Is It True Most Men Don't Know How to Give Women Orgasms?

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fierycjposted 15 years ago
Most men are not Fiery...
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  hey im still here.
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Lets begin the contest !!
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  what contest?
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  The women are dunking men, after stripped, into butter and being left out on a cross, so they can be picked apart by the buzzards....
  
  Sorry, ladies.....I let it slip.
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  lyricsingrayposted 15 years agoin reply to this
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  
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Richieb799posted 15 years ago
I think it depends on the woman, with my ex she said a guy only made her come once and she is 26.
However my new girlfriend I have made twice in 3 weeks..
Maybe its down to too much availability of sex toys, I know my girlfriend now doesnt use sex toys.
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Only twice in three weeks !!!
  What a poor performance !!
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
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  fierycjposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  ha ha ha thou hast made the Fiery One to laugh...
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  awww that's mean tantrum. besides, maybe they don't get to have sex that often during the week, due to work or something.
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  No excuse !!
  you can have twice a day or more!
  I know that by experience !
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  fair enough. i take it you must have a lot of experience when it comes to sex then, huh?
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  lorlie6posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Look at that bod, Steve, and what do you think?
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  thats true. at the risk of sounding sexist, but i can see why her bf/husband would want to do her at least twice a day.
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  I'm single now.
  Looking for another twice a day engineer !
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  wow, that's very surprising.
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  lorlie6posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Now what would be sexist about that?
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  idk, i always try to refrain from saying anything that might be construed as controversial in some way.
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  Richieb799posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Shes quite reserved, she didnt wanna rush having sex, so we havent been doing it all the time. We've been going out about 4 - 5 weeks
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  XTASISposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Sorry ! It was only a joke
  the thing is, I couldn't resist !!
  BTW, I'm tantrum
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Cagsilposted 15 years ago
Mean, or accurate? Hmmmm.....who is to say?
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tantrumposted 15 years ago
You don't ??
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  thats for me to know and you to wonder about. besides a gentleman never tells my dear.
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bloodnlatexposted 15 years ago
I've found that giving them a fresh credit card usually works!
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Because to receive one of those is an orgasm !
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blondepoetposted 15 years ago
Not that I've come across, well if they don't know it is pretty simple to teach them
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jimmythejockposted 15 years ago
Orgasm isnt that a living thing, oh no thats an organism sorry got my wires crossed there.....jimmy
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XTASISposted 15 years ago
May I come in ?
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  Jewelsposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Of course, the more the merrier.
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  XTASISposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  
  Hello jewels !
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  Draxposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  is there punctuation in there anywhere ?
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  XTASISposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  You put it where you like it best !
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Bredaviesposted 15 years ago
I am going to say...Yup its true.
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  mistywildposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  you go girl!! Say it loud so maybe the men will hear ya!!
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  They should know the truth! I am an actress..But if my ex's new just HOW good of an actress..Their self esteem would be lowwww! ahaaha
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Sue Adamsposted 15 years ago
No it's not true.
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  ..well then Im going out with the wrong guys! haha
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  mistywildposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  I am proud to say I have my husband well trained
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  haha! Well my boyfriend now is doin good. hopefully that lasts.
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  haha! Well my boyfriend now is doin good. hopefully that lasts.
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  
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  blackorchidposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  well hello to you Im BL
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  I can see that. Hello.
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  blackorchidposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  hi forgot the o, Im Blo
  
  how are you
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Not bad and yourself?
  
  Welcome to HubPages!
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  blackorchidposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  your kind thank you
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  haahaa
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  blackorchidposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  what's so funny?
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blackorchidposted 15 years ago
Guess it depends on which 2 men we are talking about
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Wendi Mposted 15 years ago
Put it in the right place and there will be results!!!
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  Mim.A.posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  AMEN, and I'm only saying it because that's the only time when I mention God.
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blackorchidposted 15 years ago
Hi Tantrum Im Blo nice to meet you
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  XTASISposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Hi there!
  Have we met ?
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blackorchidposted 15 years ago
that was funny how do you do that?
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  : rolleyes :
  
  But make them closer together
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Jeramiposted 15 years ago
I only read the first few and the last few comments.
I'll bet that I can summ it up for ya. If we men ain't goin it all tha way for ya, then YOU ain't tellin us sumthin quite right. WE'r all sain "Help ME" know what ta do. DUHHHhhh
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  ...huh?
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  He is like that alot.
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Jeramiposted 15 years ago
LIKE MY GRAND PAW SAID .... Y A GOTTA WANT IT FIRST; OR YA AIN'T GOINA GET IT... Whatcha want? HUg What??? huh????
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  Bredaviesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  ......huh??
  
