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Can a gay man be attracted to a specific girl, but not women in general, and still be gay, not bi?


As a writer, i'm wondering if it's possible for a gay or straight character to be attracted to a person of the gender that opposes their typical sexuality? Like, a gay person to be in love with a specific female, but not women in general? (maybe using Sanrda Bullock's character and her gay friend in "My Best Friend's Wedding" as an example) Or in this case would it simply be that the "gay" or "straight" person is infact bisexual?

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    littlestarmishka 3 years ago

    Amen, sir! You are the first person I've come across who sees things the same way as I do. I am a bisexual woman, but have been married, and never once did i feel as though I was missing out by being faithful. Love is love, regardless of sexuality.


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    Brian (brimancandy) 4 years ago

    I used to watch Charlies Angels, and I used to think that Jacklyn Smith was a very beautiful woman, and I often thought that I would want to Marry her. But, sex with her never crossed my mind. So finding a woman attractive does not make a gay man bi.

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    Pamela N Red 3 years ago

    There are people who are completely straight. I am one of them. The thought of having relations with a woman makes me nauseated. There is nothing about the female body that turns me on.


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    Dudley Doright 2 years ago

    Sure, Angelina is most certainly eye candy. Her husband is easy on the eyes as well, but even if I were single I'd not be interested in having sex with him.

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    Bearhunter 21 months ago

    "Love is love regardless of the package it comes in" to me that statement covers it all and makes the label completely un-necessary.


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    lupine 3 years ago

    Tigercub684,

    You are the writer, it's your story...write it how you want. Today, anything is believable.

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    Emmyboy 5 months ago

    Great! I just can't understand why some people here who may be secretly bisexual now wants everyone to believe everyone is just like them. That's utterly BS. I am a guy. And I have never and will never be sexually attracted to another man!!!

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    It's nice to think so freely.

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    lupine 3 years ago

    I have seen this show, maybe that's why they created it...

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    Dont Taze Me Bro 5 months ago

    Nudley,u seem knowledgeable about LGBT(& now Qs).Tell me,if B is for bisexual;meaning someone who has sex with 2 genders,then why have they ignored people who believe they actually are both genders in one person?that'd be bi-gender.


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    pruntcess 6 months ago

    I'm curious to see some links to the "much research" you reference ... how reputable are the sources? Because I've never seen anything posted in a peer-reviewed, scientific journal that sexuality is a choice and that one can change their sexuality.

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  • pattymcblackguy 22 months ago

    Btw switch the p's for o's and I consider myself as bi however bi as in equally interested in same and other gender's (male, female, and trans) anyone who says otherwise is a closeminded douche who will never have a 3way ;-)

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