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   rednckwmnposted 13 years ago

   Its no drama, its no big flounce. SOemthign has coem up and ill be off soon. Thanks for everythign everybody. Just wanted to give y'all a heads up.

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      bloodnlatexposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Where are you going?

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      manlypoetrymanposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Enjoyed your comments...Sorry to see ya' go...Hurry back to us here on the Hub World as soon as you are able!

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   wrenfrost56posted 13 years ago

   what came up rednckwmn? when you be back?

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   myownworldposted 13 years ago

   on no! Not another one.....PLEASE! don't do this red.... have mercy on us all here at the forums...we all can't take more...! would u like a thread in your name, begging u to come back?
   
   (jokes apart, hope all goes well, with and that u can soon be back!)

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      bloodnlatexposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      The fun is quickly leaving the room.  This has been a rough week here in the forums...

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   myownworldposted 13 years ago

   yes blood, it's a wonder u and I are intact still...(well, u partly...!)

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      bloodnlatexposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      At least you have the best part of me.

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         myownworldposted 13 years agoin reply to this

         lol..u mean the skull or the thoughts within?

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            bloodnlatexposted 13 years agoin reply to this

            Hmm...My mind and everything that spews out of it.

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               myownworldposted 13 years agoin reply to this

               pleasure to be at the receiving end....
               
               (((we better behave..this is red's goodbye thread)))

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                  bloodnlatexposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  I've offered my mind to her as well, and she offered me the same.

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                  rednckwmnposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                  its cool
                  if you knew me, youd now how I love a good hijacking....

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                     bloodnlatexposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                     Seriously, I hope everything is all right.  If you need to talk about anything, or just a good laugh, I'll be getting in trouble around here somewhere.  I hope you know that I'll be here for ya.

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   ralwusposted 13 years ago

   It is explained on her profile. Her hubs are all gone!

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      Ivorwenposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      What did she say?  I missed it -- just discovered her missing! 

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   atomswifeyposted 13 years ago

   Aww, I hope everything is ok Red and I am sorry to see ya go gonna miss ya!

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   Anti-Valentineposted 13 years ago

   Profile seems to be gone now too.

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      rmcrayneposted 13 years agoin reply to this

      Yup, gone.  Anyone enlighten us?  Does it have to do with the problems with her friend's kids?  Why didn't she leave her hubs and acct?  Warm wishes for a great gal.

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   Jess Killmenowposted 13 years ago

   Hope she comes back soon!

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   zampanoposted 13 years ago

   I'm losing all my few fans...

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    Paradise7posted 13 years ago

    Redneckum is really gone.  His user no longer exists.  Holy moly.

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    Eaglekiwiposted 13 years ago

    Gremlins have begun their pre-halloween mayhem..dudududuuu...
    
    DM email me anytime , ya know Id answer ya in spirit n truth

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    yoshi97posted 13 years ago

    What the? Gack! I thought we had everyone all happy last night and havin' a good time!
    
    That does it ... I'm handing out lithium to everyone before the whole dang lot of ya abandons ship ...
    
    (p.s. Red ... know that we will truly miss you, and hope that you will be back soon)

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    wordscribe41posted 13 years ago

    WHAT THE ???  Darnit, not again.  I was the one that spotted her missing last time, and I felt certain she'd never get away from us again.  I do think she'll be back, I do.  But, I don't understand why people leave, unpublish their hubs (why not leave them there), and get rid of the profile.  I don't get it.

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       Eaglekiwiposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Same , same, WS. That part would piss me off the most , lol losing money ok 5c...but dats precious hubba bubba right
       
       Rednw did say she wasnt using adsense though ,so she probably figured , no loss.
       
       I dont get why people leave ,log off yes. Perhaps its too make it harder for themselves to log on (doing what ya dont wanna do)....
       Hey good to see ya too ms larger than life

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          wordscribe41posted 13 years agoin reply to this

          Are you saying I look "fat" EK?  HMMPFF.    Good to see you, too.

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             Eaglekiwiposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             tis a cliche sweetie meanin quite the opposite
             
             I gotta run, just burnt another dinner Im callin it Hub grub

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                wordscribe41posted 13 years agoin reply to this

                Please add that to the hubs dictionary.  That's too damn funny, I've ruined many a dinners from foruming too much, lots of hub grub in this house.  I love it!    You add it or I will.

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                Jane@CMposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                LOL on Hub Grub! Too funny!

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          Sybil Marieposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          Fill me in on adsense please..should I stop using it?

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       cosetteposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       i know.
       
       all that hard work, gone
       
       well if she left for good, i can understand that i guess. now if she came back after deleting all her hubs - that might be weird
       
       in any case, she seemed like a nice person. i wish her all the best.

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       Marisa Wrightposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Neither do I.  Not long after I joined HubPages, someone came back after several months' absence (having left her account and Hubs live).  She wasn't earning anything before she left, but when she got back, she was thrilled to find she'd earned nearly enough to make payout!
       
       So it does seem a bit short-sighted to delete your Hubs when you go - unless, as Lisa says, you've decided to use them elsewhere.  Maybe people think Hubs are like gardens, and will wither if they're not there to tend them.

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          rebekahELLEposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          I don't really think she was here to make money with her hubs.
          sadly, I do believe there are some that do make these online forums their life, it's like a refuge away from their real life.

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             Aquaposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             I think you're absolutely right about that!

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                tantrumposted 13 years agoin reply to this

                Yes !Forums shouldn't be taken that seriously. For me it's a break between chores.

