Man's gravitation towards prettier hubbers

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   My Inner Jewposted 14 years ago

   I just like hot chicks like blondepoet too. No one wants to see fuglies
   
   
   Trust me buddy, no one wants to be ugly...especially a woman...we all want to be thought of as beautiful and pretty by at least one man in our lives.  Confidence from within makes a woman even more beautiful most definitely.

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      raiderfanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      not really, some women are still fugly

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         Writer Riderposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Ok, enter sexism...

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            Lisa HWposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Oh - there's nobody as opposed to sexism as I am; but I think we all have to admit that confidence doesn't quite turn a lot of unattractive people into attractive ones.  Appearances shouldn't be the measure of a person, but I think we need to be honest that all the inner beauty/confidence in the world doesn't always make much of an improvement in someone's outward appearance.  That's not sexism.  It's just reality.  Sometimes, though, someone's inner beauty or inner ugliness can "add or take away points" on the "how beautiful score".

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               Writer Riderposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               You know, I find guys who possess inner beauty and charisma a lot more attractive than our handsome, macho counterparts. Of course a man can be both handsome and innately beautiful but those are hard to find, in my opinion, amongst their sex. However, who wants a shallow guy? Women fight over what? Men who will eventually make them unhappy (unless they know how to deal with them and those would most definitely be the women who take on the submissive mantel to gain power over their macho guys anyway)? Women should feel happy that they attract good men not ones thinking solely, exclusively with their sexual appendage.

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                  Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                   

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                     My Inner Jewposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Lol, does that man exist?  Unless of course you are talking about eunuchs...

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                  Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  Sometimes, Writer, I don't even think it is worth writing out decent opinions in these forums, especially lately, .
                  
                  Agree with what you stated.  Also, for myself, I find that I am not really even physically attracted to those so-called macho, perfect counterpart guys.  I mean to say--I like probably what would be called 'very handsome' men, but not sooo perfect they have no character about them.  Because its boring!
                  
                  There is that thing about models--you know, they photograph well because they are very even featured--in STILLS.  Few ever (although they try) go on to become film stars.  That's because their kind of beauty doesn't translate, basically, into character.
                  
                  And, I think we should start talking about women's gravitation towards more handsome male hubbers here now for equal treatment.    The 'pretty' thing is getting old and isn't that interesting to me or MOST hubbers, as I understand the vast majority are women.

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                     WeddingConsultantposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     Lita, although I agree with your premise, I wouldn't say a good judge of man's "good character" is based on whether or not they starred in Hollywood. haha!

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                        Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                        Yeah...but that was not my point at all.  I'm talking about a purely physical attraction.  And I have those, even as a female, .
                        
                        What I was saying is that I like very handsome men, but those with character in their faces--in their physical appearances.  Not quote, quote 'perfect' ones...like, Brad Pitt doesn't do a thing for me.
                        
                        But if the posts were made as simply jokes, then OK. 

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   My Inner Jewposted 14 years ago

   but have you ever met a woman who would be considered ugly physically but her personality was so fabulous she was rather pretty?  I definitely have...
   and hey some men sure aren't attractive either...

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   raiderfanposted 14 years ago

   no, sometimes fugly women are bitter, making them worse

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      nazishnasimposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Perhaps that's the reason why it falls upon us to treat them with a little more respect ... say firstly, by not calling them ugly or fugly or their synonym.

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         Lisa HWposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         raiderfan, I agree about "bitter".   I almost don't think, though, it's because others call them (a-hem) "fugly".  It's often because they have it in their heads they aren't attractive, or because they're envious of people more attractive than they are; and they kind of "choose the side" of "I'm not bothering, and furthermore, I hate everyone who does".  Sometimes it isn't that one person got a particularly beautiful face and someone else didn't.  Much of the time it's someone's own attitude.

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   My Inner Jewposted 14 years ago

   well yes if you are not a beautiful woman, your chances of getting a husband are very slim....and your chances of getting a good husband, near impossible...
   while you unattractive men can still get a gorgeous woman

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      Writer Riderposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Definitely not the case. Some men are just born narcissists regardless of how beautiful a woman might be.

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      raiderfanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      well then the women betta maake the money like a fugly man does if she wants some

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   Leta Sposted 14 years ago

   Nah, sorry, I think the unattractive men are SOL.  UNLESS (maybe--and if the woman's standards for herself are nonexacting) the guy is rich. 
   
   Husbands be highly highly over rated, anyway.  BF's are sexier..lol

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   My Inner Jewposted 14 years ago

   it really isn't about money to most women

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      raiderfanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      sure! women like money too!

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         Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Whether we are pretty or not, we can make our own money.  Making the relationship we have about something else.

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            raiderfanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            women like money, they go after hugh hefner and hes a hundred with the hottest women on earth.

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   Murilionposted 14 years ago

   I m not using any kind of bolywood moview ,I use my girl pict,I want her to be with me here all the time seeing what I do

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   prince1244posted 14 years ago

   Sometimes the pictures will help but the content is more important.

