sin (see, for a revealing example, how we love movies with violence, impurity, vulgarity, and so on) The sinless God of the universe cannot look at or tolerate sin. He is pure and holy. Sin is no light matter; that is our misinterpretation of it. Sin must be atoned for, according to the sinless, holy, righteous God who created all things and determines all things. Period.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Wow.

                  Or conversely, we are all basically good and those who spend their lives rolling around in the evil of the human race tend to do so because they assume everyone is like them.

                  Fruit of the tree, sister, fruit of the tree.

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                    Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Fair point. I tend to subscribe to the idea that most people are not inherent jerks. But then as the parent of an autistic child, I constantly get smacked with stories like this:
                    http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nationa … -1.1718983

                    And there's no explanation. It tends to reinforce my belief that people are not so nice deep down. Fruit of the tree, so to speak.

                    I think there's also a real misunderstanding (spoiler alert: I've said this before) on both sides of what the whole 'humans are evil' thing really means. If we compare ourselves to 'bad people' like Hitler or Stalin, then yeah, the majority of us look pretty good. Crap, even just that jerk at work or the person down the street. But the point of the statement is to compare ourselves to God, who is perfect. That puts an entirely different spin on it.

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    If we are all basically good, Melissa, then for what did Jesus Christ suffer and die?

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                Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                That's not a direct one-to-one correlation though. First of all, parents never had children sacrifice animals to them in OT times (or at least not that were recorded, so it would not have been widespread and among at least the Hebrew population would have been blasphemous.)

                Second of all, although it's true that God did demand sacrifices of grain, the animal sacrifices were important in that the blood itself was the cleansing agent of sin. Lev. 17:11, "For the life of a creature is in the blood, and I have given it to you to make atonement for yourselves on the altar; it is the blood that makes atonement for one's life." This was closely tied in to the reasons why when cattle were slaughtered the blood must be drained out before eating, and why OT law prevents the eating of animals that are found dead along the side of the road.

                The reduction of the act to forcing Junior to toss his game system is not an accurate assessment.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Sure it is, you must have missed the previous conversations. She is the one talking about a father and a son. Father being God and son being us.

                  Does it not seem silly to ask a son to kill an animal for something the father thinks he did wrong. Originally I asked her if it doesn't sound silly to ask a son to get rid of his PS4 to atone for his sin, but Cat didn't like that so I brought it closer to something biblical.

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                    Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    The reduction is most definitely inaccurate and also silly. Although comparing God and the Israelites to a father and son has some value, in the end it's not accurate for exactly the reason you have demonstrated. God is not a human being.

                    However, you're right, I did miss the conversation that led to your statement. I stand by what I wrote, but I don't necessarily put it in the context of that conversation.

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              JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              not exactly true.  Abraham was asked to sacrifice his son, although later reprieved, and Jephthah made a deal with god and had to go through with sacrificing his daughter as a burnt offering.

              As a side note, since the god of the bible is against human sacrifice (except for when he isn't) isn't he breaking his own rule by the human sacrifice of Jesus?

              1. Chris Neal profile image75
                Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Is He? Knowing that you've attended Bible college (forgive me, it's been a while, I don't remember whether you actually attended seminary or not) do you think that most Christians would actually reduce it to mere human sacrifice?

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                  JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  You can spin it any way you want.   But is it not human sacrifice?   Or worse,  divine suicide?

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                    Chris Nealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    That works both ways. Reductionism is reductionism, and then the question is, have you stripped the act down to its essence or have you removed circumstances that don't jibe with your own belief system?

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                    oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Why would "divine suicide", if it was a form of that, be worse, if it saved God's creation?  He gets blamed for so much, but in this case, he takes the hit for our crimes.  If its his terms, and he is God, isn't that well within his right to take the biggest hit as opposed to making everyone pay for it?  If his own sacrifice can save everyone, its a good thing he did it.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Abraham was asked to sacrifice his only son for God SOLEY as a test of Abraham's faith and as a foreshadowing of God's sacrifice of his only Son for us. The intent from the onset of the request was that Abraham's son would not face any harm, and even Abraham faithfully trusted that his loving God would in fact "provide" the sacrifice, as he so told his son. And God did indeed.

                You say, "Jephthah made a deal with god and had to go through with sacrificing his daughter as a burnt offering". Here it's important to note a few things: 1) God did not lead Jephthah to make the vow he made, but Jephthah "bargained" with God on his own. We seem here to be warned not to bargain or try to make deals with God, but rather we should simply make requests of our God without any such arrogant bargaining (as if God's goodness in answering prayers depends on anything we would thereafter do). 2) It was Jephthah and his daughter's own choice to go through with the vow; nowhere does it say God instructed them to. 3) We are not certain of the literal versus symbolic nature of the story. 4) Just as God did not instruct Jephthah to make the vow, or keep the vow, the entire situation was likely very displeasing to God.

                You ask, "Isn't he breaking his own rule by the human sacrifice of Jesus?" God found the sacrificing of humans to demon gods detestable, and he never asked a human to sacrifice a human to him with the actual intent for them to go through with the sacrifice. But since Jesus is God in the flesh, he was at liberty to "lay down" his own life as a sacrifice that made atonement for the sins of the world. On a smaller scale, if you sacrificed your own life in order to save someone from a burning building, this would be a sacrifice unlike the detestable human sacrifices and would be a human sacrifice (your own) that would be commendable before God.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  So it makes it okay to ask someone to kill their son as long as we do not make them follow through. Good to know. Is this how we should test those who say they love us.

                  Pathetic.

