I know this is not a new question but I still don't understand why men go crazy over boobies.
Just yesterday I was in the supermarket and while on the que to check out, the check out boy kept looking at my cleavage and for some reason that annoyed me! I mean am I to be judged by the size of my cleavage? I'm not even attractive at all and yet my boobies got the attention??? why dear god why??
So go on guys tell me exactly why do boobies drive you insane???
wow, i wish i knew a logical way to answer that. however, i don't. all i can tell you is that i think it goes back to when women breast feed their babies, so it might be a natural instinct to be attracted to them. i think some other hubber on here wrote something about gravity being involved somehow, but im not sure.
Plus, you have to remember the corporate stereo types like Playboy, and television have a lot to do with it too. As those sources tend to program what to find attractive in the opposite sex at an early age.
im deeply sorry to hear that happened to you though.
however, i hope you don't think that all guys are like that as I know im not. speaking solely for myself, i usually tend to look at a girl's personality first before looks. because chances are if they're as shallow or as mean as girls i met in the past, then they're ugly to me. not because they're not blessed with physical beauty, it's just their personality makes them look that way to me. in fact, there was another hubber on here i found very attractive before i even knew what she looked like due her personality. i won't say her name, but you get the idea.
look, some guys are just idiots. there's a reason why they say women are the smarter sex, it's because they can be a lot more logical and rational about things than us men. that's the truth.
First of all, you are such a woman! You say you're not even attractive at all and yet would take offense if someone called you ugly, no doubt! it's okay; you're all like that. Are you sure he was looking at your cleavage? How much did you have exposed? Why? I hope you're not one of those women who displays her cleavage but only for SOME men to see. Because that doesn't work. We ALL see it. Anyway, I wouldn't stress over it I'd be happy someone was checking me out, okay? Thanks for making me smile.
Maybe he was just curious is all , I would say if you dont want someone checkin out your boobs , then dont hang em out of your shirt , cause if dudes can see em they are gonna look its as simple as that
i think it is a symptom of human nature. Then again, if your cleavage is visible, then you cannot blame someone for seeing it. If you don't want men to look at your cleavage, you should show less cleavage.
It is the human organism. If you were in front of me, most likely, I would probably glance at your breasts. It's not because I don't respect you. It's because I was born with a penis.
Since I don't care about 'em much at all--except to consider D cups and larger to be a tad unsightly--I can't answer your question. But I did figure out my own "fetish" some years back. Too late, of course; I'd already married Pam, wife #7.
MY problem was I didn't date or anything, just saw what I considered a beautiful behind and married whatever came with it!
Then again, my disinterest in the frontal form may be logical. Believe I was bottle fed...
If you get pissed off when boys or men stared at your cleavage, don't wear anything sexy in the public. Simple as that. As much as you have the right to flaunt your assets, others have the right to look at them.
well, see, i never wear anything low-cut, unless maybe it is a posh party or something. i think it's kind of unfair to expose our goodies and then get mad at men for looking, if you don't mind my saying so.
Okay I am a female and I love boobs. I am happily married to my husband but I check out boobs almost as much as him and I am not a lesbian. Breasts are beautiful and women are the first ones to notice other womens breasts. We all want what we don't have or at least most of us. I think it goes all the way back to breastfeeding. Men love breasts whats not to love . they are soft and look so inviting that they can't help but to picture their lips on them. Be confident with your breasts your lucky I wish I had big boobs....
If you don't like men looking at your cleavage, don't show it.
You know perfectly well that breasts are an erogenous zone - i.e. they bring pleasure to both sexes during sex - so if you're going to expose them, you're sending an obvious message. If you don't want to send a sexual message, don't show your erogenous zones to the public.
Ummm, if you had clevage, i can only imagin you chose the shirt you were wearing, correct? If you dont want someone to look at your boobs, wear a shirt that covers them. If you dont care who looks at your boobs, then fine. Im just sick of hearing women complain about guys stareing at their boobs, when your the one letting them hang out like sale priced watermelons. you will def catch me in a low cut shirt, but i would be dumb to think that a guy wouldnt look. If some guy had one of his balls hanging out of his shorts, you would look right?
I have found that men like to look at full, voluptuous boobies. I get mine started at when I put in my "chicken fillets" and wear a tight top. My man says that it's no different from when I look at mens arses (haha). Must be a primitive instinct.
I just would like to offer a different perspective from a woman.
Does it really matter why men like boobies? Is that going to change how they behave with respect to boobies? Some men are going to rudely stare at your chest, others will try to be discreet, still others will want to look but won't for fear of being discovered.
Just because that boy was looking at your cleavage doesn't mean he was judging you. He was just looking. Why not relax and have fun with it?
you have boob men , you have leg men, or butt men. some guys like a pretty face. some go by hair color. me, im none of those.i wont say what i like about women most .mabey you can figure that one out. ill give you a hint tho it starts with a v. lol
Primal instinct, breasts mean capability or potential for breeding, us men can not help us. I am a sucker for curves, hips and breasts can have the same affect as a couple of shots of wiskey...all warm and sort of fuzzy around the edges..hehe
Why do some women create a copious display? The one who is displaying needs to look in her head for the answer. The display by some women has become so predominate, actually, it's like looking at cottage cheese or something... You begin to not notice anything about them, really.
That being said, some men are just obnoxious, so I get the annoyance thing.
Steven said "i usually tend to look at a girl's personality first before looks. because chances are if they're as shallow or as mean as girls i met in the past, then they're ugly to me."
So yeh - but with some girls their personality is LOCATED somewhere around their breasts. I'm just sayin . . . : Now, on the other hand, oh, hell, nevermind - by the time I had breasts that anyone would notice I also had kids hanging on to me and a few sags here and there, so it all sorta cancelled out. Now according to some women, that was a lucky thing for me - but no. . . since I didn't have the men staring problem, I longed for some good yearnful stares now and then!
ALSO some men are kinda afraid of women, but they are not afraid of their breasts - they just can't seem to look at their faces or eyes - maybe because they usually see anger there! ?
lol. gee thanks mega. what about those marines that stared at you in the other forum? weren't they staring at you for a while? plus, how do you know guys aren't staring at you when your not looking? besides, its like Sean William Scott said in "Rolemodels", the idea of checking out a girl is to do so without them knowing it. it's part of playing it cool if you know what i mean.
Women like men to notice them...even notice cleavage on occasion--just not be sloppy and overt about it. I'd even say those who stare too obviously are unattractive to most. ...And very unattractive to some.
I was right - it was only a matter of time until the migration from other forum threads started to the HubTribe, bringing along all kinds of negative energy - just like with those real-life communes! sigh.
mine are a 18D and the men seem to like the bigger ones as I have found they comment in the way of "what i can do with them" but realy what can they do they dont come off you can only do a few things with them so i gues it is in the emagination that realy get them going.
isis_dreams2002posted 11 years agoin reply to this
oh yes it is at times but as i say at least they see me coming and if some one is giving me trouble i just turne quickly and they get a black eye from them lol. and yes it has been a long time and have missed our chats but i have been so busy with work some times i only get one day off a week love ya
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