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How to find a girlfriend

  1. HubPages profile image
    HubPagesposted 8 years ago

    How to find a girlfriend

  2. Ralph Deeds profile image62
    Ralph Deedsposted 8 years ago

    By joining an activity in which you're interested--a church group, a sailing club, night classes, working on your political party's election campaigns, or let your friends know you're available for introductions or in your workplace, like Dave Letterman (just kidding, not like Dave).

  3. DavidHill76 profile image60
    DavidHill76posted 8 years ago

    It's amazing what technology has done for the way humans meet and even mate.

    I actually met my current girlfriend through myspace.
    That was almost 2 years ago.

    My father's high school friend met a woman online that he eventually married.

    So go out there and use technology to your advantage!

    (There are other ways of course. Ralph's idea is probably the best way if you are older. If you are younger, it should be a lot easier, just go to clubs, bars, go out with friends, etc.)

  4. pjk_artist profile image63
    pjk_artistposted 8 years ago

    What a bunch of lame ass answers!  I was thinking about writing a hub about this and now you've cinched it.  For now my friend take all those other people's ideas and the one's your mom told you and put hem aside.  Here's one thing it took me a while to learn and may help you right away. Men and women don't think the same way.  Women are all about feelings.  Learn to talk about how you feel...ask her how things make her feel...she'll become putty in your hands...but will you know mold it?

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    directsaurabhposted 8 years ago

    Hehe. So cute to ask this question. You can find girls everywhere in gatherings, classes, market,restaurants, office etc. but roaming around them is strictly dangerous. Avoid it! I would suggest that you must ask from heart that what are you looking from girl and girl friend. Most girls looks for care, compassion, fun, outings, enjoy, understanding etc. in boys. So, you need to go by your way as it is your own experience. You can read some real life stories for encouraging you and giving you more understanding about situations. After all, girls are also human beings and likewise boys need girls, so is girls need boys. Mutual understanding to live together at fullest is key my dear. Have a nice time. God bless

  6. tsmith1227 profile image54
    tsmith1227posted 8 years ago

    I always found that the best way to meet someone is to put yourself out there.  Without fear or reservation, be open and honest.  Women may not always like what you have to say but real women will respect you for saying how you feel.  Don't be afraid to go on blind dates and try letting a friend set you up, who knows what will happen!

  7. dabeaner profile image56
    dabeanerposted 8 years ago

    Get something going for yourself so that you don't have the stink of death.  Then they will come.

  8. drloove98 profile image61
    drloove98posted 8 years ago

    Go to places where girls are likely to go (depending on your kind of girl, it might be a athletics field, night club, cafe, pub...)
    MAKE SURE you look clean, nicely dress for where you are;
    Check that your breath is fresh (better do that before you live home, and as a matter of habit anyhow);
    Target a girl that looks nice to you (make sure is her boyfriend is not there too, though);
    If you get eye contact, smile, come closer
    Chat as best you can (like, be nice and a little fun if you can, no swearing, whingeing, etc)
    find something in the person or dress to say something good about (like her eyes and hair might be nice, or her dress... etc.)
    if it is a dancing place, invite her to dance
    wait for hints she would like to see you again
    get her number, email, etc...better to send her an sms or something when you get her number, just to test it's ok;
    call next day or so, before she forgets.
    Good luck if you get a date.
    repeat the behaviour above and you might get another date... and eventually a girlfriend.

  9. Cza profile image72
    Czaposted 8 years ago

    If were talking from a relationship standpoint, I think that a girlfriend should be just that. A girl that has been a friend for a while. I say that because you should know this girl very well before making a commitment. An then get to know her some more after that. You never know how long it takes to get to know someone. If you dont want a relationship jus pick a random girl while your at the supermarket or laundrymat and ask her to be your friend. Its that easy, believe me I make girlfriends all the time.

  10. markjtaylor profile image51
    markjtaylorposted 8 years ago

    It depends on the kind of girl you are looking for really. It starts with knowing what type of girl you want. Are you looking for a serious relationship or a fling?

    Davidhill76 does have a point. Meeting people online can be a good way to find a potential mate. That way you are not bound by geographic locations, time zones etc.

    I have friends who have met their girlfriends (even wife!) online. Some people think that relationships that start online because it is not serious.

    But really it all depends on you, what you bring to the table and what kind of relationship you desire.