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   My Inner Jewposted 14 years ago

   Well who doesn't?  But i wouldn't want to spend my days waking up to a rich jerk who may just kick my behind for a new hot young thing anyways

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      raiderfanposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      at least you'll be rich after the divorce,. I'd sleep with someone to get rich.

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         Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Especially if she's pretty

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            My Inner Jewposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Lol guys, four words: women of the night...then at least they won't be waking with the same jerk every day..heck they won't even have to sleep the whole night with him

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         blondepoetposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         LMAO Raider you make me laugh indeed

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    earnestshubposted 14 years ago

    relationships based on looks are pretty primitive in my view.

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       Leta Sposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       It's the lizard brain, earnest, definitely...

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    Leta Sposted 14 years ago

    Nope.  I'd rather get rich the hard way and sleep with one I choose.  Anything else would be boring.

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    Leta Sposted 14 years ago

    OR!  They could become gigolos.  LOL.  If they are sure they've got the looks for it.  Way ta get rich by sleeping with people...

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       My Inner Jewposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       haha yeah!  this is one area guys you have to be attractive for...otherwise you get to wake with the same women to nag you about your life...day in and day out

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    blondepoetposted 14 years ago

    I kind of gravitated here again as Christoph, Misha and Raider are here. Aghhhhhh.

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    Paper Moonposted 14 years ago

    I personally go for the cat avatars myself.  Nothing like a nice hairy p……  uh, you know.

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       jami430posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       hahahahahaha

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          Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          http://hubpages.com/hub/I-want-you-to-p … h-my-pussy
          
          have fun

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       nazishnasimposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Now don't get me started on you young man ...

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    Eaglekiwiposted 14 years ago

    Im ok with any kind of gravitation so long as they remember to "click" lol and thats assuming they gravitate my way.
    
    I think to tell you the truth avatars  are like advertising act in two ways.
    Grab your attention,and some of the more risque avatars would no doubt interact with our visual sensors intially anyway.
    
    Have an opposite effect ( just like an advert).
    
    Sexual innundo still sells unfortunately ,even if the reaction is one of irritation.
    Perhaps if Hubpages generates scores according to 'activity' then the bias will rest with the 'prettier hubbers' or 'sexiest avatar"
    Marketing no doubt.
    
    But I agree with Lita the discussion itself is um ..a bit old..( my words)

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    Leta Sposted 14 years ago

    Eaglekiwi!
    
    I'm gonna fan you for that!  And I can't see you anymore, so it isn't based on a sexy picture. 
    
    Yeah, and like MY readers/customers are gonna be interested in looking at some bollywood actresses' cleavage.  I think the discordance between my content and that kind of photo would turn any readers away...  Marketing is actually a little more complex than what is made out in this post...I actually know, since I work in the field.

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       Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Thank-you
       Just off the topic a little what surprises me is a hub well wriiten , drama, emotion filling the air and it scores quite low ,but anything to do with sex and its weeeee...quite high.
       I am not saying they are necessarily sleazy but empty if you know what I mean.

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    WeddingConsultantposted 14 years ago

    In fact, I'm surprised I even used the words "Hollywood" and "good character" in the same sentence...
    
    Of course there are exceptions to the rule, but hopefully the point was made.

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    MotherHubberposted 14 years ago

    I don't think my spiky bra is earning me any extra clicks.

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       mandybeauposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Motherhubber you would be getting clicks galore if the spiky bra ad was on your page Ie where could one get one, trouble is, people don't click boring ads, no matter how exciting you are. Long as you are getting the views.

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       Eaglekiwiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       ohhh yea sorry those spikes! lol

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       Mishaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       trust me, it does

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    \Brenda Scullyposted 14 years ago

    I'd say it get's you noticed so I would keep it on if I were you.............

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    mandybeauposted 14 years ago

    I am hoping thast Che Gueverra  gets noticed more...... I mean that spiky bra is pretty cool, but once seen, no thats wrong. Oh well Women might start getting into my Hubs. at moment it is predominantly men............lol

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    laringoposted 14 years ago

    I'm sure most will agree with this statement. If there are two identical writings, one with an avatar of an attractive blond and the other a less than desirable woman by beauty standards of the status quo; the first mentioned writer will be visited much more often. Those are just the facts of life and the male human species...lol. I'm really serious though.

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    Shadesbreathposted 14 years ago

    I had all this stuff to respond to different stuff along this whole thread, but, it's too much now.  I'll just say there's nothing wrong to thinking a hawt chick is hawt. (Or a hawt guy is hawt, although I often do cruel things to hawt guys in my stories just because I can... not always, but usually. It can't be a bad reflection on me, because Jane Austen always took out the "best looking" guys too, so, I have precedent.)  For the most part, I choose hubs based on titles or subjects if it's some writer I've never seen/read before.  But I have occasionaly just clicked on a hot chick or cleavage icon for that simple reason too. My universe isn't so black and white as to make wit and hawtness mutually exclusive when it comes to what is tempting. I'm perfectly happy with my shallow side.  It amuses me when my deep side is too dark and mysterious to suit my mood. My water is constantly sloshing back and forth between the two.

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