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                    skye2dayposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    rad man  You missed the whole context of the scriptures. It is about faith in God and Abraham had faith. He loved God and Abraham also knew God would save His son. God put Abraham to the test. He already told Abraham that Issac and Jacob would inherit as he. God uses the scriptures for us today. So we too can learn about faith. God is first place yes before our children. He blesses us and our children and our children's children when we are in Him. WIthout the Spirit of God that abides in is impossible to understand the text of the chapter.  The Spirit of God reveals to us. Love, Skye

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                    Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    It would be meaningless for us to "test" in this way because we are not God, the author of life, and we would have no business determining the end of anyone's life, so it would be an absurd test from any human.

                    God himself was going to sacrifice his Son/himself out of love for us; that's what the story of Abraham and Isaac is all about. Because of Abraham's great faith in God, who did indeed provide the sacrifice himself, just as Abraham trusted he would, he has now become a "father" of all those who live by faith.

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    Cat333posted 11 years ago

    Psalm 103: 1-5 "Praise the Lord, my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name. Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits— who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s."

  34. Jerami profile image59
    Jeramiposted 11 years ago

    I look at it as building a belief system.When we are younger we accept to an extent whatever religion we are taught. But when we become adults we should re-examine our belief system and even reconstruct it. I think this is true weather we were born of teachers who were Christian, Buddhist, Islamic, or whatever?   

    If we choose to reconstruct our belief system, it is of utmost importance what we use as the foundation.  For instance, can we learn everything about the tree from examining its fruit or lack there of?  and by the same token ...  do we have to understand anything about the tree in order to enjoy the flavor of its fruit? 
        A lot of religious people are just enjoying the fruit and wanting everyone else to choose the same fruit as they do.
      When I began reconstruction my belief system ... I began with "my name was written in the book of life from the time earth was constructed"... AND..   And God said, "let Us make man in our own image". 
          When our belief system begins with hell fire and brimstone, and we trace the steps backwards, there is no telling where it may lead.(lead us to believe)? 
    I like to think that my (and yours) was written in the book of life from the foundation of the earth, which means my life force is already an eternal thing. And I can't understand how or why this life force would be condemned to hell for something I did in this particular moment in eternity.
         In this regard;  I gotta agree with Mark.
       All too often we dig through scripture and find something we believe to be "THE" hidden treasure of scripture.         Don't quit searching there; or don't search at all.   It seems to me, the search for "THE" answers is like unto a spiral, never venturing far from where we started always coming back around. 
         How can I judge anyone else for being in a different place on that spiral than where I am at. No one is any better than another. We have all just chosen to carry a different burden through our path around the spiral.
    I'm off to see the doctor, just wanted to put in my two cents worth.

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      oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Hi Jerami,

      You said,

      "I look at it as building a belief system.When we are younger we accept to an extent whatever religion we are taught. But when we become adults we should re-examine our belief system and even reconstruct it. I think this is true weather we were born of teachers who were Christian, Buddhist, Islamic, or whatever?   

      If we choose to reconstruct our belief system, it is of utmost importance what we use as the foundation."

      And a lot more, but I like what you said.  I think it is wise.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Php 2:1  If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies,
    Php 2:2  Fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Mat_16:4  A wicked and adulterous generation seeketh after a sign; and there shall no sign be given unto it, but the sign of the prophet Jonas. And he left them, and departed.

    The sign has already been given.  God is not a side show at a carnival to do tricks for everyone who comes.

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      skye2dayposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Blessings Sir Dent. Hi Bro, love this scripture verse.

      God is Fair toward mankind, He has bestowed common grace extending to the believer and unbeliever alike. Jesus said: He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust (Matthew 5:45).The Psalmist writes, Gracious is the Lord and righteous; yes, our God is merciful (Psalm 116:5). In this life God's grace affects all. After this life ONLY the believer will be the recipient of his grace and goodness.

      It is unfortunate that most non believers think we 'children of God' think we are better than. No do  forget we made a choice to follow Jesus. We now have a commission to share the truth.  The best choice one will ever make in their lifetime. God does not want any to perish. He loves you. Tomorrow may not come. Then it will be too lake if you do not know Jesus. 

      Although it is impossible for one to understand scripture unless the Spirit of God abides in you to help you to understand. God says man is without EXCUSE about His existence and creation. Romans 1.  “For what can be known about God is manifest plain to them, because God has shown it to them. Ever since the creation of the world his invisible nature, namely, his eternal power and deity, has been clearly perceived in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse” (Romans 1:19–20)

      Many stop in nature and say it is nature that is god. But the Bible teaches God is transcendent He is beyond nature, as its creator. Many do rebel against the evidential truths and they go no further in their pursuit and devise a religion.

      Keep going sir dent, beth, cat. Love in Christ, skye2day.

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        Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Amen sister skye2day! You speak with great wisdom! May God bless you greatly!

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      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      We wouldn't be asking to see tricks if God were to even show up at a carnival.

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      Emile Rposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      You do realize that generation was 55 generations ago?

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      Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Amen Sir Dent!

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    oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years ago

    Just a general thought....

    When we choose to do something "bad" or "wrong", we have consequences.  If you broke a man made law, and get caught, you could face the consequences and we observe that reality.

    If you break a natural law, like defying gravity for fun, you don't get to go against a "law" like that, and have your fun though.  You get rough consequences if you live

    We have our consciences, and we can go against them for a number of reasons, and even if we don't get "caught", we have consequences.  We can experience guilt, we can hurt others in all kinds of ways and ourselves and others and ourselves have to live with those consequences.  Or you can become hardened and cold, and that is a consequence even if one thinks they are dealing with it well, etc. 

    If there is a god and he created everything, why is it so insanely crazy he has a law or two of his own?   Why is it odd that there are consequences, but also answers to remedy the bad things done?  I think its very possible we aren't being entirely fair to just the ideas portion of things here.

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      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Because God's laws are insanely crazy.



