Why is saying "I love you so hard?"
74- Stevennix2001
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I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
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Stevennix2001 wrote:
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
Because once you say it you can't take it back and you just opened yourself up wide for good or bad.
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Scott.Life wrote:
Stevennix2001 wrote:
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
Because once you say it you can't take it back and you just opened yourself up wide for good or bad.
good point. i agree with that.
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Scott.Life wrote:
Stevennix2001 wrote:
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
Because once you say it you can't take it back and you just opened yourself up wide for good or bad.
Bingo
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I think Scott said it best
You are nervous and scared...you do the what if game a lot to yourself before you actually say it. what if I say this will he/she say it back? will they be scared of me, hate me? etc etc...takes a lot of courage to say those words to someone you truly care about.
Except for saying it to your family
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Why is saying "I love you so hard?"
Because I don't love you!And also once you declare your love for someone , whether you like it or not there is gonna be some responsibility involved and complete commitment .That Is a tall order !
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A Texan wrote:
Why is saying "I love you so hard?"
Because I don't love you!
thanks. i don't love you either, so we're even. 
94- Dale Mazurek
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22 years ago I told a great girl that I love her. 22 years later she is my wife and I have told her the same words over and over on a daily basis.
For me saying I love you to my beautiful wife is the easiest thing because she makes it so easy for me.- 88
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Dale Mazurek wrote:
22 years ago I told a great girl that I love her. 22 years later she is my wife and I have told her the same words over and over on a daily basis.
For me saying I love you to my beautiful wife is the easiest thing because she makes it so easy for me.It's always easy when the love of your life loves you back
I don't plan on saying those words again ever. Ever.
I won't let myself be that vulnerable.
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It's not that hard, if it's true.
wyanjen wrote:
I don't plan on saying those words again ever. Ever.
I won't let myself be that vulnerable.To quote a friend of mine : If you do not take a chance , you don,t have one !
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yeah, me neither. it seems like every girl i ever say those words too never returns them back or there's some circumstances that prevents us from being together. thats why i say i think love is about trial and error. you have to go through a lot of heartache before you meet the person you belong with.
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Stevennix2001 wrote:
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
Thanks but No thanks! Not into beard rash mate!
Hope you don't mind the comments? They're coming from people who DON'T Have a Problem Expressing themselves!Scott.Life wrote:
Stevennix2001 wrote:
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
Because once you say it you can't take it back and you just opened yourself up wide for good or bad.
This depends on who you are saying it to. If a boyfriend/girlfriend for whom you are unsure of your feelings....yes, think 'er through. Kids, family, especially need to hear that. I grew up not hearing those words and it was very difficult for me to say that UNTIL I married a man who said it consistently to his children...for good or bad. I can NOW say those words to my parents and accept those words back without wanting to crawl out of my skin. It is what it is...
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tony0724 wrote:
wyanjen wrote:
I don't plan on saying those words again ever. Ever.
I won't let myself be that vulnerable.To quote a friend of mine : If you do not take a chance , you don,t have one !
Not always easy but definitely worth it when you finally meet the right person 
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Pearldiver wrote:
Stevennix2001 wrote:
I always wondered why those little words effected people so much, so i ask my fellow hubbers out there to tell me and try to answer the question, "why is saying i love you so hard?"
Thanks but No thanks! Not into beard rash mate!
Hope you don't mind the comments? They're coming from people who DON'T Have a Problem Expressing themselves!I thought I was going to bed...
PD brings up a very good point. some people express themselves much easier than others. some may value saying that much more than others who take it more lightly.
now I'm going to bed.wyanjen wrote:
I don't plan on saying those words again ever. Ever.
I won't let myself be that vulnerable.Obviously you can't spew the "I love you" to everyone you meet. And, regardless of whether one says I love you or not, the vulnerability will always be there in other areas. I have found that when I REALLY love someone....it's an urge to say it rather than a requirement. I tell my friends that I love them all the time, no I'm not gay and even if I were....I want them to know that my life would not be the same without them. And, lets face it when they walk out the door I may never see them again. I had two near death experiences last year. Thankfully, I'm here to tell the story. When they read the story, they cry because they realize how close they came to losing someone they care about. Just a thought. I wish you well
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Goodnight rebakahELLE. Thanks
@ Stevennix.... This is a Very Strange Question to Ask; Coming from a guy All Lined Up and Ready to Gallop!
