Having a hard time

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  1. Amara Hassan profile image88
    Amara Hassanposted 16 months ago

    Hi my fellow Hubbers

    Just wanted to inform all my family like fellows here that I am not so active these days, as I am going through quite a hard time. I just lost my father a few days back, and its like a big trauma for me. I hope, this wound will heal with time but its really hard right now. Pray for him. Thanks.

    1. Misbah786 profile image86
      Misbah786posted 16 months agoin reply to this

      My deepest condolences, dear sister. May Allah grant uncle the very highest rank in Janat Ul Firdous and grant patience to you and your family. Amara, I will be writing to you, dear sister. Please take care and I am sending you love and prayers… please know I am always here for you. Allah bless you always. Ameen!


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      1. Amara Hassan profile image88
        Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

        Ameen. Thanks Misbah my dearest. I am feeling lost, death is the biggest reality of life, yet hardest to face when its to our loved one.

    2. Miebakagh57 profile image76
      Miebakagh57posted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Amara, sorry for the loss of your dad. It's a big blow to all of us here. The inward wound will take time to heal. Peace!

      1. Amara Hassan profile image88
        Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

        Thanks Miebakagh, death of my dad has really shaken me badly. Its a pain like no other. Yet we all have to die one day

    3. ChitrangadaSharan profile image92
      ChitrangadaSharanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      So sorry for the loss of your father, Amara! This void is not easy to fill.
      But, Stay strong in these hard times, and take care. My heartfelt condolences.

      1. Amara Hassan profile image88
        Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

        Thank you Chitra di for your kind words. I pray to God, He give me strength.

    4. Kenna McHugh profile image89
      Kenna McHughposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      I am so sorry for your loss. It's so hard for those who are left behind. I wish you godspeed and happy memories.

      1. Amara Hassan profile image88
        Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

        Yes Kenna, very tough time for family left behind. Thanks for your kindness.

    5. LADS Family profile image93
      LADS Familyposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Condolences for such a great loss to you.  Time will dull the ache.  Take extra care of yourself.

      1. Amara Hassan profile image88
        Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

        Thank you LADS. I pray to God, give me courage.

  2. celeste inscribed profile image93
    celeste inscribedposted 16 months ago

    I'm so sorry for your loss Amara. Sending you much love and my condolences to you and your family.

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Celeste for your love and support, you seem a lovely soul. Its nice to interact with nice fellows like you.

  3. Glenn Stok profile image96
    Glenn Stokposted 16 months ago

    I'm sure your father was proud of you for your success with your writing, Amara. And he will continue to watch over you from Heaven.  Please accept my condolences for your loss.

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Ahh Glenn, I really think and feel like he watching over us from Heaven. But its really really hard to lose your loved one, I never felt this lost and grieved my entire life. Thanks for your kind words Glenn.

  4. AliciaC profile image97
    AliciaCposted 16 months ago

    I'm sorry for you loss, Amara. I will be thinking of you in the days to come.

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Linda, that's very kind of you.

  5. vidsagster profile image88
    vidsagsterposted 16 months ago

    Sorry for your loss Amara. I will pray to God to give you the strength to bear the loss.

  6. Brenda Arledge profile image82
    Brenda Arledgeposted 16 months ago

    Amara
    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    I'm sending you prayers.

    Losing one's father is a tough road.  Please take the time you need to heal.

    1. Miebakagh57 profile image76
      Miebakagh57posted 16 months agoin reply to this

      I remember when I loss my father 40 years ago, it's so tough that it seems I'm all nuts. Everyone got the wound.

      Amara will later, much later get over it being a woman.

      We all are praying for her.

    2. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Thanks Brenda, I had a very strong bond with my father. Heart bleeds when I think about him. Thanks for prays.

  7. Jodah profile image92
    Jodahposted 16 months ago

    My deepest condolences, Amara. I know what it is like to lose a parent and you need to take as much time to grieve and recover as necessary. My prayers are with you.

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Thanks John. I really appreciate your love and support.

  8. Moondot1822 profile image95
    Moondot1822posted 16 months ago

    It's a great loss, Amara. May Allah grant him a high rank in Jannat. My prayers are always with you, dear sister.
    Stay safe and healthy...

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Ameen. Thanks Moon for your prayers and kind words sistee.

  9. RozlinMohsin profile image60
    RozlinMohsinposted 16 months ago

    Salam, Amara. So sorry to hear this. May Allah give you sabr and strength too. May Allah grant forgiveness and jannat to uncle. I will be thinking of you. Lossing father is very hard I can understand. Take care of yourself.
    Sending you lots of blessings and prayers on your way.

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Ameen. Thank you sister Rozlin for your prayers, love and kindness.

  10. Peggy W profile image97
    Peggy Wposted 16 months ago

    I am so sorry for your loss, Amara.  It is so hard losing a parent.  Both of mine crossed that line into the next life many years ago.  Take your time with grieving the loss of your father.  Happy memories will eventually take the place of your current sadness.  Stay strong!

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Thank you Peggy for your kind words. Stay blessed.

  11. janshares profile image94
    jansharesposted 16 months ago

    Amara, so sorry for the loss of your father. I hope the painful void will heal, day-by-day, over time. There is no way to know when the hurt will ease but you will incorporate the loss into your life with his love and memories you'll have forever. Condolences to you and your family.

    1. Amara Hassan profile image88
      Amara Hassanposted 16 months agoin reply to this

      Yes Janshares, I hope so, it will heal over time. Thanks for your kind words.

      1. Miebakagh57 profile image76
        Miebakagh57posted 16 months agoin reply to this

        Amara, by listening to others, and taking their kind words to heart, you'll soon get over the hangover.

        Great the you're copying.

        Take heart and takecare.

 
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