Ladies!!! How do u feel wen ur man doesnt want to do it...

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   Rishy Richposted 14 years ago

   How do u feel wen u want it so bad but ur man doesnt want to do it?? Have u ever thought of raping him??

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      wildorangeflowerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I will seduce him, until he can't take it anymore!

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         Rishy Richposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Lucky guy...Not trying to offend u but wat if that doesnt work?

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            wildorangeflowerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            it always work for me before
            
            if not then its ok, it will only take minutes then he will say yes..

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               Rishy Richposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Wow! You have got good skills

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                  wildorangeflowerposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                  yes, I just don't give up!

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                     schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

                     I used to do that and it worked like half the time--damn those over 45 men!

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      leebertteaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I never heard of a man that didn't want to do it with his woman. There is only one reason for that and that is he's getting it elsewhere.

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         schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         or he is too old--or needs viagra and won't take it, or can only do it not as often as woman would like

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      the pink umbrellaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      what? rapeing him?

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         Rishy Richposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         lolz...I was kiddin but hubpages wasnt!!! They banned me for 7 days for using THIS word...dat was cruel

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            Lifeallstar1posted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Oh NO! It was a joke, though. You weren't like the creepy guy they have been shutting down his miss hub pages dream. The first post was shut down by Maddie and now I see two more so he didn't get the ax and you had to leave for 7 days but they left it up? I'm confused...did it say something worse?

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               Rishy Richposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               Yeah they left it up...I couldnt post in the forums until this saturday
               
               ...Thanks for ur compassion though

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      who wants to take me on? at least once a day? .....ha ha

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         alihusnain95posted 12 years agoin reply to this

         not one day...every day...lol

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      pylos26posted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Uhhh...thats o.k. just graze on other side of the fence.

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      sandra rinckposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Never had that problem.

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   IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years ago

   I'm married now to a much older man than I.  It has taken a lot to get use to.  It sucks actually...., sucks, sucks, sucks.  You feel rejected when it isn't even about that.  My husband is a hard working man.  He cannot keep up sometimes.  So....., I vibrate my life away. 
   
   No just teasing, but, it is hard.  Sometimes even a tad embarrassing; not to be wanted.

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      Rishy Richposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Sorry to hear that IE. I hope theres something more than physical needs in relationships.

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      Know what u mean.
      Makes you want to hit him over the head with a frying pan!! (Just kidding)

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      totally. not much you can do really. do you feel the age diff is too much?

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   sonabajiposted 14 years ago

   Human age is not actually how many years you have spent from life but how young you feel and how long you feel younger is actual age..you are feeling hard so its hard for you think about so many women having the same problem even worst ....but the important thing is what you think and feel if just positive definitely it will be Positive 4 u....God bless

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   IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years ago

   Oh yes, or I would not be here.  But when I married Papa, I married him for better or worse.  Well..., so our sex life got worse and not better.  So what.  I love him. 
   
   He takes such good care of me, in so many other ways.  I love him for that. Another thing, when men reach a certain age it is harder for some to get an erection.  I cannot force my husband to take pills or shots to take care of this.  That goes against his belief in healthy living. And that is terrifying for him to think about.  I love him.  I don't want to hurt him or cause him unnecessary concerns and pain.  That is not what marriage is all about.  Therefore, it is what it is. 
   
   You know I only commented to let others know that if it is happening to you, that you are not alone.  It happens to women all over.  I eat ice cream sandwiches in bed.  I get to hubpage all day if I want too.  Sex is not everything, even though for so many women, it seems like it is.  That's all.  Thanks.

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      annalizaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      may be its because for women its more of an emotional attachment and for men its just pleasure.  so that woman needs it in regular period of times.  while men cant do it  when they are tired (from other works)  lazy (for eg., to wear condom,  to fore play), and when they are upset (even with his boss cud affect) financial issues really upsets men.    women would turn on and want it desparately even when they are upset.
      
      so when my husband turns me off  i dont feel rejected.  i call him loser

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         IntimatEvolutionposted 14 years agoin reply to this

         Yes, however I think maybe you missed my point.  But that is ok.  Papa and I are happily married.  If he is cheating, well she must be as quiet as a church mouse. We are together these days 24/7.  He works at home.  I am a stay at home mom currently.  We are literally together 24/7.
         