  Wait R u saying US GIRLS r the problem...hahaa. Take that comedy show on the road..silly
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  
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Cagsilposted 15 years ago
See what I mean?
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mega1posted 15 years ago
most men, they're just selfish, they don't know any better, they're def trainable, but its so much WORK! Better just to get a nice vibrator - or else its gonna be a lot of demonstrating do this, do that - however, now and then there are those wonderful men who actually adore being with women and love to PLEASURE them and they are, just exquisite because they had early training and know just what to do. Does that answer your question? Most men? no.
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  lyricsingrayposted 15 years agoin reply to this
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  mistywildposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  good answer
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  mega1posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  SO, you are all my followers now! I can preach!
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  The only reason that they knew exactly what to do is that somebody told um what exactly ta do... Ya think ????
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  mega1posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  In my experience? the very rare few have an instinct for it - and maybe there would be more like that except they are quickly urged to think of women as "there for them" and so they don't develop the attitude they started with - one of true caring, love and imagination - and its just so sad, because maybe most men start out that way - their "peers" talk them into being dense and dull and lazy about sex. Amen.
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  well i think the film clerks said it best, "men are easy to make orgasm because all a woman really has to do is look really freaking hot. where as women, it takes a lot of skill to make them orgasm if your the man." sorry, if that sounds sexist, and I do realize there is a great degree of skill exercised by women during sex. I just thought that comment seemed appropriate for the topic of this forum.
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  I have always believed that the most selfish thing that I can do is to be unselfish, except for when I am dealing with a fool.
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  are you calling me a fool?
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  I don't think that I have ever been unselfish towards you so No I don't think that I was talking about you.
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  oh sorry. i misread your comment. i thought you were talking about me. sorry.
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  not a problem... I was just speaking in General...
  You juys out there... Tha most selfish thang you can do is to be unselfish in tha sack. Listen for the echos of silence bouncin off of tha far away mountain top and then you can hear what ya need to hear. Give freely and it will come back 100 fold. Happy + Happy = REAL happy
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  not a problem... I was just speaking in General...
  You juys out there... Tha most selfish thang you can do is to be unselfish in tha sack. Listen for the echos of silence bouncin off of tha far away mountain top and then you can hear what ya need to hear. Give freely and it will come back 100 fold. Happy + Happy = REAL happy
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  not a problem... I was just speaking in General...
  You guys out there... Tha most selfish thang you can do is to be unselfish in tha sack. Listen for the echos of silence bouncin off of tha far away mountain top and then you can hear what ya need to hear. Give freely and it will come back 100 fold. Happy + Happy = REAL happy
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  not a problem... I was just speaking in General...
  You guys out there... Tha most selfish thang you can do is to be unselfish in tha sack. Listen for the echos of silence bouncin off of tha far away mountain top and then you can hear what ya need to hear. Give freely and it will come back 100 fold. Happy + Happy = REAL happy
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  well, i think that's fairly common knowledge. like all relationships, even when the guy does make a woman orgasm. convential sex can get boring with the same person, without any kind of stimulation. hence, why you see people do other erotic things together like roleplaying, voyeurism, swinging, and stuff like that to revitalize things, and make them fresh again.
  
  not that i would know anything about that personally, but this is what i've been told in the past by a lot of friends.
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  A great orgasism never gets boring no matter what.
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  yeah, thats true. i was just stating what other guys have told me in the past. however, i think some of those guys tended to exaggerate a lot about their techniques though from the way they talked.
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  wychicposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Not sexist, sadly accurate in most cases. I'll be the first to say that I love to put all of the effort into it that I can, but especially after years of someone who would kiss me once, roll over on his back and say "I'm ready" (I kid you not) I have discovered that even when I put barely more effort than he did into it, the desired effect (for him) was still achieved. I'm not even freaking hot, and I just managed to stand in for a right hand without any effort, woohoo :S.
  
  On the other hand, the one I'm with now has discovered one of the huge secrets, which many men, who are stereotypically much more physical than emotional, haven't a clue about. Like many women I have a bit of a low self-esteem, especially on the physical aspects, yet my SO has learned how to make my insecurities seem completely silly to me. If women feel hot they tend to stop being self-conscious and start really enjoying being able to induce as much pleasure as possible. It doesn't work just to try to convince them they're sexy when you're in bed and sex is imminent, because if that's the only time they'll stop believing you.
  
