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How many possible lovers have you turned away?

  1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
    Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago

    I would have to say around 50. I'm not bragging on these Forums, some people just have more luck.

    1. Greek One profile image76
      Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      do you mean AFTER having sex with them?

      just about all lol

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
        Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Greek,

        No! I meant you turned them away so t didn't  happen.

        1. Greek One profile image76
          Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          well, you have to define "possible lovers"

          When I was young, any woman i talked to was a possible lover as long and they didnt slap me in the face

          1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
            Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Greek,

            If I have to explain ......................................

            1. Greek One profile image76
              Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              can I count myownworld in my total?

              She said 'hi' to me once

              1. myownworld profile image80
                myownworldposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                roll ...... big_smile

              2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
                Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Greek,

                One of us is slow. I mean they made themselves available to you, like coming to your place in a rain coat. If I need to explain further ..................

    2. SummerSteward profile image60
      SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I have no idea.. I am pretty dense sometimes and usually don't know I am getting hit on until my friends ask me why I blew so and so off.. lol.

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
        Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Summer,

        Workon your wiles.

        1. SummerSteward profile image60
          SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          do you have a few pointers? smile

    3. donotfear profile image91
      donotfearposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Do you mean before or after marriage?

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
        Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        DNF,

        What about during? Before , unless you want to tell everyone about your adventures.

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    Poppa Bluesposted 7 years ago

    I never say no to love! tongue

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Poppa,

      You know I didn't necessarily mean love.

  3. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    hmm...now that's a tough one!

    1. Greek One profile image76
      Greek Oneposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      was the one really that tough?

      ;P

      1. myownworld profile image80
        myownworldposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        big_smile

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      MOW,

      You don't have to say anything, I wouldn't want you to be uncomfortable.

  4. frogdropping profile image86
    frogdroppingposted 7 years ago

    Not a one. I'm uglier than a babboon with toothache smile

    1. SummerSteward profile image60
      SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      frog.. will you make love to me? wink

      1. Art 4 Life profile image59
        Art 4 Lifeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I turned one down, last year...it was not something that happens often to  me....
        he flirted, threw casual compliments, fed me candy from his saddlebag, as we rode up the mountain, and told me that it had been along time since he had been attracted to another woman since his Mary died....
        it had been a long time since anyone had noticed me... I've been married forever, and as you all know, compliments are few and far between when you have been married to the same person you're entire life...but this was wrong, and I knew it, but it...made my heart beat a little faster, and made me feel a little better inside.....
        he was an old cowboy, slightly grizzled face...he fit the saddle well, a little too well...and slightly reminded me of an old western movie I had seen once....where the good guy comes in riding on a pale horse....ummm...it was interesting...but, of course I had to turn it down...but, I can still dream.

        1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Art,

          Don't let anyone fool you, we all fantasize.  I'm married 32 years and in a wheelchair. That doesn't stop the ladies.

      2. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        I would almost pay to see that.... lol lol

        1. SummerSteward profile image60
          SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          haha.. I bet. Frog turned me down sad

          1. Cagsil profile image60
            Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Hey Summer,

            Just in case, you didn't know?

            Here is Frogdropping -

            http://s1.hubimg.com/u/2460532_f120.jpg

            Frogdropping is a very smart, talented and wonderful lady. smile

            1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
              Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              So the Frog is really a pretty lady.

            2. SummerSteward profile image60
              SummerStewardposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              she's is lovely! I am sure she has turned many a suitor down!

    2. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Yeah right? hmm Not even close Frog. lol lol

    3. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Frog,

      Honesty is good!

  5. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    As for answering the post. I've turned away about 5-10, however, it was based on respect other than anything else.

    1. Art 4 Life profile image59
      Art 4 Lifeposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      well, it was a first for me....like I said, no one flirts with me...I am not a pretty person, I'm old, ....but it was fun, while it lasted... smile

  6. Arthur Fontes profile image85
    Arthur Fontesposted 7 years ago

    Do you mean refuse to participate In relations with the person or simply the act of turning them first?

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Art, I'll bet you understand.

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    none that I know of.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Justine,

      Then most guys want to meet you.

  8. Ivorwen profile image76
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    All but one.  smile

  9. luvpassion profile image59
    luvpassionposted 7 years ago

    Counting road crews and construction workders?


    Teri

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      luv,

      Nah, they would hit on road kill.

  10. Nell Rose profile image92
    Nell Roseposted 7 years ago

    I turned one away the other night, for two reasons, one being that an ex of mine was there, and I wanted him back! and second, the man who asked me out looked like shrek!

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Nell,

      Sounds like a good move.

  11. mega1 profile image80
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    many many many  and some I didn't even realize I was turning down at the time -

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      mega,

      Why don't I doubt that!

  12. prettydarkhorse profile image65
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    maybe 20 plus, they just want me for sex, but I dont like only sex I want loving!

    1. K Partin profile image58
      K Partinposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I Maita! Smart woman!! lol

      1. prettydarkhorse profile image65
        prettydarkhorseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hi K, hmmm not so smart, little bit hehe, how are you!

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      pretty,

      They all want you for sex, some want more. I guess I should have said something like; as a singer they would line up after the act. Better would be meeting, and they go to the bathroom. When they come back they hand you their panties and say; I'm much better without them, I''ll show you.

  13. Rafini profile image88
    Rafiniposted 7 years ago

    Possible lovers?  None, honey.  big_smile

    Those I turned down when I was young only wanted sex.  Those I slept with before I was married were for my practice! Those I turned down after I was married were out of luck smile Those I turned down after I divorced - well, lets just say by then I had learned what I was really after. cool

    so, seriously?  i don't know  lol

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      I'll bet they do.

  14. Falsor Wing profile image83
    Falsor Wingposted 7 years ago

    Big. Fat. Zero. There has never been anyone to turn away.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Falsor,

      There will be.

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    sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago

    Three.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      sneak,

      That's more than two!

  16. christal2010 profile image57
    christal2010posted 7 years ago

    I turned away moe than 20 lovers

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      cristal,

      It's usuallywomen that turn away more, I think that's obvious.

  17. Glenn S. profile image58
    Glenn S.posted 7 years ago

    I can't really say, I was pretty drunk at the time. hee hee

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Glenn,

      If you were barfing, it was probably zero.

      1. Glenn S. profile image58
        Glenn S.posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Could be, Could Be

  18. Beth100 profile image85
    Beth100posted 7 years ago

    Why would you like to know Harvey?

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image61
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Beth,

      I just wanted to see how many people would tell, or just comment, you did!

 
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