How do I get my boyfriend to give me more attention?

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   Joshtheplumberposted 9 years ago

   He's just not sure about you, sweetie. It's not that he doesn't like you- he's just afraid he might be missing out on something better. Find out what he thinks he's after. It may just be you after all.

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   keishialeelouisposted 9 years ago

   Be cordial, but don't cling to him. Have your own life and interests.

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   androidfanposted 9 years ago

   Find a new boyfriend. He is not worthy of your love.

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   Brandon Nesbittposted 9 years ago

   This may seem alittle harsh but, stop showing him all the attention you are showing and he will give you the attention you need. Some people get use to the attention even if they have never gotten it like that before and will get bored. Some people just get bored easily. Be careful watch out for this guy.

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   remonsieurposted 9 years ago

   Become more attractive  to him start being more spontaneous raise your sexual  enerngy up if u do all this n he still not getting it then he just boring some are like that they just lose interest  quick put a spell on him then you will have undivided  attention  lol ( just was a joke u suppose to laugh ).

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   Useless itchposted 9 years ago

   Without more very specific information about both of you as individuals and your interaction as a couple there can be no "specific answer". In general (in my opinion based on my own personal experience) it is very important for me to understand the very many possible variables between two people that can affect their individual experience within a relationship! In simple terms, I must understand that it is possible that me and my significant other feel and express similar feelings in very different ways. I'll give you a perfect example from my own relationship with my wife of 10 years; (unfortunately it took those ten years to wrap my head around this fact) my wife is an introvert (someone who recharges their energy levels in quit activities and thinks their way to a clear answer before they speak) and I am an extrovert (someone who recharges their energy levels through interactions with groups of people at many places and talks their way aloud to their final answer to a question) I always mistook my wife's silence to mean she wasn't interested in my feelings on this subject. In turn, my wife mistook my constant prodding her for an answer as impatient egotism! Honest and open communication is the key to happiness and understanding in any relationship! With out that communication my misunderstandings evoke emotions that are VERY real and become MY REALITY! I find that trying to see all possible views of any one situation better prepares me to gain a true understanding of it! Have you told your boyfriend how you feel?

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   the rawspiritposted 9 years ago

   Ignore him! Really just look as cute as can be and ignore him.

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   Fahad Chaudharyposted 9 years ago

   If you want that your boyfriend pay you more attention than you pay less attention to your boyfriend.dont call him.dont talk much with your boyfriend.on the front of your boyfriend you pay more attention to other boys.

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   passionatelearnrposted 9 years ago

   Stop taking him serious.When a woman give too much importance to a man its then it gets troublesome for the woman.Don't work hard to get someone's attention.they are not worth it.

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    Daddy Paulposted 9 years ago

    Find another guy! There are a lot of men out there don't settle for second best.

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    realtalk247posted 9 years ago

    You may be stressing over nothing.  You said your boyfriend is laid back so he may not be one to get so excited and show tons of attention. He's probably cool and comfortable in your relationship.
    Breathe.
    Life is not a party all the time -sometimes people interact in comfortable silence.
    Relax and be comfortable and confident in your relationship-long distance relationships Require this.
    Another thing-long distance requires someone has to move in order to make the relationship work.  Long distance can't exist forever because we know out of sight - out of mind- over time. 
    To keep your relationship fresh take a selfie (every now and then) featuring your amazing picture in a social place telling him you wish he was here.

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    Wonderfulmindposted 8 years ago

    You tell him that. Maybe add some tears. People in relationships tend to keep their problems inside and think it will go away until it's to late

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    Rajat Kumar1234posted 8 years ago

    just be yourself you donn't need to change youself just .......to become important in someone's life.....becoz if he cann't accept just the way you are then how can you be sure he will pay you more attention after you change.
    think about it.

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    Matthew Woolseyposted 8 years ago

    take more interest in what he's into. or you could always walk past him naked that will  surly work. no joking my wife walked by naked and had my attention right away but that's just my experiences

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    Leonhard Eulerposted 8 years ago

    Maybe you need a better boyfriend that gives more attention to you if you think that the current one doesn't gives the attention. You deserves everything!