  That, combined with some amazing physical skills and attributes, and the willingness to put forth effort and a desire to please (yeah guys, this is a complicated recipe ) have made him absolutely amazing.
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  Bovine Currencyposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  LOL! That is so true. Funny how being good in bed definetly does not make you popular amongst the lads. When I have talked with my friends about this stuff most of them think I am either a liar or an idiot!
  
  Postponing makes it a ton better for the guy but most will never know. Ah well... too bad huh. Whadya do?
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Mishaposted 15 years ago
What? You mean they CAN have orgasm? Come on, get reasonable!
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Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago
I know, who knew?
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awareposted 15 years ago
as a man and i know this seems cras . i could care less about a womens orgasim
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Jeramiposted 15 years ago
But I must say that an orgasism don't make a good relationship. A good relationship should make happy fruits.
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  Jeramiposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  that is easy for an old man to say.
  You know what they say about when ya get to old to cut the mustard???
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  Bovine Currencyposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  perhaps a non-orgasmic relationship is the true maker? of a non-relationship...
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  Cagsilposted 15 years agoin reply to this
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Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago
i agree, but that's another topic entirely though. As i believe this topic was is it possible for women to have orgasms. its not about what makes a relationship. as a friend once told me, sex isn't everything in a relationship. sure its a make or break point, but its not everything in a relationship.
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Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago
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Jeramiposted 15 years ago
Come on girls tell um where the mustard is kept. Come on guys lets let them talk.
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Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago
i agree. please ladies tell us the ways to pleasuring you all.
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  How many credit cards do you have ?
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  just one, why?
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Can't you tell ??
  you asked above !
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  so your telling me that men have to buy orgasms from women?
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  It helps! women get aroused at the sight of platinum credit cards!
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  well im old fashioned like george cstanza from seinfeld. "why bother paying for something, when you know if you just apply yourself, you can get it for free." of course, george wasn't good with girls though, so.....
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Yeah !
  and you don't get the same results !
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  mega1posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  
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Jeramiposted 15 years ago
All that I can hear is """If we don't know me by now... we will never never know know me """"
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mega1posted 15 years ago
OK, first of all think about the place where you and your lady are going to get this grand orgasm. (I'm assuming that you already have started the process on other occasions and she is very happy to be there with you) Make it a warm, clean happy place where she will be happy to be with you. Also, take extra care of your own personl hygiene - making yourself very, very clean all over and sweet smelling (but don't use stupid cologne, just some nice scented soap.) Make sure that (since you've spent so much time buffing up) she gets a good look at you - shirtless first when you start to make your moves. Begin shyly - unless she has already told you she likes "brutes", be very very gentle, almost like you were when you were a virgin and so shy! Then take your time. Do everything slowly, don't be in a hurry. You want her to get to the point where she is the one who can't wait any longer. Still listening?
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  go on. do tell.
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  mega1posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  the rest of it you can learn from watching Margaret Cho - only don't do what she say to do!
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  so you want me to do the opposite of she says, huh?
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Jeramiposted 15 years ago
It aint the card that does it.... Its seeing him put the carbon copies in his pocket
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mega1posted 15 years ago
not exactly the opposite, but she goes to extremes while her basic info is correct!
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  thats cool. thanks for the advice. no wonder, why i like talking to you. you have both beauty and brains.
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  mega1posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  thats right, Steven, and you have great insight - possibly psychic :
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  thanks. well your bf/husband is very lucky to have someone like you then.
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Wendi Mposted 15 years ago
Still debating this?

Men know how to give orgasms...if they really want to.

Woman can fake orgasms...if they're not in the mood to have one.
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Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago
is anyone going to watch the documentary next year called "fake orgasms?"
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Stevennix2001posted 15 years ago
wow, this forum died fast.
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Pearldiverposted 15 years ago
Yep It Did........ becoz all the guys rolled over and went to sleep!

