Oh NO! It was a joke, though. You weren't like the creepy guy they have been shutting down his miss hub pages dream. The first post was shut down by Maddie and now I see two more so he didn't get the ax and you had to leave for 7 days but they left it up? I'm confused...did it say something worse?
I'm married now to a much older man than I. It has taken a lot to get use to. It sucks actually...., sucks, sucks, sucks. You feel rejected when it isn't even about that. My husband is a hard working man. He cannot keep up sometimes. So....., I vibrate my life away.
No just teasing, but, it is hard. Sometimes even a tad embarrassing; not to be wanted.
Human age is not actually how many years you have spent from life but how young you feel and how long you feel younger is actual age..you are feeling hard so its hard for you think about so many women having the same problem even worst ....but the important thing is what you think and feel if just positive definitely it will be Positive 4 u....God bless
Oh yes, or I would not be here. But when I married Papa, I married him for better or worse. Well..., so our sex life got worse and not better. So what. I love him.
He takes such good care of me, in so many other ways. I love him for that. Another thing, when men reach a certain age it is harder for some to get an erection. I cannot force my husband to take pills or shots to take care of this. That goes against his belief in healthy living. And that is terrifying for him to think about. I love him. I don't want to hurt him or cause him unnecessary concerns and pain. That is not what marriage is all about. Therefore, it is what it is.
You know I only commented to let others know that if it is happening to you, that you are not alone. It happens to women all over. I eat ice cream sandwiches in bed. I get to hubpage all day if I want too. Sex is not everything, even though for so many women, it seems like it is. That's all. Thanks.
may be its because for women its more of an emotional attachment and for men its just pleasure. so that woman needs it in regular period of times. while men cant do it when they are tired (from other works) lazy (for eg., to wear condom, to fore play), and when they are upset (even with his boss cud affect) financial issues really upsets men. women would turn on and want it desparately even when they are upset.
so when my husband turns me off i dont feel rejected. i call him loser
Yes, however I think maybe you missed my point. But that is ok. Papa and I are happily married. If he is cheating, well she must be as quiet as a church mouse. We are together these days 24/7. He works at home. I am a stay at home mom currently. We are literally together 24/7.
Still I guess he could, but I'm not going to worry my pretty little head about. I've got bigger fish to fry. Like finding a job.
start seducing but try unusual.... wear styles that u havnt worn in the past 10years... how about a new hari cut?...change ur routine... grow garden... like he will notice various things particular about u....
I must agree with you here, Intimate. It's like, once you've been with the same person for so long, one must continue to spice it up to keep it exciting. I respect my husband for who he is & his devotion to his Faith. To be real, marriage & commitment isn't about sex. But we already knew that, didn't we? Great post there!
On the occasions I get turned down if i'm going to be honest i do feel a pang of rejection but i recover quickly and move on to the next guy, if i'm in a relationship it does annoy me but i get the same so i can't say anything.
I would get to the bottom of this!!! Yes there are times that a man will be tired and not want to have sex but if he is healthy and not gay, not sleeping with another woman, still attracted to you, he is going to want to have sex with you. Men generally want to have sex. But they will turn off if you have gotten them angy, nagging, not taking care of yourself appearence wise, bitchy or have turned him down way to many times. I say have a heart to heart and then go see a marriage or sex counselor!!!!
I am one so believe it or not like I said if he is healthy and right in the head, something is up, especially if when you married him he wanted sex with you!
i definitely feel like he's cheating. all guy ever want is sex... but when there's a man who doesn't want to fuck, then either he's gay or he's cheating. cuz hes getting it from somewhere else. sorry:(
It is a shame that most posts in this thread seem to treat sex like a commodity. To talk about retaliation if he does not give you what you want, to decide that he must be getting it elsewhere etc, all show a deep gulf between love and sex, and a deep gulf between partners. It displays the lack of any real love in relationships and illustrates the overtly commercial nature of people living together.
Good, satisfying sex is something two people share and it is a test and proof of their relationship.
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