      Because even though a person never does bad things, they can still spend an eternity burning with consequences.

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        Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        If God is real, you are in serious trouble, based on the posts you've made.

        If God is not real, you've wasted a serious amount of time on this forum.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          If God real and is forgiving then God will forgive him.

          If God is not real you wasted a good part of your life.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            God offers forgiveness when we repent of our sin.

            How have I wasted my life? How is seeking good over evil ever a waste?

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              So he is not forgiving if your don't repent before you die. That's not forgiving, you can't say sorry unless you look into someone's face.

              Your perception of good may be off if your are telling people they will burn in hell if they don't repent to your imaginary God.

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                The day you start making the rules, I'll heed any advice you offer.
                You are not above God, I hope you will someday realize this.

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  There is no God. I hope you someday realize this. I'll not be taking your advice as well. But go ahead a worship your sexist, racist, unforgiving and jealous God. I'd expect for of a perfect being.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    So you've said that, ad nauseum... when do you stop saying it and move on to something else?

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                    tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    an empty shallow mind believes there is no God
                    to believe, one must seek more than physical evidence
                    to do this, one must convey the righteous spirit
                    Romans 8:10 "If Christ is in you, though the body is dead because of sin, yet the spirit is alive because of righteousness."

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                  EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  We are not below your God, either, no matter how much you think we are.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    That is the issue. Not that you don't believe, but that you don't want to bend your knee to Him. You resent Him. You resent the One who created you and loves you.

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          EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          That's exactly the kind of thing I would expect from an eight year old.



          The pursuit of truth and logic over ignorance and delusion is never a waste, either.

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      Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Well, two things.

      1. If you attempt to break the "law of gravity" by jumping of a building and not falling and fail you will get hurt, if you succeed you will not. Don't try this at home, no amount of prayer will help.

      2. Do the laws given in the bible seem reasonable. Sure there could be a prefect God but do these laws reflect a perfect God. For example is it reasonable to punish a women for giving birth with her husbands child and is it reasonable to punish her further if the child is a girl?

      Are not the laws of nature reasonable enough. If there is a God who put them there perhaps those are the laws he wants us to follow.

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        oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        To your first point, I didn't mean simply jumping off a wall or shorter something or other...  I meant like a tall building, and assumed people would know what I meant.  I shouldn't have assumed it was understood.  So your first point doesn't apply to what I meant to say, lol, but didn't say it completely. 

        To your second point, to the two greatest commandments, ans shared by Jesus when he was asked about the commandments, yes.  They seem reasonable to me, but that is because I believe in God.  Those two laws sum up the rest of them all, Jesus said, to love your neighbor as yourself, and to Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul and mind. 

        The laws of nature are not enough no, not when it comes to humans, and thus the need to be safe and have freedoms, brought about by the very thing in question, laws.  Laws that by the way, aren't always fun to obey, but we do anyway, because we know and accept their benefit.  We think a whole other reality ought to apply though in a different and greater scenario, and I find that a curious thing indeed.

        If God put even the natural laws there for us to follow as you say, and I think he did, why is that? Our protection and safety, and ultimate possible freedoms by "abiding" and obeying or working WITH and not against the laws.  We get chaos if we insist on bucking them, as we see and hopefully learn from others mistakes without having to make our own.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          You said if you break the laws of gravity you will get hurt. But you won't, if you break the law of gravity you will not fall.


          You understand right that if we go back to using God's laws we will keep slaves and stone people for having an affair. Should we as I said punish women for giving birth? Is that reasonable?

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            oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That is something other than I mean then.  Have you ever heard of a person that was high on drugs, thinking they could fly off a building?  They thought they could do that, and in effect do it and live, or at least not break several bones.  Talking about skaters at a skate park for example, is a different scenario, and bringing up that kind of defying of the laws, is not what I meant, nor does it apply to the point.  The point is, we work AROUND gravity to have fun and fly in planes, etc, The law rules, we don't get around natural laws, they win when we come into some disagreement, not us. That was the point.  I concede your point, that if you jump off a set of steps or something and don't get hurt, then you didn't get hurt.  I don't deny that. 

            To the last part, no we wouldn't go back to keeping slaves and stoning people.  There is actually very good reasons why people follow the two greatest commandments Jesus shared when asked about such laws, and why people over the planet don't own slaves and stone others in order to be a Christian.

            It is a common belief though among atheists and some others, that it must be the case.  No, you wouldn't punish women for giving birth, and that is why we don't do it.  Those ideas come from personally held beliefs about other people's worldviews, and they are not correct, nor are they observed in their reality.  At least if you do see it, it is very very rare.  Where you do see it, it is part of another group's worldview, which I disagree with. 

            So to answer your last question, your views or beliefs about my views, are not reasonable, no.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Sorry, the bible says women should be punished for child birth and should be punished twice as much for have a girl. The bible also talks a lot about how to keep slaves and how to beat them.

              Is that what we should go back to?

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                oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                That is a strange way to believe about the bible, in my opinion.  Jesus made it clear what the laws amount to, the two greatest commandments, and he cleared the air so no confusion remains a few thousand years later on.   

                The golden rule, and loving God, is what is required.  If you did those, nothing else need be applied.

                So I think it is a less reasonable and rational view in light of what Jesus said.  Better to love your neighbor as yourself and God, than to hurt women esp for having baby girls. But if you want to believe it is more reasonable, that is fine, but I don't think there are rational reasons for doing so.

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                  JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  If that's true,  why do Christians always throw leviticus at homosexuals?  Is it only to apply the laws that they agree with while disregarding the others?   Cherry picked laws?

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                    oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Are there some that show only the Leviticus passages and not the NT on that subject?

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  So you must have ripped out the OT from your bible?

