How to find a boyfriend

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  1. HubPages profile imageSTAFF
    HubPagesposted 10 years ago

    How to find a boyfriend

  2. profile image0
    Hasifa101posted 10 years ago

    you usualy find one when you stop looking. but remember, what ever you do to get him, is what you must do to keep him..
    Good luck.

  3. dabeaner profile image59
    dabeanerposted 10 years ago

    Try to remember where it was you were when you misplaced him.

  4. Anath profile image66
    Anathposted 10 years ago

    as it might seem, most men feel intimidated to approach a woman.  They might belong to the local rugby team,
    they might be tough and strong with men, they might even be handsome and
    self-assured, but when it comes to approaching a woman... read more

  5. dolcegabbanagal profile image64
    dolcegabbanagalposted 10 years ago

    I think guy are intimidated by a woman who is actively seeking a boyfriend. Guys like the thrill of the chase, and women who are too available to them seem to be a turn off to a guy. If a woman is actively searching for a boyfriend, guys often view them as needy or desperate. I think the best way is to put yourself out there, go to places guys frequent, be friendly but not aggressive. Be confident, but not conceited. Be funny, but not obnoxious. Dress in flattering clothes, but nothing too tight or revealing. Don't be too flirty or easy to get. A man will be more likely to keep the girl he had to work for. I think when meeting a girl, a guy tends to subconsiously put her in one of two categories: someone to sleep with or someone to have a relationship with. Women who come across as too sexy often inadvertendly put themselves in the first category. Guys will usually go crazy over this kind of woman at first, but they will quickly lose interest. Once a guy puts you in the first category, it is hard to move into the second. When you think you have met the right guy, there are several things to remember. Never be the one to chase the man. They are hardwired to be the hunters. They will quickly lose interest in a girl who is too available. They subconsiously want to win you over, not the other way around. And never sleep with a man until he has commmited himself exclusively to you. If you do, he will mentally file you in the wrong category, making it less likely that he will ever commit to you. Men will tell you this is not true but it almost always is. If you ever ask a reformed womanizer what made him finally commit, it will almost always be the woman he nearly couldn't get.

  6. SweetiePie profile image84
    SweetiePieposted 10 years ago

    How to find a boyfriend, and why you might not want one. read more

  7. M. Rose profile image76
    M. Roseposted 10 years ago

    So many boyfriends, so little time. Well, some girls are boyfriend magnets at least. The rest of us aren't so lucky. What is it about those girls who always seem to have a boyfriend? I couldn't have done that if I tried. Don't worry single girls... read more

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    blong72posted 10 years ago

    well from a guys perspective I can tell you that not all guys like to chase you girls down. I like to chase a little bit but if it has to be a lot that pretty much just tells me you could be high maintenance and a pain in the butt down the road. To me if you show that you like to take care of yourself, smile, are friendly, not pretentious, etc you would have my attention in a second. All that playing hard to get crap is for the birds if you ask me. But hey, some guys like to chase you around all over but I wouldn't put every guy in that category.

  9. calpol25 profile image60
    calpol25posted 10 years ago

    To Find Your Boyfriend Simply Follow The Perfect 3
    How I personally chose my partner was for three things or what I term ‘The Perfect Three’.
    ·Love - I love this person not for his looks, straightness or money but because I love them for... read more

  10. haryanto152 profile image59
    haryanto152posted 10 years ago

    open your mind and you'll find so mony charm boys around you

  11. ayurveda profile image69
    ayurvedaposted 9 years ago

    Don't be in a hurry. Make some friends among boys. Observe their qualities and character. You will yourself find the one most suited to you. Here also don't be in a hurry. Understand him very well and once you are sure that he is the best one for you, then never hesitate, open your mind and propose him.


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