Classic 2 minute terrier trait

@ Steven...... I didn't call you an idiot. I think you were (as I said) premature in your actions etc.

eg: If you fan someone... do it becoz you respect them and yourself in making that decision. Don't use your fanship as a weapon against them becoz you have prematurely not understood the advice. That's BS and makes you look like an idiot to others. Why endorse the negative in yourself?
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  Stevennix2001posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  well you bring up an excellent point.
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Beth100posted 15 years ago
Once again, us ladies out lasted the men....
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  AEvansposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  As always! It is certainly grand to be a woman.
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  Stimpposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  And a woman with a dog is unstoppable!!
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  Mim.A.posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  exept, not every 28th day of the month, or every labour period and procedure....etc....
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  wychicposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Ah yes, but then there's the flip side...you males get to put up with us during all that!
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Mnbhndcrtnposted 15 years ago
At one time many years ago I was a master of seduction. Women responded to me like every guy's fantasy. I knew how to get inside their head and turn themselves on--which ironically is the only way a woman can enjoy sexual encounters. I used their minds to make them flood their panties before I was even undressed or unbuckled. My pleasure came from making them fly. In all those years if I heard one thing more than any other it was how lousy of a lover most men were. It takes a certain type of man to take a woman by the hand and introduce her to dark side, the one she tries so hard to keep from other men. It is like a reward they give. If they trust you they let you teach them what hot sex really is. Most woman fake because, well, they have to. Otherwise the guy won't finish; if he hasn't already. Men f^%$ like it is a race--and they always win. Women need lots and lots of mind-blowing foreplay, fellas. You really have no idea how sexual most females are. So, yeah, most men do not know how to please a woman. Hell, they can't even kiss her correctly.
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  Pr0metheusposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Arrogant much? Sorry to tell you but that pick up artist crap will only land you in bed with bar sluts... that is a road that leads to unhappiness. Any guy can pick up a weak woman without trying hard, it takes a real man to make a WOMAN fall for HIM.
  
  Anyways, I wouldn't be surprised if it were true. Most men are too lazy to learn, and too impatient to build up to the moment. Then again, every woman is different. I've had some that will have multiple orgasms without much foreplay, and some that require TONS of it.
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  Jewelsposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Nothing turns on a real woman like the tenderness of touch by a man who loves her. You sound very rough around the edges and not one thing you said appealed to me. But you sound like you can rank your exploits on your belt buckle. Good for you, just don't come anywhere near me and try your mind blowing foreplay tricks
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  Pr0metheusposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  See....
  
  P.S. Hi Jewels!
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  Jewelsposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Hi mate
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sammie_sidesaddleposted 15 years ago
I am in shock, I am a gay man and I have given a women an orgasm. Its a matter of friction and geometry. You guys should practice up really. Attitude is also part of it boys, with all the I hate women talk, its a wonder you can get one of the creatures in bed!
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Mnbhndcrtnposted 15 years ago
You guys crack me up. You missed my point. I'm not here to pick anyone up, sweetheart. And, if you need to believe I picked up bar sluts I'll let you. I'm talking about sexy vibrant woman that can be models. A challenge because every guy out there is trying and they've heard all the crap and lines. Something I sense you know little about. Feel free to insult me some more if you must, I enjoy your naivete.
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  Pr0metheusposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Wasn't insulting... stating facts. Speaking of insults, 'Something I sense you know little about'. Good one. Any moron who can use his brain knows that PICK UP LINES DON'T WORK. If you want to believe I'm naive when it comes to seducing a woman, I will let you. I don't really care what you think.
  
  "Sexy Vibrant Woman that can be models", are usually more like girls than women. They all respond the same to a man who doesn't act like every other chump out there. They've all been treated like princesses their whole lives. They think they're owed the world for nothing, and they get it. That's not a woman, that's a girl.
  
  P.S. You seem like one of the guys that let The Mystery Method change who you are. Perhaps you should check out my hub.
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  Leta Sposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  lol They all sound the same! As if it were a one-size-fits-all wildebeast hunt or something.
  
  And I'd be willing to bet that even for the "Sexy Vibrant Woman that can be models," (lol), response really has to do with what is going on with her brain. Some women/girls will react like the idiots they are. Some are beyond being impressed by this stuff and sincerely want someone that they can connect with and mesh with (nothing like it).
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  AdsenseStrategiesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Man that Mystery guy was screwed up -- whoa, I had no idea (just read the book )
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  Leta Sposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  No thanks! (Um, does it work for females to get "sexy, vibrant Mans who could be models?" lolo, because I don't think I'd be interested.)
  