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                    oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    Not at all.  I find that it helps to understand the history of the Israelites, in part.  Its a descriptive situation going on.  You didn't have any thoughts on the two greatest commandments of the whole bible, that are said to sum up the whole of it?  I was saying, that its less reasonable to me to use the centuries old scriptures, over the others that are shown in answering a question about all the commandments.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Women weren't being "punished" for childbirth; the blood simply made them "unclean", which was then atoned for. If the blood of daughters made them more unclean (even if this was because women were created second to men, just as we gentiles are second to Jews), there is no need for offense as the final plan is always that the "first will be last and the last will be first", and "the least is the greatest" in the Kingdom of God.

                So it is with slaves also - the plan is that they become the greatest in the Kingdom. God is not saying he approves of slavery when he tells the Israelites they may own slaves only from other nations and not their own. It is likely similar to when Jesus explained that God allowed a certificate of divorce only because their hearts were hardened and not because God APPROVED of divorce. So in that day of slavery, God gave them a rule for slavery (they must come from other nations, not the Israelite's own) not because he approved of slavery, but because they already had a practice of slavery that then had to be governed. Further, beating slaves was not approved by God, but the act was not given the death penalty as killing was (unless it also resulted in killing).

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                  Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  It's difficult for a good man to get this straight so forgive me if I get this wrong, but I gather from what you've said that all women are not as valuable or less then men and all none Jews are not as valuable or less then Jews in the eyes of your God. Does that mean you are nothing compared to me as you are a none Jewish woman and I am a (none practising) Jewish man?

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            tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            The word slave within the bible actually defines a serf laborer bound under the feudal system.
            Much like the union bound laborer in today's workforce.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              LMAO... yes, the feudal system was like today's labor unions....History shows us that quite clearly.

              ROFLMAO.

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers,
                Ps 1:1

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  ROFLMAO...

                  If believers are saying the feudal system is like a labor union, I'm going to mock the hell out of them.

                  I'm sorry, was that in the bible somewhere?

                  Go play elsewhere Beth. The Christ you believe in is not my Christ.

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                    Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    And this is the way to have eternal life--to know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, the one you sent to earth.
                    Jn 17:3

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                    tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    The feudal system, like today's union, provided labor leaders who managed the rights of the serf who had elected to seek land.


                    http://s2.hubimg.com/u/8832549_f248.jpg

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              JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You need to read it again.   That only applies to Jewish indentured servants in repayment of debt.  Not foreign, captured slaves that you can beat and own forever and pad on to your children.

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            tbHistorianposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            your analogy of God condoning stoning is incorrect - it was man who did this.
            John 8 18 But Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. 2 Early in the morning He came again into the temple, and all the people were coming to Him; and He sat down and began to teach them. 3 The scribes and the Pharisees *brought a woman caught in adultery, and having set her in the center of the court, 4 they *said to Him, “Teacher, this woman has been caught in adultery, in the very act. 5 Now in the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women; what then do You say?” 6 They were saying this, testing Him, so that they might have grounds for accusing Him. But Jesus stooped down and with His finger wrote on the ground. 7 But when they persisted in asking Him, He straightened up, and said to them, “He who is without sin among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.” 8 Again He stooped down and wrote on the ground. 9 When they heard it, they began to go out one by one, beginning with the older ones, and He was left alone, and the woman, where she was, in the center of the court. 10 Straightening up, Jesus said to her, “Woman, where are they? Did no one condemn you?” 11 She said, “No one, Lord.” And Jesus said, “I do not condemn you, either. Go. From now on sin no more.”

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    1Th 5:11  Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do.
    1Th 5:12  And we beseech you, brethren, to know them which labour among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you;

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      "Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbor, and not suffer sin upon him."

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Psa 133:1  A Song of degrees of David. Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity!
    Psa 133:2  It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments;
    Psa 133:3  As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      "Furthermore, if anyone does not obey what we are saying in this letter, take note of him and have nothing to do with him, so that he will be ashamed. But don’t consider him an enemy; on the contrary, confront him as a brother and try to help him change."

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I have been trying to get this thread back on track and away from personal attacks which I have seen.  You seem to not want it that way.  With that being said, this next verse is for you.

        Pro_21:19  It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          You are quoting what verses you seem to agree fit the situation as a rebuke to me. I am quoting the verses that back my behavior.

          How are you less contentious than I?

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            No, you are taking it personal yourself.  I posted to no one in particular and also everyone who cares to read what i posted.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              You didn't direct the contentious woman comment at me? Sorry... I must have been being oversensitive. Can you tell me why those other verses I posted led that verse to your mind? They seemed like perfectly logical verses to discuss in relation to the ones you posted.

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    Beth37posted 11 years ago

    You brood of vipers! How can you speak good, when you are evil? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
    Mt 12:34

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      EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Mt 12 36 But I say unto you, That every idle word that men shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment.

      Mt 12 37 For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned.

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    JMcFarlandposted 11 years ago

    Beth - didn't you just mock my life though, by ignoring everything i've ever told you about why I didn't believe and insisting multiple times that I somehow KNOW that god exists, and I'm just too proud and rebellious to submit to him?  Along with a couple other atheists that you said the exact same thing to?  It's a lie.  A flat out lie.  One that I don't see you apologizing for any time soon.  If that's your opinion, it's fine.  You're entitled to one.  But stating it as fact when you don't know me at all is a blatant falsehood - and lying against a neighbor is against the ten commandments.

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    Beth37posted 11 years ago

    You have created a false situation and then run with it. Run if you please. I did not mock your life.

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    JMcFarlandposted 11 years ago

    Beth - so i just imagined you telling me what I know, what I think and what I believe?  Silly me.  I can pull the post, if you'd like in case it's slipped your mind.