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    Laura Karinaposted 8 years ago

    Um, i don't want to jump to conclusions, but i get horrible vibes. Like pretty bad vibes, and I know you'll ignore everyone that tells you to end it, but If I was you I'd end it. Like run far, quickly. It screams inevitable disaster all over it.
    
    But, I hope you find amazing & true love soon. You seem kind and deserving of kindness, and clearly to never be taken for granted.
    
    Good Luck!

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    Rohan Kulkarniposted 8 years ago

    Just take care of him.and everything will be fine when you will marry.its just that you are very young so you are worrying.tell him about meeting you more and more.if its not possible for him try going to movie atleast once in 1-2-3months.just chill you both and try to make your time memorable.

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    ZawadiJposted 8 years ago

    Well, I do not think that the age difference has anything to do with your problem. Your boyfriend has definitely chosen to neglect you. From your description, it sounds like the relationship is not a priority to him or you are on totally different pages when it comes to the relationship. You can choose to let him know how you feel and you can both decide to work on making the relationship work or choose to move on and find someone who will treat you in the way that you desire to be treated. Be wise either way.

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    Evaneposted 8 years ago

    Oh dear. That is love problem indeed. But know that, no man can resist his favorite dish, favorite massage, and the likes. Just show him how much you care. Be sweet and affectionate.

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    shilpimazumdarposted 8 years ago

    Well , I hope you do prove me wrong
    It depends on how much time you have spent together and your bond with him.Maybe the guy is a little bit chilled out or hampered with his job that he is not getting time to focus on you. Or maybe it could also be that he's getting a bit more disinterested .Remember guys appreciate your actions more than words. Since he is in his 30's , he'd probably be looking out for stuff that he could make permanent in his life like his work , his home , his family and then of course your relationship. Guys do tend to behave in this manner when they feel either they've got hold of you or you ain't the one . So it's time you probably ask him directly, as to what he's looking for in the relationship .
    And in the end you always know your intuition is dead honest with you .
    Hope this helps !

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    Aaliyah Love33posted 8 years ago

    I think that you should communicate with him on how you are feeling and not try to figure out the reason why he isn't paying you the attention that you want. I have learned in relationships that you have to communicate about everything or else it leaves room open for any and everything to happen. Sit him down and talk it out. It also may mean that he could be giving his attention to someone else considering you only see each other a few times a month. I hope that isn't the case so just talk to him and if he cares for you then he will be understanding.

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    marcelocarcachposted 8 years ago

    Start by asking yourself how much attention do you need and why. Maybe you just need to spend less time with your boyfriend and make friends with other people. But if he is really neglecting you, visit a counselor together.

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    alaknathposted 8 years ago

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    Rosualdo Ponceposted 8 years ago

    If you want more attention, give him more attention.

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    Mani Kanta Mandaposted 8 years ago

    I don't think he is neglecting you. It's not the matter of age or other issues but say him how much you care about him and finally expectations can only be fulfilled when you express them to others.As early as possible express your feeling with him and definetly he will understand you..!

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    Gina Patelposted 7 years ago

    First question that you should ask yourself is that do u really love him?...if yes then work harder to get him...first thing that you should do is to sit down and talk about the issue and i think talking about a problem could sometimes be a solution to your problems rather than running away from them...if you think he really loves you then you should be able to convince him to talk to you about your problems ....and if he doesn't then sorry to say...let him go...I know it hurts but it will be benefical for both....I'm not trying to get you on the wrong side but just do what you feel like doing and be happy and don't let yourself be controlled or used by him ...I'm sure your more mature than me to understand....wish you good luck

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    marleoposted 7 years ago

    Find the new one boyfriend.Sorry but that is the best.

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    anishaganjooposted 7 years ago

    Play hard to get... Be irresistible.. Make many friends and show him you can be happy even when he is not around. Really works !
    People get confused when all of a sudden, they don't get the attention they used to have..

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    Edwardsonposted 7 years ago

    Try speaking to him directly and telling him how you feel. Direct communication is way better than guessing games.  Sometimes we need hints thrown in our faces!  Best of luck to you.

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