  I'm sure it probably could help shy, awkward guys to be less so among women.
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  AdsenseStrategiesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=89zOtd6VAiU
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  Leta Sposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Scary....! Kind of a low-rent Mick Jagger. lolo The Lips.
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  bettynewberryposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Not a doctor dear........a nurse, you can call me Nurse Betty hahaha..........perhaps some of the good sex docs vibes have rubbed off on me because I do and have given lots of sex advise. How did I become an expert you might ask, years of experience and exploring my own womenhood. Oh and taking anatomy and and microbiology in college. I believe the psych. 1 and 2 I had to take along with the socilology had something to do with it as well. I am not a pervert, but I am educated and open and willing to help others. I have always been honest even with my own two sons whom are now 19 and 23 and both in nice relationships. When my sons were 4 and 7 I rented the "Miracle of Birth" and showed it to them and they were mesmerized. My mother insisted I was showing them porn but it was not the case. There was no type of intercourse or really anything sexual. It just showed how a fertalized egg developes and turns into a baby and then the mother deliverying the baby. No it did not show her up close, no vagina shots, but they got the ideal. Be honest, be open and do not be ashamed, sex is not a bad thing.
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storiespatposted 15 years ago
If you replace sex with conscious thought, you migh come to realize that what is going on between your legs has no relationship with what is going on between your ears.

Until you get the two of of them speaking the same language, you'll never know what is actually going on in your heart.
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Bovine Currencyposted 15 years ago
Ask the girl I had last night.
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mrpooperposted 15 years ago
Do men care? Rumor has most of us don't. To set the record straight I do care.
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Citrus000posted 15 years ago
Betty, I agree with what you have to say.
I really think that men would be more inclined to bring women to orgasm if there was more of an open communication about the subject. I think that when a man cares about the woman he is having intercourse with, it makes him feel good to be able to bring a woman to orgasm and give her that kind of pleasure, providing he knows what to do. I really think that communication between the couple is key to keeping one another satisfied in bed.
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Bovine Currencyposted 15 years ago
no really?

or what?
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Bovine Currencyposted 15 years ago

I want to know is it true or not?

Obviously this would be more appropriate to ask the ladies...

Ladies, getting any O time or what?
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  Citrus000posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  No O time makes Sabrina go CRAZY!
  
  Really though, from a lady (which I consider myself to be), I am happy to report that I get my O on, and I quite enjoy myself in the process.
  
  I am new to this, so I hope this comment is allowed. Guess I will find out.
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  kulewriterposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Whoa! Pick me a Cadillac! (lookin' @ your photo, darlin')
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Earnest-Importantposted 15 years ago
When I was a young man, I was as clueless as one could be. However, my girlfriends were not much better at communicating their needs than I was as fulfilling them. A few years ago, I had a lover of whom I asked one simple favor. I asked her to simply tell me when she started to orgasm. I am still pretty clueless about most things, but I do have the capacity to learn. With that little, tiny bit of feedback, I learned.

Earnest - with a nod to Oscar Wilde
Subtle hints are not effective on most men. Even me. Maybe especially me. But any man, if he is motivated, is educable.

As Betty said,
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lyricsingrayposted 15 years ago
I'd say 50/50.
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  myownworldposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  you obviously aren't meeting the right guys....!
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  AdsenseStrategiesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  No comments from married women, thank you
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AdsenseStrategiesposted 15 years ago
Wow. I started this thread five weeks ago, and it's still going strong... it's like a parallel universe; everything I do seems to be like that
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  zampanoposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  like it was a religious forum hehehe
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jahnbarposted 15 years ago
common guys.... what question is this?
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  AdsenseStrategiesposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  As Louis Armstrong replied when asked the question: "What is jazz?"...
  
  Lady, if you have to ask, you'll never know...
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Richieb799posted 15 years ago
someone said in one of the other comments it depends on the guy, Ive found it can depend on the girl also, my girlfriend is easy to please.. often 3 in one night, then the ex before that was really hardwork..

I have a question, do you girls think that maybe if you are very stressed or tense about personal problems that this can make it harder for you to concentrate on orgasming? because my latest gf is quite lazy, therefore maybe more relaxed and ready for stimulating
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  Maybe your girl friend is more sexual than your ex.
  Or the way you make love appeals more to the latter that the former.
  Not all women are stimulated the same way.
  what for one is Heaven,for another can be Hell
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  Richieb799posted 15 years agoin reply to this
  lol yeah maybe
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  tantrumposted 15 years agoin reply to this
  
  It's not maybe. It's what it is !
  
  Now you ask yourself:
  what did I did wrong, or what did she ?
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kulewriterposted 15 years ago
All I know is, more orgasms would probably lead to more peace in this world (one household at a time)! LOL
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