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      Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      The Bible says that once you are saved, no one can pluck you from the Father's hand. You have told ppl over and over again, when they suggest that you were never saved, that you most definitely did give your heart to Christ and you are indignant with them. So either you are saved or you never were. As you yourself claim that you did give your heart to Christ, then I submit you have simply turned your back on him now. I am only going by your words.

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        JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Then, Beth, the bible was wrong.  I'm indignant that bible believing Christians would seek to deny my belief at one time because it doesn't fit into their theology.  That they would assume that they know my mind and heart then and now better than I do who lived through it.  Strangers on the internet claiming that they know me better than I know myself.  It's ridiculous, and I doubt you would appreciate it much if the shoe were reversed.  I can't prove to you that I was ever a Christian, and I'm genuinely not interested in trying to.  I was a christian.  I accepted christ into my heart at 12.  I was baptized at 14.  I went to Bible college after returning from Africa to become a missionary myself.

        Then, I started studying what I was being taught, and it didn't make sense.  I lost my faith.  I lost my belief.  Not because I was angry at god.  It was because I realized that i had no good reason to have those beliefs, and no reason to accept that god was real.  I now lack a belief in god, because no god has been sufficiently proven.  IF you don't want to accept that because it makes you uncomfortable, that's on you.  Not me.  I don't really care what you think of me, or what you want to accuse me of.  But bearing false witness is a no-no, and since you've admitted multiple times that you cannot see another person's heart, soul or mind, you are in no position to judge my salvation when I was a believer, or my lack of belief now.  I'm sorry that it's difficult for you.  But sincerely, that's not my problem.

        Christians can't reconcile their beliefs and what the bible says with people like me, who were once ardent believers who left.  I understand.  It's uncomfortable to think that someone who once believed no longer does.  But that's not the problem of the person who left.   If your god is real, you will be held accountable for your words and your judgements.  I hope that goes well for you.  i"m hardly the only atheist who was once a believer.  There are hundreds.  Some of them were pastors, even.  I suppose that, according to you, they were never "true" believers either.  It's a narrow box to stick other human beings in, but they're not confined by your opinions.  Neither am I.

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          Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Yeah, I can't see your heart. I have no idea whether you're saved or not saved. It does indeed seem obvious, of course, that you have rejected God. Whether you still believe and deny Him or whether you don't believe and deny Him... you deny Him.

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            JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Whatever you say,  beth.  You're the one asserting that people hate you,  are angry, know God exists and rejects him, etc.   You're making baseless accusations based on nothing more than your own opinion.   You say in one breath that you can't see my heart, then say with certainty thati am rejecting your god.  You can't have it both ways.  Not believing in something does not equal rejection. 

            I could deny that you exist as you present yourself on the forums because I don't know you,  and you could be faking it.  It would be opinion only,  but that wouldn't mean that I'm rejecting you out of hand.  They are not equal.

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              oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              In fairness, just the other day you made some pretty bold proclamations about never ever following God no matter what, and it was not unclear in the least. (I don't have the exact quote, but it wasn't just a short statement, it was pretty intense as I recall, which is fine, but you have spoken about that.  She wasn't guessing or assuming about that.)  I speak up about it because often I see you say to people they can't know you or whatever, yet you post here like all of us do.  We do learn about each other in these forums.  The more you post, the more you share about your views at the very least, but I have seen you post about your past, your life, etc.  I am not even a regular like the others.  So people do know you from what you share at least, and I am not sure why the topic comes up so often that they can't know you in the sense any of us know each other through this forum.  You show in posts all the time, that you also know of others based on what they say and have said about themselves.   The other day you asked someone what your beliefs were, when they commented on them, as if none could know.  We can know a lot about you from what you post, unless its not true, and people assume it is.

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                MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                In fairness, she said that Christians like Cat/CJ/Whatever she wants to be called today/ would drive her away even if she wanted to come back. She never said anything about rejecting Christ, just Christianity... mainly because she didn't ever want to be like well... most Christians.

                There's a distinction.

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                JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                except people do assume it's not true.  When I post about being a Christian, people who are believers today insist that I never was.  I have been questioned on my education, my belief back then, my path towards and away from Christ etc.

                My post the other day was about FUTURE belief.  Any inclination I may have towards Christianity at any point in the future would be completely squashed due to the behavior I have directly observed from some people who call themselves christians.  I want to be nothing like them, and I want to distance myself as much as possible from anything that they claim to believe.  That says nothing about my mindset when I was a believer.

                I don't claim to know people based on their posts on a relatively anonymous forum.  To do so is arrogant.  It's like ripping a piece out of someone's diary and claiming that you know them inside and out.  We all share from time to time, but it's snapshots - not a complete picture.  And claiming to know someone well enough that YOU know what they're thinking, feeling or experiencing from these snapshots is arrogant and absurd.  Christians that I've flipped this on are outraged at the insinuation that I could know what they were thinking or feeling.  they don't like it one bit.  But they have no problem telling me I was never "truly" saved, that I am too rebellious or stubborn to bend my knee to the god they insist I KNOW exists, when I know no such thing.  It's a double standard, and it's not one that I see you doing anything to overcome.  This whole post seems to be encouraging it and defending it.  How would you feel if I, on a different side of the argument from you, started telling you what was in your heart?  That I knew somehow that you KNEW god was not real, but you worshiped it anyway out of fear or wanting to be accepted?  Would you really take that kindly?  Would you not say something against such a blatant arrogance and falsehood?

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                  oceansnsunsetsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  I will post more as time allows, but did you not say in that post we are speaking of, that you would deny or reject God one day, and does that not mean you would now also?  (I mean not knowing when that one day will come?)  Perhaps some thought you meant that you would reject him and deny him, because you said it, whatever the reasons were.  Were you upset, and didn't mean it?  Its not false about you, if you said something was my point.  I don't think I took that to mean something other than you said. If you did not mean it, then by all means I would not suggest you did for what I think the bigger implications could be for such a weighty subject.