    Want more tips and tricks on how to find a girlfriend?
    You can check out my hubs smile

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    rbecky315posted 8 years ago

    if you really want to find someone to be with who will make you happy, you need to first be happy with yourself. women admire confidence(not to be confused with cockiness), and a man who isn't afraid to be himself in front of the whole world. you have to find a girl you're interested in and let her know that you're interested in a subtle way. make her work for it, everyone likes a challenge. be honest about your intentions, some people are looking for different kinds of relationships, and if you want casual "we'll see where we end up" and she wants serious "leading to somewhere" it could cause problems.

  12. easiest profile image61
    easiestposted 8 years ago

    Take a shy away your face because you will continue hurting your self when you can see what you like and u refuse to go for it, i personally  believe looking good always, acquire good characterand self confidence can help you get as soon as posible

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    bridaposted 8 years ago

    get out there and be yourself. the rest will work.

  14. pb3131 profile image70
    pb3131posted 8 years ago

    Would you know your "Perfect Match" if you found them? If not, figure out what you want and then use hypnosis to program your unconscious mind to locate them for you.

    This is an exercise that was very helpful to me. It was something that Major Mark Cunningham did at a men’s seminar several years back that I call "The List".

    Major Mark had everyone make a list, as detailed as possible, which described our "Perfect Match".

    After we made "The List" (writing it down is important), Mark put us into a hypnotic trance and instructed our unconscious mind to be on the look-out for someone that matched "The List", but instructed our conscious mind to just forget about it.

    And, that we were not to worry about actively pursuing this “Perfect Match”, but to trust that our unconscious would know her when it found her.

    Well, it worked.

    Over the next year or so, I went out with a number of different women, and didn’t really think about my “Perfect Match” again. I was much more into being entertained by “Available Women” and was having lots of fun with with that.

    Within a year or so, I met and started seeing one woman regularly and lost interest in all the other women I had been dating.

    One day, recently, while looking through those seminar notes, I found “The List”. To my amazement, this woman (and I am still with her) matched 14 out of 14 items I had put on "The List".

    And she has brought many more things into our relationship that I wasn't smart enough (or optimistic enough) to put on "The List".

    Works for women as well as men!

  15. vily_far profile image73
    vily_farposted 8 years ago

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    JasminRaceposted 8 years ago

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  17. pooja0908 profile image64
    pooja0908posted 8 years ago

    Depends on your luck.
    If you find you will not get. if you do not find you will get her accidently.
    wait for that time.
    Soon you will get your dream girl

  18. dmicko1 profile image55
    dmicko1posted 8 years ago

    You can find a girlfriend easy, just take a look at your social circle and see who pays you the most attention. The thing is you probably won't want that person because it's probably a sure thing. Isn't it funny that we want the people that don't want us?

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    kingofdarkposted 7 years ago

    Finding a girlfriend in this days Like searching for  needle in a haystack, So dont bother yourself and take it easy . one day your heart will start beating and her  heart will start beating at the same time .  when that happened  let me know !!!

  20. cainelahliz profile image60
    cainelahlizposted 7 years ago

    Just look around you! There are billions of women on the planet.  I bet if you just take a chance on someone you like, they may just like you back.  big_smile So take a shower, throw on some nice clothes and introduce yourself!

  21. onlinecashdigest profile image60
    onlinecashdigestposted 7 years ago
  22. Charley Anne profile image48
    Charley Anneposted 7 years ago

    I think online dating is best.  It gives you time to truly get to know a person, before testing the face to face chemistry.

  23. Captain W profile image56
    Captain Wposted 7 years ago

    Luck! Some define "luck" as the meeting of of "chance" and preparation. Preparation means knowing how to approach and talk to women, and knowing that you're being "sized-up" by your female counterpart as well.
    Meeting a good match is a matter of chance, however, you can improve your odds of meeting the "right one" by putting yourself into more "situations" where you'll meet more people.

    I'm writing a series on "finding a girlfriend". Check it out!
    http://hubpages.com/hub/Manswers-How-to … girlfriend

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    hitalotposted 7 years ago

    Do absolutely nothing !
    That's what they do;
    So then you can still be single;
    Then everyone is happy !
    Why should I be with someone who doesn't want to be with me ?
    People now a days are NUTS ( Not Understanding The Situation ! )

  25. teegmny profile image60
    teegmnyposted 7 years ago

    My suggestion to this appies to the guys as well. Since we are discussing females, I say observe someone for at least six months and study their behavior towards any situation, as well as their solutions. Find out if they are a persistent go-getter or a lazy leecher. This should let you know if you should be involved with this person or not.