If things started to get serious between me and another Hubber, and that Hubber didn't have a fairly recent profile photo of themself, or refused to send me one, I'd be very suspicious and wouldn't take it any further. Whether ugly or beautiful, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and we all have our tastes.
If the Hubber were nerdy, I think I'd notice this by what the Hubber writes, so things would never get serious from the start.
Poor - well, I wouldn't really care. If the Hubber had maintained to be rich up to now, then admits to being poor, I'd understand the motive.
But it would be nice if Hubbers started to marry one another - we could even have communal 'Hubber Weddings' on a regular basis.