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                    MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    I'm not her... so just taking a stab at it...

                    I got that she was saying she would reject the God that most of the Christians here are putting forward. Honestly, so would I.  Even if it meant fiery lake of hell forever, I would reject him if he turns out to be what fundamentalist Christians seem to think he is.

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                    JMcFarlandposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    what I said, and what I meant, was that if there was ever a point in the future where I came back around and started to agree with the message of Christ, I would reject the possibility of aligning myself with Christians because of their behavior.  I would no accept the version of the Christian god that is portrayed here.  It would repulse me, and I would want no part of it.

                    You probably see nothing wrong with the way I was being treated during that conversation, but someone was posting about things they knew nothing about - I have never shared with Cat anything about my father on earth.  She had no way of knowing.  Not even my friends know a lot of it.  But she insisted that HE loved me, and that if I ever belonged to god, god would come for me and bring me back - through all of the horrible things that I experienced and everything I went through at that time.  It was uncalled for.  It was upsetting on many, many different levels.  And yes, I was infuriated that a self-professed Christian would resort to threats of their god to try to appeal to me, claiming that he was going to come back by force and rip me back into a life believing with him, completely ignorant of many of the horrible things that happened to me at the hands of other Christians.

                    You didn't answer me, though.  If I started telling you every time I saw you that you knew in your heart that god was a fake and that you were following him out of fear or obligation or a desire for acceptance from others, would you like it?  Would you react well to it?  What if I followed you from forum to forum spouting the same nonsense?  What if I started saying things that amounted to threats in a similar vein and then told you I was doing it all out of love - all while being completely ignorant of your past and your experiences?  Would that be pleasant for you?  Would it be a behavior you would choose to align yourself with?  Would it make you want to align yourself to my point of view?

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            EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That's something you nor anyone else can know. You are just making it up.

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              SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              To know the unknowable.  Isn't that the desire of science also? 

              Believers can know simply because of experience.  Science can know only through theory and experiment.  Here is where it gets tricky.  You believe in science because scientists say it is so, even though they say they can't know everything. 

              Believers can know because they had an experience with God Himself. 

              A couple weeks or so ago someone said you can see things that the naked eye can't see if you have the right equipment.  I think it was JMcfarland who said that but I may be wrong. 

              Believer can see things that are revealed by God, though we cannot see everything.  We have the right tools to see what God reveals to us. 

              Now, concerning faith, Faith is substance.  Substance has weight and mass.  Of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.  The evidence is there but cannot be seen by the naked eye.  You must have the right tools to see it.

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                EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                Science helps us understand the world around us.



                Sorry, that is not true and you know it isn't true, so why bother saying it?



                Again, that is simply not true, why would you make up stuff that is so obviously false?



                Sorry, but you should seek professional help for that hallucination.



                Sorry, you are not special and you don't have any special tools. You're human like the rest of us. There is no need to make up false statements.



                Sorry, but faith has no substance, it is no different than wishing. There is no evidence there and you are not special.

                You're just making all of this stuff up, which sounds like an 8 year old made it up.

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          EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Slavery was God's plan? Or, was it already in practice?

          It's funny, if you don't accept God, you fry for an eternity, but if you accept God and participate in the immoral act of buying and selling other human beings and making them labor against their will, that is approved by God.

          Just as long as you don't put your own people into slavery. Plunder other nations, turn their people into slaves.

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            Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            You seem to have missed the point of the post, Encephaloidead. It was NOT suggested that God APPROVED of slavery just because he gave them rules regarding it after slavery was already the way of the land. This is like when Jesus made it clear that even though God permitted the certificate of divorce this was only because their hearts were hardened, and NOT because God APPROVED of divorce.

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              Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Where in the bible does it say God disapproves of slavery?

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              EncephaloiDeadposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              It is obvious that God could easily have stopped the slave trade, but He didn't, which means God has no morals or ethics.

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                Cat333posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                We "make our beds" as the saying goes; earth is what human beings have created it to be in many ways. We the people have been given the responsibility to promote good and to end (or never allow to begin) most of the woes here on earth - to ensure the freedoms of all people, to honor and respect all, to live peaceably instead of violently, to feed all the hungry, etc. Even sicknesses and premature deaths are largely at our hands - callously creating that which "poisons" our bodies and causes cancers, failing to feed the hungry, etc.

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          PerrySparkposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          It is amazing that someone can state that they were ardent believers who then departed from their ardent state to become just the opposite because they chose to not believe what they formerly thought to be the truth.
          The physical life presents many of these distractions when the person is not comfortable with who they are.  The individual that fluctuates this way is routinely seen running in a confused state by reversing themselves on many fronts.
          This leads to further chaotic confusion due to the introduction of limitations within the environment by the individual as they continue their blind wandering through a growing mass of denial.  Such self-imposed denial then fractures exponentially as the wanderer seeks further physical explanation for spiritual knowledge.  During this path scene the individual finds themselves further confused because the path is filled with many thorny physical avenues where the spirit is further deteriorated.
          It is then that the process of becoming progressively worse gets elevated to promote boundaries to the spirit knowledge.
          The chaos of physical promotion above that of the spirit then destroys the ability to seek truth through the righteous spirit where love, generosity, and glory is abundant.  When the spirit is correctly in charge then the wickedness and sin are overtaken by the righteousness of the spirit.  Through the spirit, the individual is then placed upon the path to wisdom where the clouds and darkness are removed from round about them.
          Lack of knowledge within the spirit poisons the mind through a blindness of the heart where denial rises to eliminate the love required to excel in the physical by placing deceit in the individual rather than righteousness.  This deceit then embraces the wicked where because iniquity abounds and  love of others runs cold like a blistery northern wind.
          As described and stated in the past:
          1 Timothy 6 (King James Version)
          6 Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own masters worthy of all honour, that the name of God and his doctrine be not blasphemed. 2 And they that have believing masters, let them not despise them, because they are brethren; but rather do them service, because they are faithful and beloved, partakers of the benefit. These things teach and exhort.

