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Five Tips on how to better a relationship

Updated on May 9, 2013

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Are you in a relationship and have no idea how to better a relationship? Has your once endless passion suddenly been taken away? Most couples have been in a relationship that has lost that flame of lust and passion, and instead been replaced by the same routine day in and day out. How do you treat relationship issues, and if so how to keep your relationship? New relationships lose that lust while some may take years, but when it happens what actions can you take. Women are emotional and enjoy different activities than us guys. What I have are five ways to help partners make it past those rocky parts. This is not only dating advice for women, but also great dating advice for all.

  • Understanding
  • The Change Up
  • Communication
  • Exploration
  • Execution

The first step on how to better your relationship is understanding. Not just understanding what a person is trying to say, but to understand a persons feelings. For me basic conversation with my partner is one of the ways to better a relationship by reading her body language. Women want men to know them without them saying anything so we need read signs of problems or stress. If your partner seems stressed offer a glass of wine or to fix them a nice relaxing bath. Turn on some relaxing music and massage their shoulders or back to ease any tension. Make it seem as if you know what they need before they ask.

Next tip on how to save your relationship is the change up which for some of us is hard to do. If you haven't been on a night out with your partner for a while, plan just that. Plan lunch at the park, dinner and a movie, a winery for some great alone time. A great date scores lots of points, and gives your partner that one on one time he/she deserves. Also try some new things in the bed that will get their mind racing. Set up a nice romantic environment with rose pedals, chocolate, and even some sexy underwear. Spend extra time with four play and take your time all the way through, again you want this to be something she is going to remember. Think of something that they have always wanted you to do to them and go full steam ahead.

With most failed marriages and relationships are the failure on both sides to communicate. With guys our communication is very limited when it comes to our women. We talk openly about sex, sports, and money but avoid talks with our partners when it comes to how to improve our relationships. Any problems need to be talked about as soon as possible before anger starts build, don't allow them to linger. Be truthful about any concerns or problems that the two of you may be having. Keep the conversations calm but direct as you want to get your point across.

Explore your wild side to a degree, and take great note to this. While in the bed try new positions, explore some fantasies, and have fun. No matter the age let your youth come out full form. Find out what your partner has always wanted to and discuss if these a mutual feeling. As always try not to make your partner feel uncomfortable.

With anything in life all of this means nothing if you don't execute. One of the best saying I've been told in regards to improving relationships is this, "what you won't do there is someone out there that will". We should treat our relationships as a small business or investment, always trying to make them grow. Each of the five ideas above are relationship basics, but you have to be willing to work at it.


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      6 years ago

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      Brenda Kyle 

      6 years ago from Blue Springs, Missouri, USA

      All great advice. It is a bit harder when you have someone that is hurting over the loss of his mother. It's all time, trying not to take the negative things too personal. I truly miss the old relationship as you mentioned. We do many of those things so there are always some good momments too. nothing but time now.


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