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Does your significant other satisfy your every need?

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princess-sisiposted 7 years ago
Does your significant other satisfy you emotionally, physically, mentally and financialy to the best of their ability?
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Mishaposted 7 years ago
Why should she?
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princess-sisiposted 7 years ago
So you dont think she should.
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donotfearposted 7 years ago
No one can be totally satisfied. As humans we aren't capable of it nor are we capable of doing enough to earn total satisfaction.
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princess-sisiposted 7 years ago
okay well do they lack anything or is their thing you wish they would change
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Mishaposted 7 years ago
Nah, you are heading a dangerous path, directly to breakup/divorce.

Trust the old man, the only way to stay in relationship is to accept your partner with all his/her shortcomings. You can't change him, and attempting this will just ruin your relations.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Hi! Misha man theirs just certain things that i know my friends would want their significant other to change so i figuered how many more people are out their with the same problem. Thats being unsatisfied.
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  kerrygposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  If they hate some aspect of their significant other so much that it's ruining their relationship, they should just leave. I'm quite a bit younger than Misha, but plenty old enough to know that people rarely change, and trying to make them change is just a recipe for trouble.
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lyricsingrayposted 7 years ago
my every need. for real.
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  blatvaposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Same here.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Every need, were did you guys find them at?
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  blatvaposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Hahaha Myspace, Like, 5 years ago XD No lie.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  No way! Im going to have to get me a my space.
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  blatvaposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  It was just a fate encounter I never would have imagined moving in with him 5 years ago.
  But now, I'm happy. Since I can't find a job in this town, He's bee taking care of the bills. He makes me happy everyday, and always makes me smile. And I guess (He tells me) I satisfy all his needs too >.> *cough*
  I'm afraid there is no sight.. I just caught a good man ^^'' It was total fool's luck.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  I need some of that luck!
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  Ron Montgomeryposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Apparently, somewhere other than Russia
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Lol I'm glad you feel that way.
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sneakorocksolidposted 7 years ago
Look once she straps on those leathers and pulls on those boots the only thing I have to wait for is the crack of her whip and I'm there!
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PrettyPantherposted 7 years ago
No, and I would not expect him to. He does, however, satisfy those needs that are important to me in a relationship.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Thats nice.
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  PrettyPantherposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Yes, that can be hard to find.
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habeeposted 7 years ago
Nahhh...that's why you ned a couple of friends on the side - the kind that come with benefits. lol
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  Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Must be nice! Friend with benifits
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  Unchained Graceposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Hey, Habee! Been trying out some of your recipes. As to the topic, I would have to agree with Misha. We've both been down the road a ways and we do see some things differently and react to them differently. We're also getting on in years, so we do our best for each other. May not always be right, but it's the best we can do.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Your crazy
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
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  KCC Big Countryposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  LOL....Where do I find one of them?!
  
  Just kidding......those are actually a dime a dozen. My hubby doesn't satisfy all my needs, but I'd be bored with him if he did.
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  Shil1978posted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Lol - like your humor!!
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Cagsilposted 7 years ago
As for me answering this question. I guess, it really doesn't matter, I don't have a significant other.
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TheGlassSpiderposted 7 years ago
I can't even get my S.O. to fulfill the needs that a partner ought to fulfill...much less my every need.
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princess-sisiposted 7 years ago
Confused
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habeeposted 7 years ago
Hi, UG! I was joking in my previous post! I have a wonderful husband, but he's a bit older, so we do have a few problems in this area. Otherwise, he's dang near perfect!
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  Unchained Graceposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  My wife is a southerner, too. South Florida. She puts up with a lot from me as we've had to sacrifice much in order to maintain our responsibilities (Unchained Grace Ministries) with regards to the homeless. Most of the time, we have very little or no money at all as it goes to the ministry. Since we have both experienced homelessness in our lives, we know the feelings.
  
  She has said,"Who else would put up with either one of us." She's probably right.
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habeeposted 7 years ago
It's great that you have each other!
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  Unchained Graceposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  If I may, and this is directed to all, what is the most important need you'd wish your significant other to fill but can't? I'm not saying "Won't."
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  PrettyPantherposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  With my ex-husband, he was unable to fulfill my need for emotional intimacy. It was important enough for me to divorce him over it.
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  Justine76posted 7 years agoin reply to this
  nice distinction there. I wish there was a can't, it's the won't that gets to me...
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Unchained Graceposted 7 years ago
Perhaps that might be too much a personal thing or at least one
some may be uncomfortable answering.
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IslandVoiceposted 7 years ago
It's a 2 way street. It works best that way for us, and we're pretty satisfied.
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brimancandyposted 7 years ago
Ask me this question 15 years ago I would have said yes. But, no. Not at all. Just there breathing, eating, and sleeping.
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CMHypnoposted 7 years ago
Other people in your life are not there to meet your needs. Why should another person, however close a relationship you have, be there only to think about your needs and service them.

They are a person in their own right, and have their own needs and wants, so it should be a two-way thing with each person also acknowledging that they cannot possibly meet all the needs of the other.
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thekidandblueposted 7 years ago
Mine says I do and she does for me so I guess we're quite lucky
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Rochelle Frankposted 7 years ago
I need to have a clothesline put up in the backyard-- been waiting for years.
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Lol!
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theirishobserver.posted 7 years ago
Yes indeed, lots of love and then some lovin
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  princess-sisiposted 7 years agoin reply to this
  Must be nice.
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