Sure - thanks for the clarification
I think that we have a different perspective - we had the IRA for a long time and learned not to judge an entire race or religion by the actions of a few extremists. The same with the Greeks and the Turks - the vast majority of Greeks and Turks get on just fine, but there are always the loud extremes who shout and try to create trouble.
I know many Muslims and they do not subscribe to this idea that everybody should submit to Islam, any more than most Christians do not believe in Biblical literalism of zionism. My life is shaped by people I meet and make friendships with, not the media's demonization of other cultures. I meet many Iranians in Greece, and they are not the fanatical demons that some of the recent rhetoric on HP implies.
It is a complex issue, but this idea that Muslims are standing by and letting extremists rule is not completely true (although there is some justification) - 60 million Pakistanis signed a petition proclaiming that terrorism was not in their name, yet there was little about that in the news. Sadly, there is so much politics involved in many Islamic nations and the religion is used as a form of control. For research, I have been speaking to young Muslims around the world, and I see a lot of hope. If you are interested, there are thousands of young Iranians and Saudis reaching out, with blogs and social networking - they see Americans and Europeans as friends, not enemies. They shared your grief at 9/11 and did not dance in the streets
A little tangent, from something I have been working on - women in Islamic nations, such as Iran, are not oppressed because of the Shari'a. It is because the conservatives in power fear women - that is why they make these laws to subjugate and control them. Personally, I think that something is brewing in Iran and revolution is around the corner - I just hope that it is peaceful, although that may be a forlorn hope
As for holy books - I am Christian, but hold little regard for literal interpretations of the Bible. If you look outside Saudi Arabia, most of the Islamic countries of the world are building democracies - in 50 or so years, they have come a long way, although there is still much work to be done. How long did it take the US and UK to build their democracies? Talking about laying waste the Islamic world and fearing Islam goes back to my earlier point - it lets the terrorists win by giving credence to the extremists. Ahmadinejad, aka the Poison Dwarf, has fabricated this entire diplomatic battle over nuclear weapons because he is using 'fear of America' to divert the people away from the fact that most of them hate him.
Do we feel safer - again, please bear in mind that we are looking from a completely different perspective, but we feel a lot safer than when the neo-cons tried to spread democracy and peace with bombs