          3 If any man teach otherwise, and consent not to wholesome words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to the doctrine which is according to godliness; 4 he is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil surmisings, 5 perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself. 6 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. 8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content. 9 But they that will be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and hurtful lusts, which drown men in destruction and perdition. 10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

          11 But thou, O man of God, flee these things; and follow after righteousness, godliness, faith, love, patience, meekness. 12 Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life, whereunto thou art also called, and hast professed a good profession before many witnesses. 13 I give thee charge in the sight of God, who quickeneth all things, and before Christ Jesus, who before Pontius Pilate witnessed a good confession; 14 that thou keep this commandment without spot, unrebukeable, until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ: 15 which in his times he shall shew, who is the blessed and only Potentate, the King of kings, and Lord of lords; 16 who only hath immortality, dwelling in the light which no man can approach unto; whom no man hath seen, nor can see: to whom be honour and power everlasting. Amen.

          17 Charge them that are rich in this world, that they be not highminded, nor trust in uncertain riches, but in the living God, who giveth us richly all things to enjoy; 18 that they do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to communicate; 19 laying up in store for themselves a good foundation against the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life.

          20 O Timothy, keep that which is committed to thy trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called: 21 which some professing have erred concerning the faith.
          Grace be with thee. Amen.

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            A Thousand Wordsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            That was hard to grasp in the KJV, so I read it in the NIV. The best I can give this passage is that the writer, Paul I'm assuming, was very astute about the nature of money. But should it be surprising that a religion based on using only faith and not physical evidence would discourage accepting outside knowledge? Of course, how can any entity survive if people who are part start believing other things? That was at most a very obvious observation... Should we deny knowledge because it doesn't line up with theology? Let's go back hundreds of years on medical advances and see how you feel about it at that point. God knows (sorry for the pun) that we hear enough about children dying from treatable diseases because their parents want to rely entirely on prayer to heal them.

            Any institution/society that seeks to increase in or keep power is going to discourage people from thinking outside of that world view. I find this scripture to be ironic, however, when I kno I read a passage saying that he (Paul) doesn't care about the men's motivations as long as Christ is preached. These two passages seem contradictory, don't you think?

            Phillippians 1:18 http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?se … ersion=NIV

            I am in JMcFarland's boat of being a former Christian, by the way, and you are COMPLETELY wrong in most of what you said as to motivations for leaving and staying away (and that being the case for everyone who leaves).

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    That verse I did post to you.  The reason is because restoration of order was attempted and you had to post something against what I posted.

    If am wrong, I apologize and ask your forgiveness.

    Sidenote, I had to format your quote completely because some of the comments can't be seen.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Actually, it was just counter-scripture. A different view that I though applied as well.

      I've actually been trying to be pretty non-confrontational with you lately. smile

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        I understand now.  Thanks for clearing that up.  smile

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    Beth37posted 11 years ago

    No Melissa, you don't love me. You hate me. It warmed the cockles of your heart to see Dr Lamb say terrible things about me, remember? Something is not right inside of your heart. Your contention and anger are a thorn in the flesh. Let them go.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Oh Beth, I am so sorry. I didn't know it was this bad for you. I don't know how I could live thinking that people who disagree with me hate me. I guess it's never occurred to me because I don't have that thought process. It must be horrible for one's self-esteem.

      The world would be a very scary place for me if I thought everyone was angry all the time and if I thought that something was wrong with people's hearts because they stand up for others who are being lied about.

      I would offer to help Beth, but I'm not even sure where I could start. I have some numbers to referral organizations. I'd be happy to get those to you.

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        Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

        Im sorry, I don't get where youre coming from. The sarcasm is obvious, yes, but what you're on about, Ive no idea. I spose it doesn't matter in the least.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Actually, there was no sarcasm in that. Just like I'm not angry and I don't hate you. You really might need to talk to someone Beth. Your life could be so much happier if you do.

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            Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Things are going pretty well right now. I appreciate your concern.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Beth, it's pretty obvious they aren't.

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                Beth37posted 11 years agoin reply to this

                If you say so. I forgot to give you the last word.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    This was posted on facebook by someone I go to church with.
    ___________________________________________

    To me this is what being a christian is all about. We spent the weekend going out to visit the people who need someone to care. What a privilege . This family really makes a difference in this world. I was so blessed. When you see what these people are facing , it"s very easy to see how very blessed we are. This is what the love of God is about. When i first became a christian i just thought about myself and i wanted to be left alone, but that is not what God saves us for.

    We are to bring others to Christ. We are no better than these people and we could find ourselves in this same place. Count your blessings and look around you at the people who might just need a kind word or maybe lunch. If we can help and we dont , we will answer to God. I"m so thankful to this family for allowing me to have this privilege.

    While we were there , I met a girl named Lisa, very nice lady who is really struggling , please pray for her. She is so hungry for God. I love my God , with all my heart and I am blessed. Thank you Hedges and highway for allowing me this privilege.

    https://scontent-a-ord.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-prn1/t1.0-9/1977333_767692416582290_1650643907_n.jpg

    The photo is one of many taken at a homeless camp.  I am not sure when it was take but most likely from this past weekend.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Just to clarify some of what I see being discussed.