         Still I guess he could, but I'm not going to worry my pretty little head about.  I've got bigger fish to fry.  Like finding a job.

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            annalizaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            start seducing  but try unusual.... wear styles that u havnt worn in the past 10years... how about a new hari cut?...change ur routine... grow garden...  like he will notice various things particular about u....

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            the pink umbrellaposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Don't feel bad about not getting any just because he is older...mine is 2 years younger than me, and he doesnt have a crazy sex drive, either.

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               schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

               that sux! From now on--when we women date: we need to make it a priority to find a highly sexed man and satisfy him (so he doesn't cheat!) welll.....i dunno!!

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            schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

            Luckily I'm not married so I can find someone else--though it's hard to do.
            These older men can have qualities you like. Hmmmmmm
            Maybe slip viagra into his drink? Lol

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      donotfearposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      
      I must agree with you here, Intimate.  It's like, once you've been with the same person for so long, one must continue to spice it up to keep it exciting.  I respect my husband for who he is & his devotion to his Faith. To be real, marriage & commitment isn't about sex. But we already knew that, didn't we? Great post there!

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   girl about town69posted 14 years ago

   On the occasions I get turned down if i'm going to be honest i do feel a pang of rejection but i recover quickly and move on to the next guy, if i'm in a relationship it does annoy me but i get the same so i can't say anything.

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   CYBERSUPEposted 14 years ago

   As a male, intimatEvolution's post has said it all. Ladies take note to what she says.

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   pinkyleeposted 14 years ago

   lmfao I don't have that problem .. he always wants it ... it's me that don't always want it

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      schoolgirlforrealposted 14 years agoin reply to this

      I never say no:D

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   Michael Willisposted 14 years ago

   Hmmmmm, she feels like a...man? lol It is rare for a man to ever say no.

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   blondepoetposted 14 years ago

   Mmmm don't really know as it never has happened yet, you got to know the tricks of the trade LMAO.

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    nicyposted 14 years ago

    no, if he doesn't want to, it is ok. And next time, I will do the same to him.

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    dawnMposted 14 years ago

    I would get to the bottom of this!!! 
    Yes there are times that a man will be tired and not want to have sex but if he is healthy and not gay, not sleeping with another woman, still attracted to you, he is going to want to have sex with you. 
    Men generally want to have sex.  But they will turn off if you have gotten them angy, nagging, not taking care of yourself appearence wise, bitchy or have turned him down way to many times.
    I say have a heart to heart and then go see a marriage or sex counselor!!!!
    
    I am one so believe it or not like I said if he is healthy and right in the head, something is up, especially if when you married him he wanted sex with you!

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    luvpassionposted 14 years ago

    I haven't had any problems. Perhaps because we're still new...I'll just have to wait and see.

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    just meeposted 14 years ago

    i definitely feel like he's cheating. all guy ever want is sex... but when there's a man who doesn't want to fuck, then either he's gay or he's cheating. cuz hes getting it from somewhere else. sorry:(

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    minxibellposted 14 years ago

    so many things go through my mind
    has he gone off me?
    is there someone else?
    
    it makes me feel crap
    never nice to be rejected in anyway but turned down for sex is the worst as if its with the right person makes you feel closer & connected.
    
    I get really paranoid like its the beginning of the end

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    yublantyposted 14 years ago

    is to top hush to be paranoid

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    alternate poetposted 14 years ago

    It is a shame that most posts in this thread seem to treat sex like a commodity.  To talk about retaliation if he does not give you what you want, to decide that he must be getting it elsewhere etc, all show a deep gulf between love and sex, and a deep gulf between partners.  It displays the lack of any real love in relationships and illustrates the overtly commercial nature of people living together.
    
    Good, satisfying sex is something two people share and it is a test and proof of their relationship.

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