Does your significant other satisfy your every need?

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   princess-sisiposted 14 years ago

   Does your significant other satisfy you emotionally, physically, mentally and financialy to the best of their ability?

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   Mishaposted 14 years ago

   Why should she?

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   princess-sisiposted 14 years ago

   So you dont think she should.

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   donotfearposted 14 years ago

   No one can be totally satisfied. As humans we aren't capable of it nor are we capable of doing enough to earn total satisfaction.

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   princess-sisiposted 14 years ago

   okay well do they lack anything or is their thing you wish they would change

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   Mishaposted 14 years ago

   Nah, you are heading a dangerous path, directly to breakup/divorce.
   
   Trust the old man, the only way to stay in relationship is to accept your partner with all his/her shortcomings. You can't change him, and attempting this will just ruin your relations.

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      princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Hi! Misha man theirs just certain things that i know my friends would want their significant other to change so i figuered how many more people are out their with the same problem. Thats being unsatisfied.

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         kerrygposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         If they hate some aspect of their significant other so much that it's ruining their relationship, they should just leave. I'm quite a bit younger than Misha, but plenty old enough to know that people rarely change, and trying to make them change is just a recipe for trouble.

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   lyricsingrayposted 14 years ago

   my every need.  for real.

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      blatvaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Same here.

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         princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Every need, were did you guys find them at?

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            blatvaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Hahaha Myspace, Like, 5 years ago XD  No lie.

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               princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               No way! Im going to have to get me a my space.

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                  blatvaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  It was just a fate encounter   I never would have imagined moving in with him 5 years ago.
                  But now, I'm happy. Since I can't find a job in this town, He's bee taking care of the bills. He makes me happy everyday, and always makes me smile.  And I guess (He tells me) I satisfy all his needs too >.> *cough*
                  I'm afraid there is no sight.. I just caught a good man ^^''  It was total fool's luck.

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                     princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     I need some of that luck!

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            Ron Montgomeryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Apparently, somewhere other than Russia

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      princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Lol I'm glad you feel that way.

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   sneakorocksolidposted 14 years ago

   Look once she straps on those leathers and pulls on those boots the only thing I have to wait for is the crack of her whip and I'm there!

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   PrettyPantherposted 14 years ago

   No, and I would not expect him to.  He does, however, satisfy those needs that are important to me in a relationship.

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      princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Thats nice.

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         PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, that can be hard to find.

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    Nahhh...that's why you ned a couple of friends on the side - the kind that come with benefits. lol

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       Cagsilposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       

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          princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Must be nice! Friend with benifits

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       Unchained Graceposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Hey, Habee! Been trying out some of your recipes. As to the topic, I would have to agree with Misha. We've both been down the road a ways and we do see some things differently and react to them differently. We're also getting on in years, so we do our best for each other. May not always be right, but it's the best we can do.

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          princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          Your crazy

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          princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

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       KCC Big Countryposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       LOL....Where do I find one of them?!
       
       Just kidding......those are actually a dime a dozen.  My hubby doesn't satisfy all my needs, but I'd be bored with him if he did.

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       Shil1978posted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Lol - like your humor!!

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    Cagsilposted 14 years ago

    As for me answering this question. I guess, it really doesn't matter, I don't have a significant other.

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    TheGlassSpiderposted 14 years ago

    I can't even get my S.O. to fulfill the needs that a partner ought to fulfill...much less my every need.

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    princess-sisiposted 14 years ago

    Confused

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    Hi, UG! I was joking in my previous post! I have a wonderful husband, but he's a bit older, so we do have a few problems in this area. Otherwise, he's dang near perfect!

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       Unchained Graceposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       My wife is a southerner, too. South Florida. She puts up with a lot from me as we've had to sacrifice much in order to maintain our responsibilities (Unchained Grace Ministries) with regards to the homeless. Most of the time, we have very little or no money at all as it goes to the ministry. Since we have both experienced homelessness in our lives, we know the feelings.
       
       She has said,"Who else would put up with either one of us." She's probably right.

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    habeeposted 14 years ago

    It's great that you have each other!

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       Unchained Graceposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       If I may, and this is directed to all, what is the most important need you'd wish your significant other to fill but can't? I'm not saying "Won't."

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          PrettyPantherposted 14 years agoin reply to this

          With my ex-husband, he was unable to fulfill my need for emotional intimacy.  It was important enough for me to divorce him over it.

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          Justine76posted 14 years agoin reply to this

          nice distinction there. I wish there was a can't, it's the won't that gets to me...

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    Unchained Graceposted 14 years ago

    Perhaps that might be too much a personal thing or at least one
    some may be uncomfortable answering.

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    IslandVoiceposted 14 years ago

    It's a 2 way street. It works best that way for us, and we're pretty satisfied.

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    brimancandyposted 14 years ago

    Ask me this question 15 years ago I would have said yes. But, no. Not at all. Just there breathing, eating, and sleeping.

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    CMHypnoposted 14 years ago

    Other people in your life are not there to meet your needs. Why should another person, however close a relationship you have, be there only to think about your needs and service them.
    
    They are a person in their own right, and have their own needs and wants, so it should be a two-way thing with each person also acknowledging that they cannot possibly meet all the needs of the other.

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    thekidandblueposted 14 years ago

    Mine says I do and she does for me so I guess we're quite lucky

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    Rochelle Frankposted 14 years ago

    I need to have a clothesline put up in the backyard-- been waiting for years.

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       princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Lol!

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    theirishobserver.posted 14 years ago

    Yes indeed, lots of love and then some lovin

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       princess-sisiposted 14 years agoin reply to this

       Must be nice.

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