    Judas Iscariot believed in Christ and followed Him along with the other disciples.  He turned his back on Jesus and betrayed Him to the high priest.

    At one point, Jesus gave the disciples power to cast out devils and to heal all manner of sickness and disease.  He sent them out by twos.

    Judas chose to betray Jesus.

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      MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I get what you are coming from, but I don't think it's quite the same situation.

      Judas didn't decide that he didn't believe and wander off, he actively betrayed Jesus. I don't think it's the same thing. Judas believed and acted against his conscience in the worst way possible. Believers who stop believing just sort of wander off.

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        SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

        In a way, you are right.  In the end, someone turned their back on Jesus whether because of greed, as Judas did, lack of belief, or total unbelief. 

        Life is hard and sometimes it knocks people down and they are unable to get back up.  Some blame God while others simply choose to dismiss Him. 

        I added the part about Peter denying Jesus three times to show that some will make it back, while others won't.

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          MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          See, I tend to believe there is a final chance... The Jewish faith talks about Gehinnom as a sort of a purgatory (simplifying big time) where such things are sorted out after death but before final judgement. I don't believe that the New Covenant changed the nature of hell, as it was never mentioned anywhere that it did. So I have to believe that "hell" is the same as it was from it's creation. Dante's version of hell (the fire and brimstone with trapped souls) gained social acceptance and is largely used for visualization but it's just not Biblical. There are a few sins that will land you in hell forever, but non-belief isn't one of them. This is kind of backed up by the verses we discussed the other day, where the Jews will be given evidence of Christ and the ability to accept him before it's all over... and while standing in heaven.

          Not saying you are wrong, just saying that's what I got from my readings.

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            SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Off the top of my head, Gehenna was a dump where trash was cast and it burned constantly.  There is also Sheol, which is the grave.  Then there is Tartaroos, (sp).

            Near the end of the book of Revelation, it is written about a second death.   I have never seena  verse that says they will be able to choose after they die.  If you know of one, please post it.

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              MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

              Well we were talking about Isiah and the ancients... who are the Jews. That section of Isiah is pretty linear, and at the time they are standing with Jesus, they sort of have to be in the "spiritual" New Jerusalem... as the Earth was destroyed some verses back. The will be given evidence and the opportunity to accept Christ. I doubt many would refuse,  mainly because he will be standing there, glowing.

              Edit: There is a difference between the physical Gehenna and the spiritual Gehinnom. Much like the word Hades is used in some Bibles as equal with Hell, even though they aren't.

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                SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                The Bible records an earthquake that happened when Jesus died and many saints of old were resurrected.  it is also written that Jesus went into hell and preached to the souls there. 

                I am thinking of Lazarus when he died and went into Abraham's bosom.  He was comforted while the rich man was in torment.  There was a gulf between them that no man could cross. 

                The biggest problem I have with your stance is the lake of fire, which if I am correct, is Tartaroos.  The beast and the false prophet are cast into it and then those whose names are not written in the Lamb's book of life are likewise cast into it.

                EDIT  I need to study up on this more than what I can remember so I may not be very good at discussing it just yet.

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                  MelissaBarrettposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  I am absolutely not trying to change your view, just explaining mine... Just throwing that out there before I go on.

                  The lake of fire is actually consistent with Gehinnom. It's really not a pleasant place. Molten metal, lake of fire fed by the sun... that such.

                  The difference is that it is transient.

                  Edit: I would assume that being THE anti-Christ would be one of the sins that kept you there forever.

                  Edit 2: I can hold off on this conversation, I wasn't trying to ambush you, anytime you want to pick it back up let me know. I'll drop it until then smile

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                    SirDentposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                    OK, here is what I did.  I already had the latin vulgate on my computer but not the Greek NT.  The KJV says they are tormented day and night forever and ever.  This is not transient.

                    The latin after being translated by Google translate, (of which I am not very fond of) likewise says forever and ever, meaning not transient.  Same with the Greek.

                    Young's literal translation says to the ages of the ages, which could possibly be transient.  I also have one more translation that says the same.

                    All other translations say forever and ever.

                    EDIT:  I forgot to mention I downloaded the Greek NT before replying back to you.

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          Rad Manposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          It's funny that you think we don't believe because we were knocked down while I think you believe as you do because you are gullible.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    Just to add to my previous comment.  Peter denied the Lord three times but was saved in the end.

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    Beth37posted 11 years ago

    Yes, it was my initial belief that Dr. Lamb was Melissa too as they use the same speech. Today I read an old thread where Dr. Lamb spoke of having once believed, but not believing anymore. If Dr. Lamb were Melissa then that would have been a direct lie. Again, I don't understand the need for the multiple accounts. They are exceedingly dishonest.

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    SirDentposted 11 years ago

    1.    Just as I am, without one plea,
        but that thy blood was shed for me,
        and that thou bidst me come to thee,
        O Lamb of God, I come, I come.

    2.    Just as I am, and waiting not
        to rid my soul of one dark blot,
        to thee whose blood can cleanse each spot,
        O Lamb of God, I come, I come.

    3.    Just as I am, though tossed about
        with many a conflict, many a doubt,
        fightings and fears within, without,
        O Lamb of God, I come, I come.

    4.    Just as I am, poor, wretched, blind;
        sight, riches, healing of the mind,
        yea, all I need in thee to find,
        O Lamb of God, I come, I come.

    5.    Just as I am, thou wilt receive,
        wilt welcome, pardon, cleanse, relieve;
        because thy promise I believe,
        O Lamb of God, I come, I come.

    6.    Just as I am, thy love unknown
        hath broken every barrier down;
        now, to be thine, yea thine alone,
        O Lamb of God, I come, I come.

    Charlotte Elliott, 1789-1871

 
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