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    OK, for those who are interested and missed it [I knew I should have copied her poem]she left a pretty concise poem on her profile after unpublishing all of her hubs. The gist of it was that she did something wicked, needed some help form us to decide how to get defense for her behavior against her husband and could she ever get forgiveness and she hoped that he would not kick her out of her house.
    She sent me an email and told me to tell you all whatever I wanted to after explaining her situation. So, I have decided to just give you the gist of the poem that she left for us on her profile before it was deleted too. I will add that the kids being abandoned by her dearest friend led up to this and she said she will never return to hubpages. That's all folks.

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       Ivorwenposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks ralwus.  I wish her the best.

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       wordscribe41posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       I just don't get what HubPages has to do with it.  My real life and my life here are separate, but perhaps that isn't the case with everyone.  Never say never though, I hope she has a change of heart.

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          rmcrayneposted 13 years agoin reply to this

          COSSETTE!  We need an animation with something scratching its head.

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             cosetteposted 13 years agoin reply to this

             
             i got nothin'
             
             
             
             well, i better get back to my hub, i wanna publish it before the night is over
             
             

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       jiberishposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Was she asking for help?

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          yoshi97posted 13 years agoin reply to this

          If she was I missed the calling, as I certainly would have been there for her if she had asked ...

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    Jane@CMposted 13 years ago

    She left before, some know how to contact her.

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    ralwusposted 13 years ago

    She stated that hubpages helped to lead her, um astray.

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       wordscribe41posted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Had a feeling.  Crap.

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    Sybil Marieposted 13 years ago

    I will miss her, she one of the folks I was just getting to know.I hope she will be alright!
    I will miss her in the forums

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    sneakorocksolidposted 13 years ago

    Come back! Come back! I didn't get my goodbye spanking! Crap just when I thought I was in like flint!

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    Mrvoodooposted 13 years ago

    Hey DM, should you ever pass back through this way, gone?  well that's shit ain't it, I kind of had the feeling it was going to happen though.
    
    Wherever you are and whatever you're doing, best wishes and good luck.

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    Lisa HWposted 13 years ago

    People (and/or alter egos that have Hubs) wipe their Hubs out all the time.  I've often wondered why anyone would do that, but then I think that maybe the Hubs aren't doing well anyway; and they want to put the material on another site and see how they do elsewhere.  If someone's going to take all their writing they may as well take the name they've used with it and any profile.

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    RKHenryposted 13 years ago

    Goodluck, and see ya.

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    magdielqrposted 13 years ago

    I think good to share facts and get help from more experienced forum.

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    magdielqrposted 13 years ago

    For me it's just a hobby.

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    Randy Godwinposted 13 years ago

    Often reality sucks!

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       Lisa HWposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Often it does; but, to me, all the more reason to take a break on here, discuss something unrelated to day-to-day problems (or maybe have a laugh), and get away from day-to-day realities for a while.  What I don't really get are the people who bring their "real-life" problems onto the forums.      BUT...  then, too, some people create a "make-believe reality" just for the forums.  I've pretty much sworn off trying to be supportive or helpful to someone on here with some big life-drama; because too often it turns out to be make-believe.  If someone has a Hub question or some non-crisis-related question I still try to be helpful.  Otherwise, I'm here for either discussion/debate or a laugh.  I'm sure it's different for anyone who has a non-forum-only relationship with others on here.  Maybe they know better which life drama is real and which isn't.     I know there are some troubled people who do come here and hope to get support, so it's too bad the prankster quotient is so high here a lot of people have learned to ignore "crisis appeals".   It does kind of make you wonder if that could result in driving away the people who really do think they can get some support for their crisis here. 

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    Randy Godwinposted 13 years ago

    Not much here either.

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       rmcrayneposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       Thanks.  THis does nicely.

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    tantrumposted 13 years ago

    I'm trying to understand....
    
    Why everybody is so serious !!

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       Randy Godwinposted 13 years agoin reply to this

       An excess of drama seems to be the culprit.

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    habeeposted 13 years ago

    Have you ever tried reading the posts in reverse order? I just did it. Randy said reality sux, and Mag said it's just a hobby. Sounds like reality is just a hobby for Mag. Love it!
    
    YOu'll have to excuse me, pals. I haven't taken my medications today.

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    habeeposted 13 years ago

    Man...I hated Red left. I really liked her.

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    habeeposted 13 years ago

    I understand what you're saying. Still, it's kinda sad. Maybe some people just don't have any friends. ??

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    Lisa HWposted 13 years ago

    The last post I saw (but didn't reply to) was the one about the little girls crying because their mother had left them.  That post was full of support and ideas from Hubbers who obviously wanted to be supportive, and who were obviously moved and concerned to think someone was worried about someone who said they didn't know how to help two little, crying, girls.  It looked to me like there were a "zillion" caring people who replied to that thread, so it wouldn't seem to me that anyone (of those people who showed genuine concern and wish to help) betrayed the fellow Hubber they cared about in any way.  Of course, a couple/few days later she came back and said the girls' mother had returned and something about her own "issues" coloring the way she originally viewed the situation.
    
    In any case, it looked to me like there was asking for support/help; but it also looked like so many fellow Hubbers were kind-hearted enough to attempt to be supportive.  I actually wondered if redneckwmn may have been a little embarrassed about getting all those people's support for something that later turned out not to be quite so awful.  She did say she had "issues", so maybe she worried more about "getting everyone all worried over nothing" than she needed to?  (Of course, I wondered that before ralwus' explanation to concerned Hubbers.)

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    habeeposted 13 years ago

    That's true...a lot of hubbers offered support.

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