Sexy to me is anything that will provoke thoughts of sex! It can be visual, or it can be transmitted through the other senses, taste, touch, sound and smell. A hand placed just so on a thigh, or lips lightly grazing, a look that that you catch in another's eye as they walk by. A breathy whisper of longing warm breath against your ear. The smell of her scent or her hair against bare skin. The taste of her tongue in a passionate kiss, or the knowing look on her face as she brings her hand to her breast. Even just the thought of how your lover makes you feel can give you a glow that transmits sex appeal!